9 Sexy Gifts For Him & Her, According to Redditors!

Featured imageWho would’ve thought finding sexy gifts could be so easy yet challenging at the same time? But don’t be afraid to be daring or naughty when it comes to choosing your present. For example, your significant other may not show he’s interested in bondage until you give him a fancy handcuff during his birthday! You’ll never know if your naughty gift could awaken the desires in his heart, and he’s just waiting for you to make the first move. If you struggle with what to give, this article has you covered! Below you’ll find some of our favorite sexy ideas for your partner we found on Reddit!


1. Fleshlights

“Fleshlights are high quality, 100% safe, more realistic and fit every size. If taken care of well, they can last a decade.”

That’s what DrainSG on Reddit had to say about these top-tier pleasure toys. Dubbed the Cadillacs of the male pleasure world, Fleshlights are not just any ordinary playthings. They offer a versatile and exhilarating experience, akin to having a personal genie for his pleasure desires.

Four Fleshlight Girls

DrainSG continues,

“Most Fleshlights belong to the Fleshlight Girls series (image above) and are molded after the genitals of real pornstars.”

This adds a layer of fantasy and realism, making each Fleshlight a unique journey to Cloud Nine. Whether it’s a model mimicking a pornstar or a classic design, there’s something for every preference.

Fleshlight Destroya

We can’t help but agree with what Dragin SG says. If you don’t know if you want something tight, loose, or rough, or if you’ve never had a Fleshlight before, we always recommend just going by looks. Selecting the right Fleshlight adds a personal touch to the gift, making it as much a thoughtful gesture as it is a source of pleasure.

If you want to grab the best Fleshlight out there, then the Stoya Destroya is your best pick. It’s the best one we tested during our review and as stressed with the other male testers in the team, it would be a mindblowing kinky gift to receive this holiday season.

 


2. We-Vibe Melt

Here’s what HappyBedcom says about the We-Vibe Melt.

“The We-Vibe Melt (image below) is at the top of almost everyones list that has tried one.”

We can’t help but agree with their claims. During our We-Vibe Melt review, we also found out that this sophisticated toy is perfect for everything from gentle foreplay to intense action, making it a versatile addition to solo or coupled play. Who says vibrators are only for females, right?

Closeup of the control buttons

The Reddit user further elaborated,

“It’s also a great choice for use during intercourse as it has a low profile and fits easily between bodies.”

The Melt is designed to enhance intimacy without getting in the way, making it an ideal companion for those special moments together.

Womanizer Premium 2, Melt, and Satisfyer Pro 2

Of course, the We-Vibe Melt is just the beginning. There are a variety of clit suckers available that you and your male partner will surely adore. If you’re interested in exploring more options, here are additional clit suckers that we have tested and highly recommend.

 


3. Tenga Products

HappyBedcom strikes again with the recommendation of Tenga products. Described as:

“the only good alternative to Fleshlight really,”

Tenga offers a range of sensations from the affordable Tenga Eggs to the more lavish Flip Zero (you can see it beside a Fleshlight in the image below) This array of products is like a wonderland of male pleasure, full of surprises and delightful experiences.

Tenga vs Fleshlight

The user also pointed out

“Tenga provides the best/most interesting textures and are the easiest to clean.”

In our Tenga Flip Zero review, we loved the attention to detail in design and ease of maintenance in these Tenga products. It’s straight-up fun but also practical. Think of it as a playground of pleasure, perfect for every mood and occasion.

Me testing a Tenga egg on a dildo

And if you’re a wee bit in a pinch, don’t worry, you can still give your male partner a Tenga product which is the Tenga Eggs (image above). This is also a good alternative for men who sometimes indulge in masturbation sleeves but aren’t keen on owning a full-sized Fleshlight or male masturbator.

You can read our Tenga Egg review first if you want to learn more about it.

 


4. We-Vibe Tango

Onladep introduces the We-Vibe Tango X, a hidden gem in the world of sex toys.

“The We-Vibe Tango for a small vibrator… It’s small enough and quiet enough to be super discreet, but it packs a punch! Unlike cheaper alternatives, the Tango is deep and rumbly!”

He also added

“The X must be the new model and I didn’t even know it was a thing.”

We-Vibe Tango X

But now we’re going to focus more on the newer version. This little powerhouse defies its size with potent vibrations, perfect for those surprise moments of pleasure or as an integral part of bedroom adventures. You can read all about it in our We-Vibe Tango X review.

The We-Vibe Tango X may look mild-mannered, but it’s a lion at heart. Its subtlety is its strength, offering toe-curling, eye-rolling fun that will have him singing your praises.

we vibe tango x close up

The We-Vibe Tango X’s allure lies in its unassuming nature. It’s like that mystery novel that turns out to be a page-turner. Whether used for solo play or as a co-pilot on your shared pleasure journey, the Tango is a versatile and powerful ally, proving that great things indeed come in small packages.

 


5. Wand Attachments

Dick_Miller138 brings the transformative magic of wand attachments into the spotlight.

“It’s like giving his favorite toy a turbo boost, or better yet, a whole new set of superpowers.”

These attachments turn a classic wand into a multifunctional tool of delight, offering new ways to enjoy an old favorite.

Le Wand Rechareable with attachments

When it comes to wand attachments, you can never go wrong getting the Le Wand Rechargeable (image above). It has a lot of attachments that help open up a world of new possibilities, transforming the familiar into something exhilaratingly fresh.

Now if you already have a wand vibrator and all you’re looking for are attachments, you’re lucky because we have the full list. Check out all the wand vibrator attachments we highly recommend.

 


6. Lelo Hugo

Reddit’s ProstatePioneer (cool name btw!) raves about the Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager (image below), calling it a game-changer.

“Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager…it’s like having a personal trainer for his P-spot,”

they say, highlighting its precision and effectiveness. This sleek and stylish toy is more than just a pleasure device; it’s a key to unlocking new levels of ecstasy.

Lelo Hugo

ProstatePioneer further describes,

“The remote control (image below) feature and ergonomic design make it perfect for solo play or as a part of couple’s play.”

The Lelo Hugo offers an interactive and intimate experience, whether he’s exploring alone or you’re joining the fun. It’s about more than just physical pleasure; it’s an exploration into uncharted territories of intimacy.

Lelo Hugo and the remote control

The Lelo Hugo stands out for its ability to enhance and intensify the pleasure experience. If you have questions about its performance, you can read our full Lelo Hugo review.

 


7. Hot Octopuss Pulse III

SoloFunSeeker sings praises for the Hot Octopuss Pulse III, describing it as a breakthrough in male vibrators.

“The Hot Octopuss Pulse III uses oscillations to provide a uniquely intense experience. It’s perfect for solo play or as a co-pilot in shared escapades,”

they explain. This innovative toy is designed for the modern man, combining style with powerful functionality.

Pulse Solo images

Now we don’t have the Pulse 3 but we’re looking at the next best thing. The Pulse Solo Dragon Eye (image above). Coming from the same brand the Pulse Solo Dragon Eye is one of Hot Octopuses’s hot releases. It’s super inclusive and fits all shapes and sizes comfortably. Whether you’re on the smaller side, with at least 3 ¼ inches in length, or rocking a thicker girth up to 8 inches, this gadget’s got you covered. It’s all about bringing joy to everyone.

Plus, it’s hands-free, which means you can use it on the go or while chilling. Pretty cool, right? We know. If you’re just as excited as we are, you can read our thoughts about the Pulse Solo Dragon Eye right here.

 


8. b-Vibe Rimming Plug

Redditor BackdoorConnoisseur introduces the b-Vibe Rimming Plug (image below), an innovative take on anal play.

“The b-Vibe Rimming Plug… it’s designed to mimic the sensation of a rim job,”

The Reddit user also emphasizes its unique rotating beads. This plug is more than just a toy; it’s an experience, offering a new level of sensation and pleasure.

b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite

They elaborate on its versatility and playfulness:

“It’s remote-controlled (you can see the remote control in the image below) and has various intensity levels, making it a fun and exploratory addition to your toy collection.”

What we loved about it during our b-Vibe Rimming Plug review was whether you enjoyed it alone or with a partner, the b-Vibe Rimming Plug promises to add a new layer of excitement and intimacy to your encounters.

b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite with the remote control

Gifting the B-Vibe Rimming Plug is a nod to adventurous and exploratory play. It’s about breaking boundaries and discovering new realms of pleasure, making every moment an exciting and enjoyable adventure. It’s a gift that says, “Let’s explore together and enjoy the journey.”

 


9. Lovense Max 2

LongDistanceLover highlights the Lovense Max 2, perfect for couples who enjoy a high-tech twist in their intimate moments.

“The Lovense Max 2 is a cutting-edge toy combining air pump technology with vibrations for a fully customizable experience,”

It’s like the smart device of the sex toy world, designed to keep couples connected and satisfied, no matter the distance.

Lovense Max 2

They further emphasize its interactive capabilities:

“Whether he’s across the room or across the country, you can control the action via an app, making it a fun and intimate way to stay connected.”

The Lovense Max 2 isn’t just a toy; it’s a bridge between lovers, offering an innovative way to maintain intimacy and excitement, even when apart.

Calor, Gush, Hush 2, and Edge 2

If you have an idea about Lovense, you know that they sell a wide range of teledeldonic products. They are perfect for long-distance couples or those who love to add a tech-savvy edge to their love life. So if didn’t quite find the appeal in Lovense Max 2, perhaps the other toys will change your mind. Check out all the Lovense toys we tested for more options.

Here are the Reddit threads if you want to dig more into the juicy details:

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/comments/17cg3oc/gift_ideas_for_my_girlfriend/

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/comments/16w6jch/gift_ideas_for_my_bf/

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/comments/xhtuap/best_sex_toys_gifts/

 


Where To Buy Sex Toys?

If you’re ready to purchase your partner, you’ve got two great options: buying online or in a physical store. Online, Lovehoney is fantastic – loads of choices and great quality. It’s perfect for comfy home shopping.

A person buying from an online sex toy retailer

Or, for a more hands-on experience, check out a local store. You can actually see and feel the products and get advice from the staff. Both ways are good, just do a little research first to find what’s best for you!

Thanks for reading my article about sexy gift ideas according to Redditors!

Rachel

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