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Marketed as the first of its kind, the We-Vibe Shared Touch is reimagining the good ol’ dry hump into something a little less dry. Placed between you and your partner’s genitals, this penis-and-vagina vibe adds a new sensation element—and possibly an orgasm—when you’re up close and grinding. It’s app-compatible and versatile, not to mention innovative. But will it work for you and your partner? Let’s get into it.
Sex toys for hetero couples have come a long way from two devices that engage you in separate activities to one toy that draws you nearer. I’m obsessed with the amount of power it packs. The We-Vibe Shared Touch is perfect as an enhancement for folks with dyspareunia, erectile dysfunction, or post-partum issues that prevent them from engaging in penetration. It’s also very effective for clit-havers who want to break off an orgasm or two while getting into it. It won’t work for same-sex couples, people who need a hands-free gadget, or people with clits who don’t enjoy pinpoint stimulation. Here are our detailed test notes:
- The demo video on We-Vibe’s website shows the penis grinding against the textured side while the vibrator stays still against the clit. I was curious whether this would work in real life. When we tried it, we found that someone had to hold it in place or it would wiggle somewhere inconvenient.
- The closest I had experienced to what this vibrator offers in the past was a vibrating cock ring, which brought my partner a sense of tightness he enjoyed and offered me intermittent vibrations. Since I need steady vibration to orgasm, I enjoy the Shared Touch a thousand-fold more.
- Though I would use this as a solo vibrator without hesitation, my partner would not. The sleeve portion only stimulates half the penis, and the stroking felt good for him but not as good as a regular stroker. Further, it added a barrier between him and me, so I would say this works best for the clit-having partner and is more of a compromise for the penis-having partner.
- My partner and I loved using this together. But part of the draw of grinding is getting as close to your partner as possible, and this literally functions as a barrier. It took a minute to figure out how to place it comfortably, and in the end, we had to hold it in place. Also, since the stroker portion isn’t enclosed, the lube dried up quickly. My partner had to reapply a few times before we finished, but it wasn’t overly distracting. The power made up for every drawback and then some. It was easy for us both to climax repeatedly.
Who Should Try It? Opposite sex couples will love the additional sensations, particularly the clit-haver. The Shared Touch also excels at bridging the gap when you can’t engage in penetration, either because of erectile dysfunction, vaginal pain, or post-partum limitations.
Who Can Skip It? Cis gay couples can skip this as it’s not made for them. Anyone with an extra-sensitive clit can skip this, as the design may cause some pain during thrusting.
You Can Buy It on the official We-Vibe website for $129. Use discount code AFF-SEXTOYGUIDE for 15% off!
After rigorous testing, my partner and I can vouch that sharing touch is, in fact, caring. The We-Vibe Shared Touch is a couples vibrator that pleases clits with a pinpoint tip and penises with a ribbed, stroking grip. Slipping this between you when things get heated allows the clit-haver to orgasm, and the penis-haver just might, too. The Shared Touch is app-compatible, so you can fine-tune the stimulations, create patterns, and use it long-distance. It’s one of the first sex toys we’ve tested that uses the same device and stimulation to engage both wearers.
First Impressions and Features
Unboxing
The unboxing was lovely. The sturdy box contains a storage bag, a welcome surprise at this price point. You can also expect a charging cable and thorough info on how to use it and what not to do. The instruction manual includes helpful images so you can figure out how to position it for comfort and effectiveness.
The tagline for the Shared Touch seems to be “foreplay is more play,” and I’m not 100% sure what that means. I bristle at the idea of foreplay because it diminishes the importance of clitoral/vaginal orgasm. Traditionally, it’s been used to describe female pleasure as an appetizer while male pleasure is the main course, a healthy dose of both heteronormativity and misogyny. But I’m excited about the idea of a device that gives grinding the hype it deserves.
Features
The We-Vibe Shared Touch has generous features, including:
- 8 vibration patterns; 10 intensities
- App-compatibility
- Multi-partner sensations
- Extra powerful motor
Specifications
The We-Vibe Shared Touch specifications at a glance:
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Size: 2.7 x 5.4 x 1.6”
- Color: Purple or black
- Mechanism: Penis and clit grinding vibrator
- Weight: 6.5 oz
- Unbox it and then charge the We-Vibe Shared Touch with the magnetic charging cord.
- Wash it with antibacterial soap and warm water, and then dry it.
- Grab water-based lube and lube up your erection, the erection side, and your clit before use.
- Place the pinpoint against the clit and slide the erection between the flexible wings. If you have a sensitive clit like I do, place the pinpoint just below or above to avoid friction during grinding.
- Use the plus button to turn it on and cycle through the intensities, the minus to reduce sensations and turn it off, or pair it to the app so you don’t have to struggle to find the button during a spicy grind session.
- When you’re finished, wash it and store it in the included bag.
My Personal Experience
The sex toy companies are getting creative, and I’m ready for it! There’s nothing I loved in college more than a good grinding session. I still do enjoy it, yet it hasn’t been on my radar as much now that I’m partnered up. I had delusions of grindeur before we even began.
Design
The design is pretty darn clever: a pinpoint vibration head on one side, and a ribbed sleeve on the other. Yet the shape isn’t intuitive, and my partner and I had to check the manual before figuring out how to place it. After that, it was smooth sailing.
I wish there were a way to hold it in place without using my fingers. I was holding it so that I got consistent clit stimulation. But if my fingers were anywhere near the buttons, and especially when I was changing the settings, they were close enough to pinch the top of my partner’s erection. He held it between us, and we both agreed that pairing it with the app was the easiest way to navigate different intensities.
The pinpoint tip seems unnecessary with this device. The vibrations are as rumbly and powerful as they come, and so they easily traveled everywhere, especially on top settings. Sometimes, it was a little painful to have the edge grind into my clit, so we had to be cautious about how vigorously we were grinding. A blunter design isn’t normally my preference, but with the motor’s power and grinding action, I think it would have made for a more comfortable experience.
Material
The materials are waterproof. The silicone is easy to clean, flexible, durable, and silky. It’s not the silkiest or squishiest, but it feels luxe.
Stimulations
This vibe brings the rumble. The first setting is almost more like quaking than vibrations. I was thrilled with how powerful it is; We-Vibe sex toys seldom disappoint on that front. I loved the shape and rumble of the vibrator so much that I knew I’d be using it near-nightly, with or without my partner. But mutual stimulation is the name of the game, so it’s important to mention that my partner thought that the vibrations felt nice, but it was the grinding that led him to climax.
Sound Level
The motor is powerful, so expect some noise. When we tested the decibels, they ranged from 35 to 65. It’s not overly distracting, and the power will take your mind off the low roar.
Build Quality and Dimensions
The build quality is excellent. It’s durable, soft, and flexible. It feels understated yet luxurious. The execution is precise and expert at every turn.
The dimensions are perfect. The open-endedness and flexible wings make this comfortable for larger erections as well as flaccid penises. Any larger and it would feel like a blockade; any smaller and it wouldn’t have as much horsepower.
We-Vibe App
The We-Vibe app is one of the better sex toy app experiences you can find. It’s especially essential for this toy, since using the buttons mid-hump can be distracting and take you out of the moment. Pairing to the app is simple, and once connected, you can easily tailor the experience. It’s pared down compared with some other apps, but it does the trick.
Ease of Use
You can likely rip this out of the package and start using it, that’s how straightforward the design is. The app adds versatility but also a layer of complexity you’ll need to embrace, since the buttons aren’t the easiest to access once in use.
Versatility
The Shared Touch gets a mixed score for versatility. On one hand, it’s as easy and fun to use this alone as with a partner. It works in the same room, hands-free, or from a long distance. On the other hand, it won’t work for gay or lesbian couples.
I can foresee so many situations in which this would come in handy. Just had a baby and can’t have sex yet? Give this a try. Getting tested for STIs with a new partner and waiting on results? Use this, plus protection, depending on how intimate you’re getting. Going through erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness, and want a pain-free alternative? We-Vibe Shared Touch is here to save the day.
Warranty and Support
We-Vibe covers the Shared Touch with a two-year warranty.
Minor Issues I Found During Testing
I loved using this vibrator alone and with my partner, but some aspects won’t appeal to everyone. For one, they don’t offer a gay/lesbian-inclusive correlate. The pinpoint shape was occasionally painful when my partner was vigorously grinding against me—so it won’t appeal to those who prefer broad stimulation.
I also find “Shared Touch” a vague and rather dull description of an electrifying device. The name doesn’t do enough to convey how game-changing it is. Just think of the possibilities: the Humpinator 3000, or Hump-Free, or better yet, the Bump N Grind, since it has a bump (the pinpoint). Every partnered interaction involves an element of Shared Touch, so it’s not very descriptive.
Review Summary
Pros
- Rumbly, powerful vibrations
- App-compatible
- Versatile
- Works alone or with a partner
- Easy to clean and store
- Top-tier disability aid
Cons
- Only works for two-gender couples
- Pinpoint beak can be painful for extra-sensitive clits during grinding
Luxus Couple Set
The Luxus Couple Set is comprised of a vibrator and a cock ring that elevate penetrative sex. It’s app-compatible, works for solo play as well as partnered play, and the buttons are hard to reach while wearing the finger strap, just like the Shared Touch. The biggest difference is that it’s for penetrative sex rather than grinding, and the vibes are a fraction of what the We-Vibe Shared Touch provides. Shockingly, the Luxus is more expensive, making the Shared Touch an all-around better deal.
I am Sold! Where Can I Buy It?
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Thanks for reading my We-Vibe Shared Touch review!
Angela
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