6 Best Ring Gags In 2024, Reviewed By A BDSM Educator

Of all the many kinky ways to keep a submissive quiet but happy, you cannot beat the pleasures of ring gags. Of the myriad of different models I tested, the highest-rated ring gag is hands-down DOMINIX Deluxe. No other product gets close to its perfect meld of safety, comfort, and superb craftsmanship. Because it is made of body-safe silicone and high-quality steel, it’s also durable enough to last for however many play sessions you want to use it for.

Stay tuned to see why I’m such an enthusiastic fan of the DOMINIX Deluxe and why these other products are worth picking up. Plus, tips, tricks, and techniques for using them safely and effectively.

Why You Should Trust Us

Hi, I am M.Christian and I am the author of this article. You could say that kink and I go way back with my initial entry into the pleasures of bondage, discipline, and so much being back in the early 1990s.  A lot has changed since then. But much also hasn’t, like the importance of playing safely, sanely, and always consensually. All of which has played a vital role in my reviews of all sorts of BDSM equipment and other pleasurable devices for My Sex Toy Guide.

All this put me in the right place at the right time to provide you with my recommendations for this year’s six perfect ring gags. That and what makes this type of BDSM equipment so enjoyable. Plus, how to use them without harming yourself or those you play with.

I also love hearing stories from my readers, so if you have questions, don’t hesitate to reach out. You can call me at +1 307-372-3895 or send an email to [email protected]—just make sure to include your name and contact information.

How We Picked The Products

Based on my extensive experience as a member of the BDSM community and, from there, as a teacher of how to do it safely, there was a lot to consider when choosing this list of the best ring gags.

Leading the way is factoring in how safe any of them are to use. Not because every piece of BDSM equipment or any sex toy should not be risky. Rather, as there is an extra high possibility of injury, ring gags should be held to a much higher standard. Therefore, I defined test criteria we could measure using well-defined quantitative metrics:

• Build Quality. Though affordability is good, it should never be so poorly manufactured as uncomfortable or dangerous. Sometimes this can be as simple as how well connected its various parts are. Similarly, how well it holds up during particularly active play sessions. Or, for that matter, average use.
• Body Safe Materials. As ring gags are all about holding the wearer’s mouth open, they should exclusively be made from body-safe materials. This includes any leather, metal, or silicone components. Ideally, everything would be non-toxic and durable. But since straps and such are not likely to be bitten or sucked on, not being body-safe is acceptable.
• Knowledgeable design. By this, we are referring to the fact that whoever created a BDSM ring gag is well-versed in how they will be used. It may sound obvious, but you would be surprised how often ring gags and other BDSM toys do not reflect this. For this reason, I tend to avoid devices made by companies or individuals not members of the BDSM community.
• Comfort versus intensity. As I pointed out, looking good is not as vital as how risk and irritation free it is to wear. Though most kinksters will admit to wanting to impress their playmates, it’s irresponsible to design and make ring gags that put style over comfort and safety.

During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Design (25%) and Safety (25%). After that comes Build Quality (10%), Material (10%), and Comfort (10%).

When my testers had finished with their evaluations, I next moved on to back up their opinions with some good, old-fashioned research. From consulting with highly qualified BDSM experts to polling a large pool of experienced kinksters, I put this final list of my top-tier ring gags!

Everything We Tested

In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criteria.

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Name	Deluxe	O-Ring Gag	XL O-Ring Gag	Scandal	The Spider Gag	Nipple Clamps
Category	Best Overall	Flexible	XL	Lip-Shaped	Advanced BDSM	Handmade
Average Rating	95%	94%	93%	92%	91%	90%
Design	94%	93%	93%	88%	90%	92%
Comfort	96%	94%	90%	92%	92%	93%
Build Quality	95%	93%	92%	91%	91%	88%
Price & Value	94%	92%	93%	96%	91%	95%
Price Tag	$29.99	$32	$30.99	$27.99	$44.95	28.57
Material	Silicone	Steel & Leather	Leather & Silicone	Silicone	Steel & Leather	Steel, Leather & Silicone
Strap Length	22.5 Inches	22.5 inches	21.5 inches	26.5 inches	22 inches	23 inches
Color	Black	Black	Black	Black	Black	Silver & Black

1. DOMINIX Deluxe: Our Overall Test Winner!

Why I love the DOMINIX deluxe:

When measured against all the other finely-made and extremely well-engineered ring gags on our list, I found the DOMINIX Deluxe led the pack regarding comfort, safety, and effectiveness.

Experienced BDSM practitioners know what to look for in a good one, all of which are present in the DOMINIX Deluxe. From how easy it is to adjust to how secure it feels, not least how exceptionally well made it is, this is a wonderful toy.

What makes it even better is its metal O-ring is covered in body-safe, medical-grade silicone, giving it a satisfyingly solid feel while being easy on the wearer’s teeth. The DOMINIX Deluxe can also be locked in place for more hard-core bondage enthusiasts.

The minds behind its design obviously know slightly elastic straps are the key to making it extra comfortable. So the DOMINIX Deluxe is secure and never unpleasant or irritating to wear.

A great combination, only improved by its metal connecting rings, making it as sexy as it is fun to use.

Minor issues I found during testing:

Not so much something I found lacking about the DOMINIX Deluxe, but it is the same for practically every gag. Its ring might be too small or too large for receiving oral sex. So I recommend taking measurements before purchasing any gags on our list.

Why DOMINIX Deluxe is the Best Ring Gag:

With its flexible silicone covering, adjustable strap, ideally-sized hole, and affordable price, it’s pretty obvious why I chose the DOMINIX Deluxe O-ring for our number one spot.

Buying one is guaranteed to make you, your submissive, or anyone else you play with happy. Not to mention wonderfully, arousingly quiet. Highly recommended!

• Material: The ring and strap are body-safe silicone
• Strap Length: 22.5 Inches
• Color: The ring and strap are black

Pros:

• Affordable at a mere $29.99.
• Remarkably comfortable to wear.
• Superbly made, thoroughly adjustable straps.
• Easy to use, easy to clean.
• 100% hypoallergenic silicone ring gag.

Cons:

• The ring may be too small or overly large, depending on whoever the wearer is playing with.

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2. O-Ring Gag From Stockroom: Most Flexible

Why I love the O-Ring Gag From Stockroom:

Since no one’s body is in any way, shape, or form like any other person’s, BDSM gear should be as adaptable as possible. This gets me to our next great ring gag, this time from the great and kinky minds at Stockroom.

The briefest glance at this product and you can tell they know their stuff, for it is basic yet versatile, simple though pleasurable, and is all-around amazing to use.

Balancing a quasi-industrial look and feel with kinky elegance, it’s sure to turn heads whenever a submissive wears it to their local dungeon. Made of a metal O-ring covered in high-quality leather, it uses cinch straps to comfortably hold it in place and the wearer’s mouth open.

Although I cannot praise Stockroom’s O-Ring Gag enough, it is not ideally suited for oral sex play. Otherwise, you would be hard-pressed to find another bondage product that is as well-made and pleasurable to play with.

Adding to its flexibility, it comes in three different sizes. The smallest has a diameter of one and three-quarters inches, while the next up is two and one eighths. Then the biggest comes in at two and a half. But again, none are large enough to accommodate a partner’s appendage. That is, of course, not counting one or two of their fingers.

Minor issues I found during testing:

Though I described Stockroom’s Oral Sex gag as not great for oral sex play, it might have been more accurate to say it has much to do with the size of the wearer’s penis. Not that this is a big concern, as every product on this list has this issue. But just something to keep in mind when purchasing a gag from Stockroom or anywhere else.

Why O-Ring Gag From Stockroom is the Most Flexible:

Stockroom’s O-Ring Gag is excellent for beginners and advanced BDSM players alike. Not least of which is that it is handmade by a leading supplier of high-quality BDSM toys and is remarkably and pleasurably versatile.

• Material: Leather-wrapped stainless steel ring; strap is leather
• Strap Length: 22.5 inches
• Color: The Strap and ring are black

Pros:

• It comes in three different sizes.
• This model from Stockroom has easily adjustable real leather straps.
• It is a great value for just $32.
• O-ring size enhances its overall safety.

Cons:

• Rings are likely too small for receiving oral sex.

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3. Bondage Boutique XL: Larger Size

Why I love the Bondage Boutique XL O-Ring Gag

For those of you into larger-in-diameter rings than your run-of-the-mill gag, I have good news for you. Because the Bondage Boutique XL may be just what you have been looking for.

Big enough for just about anything you want to use it for, the Bondage Boutique XL is as big as it is well-made. With a whopping 1.9-inch outer diameter, its silicone-coated ring is hypoallergenic, odorless, and tasteless.

Think of it like Bondage Boutique’s wider cousin. It has all the same good and sexy stuff but can comfortably accommodate anything and everything you can think of.

Minor issues I found during testing:

Of all the gags on our list, the size of Bondage Boutique’s XL O-Ring can handle the highest number of those being orally pleasured by a partner wearing one. That said, those with members on the wider side of the spectrum might find its ring to be too narrow.

Why the Bondage Boutique XL O-Ring Gag is the Best XL Pick:

Just think of the erotic possibilities! Get your hands on this large ring gag. You will be able to not just make a good number of them an erotic reality, but it will also help fuel a whole bunch of even hotter ones!

• Material: Leather strap, body-safe silicone ring
• Strap Length: 21.5 inches
• Color: The ring and strap are black

Pros:

• High-quality silicone O-ring gag.
• The design is both sleek and ergonomic.
• Remarkably comfortable to wear.
• Five-inch outer diameter allows for extreme mouth stretching.

Cons:

• While impressively large, it cannot accommodate girthy partners.

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4. Scandal Silicone Stopper: Lip-Shaped

Why I Love the Scandal Silicone Stopper:

Want a gag that puts its pleasures where its mouth is? Then put your lips together and be prepared to be blown away by the Scandal Silicone Stopper gag.

A glorious mix of playfully kinky design with high-quality manufacturing, this orally fixated gag is sure to make everyone who sees or especially wears it smile.

With far greater grins for those into hushing up their submissives, the Scandal Silicone Stopper comes with its very own mouth stopper for just that quiet purpose.

Its two-inch diameter ring is ideally suited for anyone with breathing concerns as it allows for unimpeded breathing. Though only when the mouth stopper is removed, of course.

Minor issues I found during testing:

Unfortunately, an otherwise fantastic ring gag would have such a disappointing strap. I can only hope that the maker of the Scandal Silicone Stopper will understand this and give us a better thought-out one sooner rather than later.

Why the Scandal Silicone Stopper Is The Best Lip-Shaped Gag:

There’s nothing quite like a piece of bondage gear with its unique sense of humor. Made all the better when it is also pleasurable to wear and use. A difficult balance pulled off very nicely by this lip-smackingly good gag.

So if this sounds appealing, and I definitely feel it is, then get your hands on or mouth around a lip ring gag. I am sure it will put grins on submissives and dominants alike.

• Material: The ring, plug, and strap are made of body-safe silicone
• Strap Length: 26.5 inches
• Color: The plug, ring, and strap are all black

Pros:

• Silicone is both comfortable and easy to clean.
• Playful yet practical design.
• Durable O-ring mouth gag ring with optional mouth stopper.

Cons:

• The strap is not so well designed. It desperately needs a more effective upgrade.

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5. The Spider Gag: For Advanced BDSM

Why I love the Spider Gag:

Those gloriously kinky and brilliant BDSM engineers at Stockroom are at it again with this spider ring gag.

While it may look like a cross between medical and industrial equipment, Stockrooms know how to balance style with safety, comfort, and cannot-be-beat quality manufacturing.

Its smooth yet strong leather and super-fine metal parts merge into a product that is the stuff of outrageously steamy fantasies. Its 1.45 ring size is also suited for pleasing wearers and dominants alike. Made all the more so by its adjustable strap.

Usually, no one likes to have their kinks aired in public. That is unless you are into that sort of thing. But if you do want to keep your BDSM play a secret, rest easy, as the Stockroom always ships their orders in plain brown wrappers.

Minor issues I found during testing:

As much of what the Stockroom sells is handmade, some products will be more or less well-made. While by no means a poor-quality gag, the Spider often feels like it could do with a materials and construction upgrade.

Why the Spider Gag is best for Advanced BDSM:

When you get down to it, this is an intense metal ring gag. But what is surprising about all of its steel and leather ferocity is how comfortable it is to wear. More than that, because it’s so good at keeping whoever wears its mouth open, few models can match it for oral sexplay.

But with the Spider Gag or any other, it’s essential for submissive and dominant alike to be as safe as humanly possible. Though a lot of work has gone into each device on this list, that does not absolve whoever buys them from learning as much as they can about any potential risks.

So for your sake and those you play with, educate yourself on the pleasures and dangers of every BDSM activity. Then, armed with this knowledge, do whatever it takes to reduce the possibility of physical or emotional harm.

• Material: The ring is stainless steel and the strap is leather
• Strap Length: 22 inches
• Color: The ring is silver and the strap is black

Pros:

• Comfortable wear despite its intimidating appearance.
• Kinkiest ring gag you can get.
• The strap length makes it easy to adjust.

Cons:

• Unfortunately prone to wear and tear. Quality is not as good as some other BDSM toys and equipment.

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6. Ring Gag With Nipple Clamps: A Great Handmade Gag!

Why I love the Ring Gag With Nipple Clamps:

One of the coolest things about the BDSM community is how many of its members are also brilliant at designing its toys. Like our number six entry, this handmade product from KinkFantasy.

Taking the thrill of nipple clamps and the ecstatic pleasures of BDSM to an entirely new level will surely hit all of you. Your submissive’s high notes and then some. Made of leather and stainless steel, the nipple clamps are plastic tipped and adjustable. Its gag is the same, though its unique combination of both may take some getting used to.

Minor issues I found during testing:

If this product has a downside, it’s because it’s a mixture of two remarkably different BDSM toys; it may not work for everyone. I am referring to how the clamps may not reach some people’s nipples. The same is true that some will not enjoy the gag’s steel and leather ring.

Why the Ring Gag With Nipple Clamps is my favorite handmade

Not all gag rings are the same. Not only in their design but how they are manufactured. Some are mass-produced, while others, such as this ring gag and nipple clamps combo, are not.

Which is a massive testament to how well thought-out and made it is. Each of its different parts may not always work together as intended. Still, I applaud the maker for giving us this unique and fascinating take on the pleasures of nipple and gag play in one toy!

You can read more about the best nipple clamps in this extensive guide.

• Material: Nipple clamps are steel with silicone tips, the ring is steel and leather, and the strap is leather
• Strap Length: 23 inches
• Color: The clamps and chains are silver, the strap is black, and the ring is a mixture of silver and black

Pros:

• Intriguing design using a different mixture of materials.
• Nipple clamps are plastic-tipped and adjustable.
• Handmade, not mass manufactured.

Cons:

• Metal and leather rings may be uncomfortable to wear.
• Not as high quality as the other rings on our list.

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What Is A Ring Gag?

A ring gag is an item with an opening in the middle that holds the mouth and jaw open when worn. People often find themselves drooling uncontrollably while wearing them, one of its intended purposes. The drooling is a massive turn-on for those into this kind of fetish.

But Why Should I Buy One?

The idea of being silenced during sex is a fantasy among many people, which makes wearing ring gags exciting. Domination and erotic humiliation allow the sub to be quiet throughout the experience in a somewhat submissive stance that is the basis of BDSM.

• Some partners get aroused by the uncontrollable drooling and sound made by the sub wearing the gag. This fetish complements the dom’s sexual performance, usually  making them feel superior and ‘in control.’ With O-ring gags, you can also enjoy deepthroating, especially with the sub’s mouth wide open.
• Some women also credit the gag with allowing them to relax during spanking, anal penetration, and other sexual acts that might be uncomfortable at first. And because it takes prior conversations on safewords and the dos and don’ts, wearing an open-mouth gag fosters trust in couples and allows them to expose their most vulnerable selves. The acquired trust and openness strengthen the relationship bond, and both partners feel closer.
• Ring gags that feature harnesses allow the dom to control the sub like a tethered animal. This role-play creates a healthy sense of hierarchy, with one person in charge of the other. People who enjoy the dom-sub relationship enjoy the simple yet effective dynamism that these BDSM toys bring forward.

How To Use A Ring Gag?

Using a ring gag safely starts with an honest conversation with your partner on safe words and aftercare. Of course, it all starts with ‘100% enthusiastic consent before anything else.

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1. Safewords are one of the primary safety measures. You should establish phrases or non-verbal actions (if your partner cannot speak because of the gag), allowing you to control the experience and what’s happening. Whether it’s repeated sound, movement, or an object in hand, safewords ensure that you both enjoy the experience while ensuring your partner is safe at all times. Most importantly, ensure you follow your partner’s lead. Whether it’s a change of position, a break, or an immediate stop they want, follow their lead.
2. After all the safety talk, it’s time to put the ring gag on. Make sure the harness is fully adjustable and feels comfortable around your head. The rings should also be comfortable in your open mouth – you don’t have to go for the largest at this stage. If it means giving up oral sex for a smaller O-ring, then go for it – you can always get a bigger one as you get used to the experience.
3. To start the scene, loosen the harness, so it goes around the head much easier. Let the sub hold the gag to the mouth, and you, as the dom adjust the strap behind the head. It might take a while before getting the right fit, but ensure you get a signal from the sub that they’re comfortable. You can agree to use the shake of a head or the thumbs-up sign to signal the best fit. Also, lighten the mood and set the scene with some teasing questions to your partner. Remember, the experience is about having fun, and what better way to induce playfulness than teasing your partner when adjusting the harness.
4. For aftercare, ask your partner what form of attention they’d want after role-playing. It can be anything; a glass of water, a massage, or cuddling. Aftercare shows that you care for your partner while building up for next time.

How To Clean A Ring Gag?

How well you clean and maintain your ring gag affects its durability and efficiency. Silicone and stainless steel ring gags are much easier to clean, and a mild antibacterial soap and water solution will do. For the leather straps, wipe with a clean cloth to wipe off visible dirt marks without submerging them in water.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What’s The Purpose Of A Ring Gag?

Ring gags are BDSM play equipment that keeps the wearer’s mouth open. As the name implies, this is accomplished using a ring-shaped piece of firm, body-safe silicone or similarly-covered metal.

Are ring gags safe?

Ring gags are safe unless something is placed inside the wearer’s mouth. In this case, the wearer must stay in constant communication with their partners if they experience discomfort or breathing-related concerns.

How To Make A Ring Gag?

Manufacturing a DIY ring gag takes skill, patience, and especially a great deal of knowledge and experience in their various uses. In this light, I do not recommend trying to make your own. Though if you know your way around body-safe silicone, medical-grade stainless steel, and high-quality leather, I see no reason you should not try.

How To Know What Size Ring Gag You Need?

An effective way to determine a person’s mouth size is to have them open as wide as they comfortably can and then see how many inches their lips are apart. Remember that this is not an exact science, so it is always better to err on the side of a smaller gag instead of a larger one.

What size strap do I need?

Figuring out the strap length requires a tape measure. But as with the ring diameter, opt for more, not less, to measure. This is because it is always easier to tighten a loose strap the other way around.

How Does A Ring Gag Feel?

The sensation of wearing a ring gag can run anything from extreme arousal to pleasurable vulnerability. But there are other feelings as well. It all depends on the person using it, their sexual interests, and other considerations.

How can a ring gag help with oral sex?

As they are built to hold a person’s mouth open, ring gags can greatly assist partner oral sex. However, it’s essential to remember that though the teeth and lips are held apart, a penis or sex toy must be introduced carefully. This is because there is always the risk of blocking a user’s airflow. As I have said before, communication is crucial for playing with any ball gag to be safe.

Why Does A Ring Gag Hurt My Jaw?

There are multiple reasons why a ball gag makes the wearer’s jaw ache. Though I have said several times that ring gags may or may not be comfy to use, serious or prolonged pain should be addressed immediately.

How long can you wear a ring gag?

It is hard to precisely say how long you can use a ring gag. This is because some people’s jaws may be more sensitive than others. On average, I recommend not leaving a gag on for more than five to twenty minutes. Of course, this depends on the wearer and how comfortable they are. For first-timers, please keep this to the very low end until everyone involved gets more used to how they feel.

What can be done to recover from wearing a ring gag?

There are several effective methods for recovering from using a ball gag. For them, perhaps the easiest is to have the wearer stretch their jaws. But this should not be done so much that it makes things worse. A better course of action is slowly and gently working them until the ache subsides. If pain persists, get the wearer to a medical professional as soon as possible to avoid the possibility of serious long-term injury.

Ring Gags vs. Ball Gags vs. Spider Gags?

Ring gags have a hollow ring that sits in the wearer’s open mouth. Unlike the others, ring gags provide more airflow and decrease the risk of choking. The ring’s size varies from one gag to another, but most are tiny and won’t allow oral sex. A ball gag is similar to ring gags, except they replace the ring with a ball. The suspended ball sits in the open mouth behind the teeth, making the wearer unable to talk but make sounds. Some ball gags feature small holes in the middle to increase airflow. Lastly, a spider gag is a variation of the ring gag but with hooks on the side to discourage the wearer from flipping it horizontally.

Rachel

PS, for more BDSM sex toys, check out this article. We also have a guide about funnel gags for those who are more experienced.

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