I’m Rachel Sommer, PhD, and I’ve spent years studying human pleasure and desire. In my career, I’ve learned that sexual well-being is key to overall health and I’m here to share what I’ve learned in a way that feels like we’re having a chat. Over the years, I’ve gotten countless… Continue reading
If you’ve ever been in a long-distance relationship, you know they require much work. Things such as trust, communication, and honesty are significant factors. And, of course, sex and intimacy. Thankfully, today’s couples have it easier. Now there’s an umbrella of remote control products called teledildonics developed specifically for couples… Continue reading
Electrostimulation isn’t just for physical therapy or sci-fi movies anymore. Over the last few years, it’s become a thing in the bedroom, a mix of pleasure, surprise, and a whole new way to feel sensation. As a sexologist with over a decade of research in sexual health and pleasure, I’ve… Continue reading
As a sexologist I’ve worked with countless people who live with chronic pain and one of the most common questions I get is how do I experience pleasure when my body is fighting me? Living with chronic pain changes how you move, how you rest, and yes – how you… Continue reading
Rachel Sommer, Ph.D. is a sexologist with years of experience in sex therapy and sexual wellness education. With a background in clinical research and real-world sex counseling, she’s helped countless individuals and couples deepen their intimacy through knowledge and open communication. Have you ever had a moment where you’re fully… Continue reading
When it comes to kinks and fetishes, few topics raise as many questions as golden showers (or water sports, as it’s often called). While the idea may seem unusual to some, the truth is they can be safe with the right precautions. As a sexologist with over 10 years of… Continue reading
When we think of intimacy we tend to focus on penetration as the main event. But there’s a whole treasure trove of non-penetrative activities that can be just as hot – if not more so. I’ve spent over a decade as a sexologist helping couples rekindle passion, intimacy, and connection.… Continue reading
In a world where most sex toy manufacturers focus on straight users when designing products, celebrating those who pay attention to diversity is essential. When you buy a gender-neutral toy, we recommend choosing versatile and inclusive designs. Picking models you can use on different body parts and across multiple types… Continue reading
Over the years, I’ve seen intimacy trends come and go, but one of the most interesting ones recently is the rise of furry sex toys. These soft, plush, and often animal-shaped products are flying off the shelves faster than you can say “velvety caress”. It’s a curious phenomenon, combining fantasy,… Continue reading
You’ve probably heard whispers about the nipple orgasm, that full-body ecstasy triggered by touch in just the right way. But is it just a myth or a reality? As a sexologist with over a decade of experience exploring the depths of human pleasure, I can tell you that it’s real,… Continue reading
