How To Do Double Anal: A Beginner's Guide

Are you looking for information on how to do double anal penetration? Then this guide by sex educator M.Christian is helpful!

When talking anal sex, penetration with a pair of sex toys or two penises can double your fun! But it’s not without its risks – both for the people penetrating and especially for those on the receiving end.

Therefore, we are excited to provide you with our beginner’s guide to DP. Here we will go over its myriad pleasures and how to reduce the likelihood of things going wrong!

Table Of Contents

Why You Should Trust Us
What Is Double Anal Penetration?
Why Do People Like Double Anal Penetration?
What Does Double Anal Penetration Feel Like?
Is Double Anal Penetration Safe?
Does Double Anal Penetration Hurt?
Is Double Anal Penetration Normal?
How To Do Double Penetration With A Partner(s)
How To Do Double Anal Penetration Alone
Best Double Penetration Positions

Why You Should Trust Us

Sex and My Sex toy Guide go hand in hand, like chocolate and peanut butter. But not as messy and with far fewer calories.

From care and feeding a smart sex toy or the perfect oral position, we are well versed in it. And if we do not have all the answers, we have fully qualified experts to consult.

One of them is here with us to guide us through this double penetration play journey.

To call M.Christian sexually knowledgeable is an understatement.

Between their acclaimed erotic stories and novels, sex toy reviews, or in-person kink classes, this kink educator is a go-to source for everything sexual.

Not least is their know-how regarding the pros, cons, and risks of anal sex.

What Is Double Anal Penetration?

Double anal penetration is inserting a pair of anything into the anus. It can be two different sex toys, fingers, or more than one partner. Please note the operative word is not one penis, not three penises, but double.

Double penetration can go on from a minute to a few seconds. Not to mention lasting for far longer. It all depends on the comfort, desires, and experience of those involved.

Fans of this sex life do a lot of anal preparations, and we recommend our articles on stretching, widening, or elongating the anal sphincter to learn more.

Not to forget the most important of all; how to maximize anal sex enjoyment while minimizing its many risks, as these can be potentially life-threatening. We will talk more about that below.

In addition to this guide, I recommend you further your safe sex education by consulting resources like San Francisco Sex Information, Planned Parenthood, and Sex Etc.

Why Do People Like Double Anal Penetration?

There are several reasons why people enjoy double penetration anal.

It can magnify the pleasure of having a partner’s penis or object inserted into their anus. For example, double penetration group sex has all the sexual thrills of one guy anal sex plus two.

There’s also the psychological appeal, making sense as two guys are doing the penetrating. Or a boosted level of excitement from its somewhat taboo reputation.

After all, anal is already considered a rather extreme sex act.

In addition, those turned on by sex with people equipped with penises might consider it an ultimate form of sexual play.

Add BDSM, and the appeal grows larger. For bottoms, it could be an ideal way to submit to one or more dominants. While for tops, double penetration may be an ideal way to express sexual control.

Finally, for those with a vagina, DP can be even more intense. Whether it is a single dildo or a pair of dildos in their vagina or butt, it can be a lot of fun!

What Does Double Anal Penetration Feel Like?

Double penetration can feel like a single but with an extra level of pleasure. However, there are additional aspects to it as well, like the pleasure of a pair of sex toys or penises working in concert.

Here’s a pretty good analogy. See how putting a medium-sized carrot into your mouth feels. Then do the same but with a pair of smaller ones. You will immediately see while the two are relatively the same size as the single, the pair feels very different.

Now extrapolate this to your ass, which will likely give you an idea of why DP is merely not an extra large penis or dildo.

You see, rhythmic strokes can further magnify its sexual pleasures, especially when a penis or sex toy is inserted or withdrawn separately.

It will take some practice to pull this off with two partners. But if you can pull it off, it can take DP to a whole new level.

Don’t forget a vagina owner has the option to be vaginally penetrated and anally at the same time. It’s even possible for them to have both their vagina and anus occupied by a pair of penises or dildos. These two holes open up a wide range of pleasurable possibilities.

Sometimes a strap-on can lend a hand in this, as can two dildos or two fingers for these two openings.

Of course, this requires still more practice and sexual gymnastics to pull off this sex act successfully!

Is Double Anal Penetration Safe?

Double anal sex can be completely safe if the correct precautions are met. But everyone must understand its risks and pledge to reduce them as much as possible by adhering to safe sex practices.

Beginning with, everyone should get tested for sexually transmitted infections. HIV is often the most obvious, but hepatitis B can also be dangerous, mainly as it’s easier to spread and contract. But there are other conditions as well, such as herpes.

You can prevent all of the above by using condoms and other safe sex materials when you and your partners have sex.

If it’s impossible to do so, we strenuously recommend not playing with them. Or you with other people, for that matter.

Aside from the dangers of STIs, unprotected anal sex can damage the anus. So it’s imperative to take it slow so as not to injure your nether regions.

Finally, you need to maintain excellent lines of communication. Ideally, everyone should be able to speak up and be heard. More than anything, if they are uncomfortable, in pain, or want a break, a safe word comes in handy for letting your partner know what is happening.

So steer clear of people who suck at communication. Including if they fail to immediately act when told to slow down or stop.

Does Double Anal Penetration Hurt?

Double penetration can hurt. Particularly when it’s rushed, forced, or the wrong dildo is used to enter this one orifice.

It will be uncomfortable or extremely painful if the wrong lube is used. Same for not using enough of the right kind.

Let us return to the importance of communication. Another crucial aspect of which is always feeling able to express yourself. If there is emotional pressure not to, you cannot consent to sexual activity.

Because consent is not merely saying, you are okay. Instead, it’s never fearing someone will get upset when you say no.

Is Double Anal Penetration Normal?

Double penetration is perfectly normal. But then, so is every other consensual sexual activity.

From kink and fetish play to golden showers, it’s perfectly okay if it does not harm you or someone else. Because in the vast and wonderful world of sex, there’s no normal. Not in body size, shape, orientation, gender expression, or anywhere else.

Please refrain from beating yourself up over it, including if you like beating yourself up.

Again, if it’s consensual and will not result in permanent physical or emotional harm, then have fun. From watching double anal porn to patronizing an erotic artist with some juicy paid commissions!

And you should never ever tell anyone they are not normal. No one has the right to judge others for what consensually sexually arouses them. So keep your negative DP opinions to yourself. If you cannot, visit a therapist because the problem is not with them but with you.

How To Do Double Penetration With A Partner(s)

How do you go about enjoying the many pleasures of DP?

Begin by remembering anal sex safety. We already mentioned condoms and getting tested for STIs.

But also, do not forget the anus was not built to accept things going into it. So much so anal muscles will do their best to push stuff out.

So when you do, it’s crucial never to force whatever you insert.

The right anal lube will help make the penetration easier and more comfortable. For this, stick with the oil or silicon variety because the water-based type is too quickly absorbed by the anus, as opposed to vaginal walls, which are more comfortable with a water-based lube.

So please don’t mistake your ass for a vagina, especially when it comes to lubes.

Luckily, there are all sorts of anal lubes available. And most are specially formulated for precisely this sort of play.

Finally, be overly generous when applying lube. If you feel you are using too much, it’s time to use even more lube. A slick and smooth anus is less likely to chafe, and chafing is very bad when talking anal sex.

1. Enjoy the process

Anal sex can be challenging at the best of times. More so when another penis owner is involved. So it’s best to enjoy the journey and not focus too much on the destination.

That way, everyone can have a good time even when it may not be possible to get two penises or sex toys where you want them.

2. Communication is key

Another vital aspect of talking with one another is feedback, particularly when navigating two people into one hole.

So share what’s working and not. Then, with this info, figure out what will make things easier. Maybe more exciting as well.

In addition, taking a break now and again can be a huge help. Same for asking questions, a great way for finding out what’s happening, especially if someone feels too shy to speak up.

3. Pay attention

We are referring to how your body feels – both for the penetrator as well as whoever is penetrated.

If you have a cramp or a hard time maintaining an erection, speak up! On a side note, a strap-on can be a huge help when this happens.

The same holds true for your emotions, as they also play a significant role in how your body reacts.

Not least of which if you feel things are not going well. Same for if you need to take a break.

Again, do not feel bad, as double anal can take a while to get into.

How To Do Double Anal Penetration Alone

The above is also true for double penetrating your own ass; not pushing yourself too hard, enjoying the process, and not putting too much pressure on yourself or your ass.

Listening to your body is right up there as well. So if there’s pain or even discomfort, stop what you are doing. Otherwise, it raises the risk you might end up harming yourself.

Which is never fun.

1. Work your way up to it

You need to exercise your ass to handle two of anything.

One of our preferred ways is to use anal sex toys. A butt plug is especially good for this, as are anal beads and other sex toys.

Anal sex toys and butt plugs come in various sizes, so you can start with a small butt plug or slim dildo. Then, when ready, you can move to a slightly larger size.

When you think you can handle more than one, choose a pair of narrow ones because doing so will not unduly strain your anus. Plus, they are easier to move around and adjust, which is not the case when using a large or medium-sized anal sex toy.

If you are not ready for a dildo, try one finger, then two. But wear gloves as you do not want a finger with an overly sharp nail cutting your delicate anal tissues.

2. Keep the lube flowing

You can never have too much lubrication during a DP experience. It might get messy, but changing your sheets is better than a dry or irritated anus.

Pro Tip: It might help to do your DP play in the bath or shower, a great way to wash out your ass and clean up afterward.

3. Enemas and the right tools

You want to have your ass as clean as possible.

As we mentioned, an enema or douche is fantastic for this. Likewise, maintaining a suitable diet beforehand, for example, soluble fibers and cutting back on greasy foods. In addition, try reducing your intake of dairy products and fruits with seeds. You can read more about what to eat before anal in this guide.

You should also use an anal sex toy with a flared base. We bring this up again, as doing otherwise can be extremely risky since non-anal sex toys can not only harm your ass but might get stuck up there.

Emergency room doctors know all about this. Since they routinely have to extract any manner of things from people’s butts.

As with lubes, never use a vagina-designed toy for your ass!

Best Double Penetration Positions

Without a doubt, anal double penetration requires a certain amount of sexual gymnastics.

So to help you out, here are a few of our best positions. Have fun trying them until you find which positions work for you. But always feel free to discover your own. It’s your body, after all.

The only thing that matters is you and those you play with are comfortable. For this, strap-ons can be a lifesaver for those with or without a penis. They can also enhance your DP experience because no one needs the extra pressure of trying to keep an erection.

1. Side by side

Here is a fantastic position for DP play.

It starts with the penetrated laying on their side with their legs spread.

Then the first penetrator lays next to them with their penis at a good angle to enter their anus. This way, the second partner has easy access when kneeling from behind.

This position is fantastic for accommodating everyone’s comfort level. So if you have a sore back, you can take the laying down spot. Or, if not, you might find the kneeling spot more to your liking.

2. Double doggy

Think of this position as a combo of doggy style and person-on-top.

Here the penetrated person gets on top of the first penetrating partner. Next, then the second can enter from behind.

It has a lot going for it. For example, the penetrated partner can adjust the angle of their anus for maximum comfort. It’s also one of many excellent sex positions for people who may struggle with back issues.

3. Reverse Double doggy

How about flipping our number three position? This way, the penetrated person faces downwards with the second penetrator under them.

It may sound like a simple variation on reverse cowgirl but can be tremendously helpful for DP. It also gives the penetrated partner a hot view of what’s happening.

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