How can I warm my Fleshlight or pocket pussy real fast? Like in just 5 minutes. As a full-time adult toy tester, it’s one of the most common questions in my e-mail inbox. If you’ve been in a situation where you need to bust a nut fast, you know what I am talking about!
But why listen to me? My name is Tim, and I’ve reviewed Fleshlights since 2016. Hence I have extensive knowledge about this topic. IMHO, I am probably one of the world’s foremost Fleshlight experts (besides the folks working at the actual company, of course), so I have some spicy details to share.
In addition to my own extensive knowledge, I interviewed other adult product reviewers and spent hours on forums to ensure nothing was missing in this article.
The result surprised me, to say the least, and I am sure you will be thoroughly entertained!
Table Of Contents
1. Using The Sleeve Warmer
This method is the best way to warm Fleshlight. What I like most about using the official Sleeve Warmer is it’s 100% hands-off. You know that your sleeve will be warm enough when ready to use it. You can read my Fleshlight sleeve warmer review here.
The one downside is it’s the most expensive method since you need to buy additional hardware.
Pro Tip: One personal favorite is to apply lube inside the Superskin sleeve before putting it on the heating rod. That way, it will be easier to take it off. In addition, it makes the experience a bit more realistic, closer to a real vagina.
Trancendd on Reddit writes:
Out of everything I’ve tried so far, the Fleshlight sleeve warmer for about a half-hour has done the best. I usually put the sleeve on for a bit, then once it’s had enough time to get warm, I put some lube inside it and put it back on to heat the lube too.
What You Need:
You need a Fleshlight plus the Sleeve Warmer. You can buy sleeve warmers for about $30 at the official store or Lovehoney.
How To Do It:
- Plug the sleeve warmer into a wall socket or USB port.
- Position your Fleshlight over the heating rod.
- Let it sit there for about 10-20 minutes
- The device will switch off automatically at the optimal temperature (check the LED light).
- Voila, now you have a warm Fleshlight!
Pros:
- Most effective method.
- Most hands-off method.
- You get the perfect temperature
- Not so messy as the water methods.
- The device will keep the sleeve warm for a long time.
Cons:
- A bit pricey.
- You can only warm one sleeve at a time.
2. Using Warm Water
Do you want a zero-cost method to warm a Fleshlight? Then you should use hot water!
When I researched Reddit and Quora, it was by far the most popular method. The downside, though, is it’s relatively time-consuming, plus it’s challenging to get the perfect temperature.
Pro Tip: When you heat your Fleshlight using water or a heating pad, always check the temperature on your forearm before using it. You can get seriously hurt if it’s too hot!
Canigetausernane on Reddit writes:
Just to add to this, when you’re heating your sleeve/lube, a good rule of thumb is to get the water as hot as you can comfortably stand. If you can hold your hand under the water for 10-15 seconds without jerking away, it’s not too hot for your sleeve.
What You Need:
You just need warm water, a bucket or bowl, a lint-free towel, and a Fleshlight.
How To Do It:
- Boil some water on your stove
- Next, you could submerge the Fleshlight directly into the cooking pot, but instead, I recommend pouring it into a separate bucket for safety and hygiene reasons.
- When the water is not boiling anymore, submerge the Fleshlight.
- Wait about 10 minutes.
- Lightly dry the sleeve using the towel.
- Voila!
Pro Tip: If you don’t have access to a bucket or cooking equipment, rinse the sleeve under hot tap water. I did this for many years, and it worked perfectly fine.
Pros
- Zero-cost method
- No additional gear is needed.
- You can heat many toys simultaneously.
Cons
- Challenging to get the temperature right
- A bit hands-on
- A bit messy
3. Warm Up The Lubricant
Do you want an alternative way to heat the sleeve? Instead of warming the complete sleeve, you can warm up just the lubricant. It’s a less messy method, and, from my own experience, it gives you a slightly different sensation than when the whole sleeve is warm.
What You Need
You just need warm water, a bucket or bowl, a lint-free towel, water-based lube (I recommend Fleshlube, more on that here), and a Fleshlight.
How To Do It:
- Boil some water on your stove
- Pour the water into a separate container
- When the water is not boiling anymore, submerge the lube bottle.
- Wait about 10-15 minutes.
- Lightly dry the bottle using the towel
- Apply the warm lube inside the sleeve canal and on the orifice.
- Voila!
Pros:
- Less messy
- Slightly different sensation
- Zero-cost method
- No additional gear is needed.
Cons:
- Challenging to get the temperature right
- A bit hands-on
4. Using An Electric Blanket
The electric blanket is a handy device available in many homes. It’s one of the cheapest methods to warm up your Fleshlight to a comfortable body temperature, and it works like a charm for all your Fleshlight heating needs.
Some nifty tips from the Reddit community:
I have several “warmers.” My favorite is my electric heating pad. I roll my Fleshlight in there like a “pig-in-the-blanket,” and 30 minutes later, it’s absolutely warmer than any vagina. Keep it to a low or medium setting, though, or risk burning off all that delicate penis skin or risk melting your Fleshlight if you leave it in there too long. I bought a dark color because if I think I’m having a marathon session, I’ll even leave it wrapped around the sleeve and turn the heat down to low. Then you can use the Fleshlight while it is still in the heater.
Fingersontheknurling on Reddit writes about another zero-cost trick:
A relatively quick and easy method I use (in combination with the warmer) is to put it next to a Bluray player or a computer that throws a decent amount of warmth. Never do it near an actual heater or anything like that, but something that throws a little warmth like this will warm it up nicely.
What You Need:
You just need an electric blanket, two rubber bands, and a Fleshlight.
How To Do It:
- Plug the electric blanket into a wall socket
- Roll the blanket around the sleeve. It should look like a cocoon.
- Tighten both ends with rubber bands
- Wait about 15-20 minutes.
- Voila, now you have your own DIY Fleshlight heater!
Pros:
- Not messy
- Zero-cost method
- You can heat many sleeves simultaneously.
Cons:
- Challenging to get the temperature right
- You need a heating blanket
Less Than Ideal Ways To Warm Your Fleshlight
Now when we have talked about the best methods, let’s briefly discuss what you never should do.
- Never warm the Fleshlight with a hairdryer. Using a hair dryer may damage the material over time, especially if you’re blowing hot air too close to the Superskin material.
- Never heat them in a microwave oven. That is a sure-fire way to decrease the lifespan of your sleeves.
- I am personally not a big fan of lubes with a heating component. They never worked well for me, and I get minimal heating gains. But if you want to give this a go, I recommend the company’s brand called FleshFire.
Conclusions
As you can see, there are plenty of methods how to warm up a Fleshlight. You can use a heating blanket, a heating rod, or a warm water bath. But my favorite way is the sleeve warmer. It’s hands-off, gives you the perfect temperature, and it’s zero-cost.
I hope you enjoyed this guide, and I hope it helped you in some way. If you have any questions on how to keep your Fleshlight warm, feel free to leave a comment below.
Ps, if you’re in the market for a new Fleshlight, you should know there are a lot of models you can buy. If you want more information, we have an extensive guide with everything you need to get started on your Fleshlight journey.
Thanks for reading my guide on how to keep a Fleshlight warm.
Tim
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