We all love the stretchy and firm resistance Fleshlight is known for, but what about its other critical feature: the ability to retain heat? Before the Sleeve Warmer, the most common method was soaking in warm water for 10-15 minutes. I must admit that microwaving did cross my mind, but clearly, it’s a bad idea. I bought the sleeve warmer a while back and have used it for a few months. The results surprised me, to say the least. Follow along as I test the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer and I’ll give you all the juicy details!
I ended up using the Sleeve Warmer way more than I anticipated. It’s the ultimate way to warm up your Fleshlight sleeves and safely heat them to their optimal temperature in the shortest time. And it’s a speedy way to heat things in the bedroom, bathroom, computer chair, or wherever you seek self-loving, and the easiest way to do so.
Who Should Try It? The Sleeve Warmer is a fantastic investment for any sex toy enthusiast, making your sleeves warmer much more conveniently. It’s a must-have for anyone looking for a realistic experience via warmth. After testing it for several weeks, I found it hard to say anything negative about this product. It’s just that good.
Who Can Skip It? There are only two reasons you may not want to purchase this device. The first is if you don’t have the means to keep it hidden from whomever you may need to. The second is it doesn’t warm the entry of the orifice. Hence, if you want to enjoy the sensation of the first slip inside the hole, you may want to consider sticking with the hot water option.
You Can Buy It at the official Fleshlight store for $29.95 or Adam&Eve for the same price.
Table Of Contents
What is the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer?
The Fleshlight Sleeve warmer is a heating rod that will warm your sleeves to a pleasant temperature, making the masturbation experience more realistic. It has a black color and a desktop stand (three-pronged base) at the bottom.
First Impressions & Features
Specification
- Length: 9.25 inches
- Weight: 0.6 lbs
- Cable: 32-inch universal USB
- Heating time: 6-9 minutes
- Maximum Temperature: 135 F
- Power cycling feature/Automatic shut-off
- Water-resistant
- USB port
Packaging
Like all of my sex toys from Fleshlight, the Sleeve Warmer arrived in discreet packaging with no branding or labeling, always appreciated. If you still live with your parents or have curious kids, you need not worry.
The packaging for the Sleeve Warmer is probably the company’s most modest packaging yet, resembling the type of box any computer/desktop accessory might come in. If a person did not take the time to read the box, I don’t think they would be able to figure out what they are looking at.
The box is quite simple, and it has a picture of the Sleeve on the stand and images of what else is inside. No sexy girls or lewd quotes are present to get your balls tingling; this product is more like a regular tech accessory.
Design
The warmer itself looks like a rather skinny dildo with legs. It makes sense for it to be such a phallic-looking object as its only job is to be inserted inside a fake vagina and warm it up.
I am not sure why I have to give this warning, but I will anyway: even though this looks like it may be a great little dildo, you in no way want to be squatting on top of this thing, especially when it’s switched on. You don’t want to become the urban legend of the dude who ended up in the ER with burnt internals!
Something else I noticed when I plugged in the device; the power light was no longer the cool Fleshlight logo lit up in green. A small and unremarkable green light now displays the power. I was surprised to see this but later discovered that the company had switched manufacturers, hence the changes.
After taking the product out of the box, my next thought was, how will I store this thing? You could keep this on your desk or nightstand table quite easily as it’s not overly intrusive given you have the room. Its sleek design won’t draw attention to it being a sex toy, but rather just some weird computer gadget.
Unfortunately, the legs are rigid. It would be wonderful if they could fold up into themselves. Therefore simply shoving it in a drawer under a pile of clothing probably won’t work, as its overall base area is quite large (around 5″ diameter). You will most likely want to store it standing upright to avoid damaging the legs, like in the back corner of a closet.
The device has a 32-inch universal USB cable attached to it. Inside the box, you will find an instruction manual and a USB charging block. As a fantastic bonus, mine came with a Gold VIP Fleshlight card, which gave me instant access to online content and other hot promotions from Fleshlight.
Water-Resistant
All Fleshlights toys are water-resistant or waterproof, so while this may not seem to be the most mind-blowing feature, it makes sense. The water-resistant build means you can heat your Sleeve and lube simultaneously, getting your toy nicely lubed, warm, and sloppy.
What’s the worst part of using lube while having sex or in a Fleshlight? The cold lube itself takes away from the heat of the orifice you are getting off with. No longer will cold lube make your pecker-head shy away from the pleasure holes that await.
Power Cycling Feature
The Sleeve Warmers have a built-in power cycling feature. And it operates in the same manner as an electric kettle does if you leave it on; when it reaches its maximum temperature, it will shut itself down automatically. Then once it has cooled down, it will reignite itself, starting the cycle all over again.
Having a power cycle means you never have to worry about overheating your Sleeve, as it will shut itself off once it is ready. Sweet!
Pro Tip: Another benefit is you can warm up an additional sleeve while one is in use. It’s like you’re a NASCAR driver with a pit crew to maximize your jerk-off sessions. Oh, what a world we live in. Think about it; you can have your dirty ways with your current Sleeve, edge yourself to the verge of completion, and start with a freshly warmed one straight off the rod. If you have only one Sleeve, you need not worry. Because of the water-resistant feature, you can also pop your pre-loved Sleeve back on the warmer and heat it back up mid-session.
Non-Slip Legs
The legs of the warmer have non-slip pads on the bottom of them, and these will help keep it from knocking over. While these pads are pretty grippy, I don’t recommend sticking your warmer to your car’s dashboard to warm a sleeve on the drive home. I know what it’s like to be super anxious to throw open the front door of your house, rip your pants off, and throw down on yourself, but you should still wait to warm your Sleeve inside of your home.
Fast Heating Ability
The fast action heating ability of the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer claims to have your penis engulfed in a warm sheath in under five minutes. But during my review, I found six to nine minutes a more realistic timeframe for my tests.
However, different power sources will affect your heating time and maximum temperature, the most effective being a wall outlet and at least a laptop. Whether it takes four minutes or ten minutes, it’s the fastest option for warming your sleeves.
The alternatives are warm water, which takes 15 minutes, or a standard heating pad/blanket, for 20 minutes and warm your sleeve from the outside inwards. More on alternative Fleshlight heating options here.
How To Use Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer?
Using the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer could not be easier. Start by standing it up on a stable surface and plugging it in. Next, insert your Sleeve onto the warming rod.
Depending on which Sleeve you have chosen, it may be tricky to apply it to the rod without any lube. I highly recommend adding Fleshlube to the Sleeve before warming it, as it will make it easier to both put on and remove from the rod. A bonus is it will also warm the lube creating a more pleasurable experience.
Once plugged in, the warmer will automatically turn on. The green light on the base indicates it’s warming Fleshlights. Allow the Sleeve to remain on the rod for an entire warming cycle, taking anywhere from 4 to 9 minutes. Once the light turns off, the Sleeve is ready to be used and abused.
There are no buttons or settings for this device. If you desire a warmer hole for yourself, plugging it into an electrical outlet may make it a couple of degrees hotter.
You can warm your sleeve with or without the case attached, and as far as I can tell, both methods work equally well. If you choose to heat the Sleeve with the case on it, loosening the suction cap will ensure an easier time getting it on and off the heating rod.
Pro Tip: While it is safe to leave your Fleshlight on the rod for more than one cycle at a time, due to the automatic shutdown feature, do not leave any sleeve or toy on the rod for more than an hour.
The Fleshlight warmer is compatible with all sleeves, even QuickShots. However, a warmer is also dedicated just to Fleshlight Quickshots, which may be a more compact and discreet option.
The warming rod does not get much hotter than body temperature, even though the brand claims it can reach far higher temperatures. The lower temperatures are probably a good thing, so you don’t have to worry about scolding yourself or children getting severe injuries from any unwanted mishaps.
I tested the rod at full power with my fingertip and then managed to hold it in my palm without burning, but everyone’s tolerance may be different, so please take care regardless.
My Personal Experience
I was excited to give this a go. Warming my sleeves in the sink always made me feel like a depressed bachelor waiting for his frozen hotdogs to thaw out to eat them alone in front of the TV.
Ease Of Use
I decided to run some tests on the warmer before getting down and dirty with a toasty sleeve. After running a series of tests with the warmer and an accurate kitchen thermometer, I discovered the average attainable temperature to be 106 degrees Fahrenheit.
I conducted the first series of tests with my laptop as a power source:
- In nine minutes, the first warming cycle warmed my Sleeve up to only 101.7℉. Not the most impressive performance, I must say.
- However, the second cycle yielded far better results warming the Sleeve to 106.8℉, which took only five minutes. After heating the Sleeve twice now, it has taken 16 minutes to reach the perfect temperature.
- The third cycle produced similar results, warming the Sleeve to 106.4℉ in only four minutes.
Next was to test it out using a wall charger:
- Surprisingly this heating cycle took longer at eleven minutes. However, the Sleeve reached a balmy 109.2℉. The highest temperature I got.
- I topped out on the second and third warming cycles at 106.8℉ and 107.2℉. These additional cycles took around seven minutes each.
Performance
Now comes the fun part, using a freshly warmed sleeve on myself. I chose to heat it using the USB wall adapter since that’s how I had it set up from conducting my tests. It took ten minutes, the light turned off, and I was ready to go.
I slowly slid into the Sleeve, expecting a greeting by a set of warm lips and gooey lube, but this was not the case. The Sleeve entrance itself did not reach the temperatures of the test. I slid myself in further, and once I was past my head, I felt the heat I was seeking. The warm lube felt like a dripping wet vagina welcoming me into her embrace.
Navigating myself away from the frigid zones of the entry, I plunged ever deeper into its sweet abyss. It was a much better sensation than heating a sleeve with water, feeling far warmer than I had experienced before with a Fleshlight. The only other comparison I could draw upon was using it in the shower with warm water flowing in and out.
As I jerked away, I noticed it dropped in temperature but never got cold. The friction and my body heat kept it at a pleasant temperature. It was not long until I let out a loud groaning orgasm feeling like I was releasing it deep inside a woman uugggghh.
It was a fucking good one.
The next time I used the sleeve warmer, I heated it with my laptop USB point. I decided to treat myself and prepared another Fleshlight to slide onto the heater so I could swap it for a fresh one for extra pleasure. In addition, I knew from my previous tests that the second heating cycle would yield better results.
Twelve minutes later, I was sliding into warm ecstasy with my Classic Pink Lady. I shut my eyes, and it felt like real sex bringing back memories of my youthful days carelessly raw-dogging girls.
The Sleeve Warmer is an absolute godsend, specifically when you are jerking it from memory or imagination.
I popped the other Fleshlight on the rod about five or ten minutes into my session while getting myself to the verge of cumming. I saw the light turn off and made a quick switch.
As I plunged into the warm Fleshlight Go-Torque Ice sleeve, I knew the time was coming, and there was no more fighting it. Within about ten moderate-speed strokes, I felt myself speeding up and blowing so hard into it that I swear I was going blast the suction cap right off the thing.
I sat back in my computer chair with my mind blown—one of the best orgasms I have had while masturbating in ages.
If you want to see what the Sleeve Warmer looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:
Review Summary
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The Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer is one of the best Fleshlight accessories to enhance your masturbatory experience. It will not only get your Sleeve warmer than any of the alternative methods, but it is also faster and creates less of a mess than soaking it in water. The fact you can warm it up mid-way through using it is a massive advantage. With this accessory, you never need to use a cold Fleshlight again!
Pros
- Minimal mess and clean up.
- Warms the lube for extra sensation.
- Faster warming times.
- Water-resistant for easing cleaning.
- Works with all Fleshlights.
- Can warm your sleeve mid-session.
Cons
- The Fleshlight heater is not ideal for travel.
- It can be difficult to hide.
- The entry of the Sleeve does not get warm.
I am Sold! Where Can I Buy It?
You can buy it at the official Fleshlight store for $29.95 or Adam&Eve for the same price.
Alternative Warming Methods
The most common and straightforward way to warm a sleeve is by using warm water. You can do this by soaking the Sleeve in a sink, bucket, or whatever filled with hot water for 15 minutes. Using warm water, you can get your Sleeve to 100-103 degrees Fahrenheit.
However, the hot water method will not get your Sleeve as warm as the Sleeve warmer; but Fleshlight claims that the Sleeve will retain heat for twice the length of time with the Sleeve Warmer method.
Other brands make sleeve warmers or sex doll warmers that you can use on your sleeve, and some of these are cheaper than the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer. However, the major drawback of all alternative products is that the warming rods are very short in length and will not heat your entire Sleeve.
- The Beauty Molly Warming Rod has an insertable length of only 5.5 inches. The sex toy warmer takes ten minutes to heat your toy and will attain a temperature of 98-100℉.
- Rends USB Onaho Warmer is another popular toy warmer, and it warms up to a temperature of 99.5℉ in five minutes. The insertable length of this heating rod is 5.1 inches.
While these two pocket pussy warmer products are good alternatives, they will fail to heat the inner depths of your Sleeve, and who wants to be shocked on the penis head by the cold depths of a sex toy.
I must admit that microwaving a sleeve did cross my mind, but clearly, it’s a bad idea. Warming your sleeve with the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer will give you the most decadent experience you can have with your sex toy.
Cleaning and Maintenance
The cleaning of this device could not be easier. And you would have nothing to clean if you did not put any lube inside your Sleeve before warming it. It still doesn’t hurt to wipe it down with a damp cloth to be safe.
If you did squirt some lube into your Sleeve before warming it or had a mid-wank warm-up, you will have a small mess to clean up. Luckily the warmer is water-resistant, and a wet cloth with a small amount of FleshWash or sex toy cleaner should suffice. In the worst-case scenario, you can give the rod a quick splash with running water to rinse any remaining residue.
Pro Tip: It’s not entirely waterproof, so never submerge it underwater.
Storing this device is as easy as the effort you are willing to put into it. It’s unobtrusive, so leaving it on your desk or a bedside table is an option. But always make sure it has cooled down before hiding it away. Even though it’s not reaching temperatures that will set your house ablaze, why take the risk?
Finally, I strongly advise storing it in an upright position; this will ensure the longevity of the legs. You don’t want it lying on its side and forget it’s there and drop a heavy load on it to find later one of the legs snapped the next time you go to use it.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How does the Fleshlight sleeve warmer work?
The mechanism is quite simple. The idea is to warm your favorite sleeves by putting them onto the heating rod. Let them stay on the heating element for a few minutes to get your desired temperature, and you have a sleeve that’s very close to human body temperature.
How do you know when it’s ready?
You can see it on the green light at the base (the Fleshlight symbol). Once the light turns off, the sleeve is warm and ready.
Should I use it dry or wet?
You should always use it dry. But you can apply a few drops of water-based lube before putting it on the rod. It makes it easier to remove the sleeve, and it’s a nice feeling when the lube is also heated.
What comes with the Fleshlight sleeve warmer?
Besides the warmer, you get an instruction leaflet and a USB charger. In addition, mine came with a Gold VIP Fleshlight card, which gives you access to online content and other promotions.
How do you turn it on?
It’s very easy to turn on the heating rod. Just plug it in, and it will turn on automatically.
How long does it take for the sleeve warmer to reach max temp?
The company claims it takes under five minutes to reach optimal temperature. But during my review, I found six to nine minutes was a more realistic timeframe to get a warm Fleshlight. The longest it took was 16 minutes.
How hot does the sleeve warmer get?
During my testing, the highest temperature I reached was 109.2℉. It took 11 minutes to get that temperature.
Thanks for reading my Fleshlight sleeve warmer review
Tim
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