How To Practice Blowjob With Dildo: 6 Quick and Dirty Techniques

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When it comes to sucking dick, most of us feel embarrassed, nervous, and unsure of ourselves. As a result, many of us don’t take the step to learn what it’s really like to suck cock. But if you want to know the skills of giving great head, you can practice using one of your dildos.

Hi, I am Rachel Sommer by the way. I’ve written about sex professionally since 2016. In addition, I’ve used sex toys since 2010, so more than once, I stuffed them in my mouth. I know all the best dildo blowjob techniques, and in addition, I interviewed other sex experts and spent hours on sexual wellness forums and Reddit to make sure my research was as extensive as possible.

Benefits Of Learning Blowjobs Using A Dildo

  • It’s less intimidating: If you’re a beginner, you might feel overwhelmed when you see your partner’s penis. That’s normal because it can be intimidating to suck a big dick for the first time. But when you use a dildo, you’ll have the ability to practice blow job techniques in a controlled environment.
  • It’s much safer: You can use a dildo without worrying about your gag reflex, and you can do so without the risk of catching an STI.
  • You can experiment: When you practice using a dildo, you can get creative with your mouth movements. If you want to try out a new style of blowjob, you can do it with a dildo first.
  • You don’t have a partner: And of course, if you don’t have a penis-owner partner at the moment, you don’t have someone to try your new blowjob moves on.

4 Vixskin dildos

Are There Any Differences?

While you can learn the basic skills, there are many differences between a dildo and a real penis. For starters, you will get feedback from the person that you get it right, like moaning, breathing, etc. In addition, a real dick is warm and sometimes pulsates.

A woman practice giving blow jobs (illustration)

Throwoutxxxx from Reddit sums it up like this:

I wouldn’t really call it ‘practice’ per se since, at least for me, I watch and listen for cues from my partner — changes in breathing pattern, moaning, thrusting, anything that tells me what he likes and wants more of. Your dildo isn’t going to tell you what you’re doing right or wrong. I suppose an average-sized one is okay for testing your gag reflex, but so would a lollipop or any number of other things.

What Dildos Are Best For Blowjobs?

For obvious reasons, it’s better to have a life-like dildo than a product that doesn’t look phallic at all. A realistic dildo will have all the features of a real penis, like a coronal ridge, frenulum, foreskin, and balls.

I am especially fond of the Vixskin dildos, which have dual-density material, so they will feel very real when you touch them. The Fleshjack dildos are also a good pick.

Brent Corrigan dildo

You should also buy a dildo made from non-porous and body-safe material (phthalates free, etc.), silicon being the obvious choice. Stay away from Jelly and TPE products.

Finally, for convenience, it’s worth buying a dildo with a suction cup since you can attach it to various surfaces, making the experience more versatile. If you need more examples, we have an extensive dildo guide here.

Pro Tip: There are even squirting dildos if you want to learn how to swallow cum like pornstars. More on that here.

Squirrelmunk from Reddit gives some additional advice:

If you want a realistic-feeling model, whether for oral play or any other kind of play, you want dual-density silicone. These toys have soft, comfy, lifelike outer layers and firm cores. So you get the joy of squishiness without the vexation of floppiness, just like a real erection. Vixen’s VixSkin line is the cream of the crop, but there are also great budget options like BMS Factory’s Naked Addiction Dual Density Silicone Dildo and Blush’s Real Nude line, Neo Elite line, and NS Novelties’ Colours Dual Density line.

Closeup of a dildo tip

How To Practice Blowjob With Dildo

1. Learn Pressure Control

The first thing you should do when learning how to blow someone is proper pressure control to the penis. Use both vacuum sucking and lip pressure to modify the pressure without having your teeth touch the dildo.

Pro Tip: The feedback I hear from guys is that girls usually don’t apply enough sucking pressure. And they just move their head up and down, which doesn’t feel much.

2. Learn Speed Control

Once you have mastered the pressure, you can learn to move your head at different speeds. Start with a slow, steady pace, then work your way to a fast, passionate pace.

3. Use Your Tongue

Next, you can learn to use your tongue in different ways. Use the tip of your tongue to run along the length of the dildo, let it swirl around the shaft, and make circles around the head.

A woman licking a dildo (illustration)

In addition, you can use your tongue for more pressure, apply a different texture, and add an additional pleasure sensation.

Pro Tip: Men go crazy when you tickle the frenulum with your tongue. Some can even orgasm from this alone.

4. Use Your Hands

The final thing you should do is learn to use your hands. When you’re blowing someone, you can use your hands to guide the penis into the back of your throat and to pull the penis out of your mouth.

A woman touching a dildo with her hands (illustration)

In addition, you can use your hands to caress the penis, tease and stroke the shaft, apply more pressure, tap the skin, or apply an additional sensation.

5. Stroke The Balls

If your dildo has realistic balls, you can also stroke the balls. Gently stroke the top of the scrotum, then stroke the balls underneath.

Closeup of dildo balls

6. Learn Deep Throating

Deepthroating is a bit more advanced technique, and I recommend our extensive guide if you want to learn more about this topic.

Are There Any Alternative Ways?

If you’re on a budget or not comfortable buying a dildo, no worries. Below are some DIY blow job toy ideas to practice your blowjob skills. We also have more dildo ideas in this guide.

  • Bananas
  • Cucumbers
  • Ice pops
  • Your fingers

Wrapping Up

Practicing blowjobs with a dildo is a great way to increase sexual confidence and make your partner feel good about themselves.

I recommend the VixSkin line since they are the most realistic models. VixSkin products are made from high-quality dual-density silicone, which makes them feel lifelike, and some have a suction cup so you can attach many dildos to a variety of surfaces. You can read more about the best silicone dildo products here.

For the techniques, learn how to apply pressure, change speed, and use your tongue. When you’re comfortable doing that, you can move on to advanced techniques.

I hope you found my guide helpful.  The more you blowjob practice, the better you’ll get.

Thanks for reading my guide on how to practice sucking dick at home!

Rachel

Ready to learn with a partner? Then you should read our extensive blowjob guide!

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