Stoya Destroya is the favorite of many sex toy reviewers so I was keen to give it a try. I was especially interested to find out how it compares to all the other Fleshlights in my collection. So join me on my journey as I go balls-deep into the inner sanctuaries of this popular masturbation sleeve!
Alright, let’s cut right to the chase. Yes, Stoya was very good. I would say she was the most intense of the dozens of Fleshlights I tested. Especially the intense combination of bumps and fangs inside the sleeve makes it a gem. As you go deeper, the texture gradually becomes bumpier, with rumps running from the center to the sides. All the protrusions hugged my manhood tightly in all the right places, inspiring intense and unique sensations, culminating in a mind-blowing orgasm. Highly recommended!
Who Should Try It? Stoya is excellent if you want an intense Fleshlight experience. She is also good if you’re looking for a tight sleeve or if you have a longer dick, as the sleeve is one of the longest.
Who Can Skip It? It’s one of the tightest sleeves I tested, so it may not be ideal for thicker guys. It may also not be great for newbies since it’s very intense. If you’re a beginner, I recommend buying Flight Pilot or Quickshot Vantage instead.
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Table Of Contents
What Is Stoya Destroya?
Stoya Destroya is part of the Fleshlight Girls lineup, a unique series with orifices molded from popular adult stars. The sleeve is famous for having an intense and varied texture, plus some large juicy pussy lips. All this made me interested in testing her, and I bought Stoya from the official store the next day.
Who Is Stoya?
Jessica Stoyadinovich (Stoya) remains a pacesetter among the first alt models to break through into mainstream porn. With a body that might be more suited for the runway, Stoya has it all. She started early, at 19 years old, posing for adult pictures for a friend’s project. She later transitioned to alt-erotic websites using a shortened version of her grandmother’s Serbian maiden name.
Stoya started with softcore porn, which eventually led to her getting featured in hardcore pornography. Movies like “Stoya Video Nasty” and “The Kingpin of Pain” followed by a spell with Digital Playground that ended in 2014.
After breaking ties with her exclusive content distributors, Stoya began exploring independent projects. The star worked as a co-creator, director, and performer at ZeroSpaces digital magazine. She’s also a sex columnist with a podcast and multiplatform presence on social media. It was also during this time that Stoya partnered with Fleshlight to produce a replica of Stoya’s vagina.
First Impressions & Features
Never in my life have I ever looked forward to receiving a package than I did with the Stoya Destroya. I love everything about Stoya (shhh… Sandra doesn’t have to hear it for the 1000th time). From her angelic body to her outgoing, edgy character, lord knows how much I’m dying for this threesome – in my head, of course.
Upon opening the Stoya Destroya Fleshlight packaging, I found the following items;
- The iconic white case
- Patented Superskin Sleeve
- Lady vagina orifice
- Instructions for Use and Care
- Lube Sachet
Packaging
While I wasn’t sure what to expect, I was sure of the unlabeled cardboard box unique to Fleshlight. Plain packaging is essential, especially if you have a nosy neighbor or live in a shared space. Neither was a problem for me, but keeping others in the dark with the packaging is always great.
Sadly, the packaging underneath the cardboard box was bare and uninviting for me. I have unboxed other Fleshlight masturbators like the Stamina Training Unit before, and the sleeve package is always glamorous. For this one, though, the masturbator comes in a colorless plastic container, with everything else scattered in the box – the case, foldable manual, and additional lube.
I think they can improve the packaging to better embody Fleshlight’s long-standing history of excellence. It’s not a big deal, but having unboxed other masturbators a few weeks ago, I think the disparity stood out.
Material
Fleshlight always uses the patented Reel Feel Superskin material on all its products. The recipe, initially developed in a garage, has now been fined tuned to give you a firm yet flexible masturbator. The material is also body-safe, hypoallergenic, affordable, easy to maintain, and very durable in the long run.
Design
Stoya’s white case is 9.5” long with up to 8.5” of usable insertable space. The length, coupled with the stretchy Stoya Destroya sleeve, means that close to 95% of men can enjoy the masturbator. It’s made of phthalate-free plastic, which is easy to clean and durable. Moreover, the white color gives it a clean, luxurious look not found anywhere else.
The case also has longitudinal lines on the stem and neck to make handling easier. During my research, it felt comfortable in my hands, and I could grip it firmly. Cleaning the case was easy, too. It takes just a few wipes with a clean, moist cloth.
The Stoya Destroya sleeve comes with a pussy orifice molded from the award-winning porn star’s labia. I usually don’t care what a woman’s pussy lips look like, but Stoya’s are great. In addition, her signature is inscribed on the side of the lips, further assuring its authenticity.
The lips are squishy and flexible, which allows you to enjoy multiple angles of penetration. It hugs your shaft tightly as you slide through, delivering measured resistance on the down-stroke.
Sleeve Texture
The masturbator has one of the most unique sleeve textures in the Fleshlight Girls series. The 0.4” channel has small bumps that provide subtle stimulation. The second chamber (the pleasure dome) is wider, with longer 360-degree bumps that extend to the center. Moving on, a narrow, tight constriction welcomes you to the next section.
The following two chambers feature fang-like protrusions bent at a 45-degree angle pointing towards the entrance. These fangs provide resistance as you slide deeper while tickling your penis from the head to the shaft. Finally, the last chamber has a series of ridges that gently caress the head and provide a ribbed effect on your penis.
The Bottom Cap
Destroya has a bottom screw cap to regulate the suction power with every thrust. The fact that you can alter the suction of every in and out thrust renders individual sessions unique and exciting. Tighten or loosen the twist cap to get the desired vacuum suction effect.
The bottom cap also ensures Destroya is sealed at the far end, making cleaning easy. It’s a sanitary option overall, and you don’t have to tilt it during orgasm to avoid ‘spilling out.’
How Does Stoya Destroya Feel Like?
I really liked the vagina opening. It looks realistic thanks to the plump labia and distinct texture. The well-thought combination of small and large bumps, as well as inclined fangs, make Stoya Destroya a gem. In addition, the deeper you go, the more elaborate the variations become, with constricted channels between the chambers to replicate real-life vaginal action.
The sleeve’s texture starts with ‘not so intense’ chambers, a design tweak that welcomed me most politely. As I delved deeper, the Destroya texture gradually became bumpier, with rumps running from the center to the sides. All the protrusions hugged my manhood tightly in all the right places, inspiring intense and unique sensations. While testing, I also figured out I could move the Destroya sleeve sideways and have the bumps glide on me, creating a pristine feeling!
Any downsides? Yes, it’s one of the tightest Fleshlight sleeves I have tested. Hence, it may not be ideal for larger guys. I would also not recommend it for newbies since it’s very intense. There are better models for a guy buying his first Fleshlight.
If you want to see what Destroya looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:
Review Summary
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And that’s it! So, is Stoya Destroya for you? Well, I say yes, IF you have some previous experience with masturbators and you’re looking to upgrade to something more intense. She is also a good fit for guys looking for a tight sleeve or men with long dicks.
Pros
- High-quality Superskin material.
- Intense texture design with many variations.
- Different chambers for different levels of sensation.
- Long enough to accommodate guys with all penis lengths.
- Affordable price tag (cost $79.99).
- It’s ok for stamina training (Though STU is better).
Cons
- You need to spend time cleaning the elaborate texture.
- The sleeve model may be too tight for girthier guys.
- If you have a short penis, you won’t feel the texture in the last chamber.
- Not a very realistic vagina feeling (But you won’t buy her for realism).
- Ugly packaging for such a premium product.
How To Use Stoya Destroya?
I bought Stoya Destroya when Sandra was away for three weeks, and the timing couldn’t have been better. It arrived in good time as well – on my day off, I set the stage. It took a few minutes, of course, to get the notes and photos for the review, but the best part was preparing it for the much-awaited launch.
Before the delivery, I’d not used an adult toy for about two weeks, and I spent the day looking for the ‘tools.’ For some reason, I got hold of everything but the lube. Luckily, the masturbator comes with a small lube sachet that proved more than helpful that day.
Long story short, I enjoyed the intense sleeve within an hour of receiving it – unboxing, note-taking, quick bath, and, voila, orgasms. I couldn’t even wait for the sleeve to air dry; I used my small face towel to dry it this time. Of course, I found my lube bottle in the bedside drawer later on and again dived into action!
Pro Tip: Superskin material can be warmed with water to raise the temperature and make the experience more realistic. Nobody wants to slide their morning wood in a freezing pussy anyway. Just soak it in hot water for a few minutes and enjoy some ‘warm action.’
Note: As always, I recommend using a water-based lube with the Stoya Fleshlight. It’s Superskin and latex-friendly – it won’t damage your sex toy. It doesn’t stain your bedsheets like oil and silicone-based models, and you can even use it with a condom to simplify the cleaning process.
How To Clean Stoya Destroya?
Nothing good comes easy. Right? With the different textures and nodes, the Stoya might be a bit trickier to clean. The unique texture and lumps make the masturbator one of the best in the world, and cleaning is the price you have to pay. Start by running clean, warm water through the sleeve to untangle residue from the tall domes.
Follow with toy cleaner before rinsing with clean water. Once the sleeve is clean, let it air dry for at least three hours so all the chambers are completely dry. Finish off with the Renewing Powder to keep the material soft and pliable without stickiness.
So, clean Destroya as soon as you’re done so it’s ready next masturbation session. In addition, use a clean, damp cloth to wipe off visible dirt marks on the sleeve and case.
Are There Any Good Alternatives?
Stamina Training Unit (STU)
The Fleshlight STU is a unique masturbator designed to do more than replicate sexual intercourse. It actively trains your penile muscles to sustain an erection longer and control your orgasms. Continued use of the STU with other techniques like edging, suction control, and rhythmic breathing helps to improve your stamina so you can last longer in bed.
Read my complete Fleshlight STU review here.
Mini Lotus
The Mini Lotus Pink Sleeve offers a textured canal with unique waves that vary in diameter. From 3/4” to 1/2”, these waves stimulate your penis during in and out thrusts for a uniquely different sensation.
Flight Pilot
This high-flying masturbator takes you through an unforgettable journey. The Pilot’s texture is turbulently pleasurable with bumps, fingers, and ribs. In addition, the canal’s width keeps changing to give you a unique, varied experience.
Read my Flight Pilot review here.
Thanks for reading my Stoya Destroya Fleshlight review!
Tim
Also, don’t miss our other reviews of all the standard Fleshlights, Fleshlight Go Torque Ice, and Turbo Thrust. Finally, you can also buy a Stoya ass version called Epic.
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