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In recent years, heated sex toys have become increasingly popular mainly because they give a warm sensation similar to human flesh. They are typically soft on the outside and warm up on the press of a button, which improves blood circulation and relaxes the muscles, resulting in greater arousal and intense orgasms. Some of the more premier heating sex toys offer extras like multiple warming levels, strong vibrations, powerful thrusting motion, and the ability to be regulated remotely.
But the increase in popularity has caused an explosion in products, so it can be tricky to separate the good from the bad. But that’s why websites like My Sex Toy Guide exist. Our job is to sift through the noise and present the best heated sex toys that give you the most realistic experience. Let’s check them out!
Best For Women: We-Vibe Temp
We-Vibe Temp received the highest scores in our testing. The team especially loved the dual warm and cold feature, the fast and easy operation, and the strong vibrations, which they thought were better than the competition.
Best For Men: Blowmotion
If you’re looking for a discreet and user-friendly penis masturbator with a heating feature, swing by Lovehoney and buy the Blowmotion. The smooth vibrations focused on the head of your penis will have you reaching for it again and again.
Sex Machine: Lovense Spinel
If you have the need, the need for speed, Lovense Spinel is calling your name. This heated sex machine will appeal especially to cammers, people in long-distance relationships, and those who want a top-of-the-line app for hands-free play.
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Meet The Tester
Hi, I’m Sandra Larson, the author of this article. I am also the co-founder of My Sex Toy Guide. My husband and I launched this website way back in 2016 as a simple blog to share experiences and thoughts about our love life. Since then it has grown into one of the largest sexual health resources on the Internet, and we are now employing a full-time testing and research team.
Integrity is important to us here at My Sex Toy Guide. We buy each and every review sample with our own money, and we never accept free products in exchange for a positive review. We also want to be transparent about our business model. While we depend on affiliate commissions, we would never give a favorable review to a product just because it offers a higher payout. Every item on this list is included for one very reason: it’s genuinely among the very best.
1. We-Vibe Temp: Best for Women!
Why we love the We-Vibe Temp:
We tested dozens of products, everything from Zalo vibrators to some newer dildos with warming functions, but after the dust settled, we picked a non-penetrating device as the best heated sex toy: The We-Vibe Temp. The main reason is that, unlike other products that can merely warm up, the We-Vibe Temp’s new technology, ‘temperature play,’ has both heating and chilling capabilities, which gave our team a higher satisfaction than the review samples that could only do one or the other.
This device can warm up to about 100°F/38°C and cool down to about 68°F/20°C, a nice range, in Sandra Larson’s opinion. This team also appreciated the level of accuracy in the heat and cool control system. Both could be varied almost instantly. This made them faster and more friendly compared to the competition. Even the one-way system of Satisfyer, Lovense, and LELO models was slower.
All in all, there were three distinct modes of vibration, along with adjustable speeds, which we rated as above-average when it came to raw power. It was also interesting that the sex toy came with its own unique growl sound, which did not take long to start. On top of that, the buzzing function, together with the warmth and coolness, made the We-Vibe Temp very pleasurable to use.
We also noted that a lot of thought has been put into the design, from the button placement (image above), which doesn’t intrude, to the sleek design that fits flush between the user and the mattress and doesn’t tip over. Overall, this is a solid device that won’t disappoint despite its relatively high price tag.
Minor issues we found during testing:
Even though we really fell in love with this wonderful vibe, we did find a few details that could be tweaked for a better user experience. Most importantly, the temperature scale is limited, which makes sense because it has to be a safe experience. But it also means this device won’t work for more serious temperature play, as the coldest temp is cool and the hottest temp is warm. I also wouldn’t have turned my nose up at a few more intensity levels.
If you want to see what the We-Vibe Temp looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Size: 2.6in x 3.8in
- Colors: Blue and Tangerine
Pros:
- It offers innovative heating and cooling technologies.
- A dual-temp control for precision.
- Multiple vibration settings.
- An ergonomic design.
- It is 100% waterproof.
Cons:
- It’s not ideal for extreme temp play lovers.
2. Blowmotion: Best for Men!
Why we love Blowmotion:
Let’s switch gears and talk about something for our penis-owners, where the Blowmotion masturbator really shone. The team liked many things about this wonderful device but they thought the ergonomic design stood out the most. For starters, it was strikingly easy to hold, even with one hand. On top of that, the location of the buttons was also well-positioned and it made it easy to regulate the masturbator without stopping the fun.
Aside from the functional aspects, we also enjoyed the range in levels of vibration, which we rated higher than the other review samples. As Sandra Larson summed it up, “The 6 patterns and 3 intensities outmatched the We-Vibe Temp in its capabilities, and Tim was ready to put the muscles to the test.”
One thing we noted was that the sleeve didn’t focus on the whole penis shaft, as many of the other warming masturbators do. Instead, it centered on the penis head, which may seem like a disadvantage, but it actually made Blowmotion an excellent option for edging. This was further reinforced by the innovative controls where you can switch from the lowest to the strongest mode based on experiences and desires you’ve been trying to achieve. “It was easy for me to switch off the Blowmotion in the middle of an edging session to shut down all the stimulation,” Tim Larson told me.
Regarding versatility, my colleagues liked that it’s compact, has a long battery life, and is user-friendly. Since it’s only splash-proof, this masturbator still has quite an array of functions that would be attractive to men who want a warm sex aid in the bedroom.
Other Good Alternatives:
- Lovense Calor is a decent option for men who seek to control the warmth using an app instead of manual controls. It comes with compatibility with the Lovense Remote app, which means you can create new patterns, set your favorite vibration levels, synchronize the vibration with music, and so forth.
- Lovehoney Hot Shot is an accessible and heatable sexual device that is good for people with a limited budget. Selling at a special offer of $49.99, this is a steal for the portable and rechargeable masturbation machine. Its small size and soft silicone material significantly simplified handling. And with 6 patterns and 3 speeds, you have a nice range of sensations to enjoy.
Minor issues we found during testing:
The masturbator was loud in higher settings and thus not ideal for someone living in a shared space. You might have to play music or use a heavy comforter to mask the noise.
You can read our full Blowmotion Warming Male Masturbator review here.
Features:
- Material: Silicone and ABS Plastic
- Usable Length: 3in
Pros:
- A compact size.
- Canal with evenly distributed warmth
- It has different vibration modes.
- It is suitable for edging.
- A universal masturbator.
Cons:
- It only targets the head of your penis.
- Noticeable noise at high levels.
3. Lovense Osci 3: Best App-Controlled!
Why We Love Lovense Osci 3:
Besides the heating function, the new oscillation function is one of the strongest selling points of the Lovense Osci 3. The waveform shaft is equipped with a thumping action oscillating to 6,000 times per minute as opposed to traditional toys whose manual or mechanical thrusting is limited to about 1,600. The team thought the vibrations mimicked the effect of fingering quite well, exerting tremendous pressure on the G-spots without manual stimulation. The consensus was that the experience was more realistic and profound, leading to stronger orgasms.
The team was also taken aback by the unusual design. According to the brand’s website, the angle of the insertable arm was 52 degrees upwards. According to Sandra Larson, the curved shape helped her to reach the front vaginal wall easier. On top of that, she was in love with the way the soft and silky silicone caressed her vagina and the bulbous head glided well through the vaginal wall with a splash of water lube.
The user experience was great due to its two-button control system and the Lovense Remote app, which was user-friendly. We have tried a lot of Lovense sex toys over the years and their application is the easiest to use. Full stop. The website also includes videos of the different functions and how the app works, which is perfect for visual learners who do not appreciate reading instructions.
Overall, the team reported that it was simple to connect the masturbator and the mobile application. What was most notable: listening to music and locking it to the experience so that you can use your hands free to control it. Some reviewers also raved about the experience of syncing it with the voice of their lover, emphasizing it worked out very well. Great work, Lovense!
Note: There are other apps like the Lovense Connect, which allow cam models to control the tipping experience for maximum returns and better engagement from the audience. It is also possible to connect the Lovense Remote app with several sex toys so you can control them more centrally.
Minor issues we found during testing:
The biggest concern was the buzzing sensations. They were a bit limiting and those who require more profound, rumbling vibrations will have to look elsewhere.
On top of that, the price of the model ranges from $99 to $199. This is quite steep for most users.
If you want to see what Lovense Osci 3 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Insertable Length: 4.42in
Pros:
- Unique oscillations, imitating the fingering.
- The curved angle provides more accuracy.
- Amazing dual stimulation
- Intuitive Lovense Remote app.
- Strong, sturdy materials
Cons:
- Buzzing vibrations can be annoying.
4. Lovense Spinel: Best Heated Sex Machine!
Why we love Lovense Spinel:
Want something more powerful? Then you should pay attention to our next list entry: the Lovense Spinel Sex Machine. The feedback I read from the team was that the heating option did a good job mimicking the human body temperature, thus enhancing immersion and relaxation during use. It reaches as far as 109 degrees, and blends well with the thrusting and vibration patterns brilliantly to provide a wholesome experience. Its thrusting feature also had different speeds ranging between 395 and 1450 thrusts with four patterns and three intensities.
Sex machines are generally large and extremely conspicuous. But that is not the case with Lovense Spinel. Instead, the device was very portable, and extra attachments, like the suction cup base, further simplified handling. Its suction base was adjustable up to 150 degrees, offering more penetration angles.
The handheld sex machine was also more versatile than the competition. To begin with, the package contained a variety of attachments, such as a straight dildo, a curved one (image below), and a clitoral stimulator. Although the curved dildo lacked the warming option, the rest had it, which made it possible to play with thrusting, vibrations, and heating functions.
The other reason why we selected it as the best warming sex machine was its compatibility with the Lovense Remote app. The mobile application lets you match the sensations with noise in the house or music so that you can enjoy a hands-free experience. You can also email a link to your partner so that they can regulate the fun regardless of the distance. Just wow!
Minor issues we found during testing:
Sadly, the curved dildo can only go up and down for G-spot stimulation without vibrating. Lovense should add vibration capabilities to the dildo to marry its precise targeting with the fingering motion’s impressive G-spot targeting.
The motor also shorted when under pressure. The moment we pushed against the base of the machine, the thrust would suddenly be gone.
If you want to see what Lovense Spinel looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone & ABS plastic
- Curved Dildo: 3.44in
- Straight Dildo: 5.29in
Pros:
- Turning, vibrational, and heating functions
- A portable and compact design.
- It connects to the Lovense Remote app.
- Impressive versatility
- Suitable for solo masturbation and partnered experiences.
Cons:
- It is not suitable for anal intercourse.
- The thrust ends because of pressure on the base.
5. Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer: Best for Heating Fleshlights!
Why We Love Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer:
When it comes to sleeve warmers, this Fleshlight product impressed us the most due to its precision and reliability in heating. It uses a heating rod that warms the SuperSkin body so that the warmth can be nearly the same as inside a real orifice.
The simplicity of the heating rod, as well as its vertical nature, are among the features that our test team noted. For example, the legs at the lower part are non-slip so that the device does not tip easily when in use. Sometimes the simplest design is just the best.
Unlike some of the other more complicated heating devices, the Fleshlight warmer was easy to use, and anyone should be able to get up to speed in minutes. All you have to do is insert it into the wall plug, fit the sleeve on the rod, and then wait 5-10 minutes. We also appreciated that it automatically shuts down when it reaches optimal temperature and then switches on when cooled down.
The convenient sleeve warmer works with various sleeves from the Fleshlight brand, including the Quickshot series. We believe it’s an excellent substitute for the conventional way of dipping the sleeve in the warm water because you don’t have to deal with dripping and cleaning spills.
Minor issues we found during testing:
We did have some smaller comments about the design. It was not very heavy because it was designed to be light, however, because of its size, four legs, and the included USB cable it was quite difficult to carry and hide.
We also noted that the entrance area does not get the heating, which was a slight bummer (but not a showstopper).
You can read our full review of the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer in this article.
Pros:
- Material: ABS Plastic
- Length: 9.25in
Cons:
- Accurate and even warming.
- Simplistic and easy-to-use.
- The most versatile sleeve warmer.
- Quick heating speed.
- Sturdy, non-slip base.
Cons:
- It is not convenient for traveling purposes.
- The tall structure may be difficult to conceal.
Other Good Alternatives
The Seahorse Siren is our favorite heated rabbit vibrator. During unboxing, we noted that the “ears” are located on the shaft, not the external attachment. While this initially surprised us, the antennae give you a unique internal sensation, not to mention added precision, and the flatter external attachment made it easier to use than something that you have to awkwardly fumble with to line up with your anatomy.
Oh My Gem Ardor is a heated bullet vibrator that’s perfect for traveling and keeping things discreet. The designers didn’t skimp on power though; be warned that they are quite powerful for such a tiny form factor. We also liked the tapered head and the cute gem at the base.
Zalo Confidence beat the other heated wand vibrators in our test lineup. The primary reason is that the warming function actually works, and is heated to a comfortable temperature relatively fast compared to the other review samples. Another reason is that it’s so damn cute. It looks like a fairy princess wand.
And Two To Avoid
Ah, The Eve. What can I say about The Eve? Well, it did make me laugh, which is a first in my sex toy experience. While I absolutely recommend the Zalo Desire for a sensation more unusual than a basic vibe, the wriggling, writhing motions of the Eve are a little too unusual. I didn’t want to put it in my body as much as I wanted to call an exorcist. If you want a really…different internal sensation, I won’t dissuade you from using it, but I won’t be held responsible for the sprains you develop trying to mimic its motions.
Sometimes I feel as though companies try so hard to make a toy beginner-friendly that they miss the mark entirely. The Nubii is versatile and well-designed in terms of its shape, I will give it that, but the fact that it has only one button that controls both the warming function and the vibrations means that A) you can’t warm it up beforehand B) you have to cycle through all the vibration intensities to get back to the gentle ones. Neither of these are things I like to see in a toy that’s so obviously meant for a beginner to use. There are much better options out there in every respect.
Happy vibing!
Sandra
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