5 Best Spanking Benches in 2024, Reviewed by a BDSM Educator

Sometimes you need a little help from a spanking bench, especially to make things more comfortable and get into more “advanced” spanking positions. And of all the products you can buy, hands-down, my absolute favorite is Liberator Obéir. Made of high-quality materials, designed by people very well versed in the pleasures of a good spanking, there is simply no other product that even comes close to beating it.

But though the Liberator Obéir is the pinnacle of spanking benches, there are plenty of other well-made models to consider. Of which the following are my personal choices. I’ve also included handy tips and techniques for using them. Because, as with anything to do with BDSM, knowing as much as possible is right up there with having a spanking good time.

Why You Should Trust Us

Hi, I am M.Christian. With decades of experience in all things kinky, both as a very willing participant and as a respected educator, you cannot get a more informed person to talk about spanking benches. I know a few BDSM equipment builders who were more than willing to share their thoughts on what makes a good product. Not to mention what separates them from not-so-good ones. So hang on as I go over our recommendations of which benches will make everyone’s spanking sessions hotter and more comfortable.

I also love hearing stories from my readers, so if you have questions, don’t hesitate to reach out. You can call me at +1 307-372-3895 or send an email to [email protected]—just make sure to include your name and contact information.

How We Picked the Products

My testers and I did not pick these five spanking benches willy-nilly. In fact, a lot of thought and research into each of them to help you narrow down your potential choices. We even defined a set of test criteria we could measure on a scale from 0 to 100.

Of our consideration, the most important one is how safe or not any of these models are. The possibility of injury is low compared to other types of BDSM equipment. But we felt there is always some risk, so it is crucial to look at how safe each of these benches is to use.

• Safety: First and foremost, all BDSM gear would be designed to reduce the possibility of a user being injured when playing with one. This includes quality construction, durable manufacture and materials, and stability.
• Materials: Our next test criterion was whether or not any of our benches scrimped on what went into building them. Our suggested benches are made of high-quality wood, steel, leather, and vinyl.
• Construction: The same is true for how well the materials were assembled, i.e., the build quality. In this light, we weighed things like how each part is attached, the use of redundant connection points, and correctly sized screws, bolts, and nails.
• Cost: Though sometimes you have to pay a lot to get a lot, we also understand most people cannot afford expensive spanking benches. But because some of you can afford them, we also gave you a selection of pricier models.
• Flexibility: With a few rare exceptions, no one wants a one-trick-pony piece of BDSM equipment. So when we debated which products made the cut, we thought about whether or not they could be used for more than one type of play.

After getting feedback from my testers, my next step was to spend a lot of time engaged in further research. From satisfied and not-at-all-satisfied customer reviews to the opinions of respected BDSM community members, I put together a general breakdown of each spanking furniture.

During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Safety (25%) and Construction (25%). After that comes Versatility (10%), Material (10%), and Cost (5%).

Next were the opinions of certified sexologists and kink educators, which gave me our final five best spanking benches.

Everything We Tested

In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criteria.

Name	Obéir	Padded Bench	Obedience Extreme	DDMachinery	Face Cradle Bench
Category	Best Overall	Luxury Pick	Penetrative Sex	Plus-Sized	Comfortable
Average Rating	95%	93%	92%	92%	90%
Safety	93%	93%	92%	91%	92%
Materials	94%	93%	92%	89%	89%
Construction	98%	95%	93%	94%	91%
Flexibility	97%	93%	90%	94%	92%
Price & Value	93%	92%	92%	91%	90%
Price Tag	$190	$2,495	$454.57	$339	$359.95
Material	Foam & Reinforced Microfiber Cover	Steel & Vinyl	Steel & Vinyl	Wood, Steel Bolts & Screws	Wooden Frame & Vinyl Upholstery
Color	Black	Black & Silver	Black	Black	Black
Size	24.5" Long, 24" Wide, & 18" High	N/A	50" Wide & 27" High	27" Long, 18" Wide, & 32" High,	17" Long, 16" wide & 30" High

1. Liberator Obéir: Our Overall Test Winner!

Why I love the Liberator Obéir:

As I enthusiastically praised it at the beginning of this guide about the products I’ve ever tried, I feel everyone should own the Liberator Obéir, our pick as the best spanking bench.

Manufactured of super-high-quality materials, like its hyper-dense foam upholstery and extremely sturdy frame, you will never have to worry about anything but finding new ways to spank or be spanked while using it.

I love that the Obéir serves multiple functions. It has built-in D-ring attachments specifically for restraints, including handcuffs, ropes, chains, and ribbons.

The Liberator Obéir’s shelf is also a brilliant addition. I feel it is the most comfortable and effective way to ensure the knees or elbows of those on the receiving end do not get in the way of play.

The testers also mention how fantastic it is to get into various sexual positions. From cowgirl to from-behind, however you and your partner want to position yourselves, the Liberator Obéir will make it especially easy and pleasurable.

Minor issues I found during testing:

If I had to say anything less-than-stellar about this bench, it would be a bit on the small side compared to some of the others I have tried. Though it could be argued this is an extra benefit, it makes the Liberator Obéir very easy to move and store.

Why Liberator Obéir is the highest-rated spanking bench:

With its excellent materials, superb design and manufacturing, and nearly limitless possibilities, it’s obvious why the Liberator Obéir is our top pick for this list. No other product offered this high quality for such an affordable price tag.

If you want to see what Liberator Obeir looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

• Materials: High-density foam with a reinforced microfiber cover
• Size: 24.5 inches long, 24 wide, 18 high
• Color: Black
• Weight: 10 pounds

Pros:

• Made from very high-quality materials
• The shelf provides extra comfort
• The metal rings are ideal for bondage restraints
• It comes in discreet packaging.

Cons:

• It may be too small for certain playstyles.

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2. Metalbound Padded Bench: Our Premium Pick

Why I love the Metalbound Padded Bench:

If looking good is right up there with having amazing spanking sessions, then no other model combines the two like the luxurious Metalbound Padded Bench.

Covered with easily washable vinyl and effectively padded for maximum comfort and spanking effectiveness, it also comes with a handy knee rest to place the person spanked into an ideal angle.

Being a die-hard fan of industrial-styled furniture, I adore the Metalbound’s hardcore appearance. It is also exceptionally sturdy for anything from vigorous flogging to elaborate bondage scenes.

Did I mention that it has twenty different attachment points? Well, it does, so you can put your playmates into any position you or they want. From cuffs, chains, and rope, if you want to use it, the padded spanking bench can handle it.

Minor issues I found during testing:

What makes Metalbound so fun to use is why it may not be for everyone. It is a remarkably heavy piece of BDSM equipment, so it is not something you can just fold up and put away. That said, if you have the space for it, few benches can compare to how pleasurable it is to use.

Why Metalbound is our luxury pick:

Combined with its sturdy design, 20 attachment points, and how sexy it looks, it is clear why this is the perfect option for those looking for a premium spanking table for their dungeon. No other product came close to the quality this one offered.

• Materials: Steel and vinyl
• Color: Black vinyl upholstery, silver steel frame

Pros:

• Incredibly strong steel frame
• Includes padded knee rests.
• The design features twenty unique attachment points.

Cons:

• Made-to-order, with delivery being anywhere from fourteen to sixteen weeks
• Expensive at $2,495

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3. Master Series Obedience Extreme: For Penetrative Sex

Why I love the Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench:

Sure, spanking can be heaps of kinky fun, but sometimes you want to do something else. For those who want that something else to be the pleasures of penetrative sex, look no further than the Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench.

With its extra-durable tubular steel frame, padded arm and leg rest, and similarly padded head cushion, it is what you and your partner have been waiting for. This is a remarkably comfortable and practical piece of sexual engineering and is sure to be the highlight of all your penetrative sex sessions.

Minor issues I found during testing:

The only downside I discovered while playing around with this portable model is it’s not really suited for people who like to move around during sex. If you do not, you should absolutely get your hands on one of these great benches. But even if you do not like staying in one place, penetration play is still remarkably comfortable.

Why the Master Series Obedience Extreme is best for penetrative sex:

This is a hotter-than-hot example of top-of-the-line sexual equipment design and engineering. As pleasant to use as it is sturdy, you will also enjoy how its quick-release buckles make getting out of it as quick and simple as they are getting into it.

Made all the better because the entire thing is fully collapsible. So you do not have to be concerned with trying to keep it away from prying eyes.

• Materials: Steel and vinyl
• Color: Black vinyl upholstery, black steel frame
• Size: 27 inches high, 50 inches wide

Pros:

• Firmly made and structurally sound
• Equipped with quick-release buckles
• Reasonably priced
• You can break it down for storage

Cons:

• Assembly can be tricky
• Not ideal for partners who like to easily switch from one position to another

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4. DDMachinery Plus Size: For Plus-Sized Couples

Why I Love the DDMachinery Plus Size Spanking Bench

As no two people’s bodies are ever the same, so too should larger kinksters not be left out of the myriad pleasures of using a spanking bench.

Of them all, the DDMachinery Plus Size is the top wooden spanking bench for people on the heavier side. This 2 x 4 pine wood construction can comfortably support players up to four hundred pounds. These are not just nails but are securely attached with bolts and screws. The DDMachinery Plus Size is as secure and sturdy as a blast-and-a-half to play with.

Like those it’s comfortably designed for, it has appropriately large front and rear legs and interlocking supports. Its braces are each 29 inches long. Its main section is 16 inches wide and 27 long, is canted at an ideal 15-degree angle, and has two full inches of padding.

Minor issues I found during testing:

Small, this bondage spanking bench is not, which is good news for the size of users it was built for, though this makes it rather tough to move and store. So it might be great for dungeons and other BDSM play spaces instead of being a piece of kinky furniture.

Why the DDMachinery Plus Size is our pick for Plus-Sized partners:

Did I forget to mention that you can have one of these products in leather if you dislike vinyl? Well, I should have, as that is another reason I have fallen in love with the DDMachinery Plus Size punishing bench.

It is a sweet ride for the leaner set that is greater than great for anyone with some meat on their bones. So it is fantastic for everyone, however big or small they are. Plus, it can easily handle everyone from gentle to very vigorous lovemaking.

• Materials: Wood, steel bolts and screws, leather or vinyl upholstery
• Color: The wood and upholstery are black, screws and bolts are steel
• Size: 32 inches high, chest rest is 18 inches wide and 27 long

Pros:

• Designed for plus-size uses up to 400 pounds
• Sturdy frame with joints that are either bolted or screwed together.
• You can dissemble it in as little as five minutes
• Affordable at just $339

Cons:

• Quite a large piece of BDSM equipment

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5. DDMachinery Face Cradle: Most Comfortable

Why I Love the DDMachinery Face Cradle Bench

Right up there with being great at getting a receiving partner into an ideal position is making sure they are as comfortable as possible. Enter the DDMachinery Face Cradle, a product that somehow manages to be as exciting and arousing as relaxing.

But do not let its sizable dimensions fool you, for at the heart of its sturdy manufacture and high-quality materials is the maker’s serious dedication to proving its uses with as much discomfort-less experience as possible.

Which is courtesy of its padded armrest and pair of kneeling pads it does and then. These are amazingly adjustable, a feature that enables the DDMachinery Face Cradle Bench to be even more enjoyable.

Lest I forget to bring up its other premier selling point. I am referring, of course, to its easily adjustable face cradle. Think massage bench but designed for a myriad of kinky activities. In addition, the face cradle can be slid in and out, allowing for various angles.

Minor issues I found during testing:

Comfortable though it might be, like most of the benches on my list, it’s not exactly on the small side. But also, like those other benches I mentioned, if you have a suitably large living space, you should definitely purchase one.

Why the DDMachinery Face Cradle bench is our most comfortable pick:

Talking quality design and manufacture, which focuses on reducing discomfort and enhancing user enjoyment, few can match the DDMachinery Face Cradle Bench.

How comfortable is it? To give you an idea, after we had a steamy few hours putting it through our paces, my partner felt so relaxed they dozed off while lying on this exceptional product!

• Materials: Wooden frame, vinyl upholstery
• Color: The upholstery is black, wood is painted black
• Size: Chest section is 30 inches high, 17 long, and 16 wide

Pros:

• It comes with an adjustable face cradle
• Includes a pair of armrests and two knee pads
• Optional leather ankle and wrist cuffs are available

Cons:

• A remarkably large and heavy piece of BDSM equipment

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What Is A Spanking Bench?

Spanking benches, also known as a “spanking horse” or “Berkeley horse,” are pieces of sex furniture that give the dominant full access to the submissive’s exposed body parts for spanking purposes. Some models have restraint straps to keep the submissive firmly in place, while others allow penetrative sex [1].

Note: BDSM/Bondage are advanced sex acts, and you must take great care when doing them. Any action you take upon the information on this website is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be liable for any losses, injuries, and damages. Learn more.

But Why Should I Buy One?

A spanking bench, or flogging bench, provides a platform for spanking, an incredibly erotic and freeing sex act. The spankee lies on the bench, effectively propping their behind so the dominant partner can spank them as they deem fit. These products are helpful, especially for couples that enjoy Dom and Sub BDSM roles during sex [1].

Couples can also use them as a position-enhancing tool, offering an avenue to try different sex positions. Whether the goal is to make complicated positions much easier or provide support during sex, these versatile pieces of furniture offer a lot. The raised spanking bench designs also provide better access to your partner’s genitals for deeper penetration and effortless oral sex.

Lastly, most BDSM furniture features restraint points, making them perfect for kinky BDSM play. Picture retraining your partner on the bench while using a paddle or flogger sex toy to tease and spank them from behind before enjoying better access and deeper penetration. You can find the best paddle for spanking in this guide. We also have a guide about BDSM riding crops.

How To Use A Spanking Bench Safely

• Your safety must always be a top priority. Discuss pain limits and treat your sub with respect. You should also have safe words and use them when necessary. And incorporate proper aftercare [2].
• Clean them properly before and after use. And always check the sex toys for damages to ensure everybody’s safety. Also, store all adult toys carefully and away from children. If handled properly, these bondage benches can last a lifetime.
• The best position for a spanking bench is doggy style. But some products let you explore other positions, too, as well as adjust the angles.
• Ensure you have assembled or set up your bench so it will not unexpectedly shift or collapse. For this, please consult the manufacturer for their recommendations on how to assemble or anchor their equipment.
• Initially, refrain from making your spanking scenes overly long or complicated. This is because if you or your partner are not used to playing with these types of BDSM equipment raises the risk of something going wrong. Instead, try to keep your sessions on the short side. That and maintaining clear communication will reduce the possibility of injury.

How To Build A Spanking Bench?

There are likely quite a few of you who feel you are adept enough with power tools to make your own bench. But thinking you know how to make one is very different from being a qualified expert.

Before you ask, I am not splitting hairs. This is because when constructing any piece of BDSM equipment, it’s never simply a matter of bolting pieces of wood or metal together. Making something equally effective and well-constructed enough to avoid injury requires more than basic carpentry skills.

However, suppose you are experienced enough in putting together things like a homemade spanking bench. In that case, there is no reason you should not try. Here is a quick overview to give you an idea of what that might take.

What kind of materials should you use?

As your DIY spanking bench will see a lot of pretty heavy action, always opt for high-quality wood, steel, vinyl, or leather. The result might be expensive but building a safe device is more important than a cheap one.

How should I assemble my spanking bench?

The same is true for connecting all of the parts together. Though picking well-made bolts, screws, and nails is a no-brainer, do not forget how crucial redundancy can be. So do not limit yourself to single or even double connection points. Better yet, spend a lot of time determining how you will use your bench and where the most force will be put on it. Once these other facts are sorted out, use an appropriate number of bolts or screws to make it extra secure.

What kind of padding should I buy?

Again, it is preferable to go with more and not less padding for your upholstered parts. For one thing, removing a small amount is easier than stuffing a lot in. But it is also recommended to any would-be builders not just make a padded section and cram stuffing into it. This is because it will probably split up long before anyone can enjoy it. A much more effective technique would be to plan ahead how much room your appropriately padded parts will need.

What about repair and storage?

Talk to any BDSM equipment manufacturer, and they will tell you it is not enough to build a spanking bench. But it also should be easy to break down and store and fix if it breaks. My advice is to use bolts and screws instead of nails. Velcro is also fantastic for attaching or detaching your padded sections.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How does a spanking bench work?

The name says it all. Spanking benches are designed to make spanking play easier and more comfortable for everyone involved. But that does not cover all of their possibilities. Here are how they work and the many different kinds of play they can be used for [1].

How to use a chair as a spanking bench

If you cannot get your hands on an adult spanking bench, sometimes a spanking stool will do the trick. But even so, you should not merely bend your partner over one. A much more effective and safer approach is carefully considering what chair and how to use it.

What is a creative way to hide a spanking bench?

If you have some extra fabric and are adept at sewing, you can make your own spanking bench cover. But if handling a needle and thread is not your forte, you can drape a few lengths of cloth over it.

How to repair and maintain a spanking bench?

However well we treat any piece of BDSM equipment, it will need to be repaired at some time or another. This is especially true with spanking benches because they frequently receive a lot of stress and strain.

Upholstery is often repairable as torn or damaged padding rarely puts a user at risk. How you choose to do it is up to you. But I find duct tape is effective. The same is true for using it with a thick towel or appropriately sized pillow.

Where can I find a repair person for my product?

As they do not tend to advertise their services, locating a qualified spanking bench service person can be tricky. To narrow your search, consult your bench’s manufacturer to see what they recommend. Sometimes they might be willing to do it themselves, though you will probably have to pay to have yours shipped to them. In a pinch, I have discovered putting the word put on your local BDSM grapevine can help. But be sure to select those with a lot of experience and highly recommended.

Primary Sources

1. Refinery29. Cara Delevingne & Ashley Benson Bought A Sex Bench — & You Can Too (2019, May)

3. Joanne’s Reviews. Woohoo! – I Now Own A Spanking Bench (2021, April)

Thanks for reading my spanking bench review!

M.Christian

PS, for more BDSM furniture, check out this article!

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