Are you looking to upgrade your bedroom into a fully-fledged sex dungeon? Or maybe you want to add one or two pieces of dungeon furniture to enhance your vanilla sex life? Well, you’ve come to the right place. Here I’ll take you through 20 of the highest-rated BDSM furniture. The review is rooted in years of bondage furniture use, many research hours, and multiple bondage fan accounts.
Jessica and I have used numerous bondage furniture over the years. Everything from door swings to BDSM cages and fuck benches, sex has never been vanilla for us. The lockdown gave us ample time to revisit our old bondage furniture and even buy new ones.
So, here are some of our all-time favorite BDSM bondage gear.
Summary Of Our Top BDSM Furniture
- Best Overall: Black Label Wedge/Ramp
- BDSM Swing: Screamer Dual Hook
- Bed Restraints: Bondage Boutique
- BDSM Bed: Dore Alley Dungeon Bed
- BDSM Stockade: Stockroom
- Dungeon Cross: St. Andrew’s Cross X
- Best Sex Machine: HiSmith
- BDSM Cage: Hammered Steel
Table Of Contents
- Summary Of Our Top BDSM Furniture
- Why You Should Trust Us
- BDSM Wedges, Chair, and Sofas
- BDSM Slings and Swings
- BDSM Beds And Beddings
- BDSM Stockades And Crosses
- BDSM Machines
- BDSM Cages, Tables, And Benches
- How We Picked the Products
- What Is BDSM Furniture?
- How To Use BDSM Furniture?
- How To Wash BDSM Furniture?
- How To Make Your Own BDSM Furniture?
- Primary Sources
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BDSM Wedges, Chair, and Sofas
Bondage furniture allows partners to enjoy different positions by enabling easy access to the genital area. In addition, the furniture enhances deeper anal play and vaginal penetration, leading to heightened sexual pleasure. Let’s check out our top picks!
Note: BDSM/Bondage are advanced sex acts, and you must take great care when doing them. Any action you take upon the information on this website is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be liable for any losses, injuries, and damages. Learn more.
1. Liberator Black Label Wedge/Ramp Combo: Best Overall
Liberator Black Label Wedge/Ramp Combo is the perfect bondage furniture for all BDSM enthusiasts. Its simple yet effective design with an independent wedge and ramp allows you to move both sex pillows as you wish for maximum comfort and satisfaction during kinky play.
Not only is it comfortable, but the shapes cling together to avoid slipping during play. Lovely design, indeed!
I especially enjoyed the high-density foam, which is soft for comfort yet supportive enough to remove the pressure from your joints during vaginal play, oral, or anal sex. The versatile bondage furniture does allow access to numerous sex positions while providing better access to the genitals during sex for more profound and better penetration.
I also liked that you can customize your experience with the cuff accessory kit. With the multiple cuff connector points, you can use it with compatible Black Label shapes for bondage restraint play. You can read more about the best bondage restraints here.
Overall, this year’s best BDSM furniture is the Black Label Wedge/Ramp combo. It’s the perfect bondage furniture for anyone looking to give lift and motion to lovemaking. In addition, the set’s versatility makes it a great position enhancer while allowing for better access to the genitals during sex.
Note: The 10-inch ramp is recommended for users under 5’9, while the 12-inch is for users taller than 5’9.
- Material: Microfiber, Polyurethane Foam
- Dimensions: Small – 32″x 24″x 10″, Regular – 34″x 24″x 12″
Pros:
- Comfortable and supportive high-density foam.
- Plush microfiber feels great on the skin.
- The combo provides lift while helping to achieve deeper penetration.
- Patented interlocking threads hold the wedge and ramp together.
- The removable cover is machine-washable.
- It includes Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold & Tethers. Also compatible with Black Label shapes.
Cons:
- It’s expensive – the combo will set you back $300+.
2. Liberator Black Label Esse with Cuff Kit: BDSM Sofa
The Black Label Esse from Liberator is one of the best bondage furniture you’ll see today. What I liked most about it was the enormous number of cuff ports. Unlike other BDSM sofas like the Esse II and Esse Chaise, there are 24 different cuff points to experiment with bondage play.
Besides the high-density foam, I liked the moisture-proof liner protecting the furniture. What’s more, the soft, removable cover feels plush against bare skin. Plus, it’s machine-washable, thus simplifying aftercare.
The BDSM sofa is perfectly weighted to provide a secure lounge during sex. And with the included headrest, you can be sure of a comfortable experience and an extra 5″ for standing positions.
The included mini-scoop was a nice touch. It eliminates the center dip for a more flat seating position, and you can also use it independently to enhance your lovemaking experience.
All in all, this year’s top bondage couch is the Black Label Esse from Liberator. So, if you’re on the market for a bondage sofa with a cuff kit, here’s a prime choice. The kinky furniture is very comfortable for lounging, just as for BDSM play.
- Material: Microfiber, Polyurethane Foam
- Dimensions: 64″ x 24″ x 24″
Pros:
- High-density foam construction.
- A modern, sleek design.
- 24 cuff points for the ultimate bondage play experience.
- Included headrest and position scoop make for versatile dungeon furniture.
- Elegant contours offer increased mobility during sex.
- A comfortable and sturdy sex chair.
Cons:
- Some people might find it to be too low.
- It’s expensive – $635+.
3. Liberator Obeir: Great For Spanking
The Liberator Obeir is one of the best spanking benches I’ve used. Most importantly, it’s relatively affordable and high-quality.
Unlike most other options on the market, Obeir boasts a high-density foam construction for utmost comfort. In addition, the soft microfiber cover feels great against the skin, making the bondage bench even more comfortable.
I noted four strong D-ring attachments for bondage restraints. And with an extra $45, you can get four ankle and wrist cuffs with your order. I found the cuffs very sturdy – they withstood extreme pulling action.
In addition, the sex bench has a unique L-shaped design. The submissive kneels on the comfortable foam base, thus providing access for spanking and sexual positions.
Overall, the Liberator Obeir is our favorite BDSM spanking bench. The well-measured degree of comfort and bondage is outstanding.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
- Material: Microfiber, Polyurethane Foam
- Dimensions: 24.5” x 24” x 18”
Pros:
- A high-quality and durable spanking bench.
- The velvety cover feels great against bare skin.
- Perfect for spanking and doggy style position.
- Four built-in D-ring attachments for bondage play.
- Adjustable cuff accessories are available.
Cons:
- The sex benches are only available in one size.
4. Bondage Boutique Position Enhancer Chair: BDSM Chair
Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer is a very simple yet effective sex chair that can be used by just about anyone. I was surprised at how sturdy and stable the metal frame was – Sandra loved it too. In addition, the bars are coated with protective foam for added comfort.
The sex chairs straps are strong, elastic, and soft, an essential combination, especially for a piece of bondage furniture that will hold your body weight for extended periods. And surprisingly, it can hold up to 150 kg (330 lbs).
So, if you’re on the market for simple and effective sex furniture, the best BDSM chair is Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer. Its modest design with a metal frame and sturdy elastic straps is admirable. And the best thing about the BDSM stool is assembling and taking it down is quick and straightforward.
- Material: Metal, Elastic Bands
- Dimensions: 16.5″ wide x 13″ tall
Pros:
- Strong and durable construction.
- Padded metal frame for extra comfort.
- Strong elastic bands are soft against bare skin.
- Impressive weight limit – 150 kg (330 lbs).
- Easy to assemble.
Cons:
- Some detachable handles would be great.
5. Liberator Bonbon: Best Toy Attachment
Thanks to its low profile and ergonomic design, the Liberator BonBon is the best mount for sex toys. I especially liked that it holds all toys with a 1.25 – 3″ diameter because 80% of my collection falls in the category.
Besides holding your dildo or vibrator in place, the BonBon also serves as a sex position enhancer. We use it mostly to offer easy access to the genitals during penetrative and oral sex.
In addition, its compact size provides a healthy degree of discreetness as well, making it our pick as the most discreet BDSM furniture.
The attachment hole is just deep enough to cover the base of the sex toys, and you don’t have to worry about reduced insertable length.
Overall, this year’s top BDSM sex toy mount is the Liberator BonBon. The sex toy attachment is made from high-density foam and a velvety softcover that feels plush against bare skin. And whether you want to enjoy the thrill of solo play or the shared excitement of couple play, Liberator BonBon holds your toys securely so you don’t have to.
Pro Tip: I recommend using remote control or mobile app-controlled toys. Otherwise, you’ll have to keep chucking the vibrator off the mount to control the rumbles.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
- Material: Polyester, Velvet, Foam
- Dildo/Vibrator Diameter:25 – 3”
- Measurements: 15” L x 8.5“ W x 12” H
Pros:
- High-density foam construction for utmost comfort.
- A great toy attachment furniture for your dildos and vibrators.
- It also doubles as a sex position enhancer.
- Soft, machine-washable cover.
- Multiple colors are available.
Cons:
- The mount is not ideal for sex toys with balls or large bases.
BDSM Slings and Swings
Have you ever wondered what sex would feel when suspended in the air? Well, I’m sure you have – but you don’t have to dream anymore since one of the best ways to experience floating sex is by using slings and swings.
6. Screamer Dual Hook Swing: BDSM Swing
The Screamer Dual Hook Swing is the best bondage swing on our roundup review list. One of the reasons is it uses two hooks instead of one. This brilliant feature distributes your body weight evenly between two points instead of one for a more stable experience.
In addition, the swing features a removable strap system, making removing and adjusting the available accessories easy. Customizing your fit is bliss whether you want to adjust the straps, footholds, handgrips, or squatting attachment.
The Screamer swing comes with a free headrest for extra comfort. Sweet!
So, if you’re looking for a secure yet comfortable product for suspended BDSM sessions, the Screamer Dual Hook swing is your best bet. The wide padded straps, dual hook design, and removable strap system make it our top choice.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unpacking and review summary video below:
- Material: Cotton Canvas
- Weight Rating: 300 lbs.
- No. of Hooks: Dual
Pros:
- Well-made, heavy-duty BDSM sex swing.
- All-metal hardware enhances your safety.
- The dual hook design – safety and comfort.
- A removable strap system makes it easy to customize the swing.
- The machine-washable straps make aftercare bliss.
- It comes with a carrying bag for storage and travel needs.
Cons:
- It’s expensive – $298.
- The swing can be a little noisy during sex.
7. Stockroom’s Leather Sling: BDSM Sling
Stockroom’s Leather Sling is an ideal piece of furniture for serious BDSM enthusiasts. We have used numerous slings, and this one is the most stable and ‘exotic.’
Most importantly, the 4-point leather sheet feels plush against bare skin, with the large surface area wrapping your entire back perfectly. I also noted the 2-ply support straps that are surprisingly very strong.
And for bondage play fans, the sex sling has multiple D-rings for restraint attachments and adjustable leather stirrups. And the best thing about it is clipping your favorite attachment on or off the D-rings is straightforward.
The Stockroom’s Leather Sling can be mounted on the ceiling or a 4-point swing stand. Sandra and I use it on the swing stand, which looks impressive in our humble sex dungeon.
So, if you’re looking for a comfortable and sturdy leather sling, the best BDSM sling is the Stockroom’s Leather Sling. The plush leather sheet, support straps, and multiple D-rings make it an all-in-one sex sling.
- Material: Leather
- No. of Hooks: Four
Pros:
- Sturdy and comfortable leather sling.
- A 4-point sling – stable and safe.
- The 2-ply leather support straps are strong.
- The multiple D-rings make it easy to customize your experience.
- There’s a pillow for added comfort.
Cons:
- Unfortunately, the mounting chains and rope are sold separately.
8. Fetish Fantasy Deluxe: Best Door Swing
The Fetish Fantasy Deluxe door swing is ideal for BDSM play fans looking for a simple yet effective solution to suspended sex. Unlike Screamer Dual Hook above, you don’t need a sex swing stand or a high beam ceiling to use the door swing – just swing it over a sturdy door, lock it up, and you’re good to go!
I was especially taken away by the broad 8″ seat that feels incredibly soft even when sitting on the swing for extended periods.
In addition, two stirrups and arm straps ensure the receiving partner is secure. Sandra loves holding onto them, which props her body up, giving me easy access to her genitals, especially during oral sex.
You don’t need a sex swing stand or a high beam ceiling to use the door swing – just swing it over a sturdy door, lock it up, and you’re good to go!
I sometimes try to step onto the door while holding onto the handles as Sandra backs into me, and it feels fantastic (though tedious).
So, if you’re looking for a compact swing that doesn’t need a sex swing stand to take up all your bedroom space, the best door swing is the Fetish Fantasy Deluxe door swing. It’s comfortable, secure, and relatively affordable.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
- Material: Nylon, ABS Plastic, Vinyl, Metal
- Weight Rating: 200 lbs.
- No. of Hooks: None
Pros:
- Well-designed over-the-door sex swing.
- Ideal for beginners and vacationers.
- The two stirrups and handles make it easy to use.
- Comparably affordable swing.
- It’s an excellent choice for people with limited BDSM playroom space.
Cons:
- You’ll need a sturdy door to be completely secure.
BDSM Beds And Beddings
While sex locations are abundant, the bedroom certainly witnesses the most action.
Hence, it’s essential to invest in quality dungeon beds and beddings to enhance your bedroom life.
9. Bondage Boutique: BDSM Bed Restraint
Bondage Boutique Under the Bed Restraint System was one of the first BDSM dungeon gear I ever had, and it’s perfect for people who don’t want to break the bank. Plus, unlike setting up an entire dungeon bed, it’s not time-consuming.
I especially like how easy to set up it is – simply stretch the nylon straps on top of the bed, adjust accordingly, and tuck them neatly between the mattress and box spring. And don’t be afraid; you can extend the cuff straps to 4 feet 2 inches and the connecting strap to 4 feet so that it will fit even a super king-size bed.
The BDSM bed restraint comes with four lightly padded ankles and wrist cuffs. And with velcro fasteners, taking them off is easy and quick. Plus, you can tighten and loosen the nylon straps depending on your partner’s comfort.
Overall, the Bondage Boutique Black Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint system is our favorite BDSM bed ties and will be a fantastic addition to your BDSM lifestyle. The adjustable design, ease of use, lightly padded cuffs, and velcro fasteners make for an amazing sex dungeon gear.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
- Material: Nylon Webbing, Plastic, Metal
- Wrist/Ankle Cuffs: 4 feet 2 inches
- Straps (cuff and connector): 4 feet
Pros:
- Easy to set up sex dungeon gear.
- It fits most beds with its extended straps.
- Lightly padded cuffs with velcro fasteners.
- Fully adjustable under the bed restraint system.
- Comparatively affordable.
Cons:
- A storage bag would’ve been good.
10. Sheets of San Francisco Fluid-proof Fitted Sheet
Sheets of San Francisco Fluid Proof Fitted Sheet is suitable for all BDSM enthusiasts. The machine-washable sheet is made from polyurethane fabric with a sensual rubber feel – just what you need to rub against your bare skin.
The fluid-proof sheet protects the mattress from bodily fluids like sweat, semen, and other liquids you don’t want to get soaked in the bed.
Sandra and I are what you’d call care-free freaks, and having a bed sheet that shields our mattress from ‘our sins’ was fantastic.
So, if you want to simplify BDSM aftercare even further, the best BDSM bed sheets are Sheets of San Francisco Fluid Proof Fitted Sheet. The machine-washable, 2-ply fabric has a smooth, sensual rubber feel you want in your sex dungeon furniture.
- Material: Polyurethane Fabric
- Sizes: Full, Queen, King, and California King
Pros:
- High-quality 2-ply polyurethane fabric.
- Unique sensual rubber feel.
- Machine-washable cover.
- It’s available in multiple sizes.
Cons:
- It’s on the expensive side – $209.
11. Stockroom Latex Vac-Bed
Stockroom Latex Vac Bed is suitable for experienced BDSM fun-seekers. The 14 gauge latex rubber immobilizes the submissive partner for a highly restrictive and sensual experience.
Sandra and I have used it for nearly two years, and I can tell you that this submissive gear is not for the faint of heart.
I especially liked how the 1.5″ PVC frame features holes along the inside to ensure the vacuum force is evenly spread during use. Unzip the latex rubber sac from the side and once the sub is inside, ensure they can breathe comfortably from the breathing hole. Then, zip up and attach your vacuum cleaner to the connector at the bottom.
Notably, the vacuum cleaner has to remain on for the Vac Bed to stay air-tight.
Pro Tip: Use a hollow gag to avoid the possibility of the breathing hole slipping and blocking the flow of air.
Besides the satisfaction of restricting your partner, especially for couples that enjoy domination, the air-tight environment feels incredible for the bondage partner. Trust me. I’ve been on both sides of the latex bed, and the experience is worth it on either. And especially for the receiving partner, the slow shrink wrapping feeling is incredible.
Overall, the Latex Vac Bed is ideal for couples looking for the most intense bondage pleasure. Whether you’re the dom or sub, the excitement around a shrinking latex vac bed is immense. Everything from the restrictive and sensual sensation to the power dynamics during play is exceptional.
Warning: Breathplay can be dangerous and is only for advanced BDSM players. Avoid it if you’re claustrophobic. Also, never leave anyone in the bed unattended or use the device for self-bondage! You do this at your own risk!
- Material: Latex Rubber, PVC
- Size: 95” x 35”
Pros:
- It delivers a unique type of sensation.
- Strong latex rubber and sturdy PVC frame.
- Breathing hole for the bondage partner.
- The 1⅝” PVC connector fits most household vacuum cleaners.
- It’s available in two colors – black and clear.
Cons:
- The Latex Vac Bed is expensive – $495.
- It’s for advanced BDSM fans only!
12. Dore Alley Dungeon Bed: BDSM Bed
In a world saturated with BDSM artillery, the Dore Alley Dungeon Bed takes the best bondage bed crown. Of course, it doesn’t come cheap – Sandra and I took years before we decided to add it to our sex dungeon.
But trust me! This BDSM bed frame is perfect! We had a customized bondage bed before but don’t miss anything with the Dore Alley.
I especially like how the entire bed and the BDSM head board are made from 14 gauge steel with perfectly welded seams. It looks solid and feels fantastic– bed bondage play on this beauty feels royal. And with a 5-year warranty, you can be sure the bed is here to stay.
Notably, it breaks into 6 pieces plus 3 stainless steel bed slats, making it easy to transport. Assembly is also straightforward; you only need a few set screws to fasten the joints.
In addition, restraint and sling hoops are easily accessible on top of the bedposts and rails so you can turn your stylish bed into a dungeon in minutes.
So, if you’re looking for a luxurious sex dungeon bed with all the bells and whistles you’ll need for full-spectrum BDSM play, the best BDSM bed is Dore Alley Dungeon Bed.
- Material: 14 Gauge Steel
- Size: Full, Queen, King, California King
Pros:
- High-end sex BDSM gear.
- Sturdy steel construction.
- All-in-one full spectrum of BDSM possibilities.
- Comfortable bed to sleep on.
- Easily accessible restraint and sling hoops.
- It’s available in two color variants and four sizes.
Cons:
- It’s costly – $3,295.
BDSM Stockades And Crosses
BDSM stockades hold you firmly in place with restraints for your neck, wrists, and ankles. Many resemble medieval town square punishments devices meant to humiliate criminals.
On the other hand, crosses are X-shaped devices meant to keep your naughty slave restrained with their limbs open in a submissive position.
13. Stockroom Stockade: BDSM Stockade
This bondage stockade from Stockroom reminds me of the slave driver sex machine. The all-in-one restraint device features four expandable spreader bars, a chest rest, five dungeon shackles, and a manual fuck rod – think of it as a manual fuck machine for anal and vaginal penetration.
I was most surprised by the versatility of the doggy-style stockade. All the sections can be removed easily or adjusted to meet your partner’s height and angle. What’s more, the fucking rod can be left loose for fucking or bolted down for refined containment.
The chest rest has a cushiony material that feels great against the skin. And for those who prefer leather cuffs, you can switch from the steel ones – customizing the sex stockade is bliss.
So, if you’re looking for a versatile enclosure that restrains your sex slave and can be customized to match your preferred length, height, and angle, the best BDSM stockade is Stockroom’s stockade. The quality steel bondage frame and unmatched functionality are top-tier.
Pro Tip: This product also makes a fantastic BDSM breeding bench.
- Material: Steel
- Measurements: Fully adjustable
Pros:
- Extremely versatile sex dungeon device.
- High-quality steel construction.
- You can reassemble it in minutes.
- The fully adjustable design makes it easy to customize your experience.
- Ideal machine for double penetration.
- The fucking rod accommodates different dildos up to 2″.
Cons:
- The stockade is expensive – $499.
14. Medieval Dungeon Wood Stockade: Hanging Medieval Stockade
This medieval hanging wood stockade boasts a well-measured balance between restriction and freedom. On the one hand, the neck and wrists are held in place while the rest of the body is free.
What I liked most about it was the versatility that allows your sex slave to either stand, kneel, bend, or lay down. And the best thing about it is it has a two-point hook system which is more stable than a single-point model.
The Schlossmiester pillory also comes with leather inlays to cushion the three holes for the neck and wrists so you don’t get bruise marks.
In addition, you receive a sex blindfold and flogger toy so you can immerse yourself in the experience.
Overall, the wooden stockade is perfect for all BDSM bondage fans. The hanging design makes the bondage board versatile and allows you to approach your sex slave from multiple angles.
Pro Tip: Add a separate spreader bar for the legs.
- Material: New Zealand Pine, Cedar, Steel, Real Leather, PU, Canvas
- Size: 8” x 10.24” x 2”
Pros:
- High-quality wooden stockade.
- The hanging design makes bondage play more fun.
- It’s great for medieval roleplay.
- Constraining yet safe – leather inlays.
- The package comes with extras to spice up play.
- It comes in a posh wooden case.
Cons:
- The device is not discreet.
- It needs to be mounted.
15. St. Andrew’s Cross X
This BDSM cross is a true work of art. It has a relatively convenient but straightforward design that will spice your sex life.
I especially liked the marine-grade aluminum construction, which has a posh look. Plus, the washable leather vinyl looks and feels fantastic against the skin.
Notably, the free-standing base allows the top and bottom to feel stable and comfortable throughout the experience. The cross even has unique cutouts to enhance the bottom’s balance during play.
Something else that caught my eye with St. Andrew’s Cross X was the multiple attachment points welded throughout its length. For bondage furniture, the attachment points present endless possibilities.
So, if you’re looking for a massive aluminum cross with a superb leather finish to add to your sex room, the best BDSM cross is St. Andrew’s Cross X! Everything from the solid construction to the multiple attachment points stands out.
- Material: Aluminium, Leather
- Cross Measurements: 35″ x 78″
Pros:
- Marine-grade aluminum construction.
- The washable leather vinyl feels plush against bare skin.
- Multiple attachment points for bondage play.
- Simple yet convenient design.
Cons:
- One of the most expensive tools of BDSM pleasure – $2,500.
BDSM Machines
Sex machines are precisely what the name says! It’s a mechanical thrusting machine that you can attach various attachments to. Let’s check out my favorite product from HiSmith.
16. Hismith: BDSM Sex Machine
In the world of sex machines, Hismith is one step ahead. Besides the solid steel construction, I enjoy the machine’s flexibility, allowing you to adjust the penetration angle, switch between dildos, and regulate the stroke speed.
The upgraded version includes a wireless remote control and a dedicated mobile app that brings long-distance partners into the game. The app also allows you to customize the experience further and share your patterns with a global Hismith community.
The machine requires some assembly but it’s pretty straightforward.
The sex machine boasts up to 240 strokes per minute. And surprisingly, the device is pretty quiet for such a powerful stroker.
Overall, the Hismith sex machine is suitable for all BDSM fans. Its solid steel construction, multiple controls, and flexibility make it the best bang for the buck.
Read my comprehensive review of the Hismith machine here.
- Material: Steel
- Measurements:42″ L x 17.68″ W x 10.23″ H
Pros:
- Solid steel construction.
- Versatile design with adjustable height and speed.
- It’s compatible with plentiful attachments.
- Multi-control ability (unlike other sex machines).
- Powerful motor – up to 240 strokes/minute.
- It comes with a free 8″ dildo.
Cons:
- It’s not the most affordable sex machine – $499.
- It requires setting up.
Update: Seeing the positive response, we went out of our way to negotiate a special deal with Hismith for you!
If you buy the sex machine directly through the Hismith site, you can use a discount code: HM10 to get 10% off + Free Spring Attachment ($30 value)!
BDSM Cages, Tables, And Benches
17. Hammered Steel Coffee Table/ Cage: BDSM Cage
This product is one of the most exciting bondage tables you’ll see here.
The cage-like bondage table merges the convenience of a coffee table with the elusiveness of a fetish bondage cage. This way, you can have your coffee comfortably while your submissive partner is caged on all fours. In addition, a lock system allows you to hold them in the cage for as long as you deem fit.
Notably, the cage has comfortable padding on the floor for the submissive partner’s knees. It also has an open-layout design so you can have your eyes on the sub at all times.
So if you’re looking for a heavy-duty steel and hardwood BDSM table/bondage cage, the best BDSM cage is the Hammered Steel Coffee Table. It even has a place for a padlock for total confinement.
- Material: Heavy-duty steel, Hardwood Top
- Measurements: 38″ L x 24″ W x 20″ H (cage), 42″ x 28″ (top)
Pros:
- Well constructed steel and hardwood bondage table.
- Open layout for the cage so you can have your eyes on the sub at all times.
- Unique dungeon centerpiece.
- There’s comfortable padding on the floor.
- It makes a classic coffee table for everyday use.
Cons:
- Limited space – it’s only for smaller subs.
18. Queening Chair: BDSM Rim Chair
Have you ever heard of BDSM chairs? How about oral sex seats? Well, this rim chair is one of a kind.
I love how it takes facesitting to another level while making it more bearable for the sub. And for the dominant partner, the chair frees your hands and enhances stability so you can carry on without worrying about toppling over.
Besides the sturdy metal and wood frame, the top has a comfortable, moisture-resistant cushion in readiness for extended oral sex.
I also liked the head hammock, which supports the sub’s head so you can please the queen for long. More so, it’s adjustable so the dom can pull your head up and immerse you in the experience.
The straps on the open side of the chair can be tightened around the armpits, so there’s no escaping from the queen’s wrath – Sandra loves my head up against her vagina, and the armpits secure so I don’t break loose.
Overall, the rimming chair is ideal for cunnilingus, tea-bagging, and rim jobs. The adjustable design and padded surfaces for both partners are great.
For more Queening chairs, check out this article.
- Material: Wood, PU Leather, Metal
- Measurements: 27″ L x 20″ W x 13″ H, 11″ x 8″ (face hole)
Pros:
- Sturdy metal and wood Queening chair.
- Comfortable cushion for the dominant partner.
- An adjustable hammock means the sub is always comfortable.
- The adjustable straps keep the sub in place.
- The box comes pre-assembled.
Cons:
- It’s a bit expensive – $399.99.
19. Obedience Extreme: BDSM Bench For Obedience Training
This bondage bench is made from sturdy steel with comfortable padding to enhance the submissive’s comfort. Most importantly, the padding is spread on the torso, legs, arms, and head. This way, the sub remains comfortable even when restrained for extended periods.
I was especially intrigued at just how versatile the BDSM bench was; I mean, Sandra and I have used it as a restraining, flogging, spanking, and punishing aid. The head, arm, and leg attachments can be removed or adjusted to match your height and comfort.
The straps are also adjustable and pretty sturdy. I especially enjoyed the greater access and deeper penetration in the doggy-style position.
Overall, this year’s best bondage bench is Obedience Extreme. The sturdy steel construction, adjustable design, and easy snap straps make it a must-have dungeon accessory.
- Material: Steel
- Measurements: 50″ W x 27” H
Pros:
- Simple and well-designed BDSM bench.
- Strong construction – can hold up to 400 lbs.
- It doubles as a sex position enhancer.
- You can adjust the arm, leg, and neck pads to fit your body size.
- Impressive quick-release buckles.
- The bench can also be used as a spanking or punishing aid.
Cons:
- 6″ and taller people might find the bench a little shorter.
20.
This hand-made milking table is the perfect addition to your sex dungeon. The penis furniture is made from solid wood with vinyl padding to enhance the dom’s comfort while torturing/milking is underway.
Notably, the S&M furniture comes in single and double options, with the latter featuring a second padded surface for the milker’s utmost comfort.
I also liked that the legs can be removed via screws for storage. I don’t really have to remove mine, but I’d imagine people with limited space will appreciate the flexibility.
Overall, the milking table is ideal for enjoying extended milking sessions and massage table bondage. With the padded design and a small head hole at the end, you can enjoy the experience and watch as the action unfolds. You can also add extra cushion inserts to enhance the milker’s comfort.
- Material: Wood, Vinyl
- Measurements: 72” L x 20“ W x 30” H
Pros:
- Hand-made wood and vinyl milking table.
- Padded for the ultimate comfort.
- Single and double options are available.
- The legs can be removed for easy storage.
- The fabric can be any color.
Cons:
- A few restraint attachment points on the BDSM massage table would have been great.
How We Picked the Products
Among the most popular sexual fantasies, BDSM sits at the helm. And while we can trace its roots to ancient Mesopotamia, this exciting collection of sexual actions remains relevant to this day, with more people aiming to stretch their imagination. Jessica and I are massive BDSM fans, constantly looking for new items to add to the sex dungeon.
I assembled all the sex furniture we’ve used over the years for this article. I also added the new releases so there was enough for the team to test and pick the best. Like always, the material’s body-safety degree was a significant elimination factor.
After assembling the bondage furniture for review, I invited my colleagues for what turned out to be a 1-month long ‘testing festival.’ I especially emphasized spacing out the individual reviews for a more authentic experience. And before the exercise commenced, I laid out the basis for assessment, encouraging the reviewers to pay attention to key decision-making factors that we could measure using well-defined quantitative metrics
- Design
- Safety
- Comfort
- Stimulations
- Build Quality
- Return Policy
- Maintenance
- Storage
- Price
During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Design (25%) and Safety (25%). After that comes Build Quality (10%), Comfort (10%), and Return Policy (10%).
After the team was done with the testing, they returned with the findings for me to analyze and decide the best picks. It took about 48 hours of comparison and deliberation with the research team. I also used BDSM furniture reviews from noteworthy vendors and opinions from sex toy forums to understand other peoples’ perceptions. And after the rigorous and time-intensive review process, we believe we have the best 20 bondage furniture to improve your sex life.
What Is BDSM Furniture?
Bondage furniture pieces are sex items designed to add maximum pleasure to your kink play. Most importantly, these sex products make pleasurable sex easier and give you more control of your partner’s body, a plus for people in dom-sub sex relationships—everything from wedges and chairs to benches and sex machines, swings, and slings, beds, and beddings, stockages, and cages, there’s something for everyone.
How To Use BDSM Furniture?
How you use your bondage furniture will depend on the specific model. For instance, you don’t expect to use a sex chair like a bondage cross. Do you?
So, after unboxing the furniture, read the manufacturer’s instructions so you can make the most of your new purchase.
Pro Tip: Clean and disinfect it before the first use. And always define a safe word beforehand.
How To Wash BDSM Furniture?
Cleaning your bondage furniture regularly is a great way to maintain its aesthetic value and enhance longevity. I recommend cleaning immediately after every use—the stains are fresh, so cleaning is easy. In addition, it ensures the furniture is always ready when you are.
Again, read the manufacturer’s cleaning guidelines because different materials require different care and maintenance. For instance, cleaning candle wax from a leather swing won’t be how you wipe your bondage cage. Is it?
How To Make Your Own BDSM Furniture?
We don’t recommend making your own homemade BDSM furniture due to the risk involved. But if you want to try it at your own risk, you can check out the below video about DIY BDSM furniture. We also have a comprehensive guide on how to build sex furniture.
Primary Sources
1. Aryelle Siclait & Korin Miller. A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. (2021, February 24).
2. Want Something New in The Bedroom? Spice It Up with Sex Furniture. (N.D.).
Thanks for reading 🙂
/Rachel
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