As a sexologist I’ve worked with countless people who live with chronic pain and one of the most common questions I get is how do I experience pleasure when my body is fighting me? Living with chronic pain changes how you move, how you rest, and yes – how you… Continue reading
Rachel Sommer, Ph.D. is a sexologist with years of experience in sex therapy and sexual wellness education. With a background in clinical research and real-world sex counseling, she’s helped countless individuals and couples deepen their intimacy through knowledge and open communication. Have you ever had a moment where you’re fully… Continue reading
When it comes to kinks and fetishes, few topics raise as many questions as golden showers (or water sports, as it’s often called). While the idea may seem unusual to some, the truth is they can be safe with the right precautions. As a sexologist with over 10 years of… Continue reading
When we think of intimacy we tend to focus on penetration as the main event. But there’s a whole treasure trove of non-penetrative activities that can be just as hot – if not more so. I’ve spent over a decade as a sexologist helping couples rekindle passion, intimacy, and connection.… Continue reading
Over the years, I’ve seen intimacy trends come and go, but one of the most interesting ones recently is the rise of furry sex toys. These soft, plush, and often animal-shaped products are flying off the shelves faster than you can say “velvety caress”. It’s a curious phenomenon, combining fantasy,… Continue reading
You’ve probably heard whispers about the nipple orgasm, that full-body ecstasy triggered by touch in just the right way. But is it just a myth or a reality? As a sexologist with over a decade of experience exploring the depths of human pleasure, I can tell you that it’s real,… Continue reading
Ever wondered how to increase your semen volume? Well, you’re not alone. I’ve been asked this question by many men during consultations and let’s face it—there’s something very satisfying about seeing more during your most intimate moments. Whether you want to impress a partner or want to feel better about… Continue reading
New year, new… you-know-what? As someone who’s been testing sex toys since 2016 (and casually since college), I know resolutions don’t just have to be about diet or the gym. Sometimes the best changes happen in the bedroom—where the stakes are higher, the rewards are sweeter, and let’s be real,… Continue reading
I’ve been a sexologist for over 20 years and have spent countless hours exploring human intimacy with my clients and readers. One thing I’ve learned is this: pleasure isn’t just about the obvious places – it’s about finding the treasure map of your body. To help you get started on… Continue reading
Foreplay is the appetizer to the main course but is too often rushed or ignored. I’ve spent over 10 years studying how couples can connect more deeply and I can tell you that it isn’t just a warm-up – it’s an experience in and of itself. It sets the stage… Continue reading
