How to Buy a Fleshlight? PRO TIPS from a Sex Toy Tester!

Featured imageThe first time buying a Fleshlight can feel like a daunting task. With dozens of models to choose from, embarrassing exposure with delivery people, or any other customers that might be in the shop with you, it may be one of those items you have resisted buying even though you would love to try.

To help you alleviate some of the strain, our experienced sex toy tester Tim Larson has written an extensive guide with everything to know about how to buy a Fleshlight. Let’s see what he has to say:

What is a Fleshlight Made Of?

A Fleshlight comprises three essential components: the sleeve, the case, and the cap.

The Sleeve

The sleeve is the part that brings pleasure to your penis and comes in a vast array of orifices, as mentioned above.

All Fleshlight sleeves are made from their patented SuperSkin silicone material. It has a silky soft feeling and is delightfully squishy, and it’s as close to the sensation of touching the skin as possible.

A Fleshlight sleeve

Nubs, ribs, and bumps line the sleeves in a mind-boggling amount of different patterns, all creating their unique feeling on your penis. Some can be a sensory overload, while others are a great way to enjoy watching porno even more.

The Outer Case

The Fleshlight case is a simple but high-quality hard plastic case that acts like a sheath for the sleeve. The cases look just like ordinary flashlights on the outside and feel like one in your hand until you remove the lid and see a vagina or a butthole staring back at you.

The outer case with the other Fleshlight parts

The rigid case keeps an even distribution of pressure along your entire shaft, making it feel like more than just your hand is doing the work.

Suction Cap

Lastly is the adjustable suction cap found on the adjacent end. Adjusting the cap changes the amount of air inside the case, creating different suction levels.

The cap is often a very overlooked but vital part of the equation, especially when you want to adjust the intensity of your experience. It can have the effect of pulling you inside of it, creating some of the best blowjob simulations possible.

Closeup of the end cap

The best part about how Fleshlights are constructed is that all these different pieces are interchangeable. Once you buy your first Fleshlight, you can purchase additional sleeves for endless masturbatory adventures.

You can read more about Fleshlights in this guide.

What Are The Different Models I Can Buy?

Lucky for us, Fleshlight has fulfilled all our horny desires with its vast array of different openings to place our members inside. No fetish or sexual orientation has been forgotten in their line of toys, and the bestsellers are vaginal, mouth, and anus openings.

Some of these openings look identical to your favorite adult movie stars, while the non-descript orifices let you use your imagination more. For those of you wanting to get extra-weird with some interstellar coitus, there are even alien orifices you can shoot your plasma into. There are also many products for those who are into men, too, with a vast range based around male stars.

Classic Fleshlight

The one that started it all. The original style Fleshlight sleeve is still a big seller, and it makes sense because why change what ‘ain’t broke?

Fleshlight Pink Lady Original

The Classic models have a pink sleeve and are available in various vagina and butt versions. You can buy these as a sleeve only or as a set with a case.

Fleshlight Girls

Fleshlight Girl products are fantastic for porn fans out there. If you have a favorite porn star, the odds are that the brand will have a sleeve molded directly from the adult star’s vagina or butt.

Four Fleshlight Girls sleeves

This feature means that not only are you able to fulfill your fantasies of fucking real porn stars, but you are also supporting them through the royalties they get, which I’m sure they’re thankful for.

Fleshlight Guys

The hottest male stars in straight porn are represented with true-to-size dildos that are incredibly lifelike, even down to tiny bumps and veins. The company uses the same SuperSkin material to feel as good as it looks.

Fleshlight Boys

The company hasn’t forgotten all the gay porn fans out there. The Fleshlight Boys range offers guys the chance to experience porn’s biggest gay stars in their homes. The range includes butt sleeve versions and dildos to keep the tops and the bottoms happy. You can read more about Fleshjacks here.

Quickshot

For a more portable and discreet stroking experience, the Quickshot range is a compact sleeve that makes fast work of an incredible orgasm. With an open-ended top and short overall length, the Quickshot is excellent for edging and focusing on specific areas of your cock.

Quickshot Vantage

The open-ended design also allows your partner to offer a blowjob while you stroke away.

Turbo

Fleshlight’s futuristic-looking blowjob simulator provides the most suction of all their toys and will have you popping your load in turbo time.

Fleshlight Turbo Thrust Blue Ice

Fleshskins

Fleshkins are a fantastic design I haven’t seen from other sex toy companies. A clear silicone stroker with finger grips allows you to use palm pressure to control how the sleeve feels on your cock.

Fleshskins Blue Ice

These toys are sleeve only without the outer plastic case, and they also come with an excellent (but slightly bulky) drying/storage case.

Along with this vast range already mentioned, I recommend checking out the Fleshlight website for a look at their extensive range of accessories and other toys. Their range continues to grow and evolve, which is why so many people have confessed to being Fleshlight addicts and can’t stop at just one toy.

I am Sold! Where Can I Buy One?

There are many online sex stores for purchasing a Fleshlight; however, the safest and easiest way is to do so directly from the official  website.

Doing so lets you know you are getting a genuine product, and you have the advantage of their complete range at your fingertips. You can also contact their customer services directly if you have any issues with it.

A person buying from an online sex toy retailer

Another great retailer that sells sex toys and Fleshlights is Lovehoney.

Lovehoney is a highly reputable online sex shop that works alongside the biggest names in the industry. They produce a line of toys and lingerie and have excellent blogs on sexual health and wellbeing. It is worth checking their sex toy deals, as they often feature great promotions on their own and other products from other brands.

Lastly is your good old-fashioned neighborhood sex shop. A brick-and-mortar store is one of the best Fleshlight retailers if you are a shopper who likes to see the goods they purchase in real life.

Which is the Cheapest Fleshlight?

The cheapest Fleshlights if you want to save money are the Quickshots which start at $34.95.

These are compact-sized strokers for your penis. And the main difference between these and a standard Fleshlight is that the Quickshots will not engulf your whole penis. The Quickshots are more like a beautiful handjob as they hold 3.5 inches of your penis and are lined with textures to get you off faster than expected.

Quickshot Stamina Training Unit Mouth/Butt

When it comes to full-sized Fleshlights, the Flight Pilot is the cheapest full-sized model. It is slightly more compact than the classic design, but it is still big enough for you to put all of your manhood inside (unless you are very gifted in girth or length).

The Pilots feature a nondescript orifice opening that looks almost like a jet engine. Still, don’t let this fool you into thinking it won’t be pleasurable. Due to its subtle yet straightforward design, you can manipulate it in all sorts of ways on your penis head.

Flight Pilot Fleshlight

The canals of this sleeve are lined with all kinds of bumps, ribs, fingers, and nubs to keep you groaning while your toes are curling. Remember that if you purchase a Pilot, not all sleeves will fit into its case; only Pilot sleeves will drastically limit your options.

The Classic Fleshlights sell for 69.95, and these can be an excellent option for a beginner.

The Classic Pink Lady is the oldest and best-selling one. And it features a vaginal opening and one consistent texture throughout the sleeve, meaning it won’t be too overwhelming for a first-time user. After you have purchased your first classic-sized sleeve, you can order any sleeve that interests you.

Fleshlight Pink Lady Original

The classic design offers the most extensive collection of sleeves available. Aside from the sleeve options are all the additional accessories available to keep your sessions new and exciting. From shower mounts to electric heaters, and even as far as an automated machine that will do all the work for you.

Fleshlight sleeve warmer

Given all the available options, it would be pretty hard to get bored of a classic Fleshlight.

Fleshlight Deals and Coupon Codes

The best place to find up-to-date deals on their products is directly on the Fleshlight website.

They even have a page entirely dedicated to discounts. Here, you can find what individual items are on sale and, most frequently, combination packages and special deals (like black Friday, Father’s Day, etc.) In addition, you can sometimes find a coupon code on third-party sites, so try a quick Google search if you can’t find anything good on the official site.

There is a buy two get one free deal on sleeves, which is a great time to stock up. We all know we’re not going to quit masturbating any time soon, and as you know, the same old feeling can get boring; that’s why you’re reading this article in the first place.

The gold VIP card with the QR code

In addition, when you order a Fleshlight, you will receive a Gold Member VIP card. It will allow you to unlock virtual content and show you other promotions Fleshlight offers.

Fleshlight Ordering, Shipping, Billing, and Returns

The products always come delivered to your door in a discretely labeled box to ensure privacy. The label on the box will read shipped by ‘ILF, LLC’; it will not say Fleshlight anywhere on the box or the label.

Returns are straightforward. All items can be returned for a full refund within 30 days if they are unopened, and you must cover the shipping cost of returning the item. Receive a defective or wrong item. Customer services will help to resolve this issue with you and send you a new item, with no need to mail the first item back to the company. There is a 90-day guarantee for such issues.

Are There Any Good Alternatives?

When it comes to male masturbators, of course, there is a wide array of alternatives to choose from other than Fleshlight.

Kiiroo Feel Strokers

Kiiroo Feel Strokers are perhaps the most similar to a Fleshlight. They, too, are composed of a case, a sleeve, and a suction cap. However, there are slight differences, such as the exterior design of the case and what the sleeve is made of.

6 Feelstars girls

In addition, they make their sleeve with TPE (Thermo Plastic Elastomer), which creates an even tighter fit as it stretches around your penis, unlike their silicone counterparts.

The Feel Strokers also have many sleeve options to choose from. And if you get tired of using your arm to get off, they have an automated system called the Keon to do the work for you. They cost the same as a classic Fleshlight, $69.

Onaholes

Onaholes are a Japanese male sex toy style that does an incredible and kinky job of satisfying your needs. These toys use super soft silicone that will engulf your entire penis, and their inside structures feel quite possibly the most realistic of any male sex toys on the market.

Meiki no Syoumei 05 Zhang Xiao Yu Onahole

Onaholes are different from Fleshlights as there is no rigid casing for them. Instead, they are giant molds made from TPE with an orifice opening. Often an Onahole will be shaped like a mini torso, mouth, or cute manga chick.

While their inside is ultrarealistic, your hand on the toy will dictate where you feel the most pressure. These are more expensive than Fleshlights, costing over $100 a piece.

You can read more about Onaholes here.

Arcwave Voy

The Arcwave Voy is another excellent option worth considering. It’s a compact-sized masturbator, much like the Quickshot Vantage; however, these are far superior. The Voy allows you to adjust the tightness of its grip with the simple twist of a dial.

Arcwave Voy with a dildo inserted

In addition, the sleeve inside is made from silicone and is lined with ribs that change as you adjust the dial giving you the ultimate control of how it feels. However, the Voy will not engulf your entire penis; just like the Quickshot, it is like a hand firmly gripping your shaft and moving up and down. These are available both on their website and Lovehoney for $99.

You can read more about Arcwave Voy here.

Tim

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