Do you want to give your partner a sensual footjob but don’t know where to begin? Or maybe you have a foot fetish and pondering how to bring it up with your partner. Then you came to the right place! Here we’re discussing everything about this pleasure-packed sex act, from how to ask for a footjob, and the best positions, to porn star techniques that leave your partner wanting more. Let’s address some commonly asked questions first and then talk about the techniques later on:
- Begin by ensuring cleanliness, trimming toenails, and applying lube to enhance glide. Do foreplay to arouse your partner and tease them with gentle touches from your feet.
- Remember to prioritize open communication, consent, mutual enjoyment, and relaxation throughout the experience.
- Experiment with different techniques, such as rubbing, stroking, or squeezing, varying speed, pressure, and motion to find what feels best for both of you.
- Explore different footjob positions, such as sitting back on your hands or doggy style, to find the most comfortable and pleasurable position.
Table Of Contents
- What Is A Footjob?
- How To Ask For A Footjob?
- What Does A Footjob Feel Like?
- Can I Orgasm From A Footjob?
- Do Women Like Giving Footjobs?
- What Should I Do If I Get Tired?
- How To Give A Footjob To Your Man In 8 Easy Steps
- Most Effective Footjob Techniques
- The Best Footjob Positions
- Are There Any Risks With Footjobs?
What Is A Footjob?
A footjob is a sex act where one person uses their feet to stimulate their partner genitals [1]. It covers everything from gentle teasing during foreplay to more intense rubbing that culminates in an orgasm. Footjobs are typically associated with a woman rubbing a man’s penis but can also be vaginal stimulation in a straight or lesbian relationship.
How To Ask For A Footjob?
Asking for a footjob can be a sensitive topic to ask your partner, so I recommend bringing it up casually. See how they react and ask if they want to explore it with you. Just make sure to take it at their own pace. Consent should always be the priority one for any sexual activity, a footjob included. Here are some more tips that can be helpful:
- Right Place and Timing: Ask the question in a private and comfortable setting where you both are relaxed.
- Open Communication: Express your interests openly and honestly. Let them know you find foot play arousing and want to explore it together.
- Be Respectful and Non-Judgmental: Approach the topic with sensitivity and respect for your partner’s boundaries. Avoid making assumptions or judgments about their reaction and be prepared to accept their response, whether a yes or no.
- Be Patient and Understanding: Give them time to think and don’t pressure them into doing something uncomfortable.
What Does A Footjob Feel Like?
Describing the sensation of a footjob involves understanding it from both a physical and psychological perspective:
- Physically, a foot job provides a unique sensation because of the different textures, pressures, and temperatures compared to other body parts. People describe it as anything from gentle and teasing to more intense rubbing or stroking, depending on the technique used.
- Psychologically, it can be highly arousing for people with a foot fetish. For someone with a foot fetish, incorporating feet into sexual activities can heighten arousal and satisfaction due to the specific erotic charge they get from feet. This psychological arousal can, in turn, enhance the physical sensations.
Even if you don’t have a foot fetish, it’s also a satisfying way to get your penis touched, rubbed, and teased. It’s a more playful way, as your partner’s feet don’t have the same texture and skills as their hands.
As an anonymous Reddit user explained:
It’s the combination of the feeling and the visual together. It’s also the amalgamation of your foot fetish with sexual sensations. The feeling of soft, oiled feet wrapped around your cock and stroking is like the greatest handjob ever. Tight arches, holding you snuggly, is like the softest, smoothest pussy you’ve ever been inside. Watching beautiful feet, which you are so attracted to, stroking the most sexual part of your body is mindblowing.
My wife has literally made me addicted to her footjobs. She completely edges and controls my cock for the entire session. It’s like my brain shuts down from the pleasure, and I lose track of time. A 15-minute footjob feels like it lasts hours. It is literally the only sex act that makes me drool uncontrollably.
Finally, when you get to cum on them, the release is so amazing, as you are satisfying both your need to orgasm and your foot fetish all at the same time.
Reddit user Randomfeet1982 sums up the visual aspect nicely:
I love the aesthetic look of beautiful feet wrapped around a hard cock. I find feet so sexy, so naturally watching soft, pedicured toes and high arches soles skillfully running up and down a cock just turns me on from a visual standpoint.
Can I Orgasm From A Footjob?
Yes! You can absolutely orgasm from a foot job, just like you do from a handjob or a blowjob. The only caveat is it may take some time before you experience an orgasm, especially the first few times.
Remember: It’s not a big deal if you don’t orgasm in the beginning. The goal is not just the orgasm but also the visual appeal and to experience a novel sensation, one that highlights the feet.
Do Women Like Giving Footjobs?
Just like with any sex act, preferences for giving footjobs vary wildly among women. Some like giving it because it’s a way to explore new sensations, connect with their partner, or fulfill their partner’s desires. Others are not interested at all or even disgusted by ty the idea.
As Quora user, Hailey Mathieu explains:
I find it really hot when a guy wants to get sexual with my feet. I have some friends who find it gross, but for me, it’s really sexy giving a guy a footjob. Especially if he sucks my toes, mmm damn. My current bf has a foot fetish, shoe fetish, and a sock fetish, and he told me a lot of his exes didn’t enjoy it, but some did. I guess it all depends on the girl.
What Should I Do If I Get Tired?
It’s totally normal to be tired after just 10 minutes. It’s a new skill; your endurance is initially low, like all cardio activities. To help you work up that stamina, here are some tips to help give your feet the tender, loving care they deserves between working them.
- Have your man help you move your feet. He can take your feet and use them to rub in circles using his hands. Or he can rub both your feet up and down his penis.
- You can also switch positions. If you’re sitting on your bed with your legs bent – try something more relaxing, like sitting on the edge of your bed instead. (We have our favorite positions listed in this article. More on that later.)
- Another trick is to use a pillow and place it under your legs. Stacking two pillows on top of one another and putting your legs on them helps relax your muscles.
- And our best tip: have your partner massage your feet between breaks. You deserve it. It’s an excellent way for your foot to feel relaxed, making it an enjoyable experience for both partners.
How To Give A Footjob To Your Man In 8 Easy Steps
Now that we’ve covered the most frequently asked questions, we get into the juicy parts. Here are the ten easy yet sensual steps to get started on your footjob journey.
1. Communication & Consent
The most critical step is communication and establishing consent with your partner. Ensuring both of you are comfortable and ready to perform a footjob is always the first step. Don’t feel pressured to do it if you’re uncomfortable with the whole ideas. Consent is sexy
When both partners agree, ask each other specific questions about the experience. How do I give him a foot job he enjoys? How much pressure does he like? When should we do it? This helps to better understand the other partner’s needs and desires.
2. Clean Yourself Up
I highly recommend trimming your toenails before getting down to business. Get them clean-cut to avoid hangnails or sharp edges nicking your partner’s most sensitive areas. It also makes them look beautiful and cute, a big part of the experience.
Hygiene is important when touching someone’s genitals so always wash your feet before getting started. It also removes any awkward smell that makes the experience unpleasant.
Optionally, paint your toe nails to make your feet even sexier. I recommend a bold nail polish color to accentuate your feet. Red is typically the best color, but check with your partner about what they prefer.
3. Add lubricant
Lubricant is essential for every sex act, footjobs included. Lather your feet with your favorite lubricant (water-based, silicone-based, or massage oil) – Anything works! Keep the bottle close so you can apply more as needed. You always need more lube than you think.
Pro Tip: if you want a lube that takes the cake – coconut oil is your best bet. It leaves the soles extra soft while making it easier to glide your feet. However, please note that coconut oils are not compatible with all condom materials.
4. Foreplay
Let your feet wander around his whole body to get him really aroused. Caress his upper body, and let him suck on your toes before moving them down to his thighs. Now, tease his penis with toe-wiggling and apply some gently pressure on his testicles.
He can return the favor by giving you a foot massage. Let him massage the soles and the spaces between your toes with his thumbs, ending with him sucking and licking the whole foot. Yummy!
5. Vary Speed, Pressure & Motion
Don’t do just one thing with your feet; use different speeds, pressure, and motions. You can start with light or gentle pressure, and when you’re ready to take things up a notch, increase the speed by rubbing your dominant foot faster.
You can also use your toes to trace the outline of the penis and glide your feet up and down. Rub it in circles with the upper half of your foot.
Wrap your feet around the shaft and make an up-and-down motion, applying more pressure by ‘closing’ your feet on his penis. Release pressure when going down and apply more pressure when going up. This will make him go wild!
6. Ask For Feedback
Feedback is essential to know if you’re doing everything right – especially if it’s your first time. Some like it soft and gentle, while others want more pressure. The only way to know is to ask.
You can ask your partner directly what he is thinking about your techniques. Then, adjust from there. Feedback allows you to take your techniques to the next level (if you want a next time, of course).
His emotional response during the act is also essential. Does his facial expression show he’s enjoying footplay? Or is he moaning like he loves your footjob? These are some good indicators whether he’s aroused or not.
7. Let Him Cum On Your Feet
When you’re nearing climax, let your partner know so they can prepare and adjust accordingly. Aim carefully to ensure that the semen lands on your partner’s feet, avoiding other areas like the face or eyes.
Clean up afterward and discuss the experience openly and positively, ensuring that both partners feel satisfied and respected in their sexual exploration.
Most Effective Footjob Techniques
With the basic stuff out of the way, let’s move on to the more advanced footjob techniques to leave your man in awe of you. Let’s start with our fan-favorite: the solejob.
Solejob With Both Feet
The solejob is the go-to technique for good reasons. You’re in a flexible position, there’s skin-to-skin contact, and your partner sees all the action from where he’s lying. (Perfect if your partner has a foot fetish!)
- Start by getting in a comfortable position on the bed or a chair.
- You face your partner, who is lying down in a prone position on the bed or the ground.
- Bend your knees and have the soles of your feet reach his genitals. You can add lube to your partner’s penis.
- Now, place your partner’s dick in between the soles of your feet.
- Rub up and down. It might take a while to get used to but work at a comfortable pace.
- Once you get the hang of it, you can try rubbing up and down faster or squeezing the soles of your feet tighter to let him experience more pressure.
Stimulate the Frenulum With Your Toes
This next technique is a relaxed way to stimulate your partner while still hitting his sensitive spot using your toes. Many men love to have their frenulum licked, tickled, or touched during sex. A footjob is no different.
- Locate your partner’s frenulum, the narrow ridge behind the penis head. It’s a highly sensitive part of his glans, perfect for toe touching.
- Have his cock resting on his stomach. Using your toes – lightly tap the frenulum to tease it.
- You can also stroke his frenulum with your big toe. It’s an easy motion as your toe bends naturally up and down. This position is also an excellent way to avoid getting tired quickly.
- You can apply pressure by placing the heel closer to his body and moving your foot back.
Rubbing The Tip With Your Sole
This technique is the best if you’re looking to give maximum pleasure by focusing only on one spot.
- I recommend soft soles for this technique. You can use massage or coconut oil to make your soles feel supple.
- Move the arch of one foot in a circular motion over the penis head.
- You can also rub his erection in an up-and-down motion.
- Finally, mix both the up and down and circular motions. One foot can do this technique while the other tickles his balls.
Massage His Perineum
A Perineum massage is one of the most pleasurable things you can do for your man. Here’s how to do it with your foot:
- You must first locate your partner’s perineum, which is the area between the scrotum and the anus.
- Place your toes on the perineum area and apply light pressure.
- You can try toe-wiggling to tease your partner’s perineum. You know you’re doing it right once you feel his muscles tense.
- Continue by gently pressing or wiggling your toes or combining it with a blowjob (if you have the flexibility).
Stroking The Penis Between Two Toes
This one is for men who like it a bit tighter.
- Separate your big toe and your middle toe. Use your hand to separate your toes if you can’t naturally spread them apart.
- Place the open space between your toes on the penis head and stroke it up and down.
- You can make it easier by holding your leg and moving it up and down.
Massage His Balls With Your Feet
Of course, let’s not forget about giving the balls some action.
- Place your toes on your partner’s testicles and do a tapping or a toe-wiggling movement.
- You can also use the soles in circular motions.
- If he wants more pressure on the balls, you can position your feet downwards for more stimulation.
Blowjob & Footjob
Does this sound a tad complicated? Worry not; it’s simpler than it sounds. You can perform oral sex while giving your partner a foot job in 3 easy steps.
- Get into a seated position on your partner’s hips. Have him spread his legs apart, and you’re in the middle. You’re in a yogi-like sitting position with your legs crossed on top of one another.
- Give him a blowjob by kissing, licking, or sucking at the head of his penis.
- Meanwhile, your foot resting on top of your knee is sliding up and down his genitals.
Use A Blindfold
Bring a blindfold into your action for some fun sensory play. You can also incorporate some light bondage, like restraints and feather whippers.
- Tie a dark blindfold around your partner’s eyes. A sleeping mask also works.
- Start the act by doing his favorite footjob technique.
- Do some dirty talking to spice things up further. For example, whisper sensual phrases or let him know how you’re feeling. He will go nuts!
Wear Stockings, Socks, Or Ankle Jewelry
Foot fetishists are into stockings, socks, and jewelry, and they are especially attracted to feet wearing those accessories and footwear. It’s an easy and great way to amp up your foot game in the bedroom.
- You just need to wear stockings or socks for this one. They are soft, fuzzy, and give a tickling sensation on the penis.
- You can also wear ankle jewelry to make your feet look even sexier. It’s a little something to make your feet look extra desirable.
The Best Footjob Positions
Let’s wrap up this article by discussing the three best footjob positions. We picked these three because they are pleasurable for the receiver and not so tiring for the giver.
1. Sit Back & Relax On Your Hands
Sit like you are on a beach or picnic with your hands behind your back for support. Bend your legs in front of you and position your feet on your partner’s genitals. It should look like the illustration below:
2. Doggy-Style Facing Away From Him
Go down on your hands and knees as in the doggy-style position. Back into your partner’s body and stretch your feet out until it touches his penis. Your soles should face the ceiling. It should look like the illustration below:
3. Sitting On a Chair (Most Dominant Position)
Last but certainly not the least is the dominant chair position. You’re on top, in control, and he has you as the view. It should look like the illustration below:
Are There Any Risks With Footjobs?
Footjobs are generally low-risk activities. The only things to watch out for are dirty feet and foot cramps, but proper hygiene should lower the risk of contracting an infection. It’s a simple step to ensure you’re having fun while keeping it safe.
Have fun!
Rachel
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