Wand vibrators are powerful beasts. While this is perfect for some, others may not like this kind of intensity. And that’s totally a-okay. But how can you make the wand vibrator less intense? No sweat! Our sex toy expert Rachel Sommer gives some helpful tips that you can easily try at home. Let’s check them out!
- Using a wand attachment: Wand attachments are designed to target specific areas of the body but they are also great for dampening the vibrations. Popular attachments include the G-spot stimulator and the rabbit attachment. More on that below.
- Using a condom: Using a condom can somewhat help lessen the vibrations. It should be snug enough to stay in place but not too tight that it affects the vibrations. Adding a drop of water-based lube to the condom can reduce friction.
- Using a towel: A towel can be folded into a rectangular shape and dampened with water to help it stick to the wand head. The towel will help absorb some of the vibrations and make them feel less intense.
- Holding it and using your fingers: Using your fingers to create a barrier between the vibrator and your body can also help reduce the intensity. It also allows you to have more control over the pressure.
- Buy a mini wand vibrator: Mini wand vibrators have a similar shape and function to traditional models but with less power. They are a great option for people who want to enjoy the benefits of a wand vibrator without the intensity.
Understanding Wand Vibrators
Wand vibrators are powerful wand-like sex toys designed to provide intense clitoral stimulation. They are typically only used for external stimulation of erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, nipples, and penis. Wand vibrators are also commonly used for body massage and relaxation, thanks to their deep, rumbly vibrations.
How to Lessen The Vibrations of a Wand Vibrator?
Most wand vibrators have multiple vibration settings, ranging from low to high intensity. However, some users may find that even the lowest setting is too intense for their liking. If you’re looking to lessen the vibrations of your wand vibrator, there are a few things to keep in mind.
First, it’s important to understand wand vibrators are designed to be powerful. If you’re looking for a gentler vibration, maybe you need to consider a different type of sex toy, such as a bullet or a finger vibrator, which has more buzzy vibrations.
That being said, there are a few things you can try to lessen the vibrations of your wand vibrator. Let’s start with the most straightforward tip: using a wand attachment.
1. Using A Wand Attachment
Buying a wand attachment is an excellent way to lessen the intensity while adding a bit of versatility at the same time. They come in many different shapes and sizes, and you use them to target specific areas of the body – even a penis.
One popular attachment is the G-spot stimulator which has an internal arm for G-spot stimulation. Another option is the rabbit attachment, which stimulates both the clitoris and the G-spot, letting you experience a blended orgasm (Yummy!)
Related: 15 Best Magic Wand Attachments For Amazing Orgasms!
We recommend researching the material before hitting that buy button. Silicone attachments are the best as they are soft and flexible, and being non-porous makes them easier to clean and body-safe.
To use an attachment, simply slide it onto the head. Make sure it’s secure and in the right position before turning on the vibrator. You may need to experiment with different attachments to find the one that works best for you.
2. Using A Condom
Using a condom is a decent budget alternative that can help lessen the vibrations somewhat. Start by choosing a suitable condom size and thickness that fits the head. It should be snug enough to stay in place but not too tight that it affects the vibrations. You may need more than one to dampen the vibrations further.
First, roll the condom onto the wand vibrator, leaving some space at the top to prevent it from tearing during use. You can also add a drop of water-based lube to the condom to reduce friction and make it easier to slide onto the wand vibrator.
Using a condom not only lessens the intensity of the vibrations but also makes cleaning up easier. After use, simply remove the condom, dispose of it properly, and you’re done!
3. Using A Towel
Using a towel on your wand vibrator not only lessens its intensity but also makes the rumbling sound a whole lot quieter. Here’s how you can do it:
- Fold a towel into a rectangular shape about the same size as the wand head.
- Dampen the towel slightly with water to help it stick to the vibrator head.
- Place the towel over the head and secure it with a rubber band or hair tie.
- Turn on the vibrator and adjust the speed to your liking.
The towel will help absorb some of the vibrations and make them feel less intense. However, keep in mind that using a towel may also reduce the direct stimulation of the vibrator, so you may need to do some trial and error to make sure that you don’t fully nullify the vibrations.
4. Holding It and Using Your Fingers
Another technique is to use your fingers to dampen the intensity. Just place your fingers on the head and apply pressure to your liking. You can also use your fingers to create a barrier between the vibrator and your body, which can help reduce the intensity of the vibrations.
As you get aroused, you can tolerate more of the vibrations so it wouldn’t hurt to slowly try making some direct content with your clit using the wand vibrator. If it’s still too intense, you can easily go back to using your fingers as barriers. Remember, listen to your body and adjust the intensity to your comfort level.
5. Buying A Mini Wand Vibrator
If nothing works to your satisfaction, it might be time to buy a smaller version. Smaller models have a similar shape and function to traditional wand vibrators but with less power.
Magic Wand Mini (image below) is a great option for people who want to enjoy the benefits of a wand vibrator without the intensity of the vibrations. They can also be a good choice for people who prefer more targeted stimulation, as the smaller head allows for more precise stimulation. There’s also a Micro version with even milder vibrations.
Buy a model with a good amount of vibration settings so you can find the perfect intensity level. Some models also come with interchangeable heads, allowing you to customize your experience even further.
Choosing the Right Wand Vibrator
Some things are essential factors when selecting your wand vibrator. First of all, you want to ensure it’s safe to use. Look for products made from body-safe materials, such as silicone, and make sure they are free from phthalates and other harmful chemicals.
Another important factor is whether the vibrator is rechargeable or corded. Rechargeable products are more convenient and easier to use, as you don’t have to worry about cords getting in the way. However, corded wands are more powerful and consistent in terms of vibrations.
It’s also good to consider whether the vibrator is waterproof or not. If you plan on using it in the shower or bath, you need a waterproof product. Additionally, if you plan on using it for massage or other non-sexual purposes, a cordless option may be more convenient.
Be sure to read wand vibrator reviews from other users before making a purchase. By reading reviews from verified customers you get a better idea of the quality and performance of the model you’re considering.
Happy vibing!
Rachel
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