A person with a vagina feels many sensations during sex or personal pleasure. All these sensations make you feel good, but not all will put you on cloud nine. One that does the trick, though, is squirting.
You have probably seen it in pornos. Or maybe your partner told you how unique their experience was. And now you’re probably Googling information about squirting. The good news is that most people can do it with a little bit of practice.
If squirting is one of your sexual cravings, you have cum to the right place. Grab your partner or dildos as we set out to improve our sex lives. This clinical sexologist is here to satisfy your needs!
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What Is Squirting?
Squirting (or female ejaculation) refers to the expulsion of fluid through the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm, often stimulated by the G-spot [1]. This fluid primarily originates from the Skene’s glands, also known as the female prostate, located near the urethral opening. The composition and volume of the squirted fluid can vary, sometimes containing elements from the urinary bladder, leading to a range of experiences from a slight release to a significant gush.
Addressing myths and misconceptions about squirting is crucial for a healthier perception of this sexual phenomenon. Not all individuals with vaginas can or will experience squirting, and its presence or absence does not define sexual satisfaction or prowess. Additionally, dispelling the myth that squirting is merely urination can help individuals feel more comfortable with their bodies and sexual responses, fostering a more positive sexual experience.
How Does Squirting Feel?
Female Redditors describe it as relieving and relaxing. In a nutshell, when you release, you feel good, and it feels like the butterflies want to escape your tummy through your belly button. From the moments leading up to release, the pleasure has begun.
Squirting has been described in different ways by different people. More often than not, the feeling is described positively, with one Reddit user in this conversation calling it heaven.
Can Every Female Ejaculate?
A study conducted by the international society for sexual Medicine shows that only about 10-50 percent of women experience ejaculation involuntarily. Therefore it might be a rarity, but it should be possible especially given the number of porn stars making it rain.
You’re here because you’re interested in this topic, and I believe because of this interest, you’ll have the catalyst to make it happen.
Is Squirting Pee?
No, squirting is not simply peeing. The fluid released during squirting can contain urea, uric acid, and creatinine, substances also found in urine, contributing to confusion about its nature [2]. However, squirting is associated with sexual arousal and orgasm and involves the expulsion of fluid through the urethra. The experience of squirting can vary greatly among people, with some never experiencing it, partly due to the fear of urinating during sexual activity. Despite the similarities in composition, squirting is a distinct physiological response to sexual stimulation.
Pro Tip: To build confidence, make sure your bladder is empty before sex.
How To Make Yourself Squirt?
Nobody knows your body better than you. You know all the right places to touch and key areas to explore in your beautiful body, and you can gauge all the reactions quickly.
Therefore, making yourself ejaculate might come a bit easier than with partnered sex. Here are some steps you can try on your own.
- Empty your bladder: An empty bladder will assure you that just squirting fluid will leave your body, not pee.
- Set the stage and mood: Put some new sheets on the bed, as the case may be. Turn on low lights, light a scented candle, and play your favorite sensual songs.
- Please take off your clothes, take a deep breath, relax your mind, and lay on your back: Make sure you are relaxed; think of it as a journey where you want to reach a destination with a gift at the end. Stay in a missionary sex position; for starters, making it easier to reach the G-spot, located around the top of the vagina close to the belly button.
- Use your Fingers: Finger motion is essential during female sexuality arousal. Start with clitoral stimulation. Get it aroused, rub it, flick it, etc. Just show it, love. Once aroused, it begins to respond by swelling because the clitoris possesses erectile tissue. Just like a penis, the clitoris can be erect. While playing with your clitoris, stick two fingers into your vagina and move it around the top of your vaginal wall. Move the two fingers like you are called (come hither) and use your thumb to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously. By now, you are already wet and feeling all the tingles.
- Use sex toys: If you haven’t already had your squirting orgasm, you can involve your toys. Use a dildo for the same effect as a penis. Let the dildo go deep to the G-spot area while you still play with your clit. You can use a vibrator as well.
- Switch positions: Don’t hesitate to change your style to spice things up. Change from the missionary position to the doggy position. If you’re flexible enough, you will have easy access to the G-spot from that position.
- Release: If you follow these steps carefully, you may have your fountain flowing and already feel relaxed by now.
- Clean up: Before you consider taking a nice little nap, be sure to clear out any stains and take a shower, then relax.
How To Make Your Partner Squirt?
Many people prefer penis-in-vagina intercourse in contrast to riding solo. But sadly, not all partners know the right buttons to push to make a female ejaculate.
If you want your partner to help you achieve a squirting orgasm, they need to know certain things about your body, especially the vagina.
The vagina has a mind of its own, and once there is sexual stimulation, the vaginal muscles begin to react by either swelling or pushing to release fluids from certain glands.
If you want to make your partner peak, follow these steps.
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- Put them in the mood: After they empty the bladder, lay them down and make them relax. Let them know you are doing this to please and satisfy them.
- Take off their clothes: You definitely would not want to get the whole place messy, so it is advisable to ensure your partner takes their clothes off.
- Emphasize foreplay: Many people (especially straight men) need to pay more attention to foreplay. Use three fingers, one on the clit and two inside the vagina, as you try to locate the G-spot, which is a few inches inside towards the vaginal roof. While you do this, be sure to use your mouth to eat your partner out while pleasing their other erogenous zones. This way, they is receiving sexual pleasure from all angles at the same time!
- Try Toys: Using toys during sex will allow you to reach vaginal parts you may not ordinarily get to. These toys have curves that you can use to your advantage. At this point, you can bet they are already grabbing you tight and screaming your name.
- Have sex with her: If they haven’t already had their orgasm, you can now whip out your penis or strap on your dildo or whatever floats your boat. Put your partner in a doggy or missionary position while still stimulating other parts of the vagina.
Best Sex Positions For Squirting
To have good sex, you probably tried out the best of the best sex positions, and the same goes for squirt during sex. Positions that give better access to the G-spot are the best.
Once you stimulate your partner’s G-spot, they are more likely to ejaculate.
Doggy style is the best position for squirting because it allows the penis to hit your G-spot. The arc on your back creates the perfect angle for your partner.
Another good squirting position is the crab position. In this position, you stay on top of your partner while leaning backward, allowing the penis to hit the G-spot. It also keeps you in control, allowing you to reposition yourself till the experience feels right.
There is another excellent position some have termed the G-spot position. In this position, hip elevation is the key.
Best Sex Toys To Make You Squirt
Adult toys are essential when it comes to sex. And today, you can find many products, but my favorites are still the classic dildo and vibrator. Some products are perfect for squirt during sex, and you can find a list of them here.
Related: How To Squirt With A Vibrator? PRO TIPS from a Sex Toy Tester!
Volume Of Squirt Liquid
A 2013 study with 320 participants estimates that when women ejaculate, they release between 0.3 milliliters of liquid to 150 milliliters.
Exercise For Pelvic Floor Muscles
Here are just a few parts of the vaginal reproductive organ you should know in your quest to ejaculate.
- Front Vaginal wall
- G spot
- Clitoris
- Pelvic Floor
- Skene’s glands
- Vaginal canal
- Urethral sponge
The Pelvic floor muscles need to stay fit for the general well-being of your lady parts. Your sex life will improve overall and if you choose to bear children, keeping the pelvic area fit helps ease childbirth.
There are various exercises to try; here is a list.
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