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Do you want to learn to squirt with a vibrator (or with a partner)? This is something that a lot of people with vaginas — and their partners — want to make happen. We will say up front that not all people with vaginas are able to squirt, but our experienced sex toy tester, Sandra Larson, will walk us through some tips and tricks. The most important thing, though, is to have fun trying!
Squirting will not happen unless you are extremely aroused, so do whatever it takes to get yourself there (erotica, fantasyland, etc.). Then use your vibrator to stimulate your clitoris. As you approach orgasm, focus on the front wall of your vagina; this is where the Skene’s gland is located and that is what produces the “squirt.”
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What Is Squirting?
Long story short: squirting is when the vulva expels fluid (more than just getting wet) during orgasm. Scientists, sexologists, and sex-havers are still debating exactly what this liquid is and where it comes from. Most analyses conclude that “squirt” is diluted urine with some secretions from the Skene’s gland, which is generally considered to be the female equivalent of the prostate gland and the secretions resemble prostate fluid.
More important than chemical composition, though, is that most women who can squirt report that it is part of an intensely pleasurable orgasm experience. Everything we’re suggesting to get to the squirt is also geared to increasing the intensity of your orgasms.
Strengthening your pelvic floor and pelvic muscles with gentle exercise (the key here is to do it consistently, not to push yourself in any one session) is one thing to try. It’s good for your health in general, and it’s also good for your orgasms.
G-spot orgasms are also more likely to result in squirting. If you’re not familiar with your G-spot, let this be your motivation to learn! The G-spot is a bundle of nerves located on the front wall of your vagina, about an inch or two (all bodies are different!) past the opening.
The easiest way to locate it is to insert two fingers in your vagina, nails to the back and finger pads to the front, and make a “come hither” motion with your fingers. Your fingers should feel a slightly spongy spot, and your vagina should also let you know when you’ve located the G-spot. (You may feel like you need to pee. That’s normal, and it’s also an indicator that yep, you found it!)
How to Squirt With a Vibrator
As we mentioned above, squirting is not likely to happen unless you are extremely aroused, and preferably with a good deal of buildup. Vibrators are so efficient at helping people with vulvas orgasm that sometimes it happens very quickly. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that sometimes, but if you’re going for the squirt, you’ll need to draw it out. Treat yourself to as much lovely foreplay as you can stand! Read on for a step-by-step guide.
1. Drink Water and Go Pee Before Starting
You can’t squirt if you aren’t adequately hydrated. Enjoy a nice glass or two of ice water a half-hour or so before your play time, and then empty your bladder before you get started. Don’t overdo the water, because you probably won’t want to have to get up to take a bathroom break once things get good (but if you do, you do, and that’s okay — it’s just part of having a human body).
2. Cover Your Bed
Squirting is natural, body fluids are natural, and there is no shame in being messy sometimes. But also, it’s nice not to have to do a lot of cleanup afterwards.
Cover your bed with a large, absorbent towel or a waterproof covering. A fabric shower curtain works well. You can also buy special waterproof sex blankets at adult-oriented retailers. They are expensive, though. Waterproof “pet blankets” work just as well and some are very nice. You can get them in elegant solid colors and no one will know the difference.
3. Get Aroused (A Lot!)
We’ve said it a few times already and we’ll say it again: you probably won’t be able to squirt unless you’re extremely aroused and you’ve built up some tension. Your pelvic muscles need to be fully engaged and you need to get yourself to a very strong orgasm.
Get yourself set up so that you’re comfortable and relaxed. Make sure that you have lube, a cold drink, a soft towel, or anything else you need close at hand. Dim the lights. Set the scene with your favorite soft or hardcore adult content or whatever gets you tingly.
4. Find Your G-Spot and Stimulate it
G-spot stimulation is most likely to produce a squirting orgasm. The G-spot is located on the front vaginal wall. Recent research indicates that the clitoral structure is far more extensive than we previously believed, with over 90% lying underneath the skin. The G-spot is part of this network, and stimulating the G-spot also stimulates the internal crura and bulbs.
The A-spot (anterior fornix erogenous zone) is a couple of inches deeper in the vagina than the G-spot. It is linked to dramatically increased lubrication and intense orgasms, so you may want to invite it to the party as well.
Apply good-quality water-based lube to your G-spot vibrator and to your body. Most G-spot vibrators have a slight curve, like a banana, and that’s a good thing. Hold the toy in one hand between your legs, and aim the curved tip at your belly button. You can also try a squatting position, which is great for deep penetration that targets both the G-spot and the A-spot. Sex pillows with toy mounts are very helpful here.
Take a deep breath and gently insert the sex toy into your vagina (or lower yourself onto it). You may feel a little stretching, and that is normal and expected, but stop immediately if you feel pain. Turn your vibrator on to the lowest setting, and let your body get used to it. When you’re ready, experiment with different patterns and intensities until you hit your sweet spot.
5. Don’t Forget Clitoral Stimulation
Stimulating the clit and the G-spot simultaneously can make your masturbation and orgasm even more powerful. The best way to do this is with a rabbit vibrator or another sex toy intended for dual stimulation. If you are very coordinated, you can use separate vibrators for the G-spot and the clit. This gives you more control and lets you choose different types of stimulation, but it can be a bit tricky to manage.
Pro Tip: Edging isn’t just for people with penises! The buildup can make your orgasm more intense, which increases the chances of a successful squirt.
How to Squirt During Partnered Sex
A lot of what we just explained works for partnered sex too! Hydrate, enjoy plenty of physical and mental foreplay, target the G-spot — and most importantly, enjoy the sensations. Ask your partner to help you get close to orgasm, back off, and build back up again (edging).
Lying on your back with a firm pillow under your hips, or on your stomach with the pillow under your pelvis, will help your partner access your G-spot with their penis, fingers, or a vibrator. Doggy-style — on your hands and knees with your partner behind you — also works very well, especially if you are having sex with a person with a penis, because in this position, most penises and vaginas align very well for almost-effortless G-spot stimulation.
Remember that it won’t be easy to orgasm at all, let alone powerfully enough to squirt, if you are feeling shy or under pressure. This is a very intimate experience to share with a partner when you are completely comfortable with your body and sharing your body with your partner. If you are new to trying to squirt, you may want to do some solo experimenting before inviting your partner to play.
Choosing the Right Tool for the Job!
G-Spot Vibrators
There are lots of great G-spot vibrators out there, ranging from the most basic and budget-friendly to truly luxurious masterpieces that can run into four- and even five-figure price tags. No matter which side of the spectrum you are shopping, we recommend choosing a vibrator made of waterproof, non-porous, body-friendly material like medical-grade silicone.
The Dame Arc was the top performer in our comprehensive review. The Arc’s curve was perfectly engineered to hit the sweet spot for most of our testers and reviewers, and the strong motor delivers powerful deep vibrations. It is made of body-safe silicone so you can enjoy it without any worries; plus, it is easy to clean and care for. It’s not the only good G-spot sex toy that we tested, though, so feel free to read through the guide if there are specific features that you are interested in.
Clitoral Vibrators
We tested these too! The We-Vibe Touch X was the clear winner, although again, there were plenty of other good choices that you wouldn’t go wrong with. The Touch X is discreetly petite with an ergonomic design that feels great in the hand. It also feels great elsewhere, with powerful vibrations and a menu of settings to choose from.
Great So Far, But Where To Buy Them?
Our favorite online retailers have excellent selections, great customer service, and fast discreet shipping. We trust and recommend Lovehoney, Babeland, and Good Vibrations.
If you’d prefer to shop in person, or if you want your toy today, adult retailers have come a long way. They are no longer shacks with blacked-out windows and plenty of parking for 18-wheelers. Many retailers have gone upscale with knowledgeable, professional, and often female staff.
Final Thoughts
Squirting has gotten a lot of attention in adult content and forums. This is understandable; it’s exciting and visually appealing. It’s a tangible sign that a person with a vulva has orgasmed, because that doesn’t always happen in porn. It’s also a lot of fun when it happens! But (solo or partnered) sex and orgasms are a lot of fun even if squirting doesn’t happen. Not all bodies with vulvas can squirt, just like not all bodies with prostates can achieve hands-free prostate orgasms. We think that sex is more fulfilling when we focus on what our bodies can do rather than what they can’t, so if it happens? Great! If it doesn’t? Also great!
Happy vibing!
Sandra
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