Looking to discover the secrets of squirting using a vibrator? Then this is your lucky day because our sex experts have some juicy tricks to help you unlock this intense, sought-after pleasure! Now, it’s important to note this may not be possible for everyone, but with the right approach and a touch of practice, you might just unlock the best orgasms. With all that being said, let’s get down to business!
You need to be aroused. The more aroused the better (watch porn or think about your favorite fantasy). Then, focus on stimulating your clitoris with the vibrator. As you get closer to that orgasmic bliss, start to focus on the top wall of your vagina. This is where the Skene’s gland is located and where the magic happens. You can find more details on the steps below.
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What Is Squirting?
Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid from the vagina during climax. This mysterious phenomenon is still sparking some debate about what it is and where it comes from. Some experts believe that squirting is the result of the female prostate (also known as the Skene’s glands) going off, while others think it’s just waterworks when things get steamy.
Regardless of what squirting is, many people find it to be a highly pleasurable and intense experience (myself included). If you’re interested in learning how to squirt, there are a few things you can try. First, make sure to focus on your pelvic muscles and get some sort of mind-muscle connection with it. Strengthening them is like upgrading your game, and who knows, it might just up your chances to reach orgasm, right?
Another thing to try is focusing on your G-spot. You can tickle it in a couple of ways – either get friendly with a G-spot toy for some vaginal penetration with a G-spot sex toy or good old vaginal sex with your male partner.
Some studies suggest that it’s about one inch or two past the vaginal opening. Many women also find that clit stimulation can help them achieve intense orgasms and even kickstart the whole squirting show but take this with a grain of salt since we’re all different when it comes to likes and dislikes.
Female Ejaculation vs. Squirting
Female ejaculation is the release of a small amount of milky white fluid from the Skene’s glands, hanging out near the urethra. In addition, female ejaculate usually comes with a touch of fructose, like a natural sweet treat. Squirting, on the other hand, is the release of a larger amount of fluid, often clear and odorless, from the urethra itself. It’s like the big showstopper, taking center stage right from the urethra itself. Yes, you read that right, the urethra. And no, we’re not talking about squirting pee here.
But let’s be clear, many women cannot experience a squirting orgasm, and that’s okay. It’s not the end-all-be-all of sexual ecstasy. So don’t go into it with the expectation that it will happen independently of your sexual pleasure. So, grab your vibrator, get comfortable, and easily massage your way to one great orgasm.
How To Squirt With a Vibrator?
First things first, you gotta be in the zone, fully revved up, to achieve an orgasm. Then, focus on stimulating your clitoris with the vibrator. As you get closer to that orgasmic bliss, start to focus on the top wall of your vagina. This is where the Skene’s gland is located and where the magic happens. With the right amount of pressure and sexual stimulation, you can experience a squirting orgasm. Here’s a more comprehensive process on how to do it:
1. Drink Water and Pee Before Starting
When it comes to a squirting orgasm, hydration is your best buddy. See, if you’re running on empty in the water department, your body might not play along, and that can make the whole squirting quest a bit challenging. So go drink a glass of water or two.
But don’t go overboard with the water. You don’t want to chug a gallon and end up feeling like you’re going to burst. Just drink enough to stay hydrated and keep things flowing smoothly. And if you do need to take a quick bathroom break during the session, don’t stress about it. It’s completely natural and nothing to be embarrassed about. Just take care of business and get back to the fun afterward.
Now pay close attention, because here’s what I’ve also learned: before diving into all the action, it’s a good move to take a water break and hit the restroom.
2. Cover Your Bed
Squirting can be messy, and there’s no shame in that. But you don’t want to ruin your sheets or mattress, right? Grab a waterproof sheet or a towel and lay it down on your bed. Now, we know what you’re thinking. “But won’t that ruin the mood?” Not at all! Think of it as a sexy, protective barrier between you and your bed. Plus, you can always remove it afterward and revel in the puddles of ecstasy you’ve created.
But what if you don’t have a waterproof sheet or towel? No worries, you can always use a garbage bag or shower curtain. Just make sure to secure it tightly to your bed so it doesn’t slip around during your squirting session.
3. Get Aroused (A Lot!)
You must be fully aroused to experience squirting with a vibrator. We’re talking about a strong orgasm, (either vaginal orgasm or clitoral orgasm) with pelvic floor muscles engaged. Don’t even think about attempting this without being in the right mindset, think of it as the golden kinky rule!
We also recommend trying the squatting position (like the illustration below). Just ensure you create a strong muscle-mind connection to it first, it’s important you know what part of your muscles are working. This can help you relax your pelvic floor and increase blood flow to the area. Plus, it’s a great workout for your thighs. What not to love!
Once you’re in the right position, it’s time to break out your vibrator. Make sure you have extra pressure on your G-spot for maximum pleasure. You can also try G-spot massage techniques to get things going.
4. Find Your G-Spot and Stimulate It
Now that you’re in the mood, find your G-spot. You can do this by sliding in one or two fingers, taking a stroll along the upper wall, and looking for an area that feels different from the surrounding tissue. It should be a bit spongy.
Once you’ve found the right spot, it’s time to stimulate it with your G-spot sex toy. Apply water-based lube, hold the sex toy in one hand, and point the curved tip towards your belly button. Take a deep breath and gently insert the toy into your vagina. If you feel any discomfort, stop and adjust the angle or the depth of the vibrator. But if you hit pain or major discomfort, it’s a full stop right there. Once you’re comfortable, turn on the sex toy until you reach climax.
If you’re unsure if you’re doing it the right way, here’s a guide on the proper use of G-spot vibrators.
5. Add Clitoral Stimulation
So you’ve found your G-spot and are ready to squirt? Not so fast, my friend! Don’t forget about its neighboring region- your clitoris! Adding clitoral stimulation can take your G-spot orgasm or squirting experience to the next level especially for vagina owners that lean towards clit stimulation a lil bit more than just pure penetration. One way to stimulate the clit is to use a vibrator specifically designed for dual stimulation.
These sex toys offer the best of both worlds by having a G-spot stimulator and a clitoral stimulator, so you can experience multiple orgasms or blended orgasms at once!
At the end of the day, it’s all about relaxation and letting go, so make sure you’re comfortable and in the mood. Set the mood with some candles, music, or whatever else gets you in the mood. And we keep repeating this, but please don’t forget to hydrate! Drinking plenty of water can help increase your chances of squirting. So grab your favorite vibrator, get comfortable, and get ready to squirt with the added pleasure of clitoral stimulation.
Pro Tips: Edging is a technique that could help you in your squirting quest. You can read more about edging here.
How To Squirt During Partnered Sex?
If you want to squirt without a vibrator because you enjoy sex more than doing it alone, don’t worry. We still have a playbook for that! Here are a few tips to get you started:
- Get comfortable: It’s important to be in a comfortable position. This will help you relax and focus on the sensations in your body. Before you guys begin, try lying on your back with a pillow under your hips, or on your stomach with a pillow under your pelvis.
- Explore your body: Take some time to explore your body and figure out what feels good. Ask your lover to try different types of touch, pressure, and stimulation. They can use their fingers, give you oral sex while doing so, pinch your clitoral hood, or whatever technique that can help you come close to a squirt.
- Positions: Many positions can make a woman squirt but the go-to (and what I personally would recommend) would be doggy style. Why? Well, let’s put it this way – the curve in your back when doing the doggy style creates just the right angle for your partner’s penis to hit your G-spot effectively making it so much easier to squirt!
Squirting requires a certain level of relaxation and letting go. If you’re tense or anxious, it will be much harder to achieve. Try taking some deep breaths, meditating, or doing some yoga to help you relax. If you’re with a partner, make sure you feel safe and comfortable with them.
Choosing The Right Tool For The Job!
G-Spot Models
There are plenty of G-spot vibrators that will make you squirt like a fountain. But which one is the best? We recommend Dame Arc (one in the middle in the image below) which performed best in our comprehensive review. Arc is curved just right to hit your sweet spot with precision, and its powerful motor delivers intense vibrations that will have you experience what squirting feels like in no time. Plus, it’s made with body-safe silicone, so you can feel good about what you’re putting in your body. If you want to experience the ultimate goal in G-spot pleasure and squirting orgasms, the Dame Arc is the way to go.
Here’s our review of the best G-Spot vibrators, you can check how well the Dame Arc was plus you can look for other G-spot products if you’re looking for a specific feature.
Clit Models
Our testers agree that there is no better clit vibrator than the We-Vibe Touch X (one on the right in the image below). This little guy packs a punch with its powerful vibrations and ergonomic design.
Not only is the We-Vibe Touch X discreet and easy to use, but it also has a variety of settings to choose from. Whether you prefer a gentle hum or a more intense buzz, this vibrator has got you covered. Plus, its unique shape makes it perfect for targeting the clitoris, which is essential for achieving a squirting orgasm. Yummy!
We recommend We-Vibe Touch X because it performed best during our testing, but if you want to look for other products, here’s the full list of all the clit vibrators we ranked.
Great So Far, But Where To Buy Them?
Not everyone is confident in buying vibrators. So if you’re feeling shy or prefer to shop from the comfort of your own home, online retailers like Lovehoney, Babeland, and Good Vibrations are great places to start. These trusted retailers offer many models specifically designed for G-spot stimulation, which is essential for squirting.
On the other hand, if you’re looking for a more hands-on experience (pun intended), you might want to check out your local adult store. Don’t be intimidated by the neon signs and blacked-out windows – these stores are staffed by knowledgeable professionals who can help you find the perfect vibrator for your needs.
No matter where you choose to shop, make sure to do your research first. Look for sex toys with a curved or angled tip, which will help you hit your G-spot more easily.
Rachel
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