11 Best Sex Pillows in 2024, REALLY Tested [Video Reviews]

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Easy adjustments can significantly improve the quality of sex between partners, which is why you should invest in a sex pillow, wedge, or cushion. These unique sexual aids provide a comfortable lounger allowing you to spice up your sex life and try sex positions that’d otherwise been ‘too complex.’

Over the years, Liberator Ramp/Wedge Combo has consistently been the best sex pillow and what we always recommend to our friends and readers. The dynamic duo is made from supportive high-density foam and plush microfiber that feels better against the skin than the competing products. We especially love that you can use each cushion independently or as a unit to lift your partner’s body for better access and deeper penetration. You can also easily adjust the position for maximum comfort and satisfaction.

Key Takeaways

Test Winner: Liberator Combo
Liberator Wedge Ramp ComboThe Liberator Combo got the highest rating in our review. This fantastic product lets you experiment with different positions and penetration angles. It’s also made from memory foam, avoiding the annoying sinking into the bed. Use code MSTG15 for 15% off!

Runner Up: Liberator Hipster
Liberator HipsterI also love The Hipster, another excellent product from Liberator. Hipster is designed to fit your body perfectly and has a series of high and low angles, allowing you to try multiple positions, especially missionary positions, doggy, and oral positions.

Toy Mount: Liberator BonBon
Liberator BonBon with a mounted Vixskin dildoWe loved BonBon’s compact design. Especially the high-density foam and velvet cover received praise from all our testers. And with a versatile mid-pouch that houses any dildo and vibrator with a 1.25″ – 3″ diameter, it wasn’t surprising it’s one of our top picks.

Why You Should Trust Us

Rachel Sommer

My Sex Toy Guide has been in business since 2016, and we have assembled a winning team since our humble beginning in our founder’s living room. The inclusive unit brings together some of the brightest minds in the sex toy industry, including sex experts, psychologists, marketers, writers, and technologists. Together, the team researches information gaps before crafting and putting out well-researched and informative pieces to educate and give new ideas to new sex toy users and experienced folks.

Among the sex experts is Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., our head Sexologist. She has used sex pillows since 2010 and reviewed them professionally since 2016, making her one of the world’s foremost authorities on this topic. For this article, she coordinated the testing process, preselecting the review samples and distributing them to the test team (Sandra Larson and Tim Larson) before analyzing the test reports and ranking them based on performance.

If you’d like to contact Rachel, please call her at +1 307-372-3895 or email her at [email protected]. Please include your name, phone number, or email so she can get back to you swiftly. She typically responds in 1-2 business days


How We Picked the Products

I selected dozens of sex pillows for this article, picking those I’ve used over the years and sampling recommendations from fellow sex experts. After assembling the review panel, I defined test criteria that we could measure on a scale from 0 to 100. These included the following:

  • A lot goes into designing the perfect sex pillow. Primarily, the cushion must have a ramp-like design to lift your partner’s body for better access to the genitals. Some even have a body-hugging dip for a more comfortable and supportive experience. I emphasized to the team that we should focus on sex designs that offer more than a cushion for your back and knees during sex.
  • Sex pillows vary in size; what works for you might not work for me. So, to ensure everyone had something to look forward to, we reviewed different-sized models, including small, regular, and plus-size pillows.
  • A good model should have a dynamic design that allows you to enjoy multiple possibilities. For instance, the Wedge/Ramp combo can be used individually or as a unit. In addition, you can adjust the wedge’s position on the ramp for utmost comfort and satisfaction. I recommended the team look into sex wedges and pillows with such dynamism. After all, the goal is to be able to fold, turn, and manipulate the pad to ensure you get the most out of it.
  • Unlike most sexual health and wellness products, they must be sturdy to support multiple partners during sex. With this in mind, we focused on the build quality and only reviewed those models that stood out. We also paid attention to the materials and stitching to ensure they were body-safe and durable enough to stand the test of time.
  • The most effective sex pillows offer more than a comfortable lounger to amplify the sensations during sex. Some essential perks like cuff attachment points add more possibilities to play. Other considerations included the availability of machine-washable covers and waterproof liners to simplify aftercare and promote longevity.
  • These products can be costly depending on the design, materials, and flexibility. So, we reviewed different models in the price spectrum to ensure there was something for everyone.

During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Build Quality (25%) and Design (25%). After that comes Versatility (10%), Maintenance (10%), and Price & Value (10%).

The team returned with the findings after a month of self-testing. I used comparison charts and reviews from vendor sites to understand other users’ experiences. With the help of my fellow sexologists, we analyzed the findings, ultimately tabling this list that presents this year’s 11 best sex pillows, wedges, and cushions.


Everything We Tested

In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criteria.

Liberator Wedge/Ramp ComboLiberator BonBonLiberator HipsterLiberator JazLiberator ObeirNo Image AvailableLiberator WhirlDOMINIX Deluxe InflatableLiberator PulseNo Image AvailableNo Image Available
NameWedgeBonBonHipsterJazObeirDame PilloWhirlDOMINIX DeluxePulseMisstuDeluxe Comfort
CategoryBest OverallToy MountRunner UpCompactSpankingComfortableDiscreetBudget PickRidingHalf MoonMissionary
Average Rating94%93%92%90%90%88%87%87%86%86%86%
Ease of Installation92%92%90%93%89%89%90%89%88%86%79%
Price & Value93%90%91%90%84%89%90%96%90%84%88%
Price Tag$240 – $300$119.99$210$95$190.00$95$150.00$50$105.00$15.99$31.99
MaterialPolyurethane Foam & MicrofiberFoam, Velvet,
& Polyester,
Foam, Velvet,
& Polyester,
Foam, Velvet,
& Polyester,
Foam, Velvet,
& Polyester,
Polyurethane Foam,
& Nylon Liner
Foam, Velvet,
& Polyester,
PVCFoam, Velvet,
& Polyester,
Foam, Velvet,
& Polyester,
Soft Plastic
DimensionsSmall – 32″x 24″x 10″,
Regular – 34″x 24″x 12″,
Plus Size – 32″ x 30″ x 10″
15″ x 8.5″ x 12″33″ x 24″ x 10″14″ x 18″ x 6″24.5″ x 24″ x 18″15″ x 18″ x 7″36″ x 10″ x 10″24.5″ x 13″ x 35″20″ x 12″ x 13″15″ x 12.6″ x 8.7″16″ x 16″ x 5″


1. Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo: Our Overall Test Winner!

Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo

Why we love Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo:

Let’s first talk about our test winner and the most effective sex pillow overall: the Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo. Its simple yet practical design makes it perfect for couples looking to spice up their sex life. We especially appreciated the independent build that allows you to use either or both cushions together, something that the other products didn’t offer. The interlocking microfiber threads also received high ratings from the team because they stayed together when needed without the annoying slipping common with most sex pillows.

Let’s address the material first since that’s the most important test criteria. The wedge and ramp are made from high-density foam that gave us a comfortable and supportive lounger for the knees and back during sex. Besides providing support, the Liberator Combo lifts your partner’s body for better access to the genitals, deeper penetration, and more satisfying orgasms.

Liberator Combo unzipped showing the two materials

Something else that stood out was the Wedge and Ramp’s removable velvety cover. It felt great against bare skin, thus promoting an enjoyable partnered sex experience. In addition, the cover is machine-washable, significantly simplifying aftercare. The Liberator has two layers of fabric; an outer cover and an inner, moisture-resistant liner (you can see the two layers in the image above). This design makes it safe, no matter how messy your sex gets. Overall, the Liberator Combo received the highest rating in the material test category. Bravo, Liberator!

Moving on to the design. It has a flexible design that lets you adjust the wedge’s position on the ramp for maximum comfort. “Whether you want it higher for support during doggy style or lower for missionary sex position, you can customize the experience to your liking”, our tester Sandra Larson wrote in her test report. “This versatility makes it an excellent fit for all body types and abilities”, she added. The team highly appreciated the flexible design and rated it as “Most Inclusive” and “Highest-Rated Design Overall” on this list.

The Liberator Ramp seen from the side

Making it even more versatile, the combo is available in multiple sizes to match anyone’s sexual desires. There’s even a plus-size model with a broader ramp so that plus-size couples can enjoy a comfortable and supportive sex aid. Other manufacturers take notes!

But which positions worked best? Let’s see what our tester Angela Kempf said: “In my opinion, it depends on the penis owners/strap-on holders height and the height of the bed. When my quite tall partner was on the floor, and I was on the bed, using the pillow made it too high. But when he was on the bed, the added height was perfect. So play around to see what works best for you!” (In the image below, you can see the position guide that came with the product).

The instructional pamphlet

Finally, the Wedge/Ramp Combo has a Black Label version with multiple cuff connector points for those looking to add kinky restraint play to their BDSM adventures.

The new Lovehoney Ultimate Sex Position Enhancer is a great alternative if you don’t want something from the Liberator brand. Our tester Angela Kempf who tested both products gave us this recommendation: “If you want firmer support and don’t care about the color, you should choose the Lovehoney model. If you want squishy yet supportive cushions in an array of colors and something slightly cheaper, the Liberator will be better for you.” You can read our Lovehoney Ultimate Sex Position Enhancer review here. Angela also snapped a photo of both products side-by-side so you get an idea of the size differences.

The Liberator combo and the Lovehoney set

Minor issues we found during testing:

Our main concern was the pricing. The Wedge/Ramp combo costs $240 – $300, money most people will be skeptical about spending on a sex pillow.

In addition, you need to take great care when unboxing this thing. The Liberator Combo comes vacuum-compressed, so for the love of god, don’t use a knife as I did! I almost cut the pad on accident. Please read the instructions thoroughly!

Finally, the velvet material and the interlocking threads attract dust more than other sex pillow materials I’ve used. For this reason, you’ll need to clean the ramp/wedge combo more often.

Why the Wedge/Ramp Combo is the highest-rated sex pillow:

After many weeks of fun, everyone agreed that the wedge and ramp improved every possible position—some by a lot and some by a little, which is why we put this Liberator product at the top of our list. All other models we tested had at least one position that was not comfortable. Let’s look at the raw test data to see where else it performed well:

  • Design: We also gave the combo a high rating of 96% for the versatile design that allows you to customize the wedge’s position on the ramp for maximum comfort and satisfaction. Another exciting feature was the patented microfiber thread that holds the wedge and ramp together without the annoying sliding during play. With a removable velvety cover and multiple sizes available, it’s not hard to see why the team voted the Wedge/Ramp combo as the most effective sex pillow overall.
  • Build Quality: The foam was sturdy, and we never worried about damaging the product with our weight. We also tried stretching the cover materials; it never broke, even after some heavy use.

If you want to see what the Liberator Combo looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

  • Material: Polyurethane Foam and Microfiber
  • Dimensions: Small32″x 24″x 10″, Regular – 34″x 24″x 12″, Plus Size – 32″ x 30″ x 10″


  • Well-made sexual position aid with supportive high-density foam.
  • The plush microfiber feels great on bare skin.
  • A comfortable lounger with maximum flexibility.
  • The interlocking threads hold the pillows together.
  • It lifts your partner’s body for better access and deeper penetration.
  • The removable cover is machine-washable.


  • The combo is expensive – $240 – $300.
  • It doesn’t have cuff connector points for restraint play.

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2. Liberator BonBon: Sex Toy Mount Pillow

Liberator BonBon with a mounted Vixskin dildo

Why we love Liberator BonBon:

Many readers have contacted us asking that we also add a sex toy mount to the list. Said and done, we did extensive testing and after the dust settled, Liberator BonBon was the highest-rated sex toy mount pillow overall. We especially appreciated the low-profile, easy-to-use design that’s exciting to use regardless of anyone’s experience. The testers also pointed out that the pouch positioning in the middle makes riding more effortless and exciting. In addition, it lets you use the mount from any direction.

The sex toy mount accommodates many different dildos and vibrators, making it a versatile pick. “The pouch (circled in blue below) fits any toys with a 1.25″ – 3″ diameter, so you can explore your wildest fantasies with all the dildos and vibrators in your collection as long as they don’t have a massive base or realistic balls”, our tester Rachel Sommer clarified.

Closeup of the dildo mounting slot on the BonBon

Something else that stood out was the sturdy build with high-density foam to support most body weights and a velvety soft cover that felt comfortable, even on bare skin. Unlike most other sex cushions, BonBon doesn’t sink in the middle so you can be sure of a secure and thrilling riding experience.

We also liked that the mount didn’t take up much of my dildo’s usable length. We found that the pouch grasped the toy firmly, letting you enjoy hands-free riding with your hands unbothered and free to focus on other body parts for amplified arousal. Overall, outstanding design yet again from the Liberator team!

Liberator BonBon

But wait, there’s more! BonBon also doubles as a sex position enhancer. The tortoise-shaped mount props your (or your partner’s) during sex, making difficult positions more exciting and providing better access to the genitals for amplified oral sex. This feature was highly appreciated by our reviewers and made it stand out over the other sex toy mounts we tested.

Finally, it measures 15″ x 8.5″ x 12″, making it also suitable for taller people or those with longer legs. If you’re worried about sizing, please measure your thighs to ensure the cushion will work.

Liberator BonBon inside the packaging material

Pro Tip: If your vibrator doesn’t stick out as much as you’d like, you can stuff socks at the bottom of the hole so it doesn’t sink in as much.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, Liberator BonBon is only available in one size, and the low-profile design might be too small for bigger-bodies individuals. BonBon is also not ideal for dildos with large bases or realistic balls, or corded wands since there’s no good exit hole for the cord.

Finally, Liberator BonBon is not ideal for people looking for pinpoint external stimulation. I tried using the rechargeable Magic Wand, and getting it to settle in one position for efficient clitoral massage was nearly impossible. I ended the sex pillow with a riding dildo and then held the wand with my hand, which certainly wasn’t the most ‘hands-free’ experience.

Why Liberator BonBon is the best sex toy mount:

  • Design: Everyone agreed that the compact design was much better than the competition. Other design features that affirmed the decision included the pouch’s central positioning and machine-washable cover.
  • Comfort: The panel gave the mount a score of 94% for ‘comfort and support,’ thanks to the high-density foam and velvet cover.
  • Sex Toy Combability: With a versatile mid-pouch that houses any dildo and vibrator with a 1.25″ – 3″ diameter, it wasn’t surprising that our testers believed that Liberator BonBon was the top performer.

If you want to see what Liberator BonBon looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our Liberator BonBon review here.

  • Material: Foam, Velvet, and Polyester,
  • Sex Toy Mount Dimensions: 15″ x 8.5″ x 12″
  • Dildo/Vibrator Diameter: 1.25 – 3”


  • The dynamic mount holds dildos and vibrators with a 1.25 – 3” diameter.
  • It’s made with high-density foam for maximum comfort.
  • The machine-washable cover makes cleaning easy.
  • Liberator BonBon doubles as a sex position enhancer.
  • The compact size simplifies storage.


  • The mount is not suitable for dildos with large bases.

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3. Liberator Hipster: Our Runner Up!

Liberator Hipster

Why we love Liberator Hipster:

Liberator Hipster performed well in our review but couldn’t top the Liberator Combo on this year’s list. The main reason was that its cousin was just so much more versatile. The team also reported that more positions were comfortable with the above Combo product. Still, we believe there’s a target audience for Hipster as it’s an excellent product for a cheaper price. It can also double as a TV lounger.

Like the Combo, Hipster is made from high-density foam that supports your body weight during oral and penetrative sex. “Most importantly, the dip in the middle hugs your partner’s body for more stability during play. With the unique design offering high and low angles, couples can enjoy different sex positions easily”, our tester Tim Larson told me.

The cover unzipped showing the protective layer and foam core

Liberator Hipster has a velvet cover that adds a sensual feel to the experience. The machine-washable cloth feels excellent against the skin, an essential factor, especially for people lying on it for extended sessions. In the image above, you can see how it looks with part of the cover unzipped.

Like other Liberator mounts, the Hipster has a waterproof lining between the core and outer cover to prevent sweat, body fluids, and water from seeping through.

Liberator Hipster

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the Liberator Hipster is expensive, especially for a solo sex pillow design. $210 will be too much for most people, considering you can get a wedge and ramp combo for just a few more dollars. It also takes up a lot of space.

Why Liberator Hipster is the runner-up:

We tried every position imaginably over many weeks, and the only ones that it didn’t make more comfortable were cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, which is why we placed the Hipster as number two behind the wedge/ramp combo. That said, the missionary position got a big boost with this product! Let’s check the test reports to see what other test criteria it performed well in:

  • Design: The simple design that turned out to be a dynamic addition to the bedroom got the reviewers glued to this one. It’s comparatively compact, which gave it an ‘ease-of-use and storage’ positive rating.
  • Build Quality: The test panel also loved the firm core build and velvety-smooth cover that rendered using the sex ramp a comfortable experience. This product will last for many years with the proper care.

If you want to see what Liberator Hipster looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

  • Material: Foam, Velvet, and Polyester,
  • Dimensions: 33″ x 24″ x 10″


  • Firm foam core and soft velvet cover.
  • High and low angles simplify complicated sex positions.
  • The cover is machine-washable.
  • Its mid-level dip hugs the body for more comfort and stability.
  • The waterproof liner promotes longevity.


  • The sex cushion is pricey – $210.

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4. Liberator Jaz: Most Compact!

Liberator Jaz

Why we love Liberator Jaz:

So you think the first two products are a bit clunky? Then you should be happy with our next entry: the Liberator Jaz. It was the most compact of the sexual positioning devices we reviewed. It’s easy to use and, more importantly, travel-friendly, so your erotic adventure doesn’t have to stop when you’re away from home. Sweet. Isn’t it?

We especially loved the rounded shape (image below) – “I thought they made it more user-friendly, as the sharp corners in most sex pillows can be uncomfortable, especially for the big-backed folks”, our tester Sandra Larson confirmed.

Liberator Jaz

Like the rest of the Liberator lineup, the Jaz model has a high-density foam core that’s supportive and steady during play. With a luxurious micro-velvet cover that feels great against bare skin, I found Jaz exciting even when I used it for extended periods.

Notably, the foam core adds stability to your experience by adding more traction to memory foam beds. In addition, the machine-washable cover simplifies aftercare (see washing label below), allowing you to explore your wildest fantasies without worrying about cleaning – only focusing on the most crucial thing, maximum pleasure.

The label with the washing instructions

Minor issues we found during testing:

My main concern was the unavailability of a Black Label model. Unlike other Liberator sex pillows, the Jaz variant doesn’t have the Black Label version that comes with ankle and wrist cuff kits.

Jaz might also not be ideal for people looking for something that dramatically raises the angles during playtime – it doesn’t have the height.

Finally, since Jaz is smaller, it scored lower on versatility than its siblings. A smaller pillow can only do so much. The disappointing comfort for doggy was also a letdown. That said, our reviewers praised the improved G-spot stimulations and comfort during missionary and 69 positions.

Why Liberator Jaz is the most compact sex pillow:

  • Design: One thing that stood out with Liberator Jaz was its compact design, which received an average rating of 82%. Unlike other pillows, it was much easier to use and store. The testers also rated Jaz as the “Most Travel-Friendly”
  • Price & Value: With a price tag of $95, it’s one of the most affordable Liberator products. Since it has the same features as their more expensive models (high-density foam, micro-velvet cover, etc.), Jaz is excellent value for your hard-earned cash.

If you want to see what the Liberator Jaz looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

  • Material: Foam, Velvet, and Polyester,
  • Dimensions: 14″ x 18″ x 6″


  • The most compact sex wedge.
  • It’s comparatively affordable – $95.
  • High-density foam core.
  • It has a machine-washable micro-velvet cover.
  • Rounded edges are more comfortable.
  • It enhances deeper penetration and more explosive orgasms.


  • Jaz might be too small for plus-size folks.

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5. Liberator Obeir: For Bondage & Doggy Style Sex!

Liberator Obeir

Why we love Liberator Obeir:

Looking for something to use for your spanking sessions? Then you should look into Liberator Obeir which is also a good doggy style pillow. Obeir gives the receiving partner a platform to kneel on and a supportive rest pad for the upper body. “I loved the rounded edges because they made Obeir more comfortable, especially when you’re bound to it for endless sessions”, our tester Rachel Sommer wrote in the report.

The testers also rated Obeir as perfect for people looking to explore bondage play. The sex chair has four D-ring attachments (circled in red below) that allow you to induce kink play in your sessions. The loops are compatible with the Black Label accessories. You can add floggers and spanking paddles for explosive, sensual play.

Closeup of one of the Obeir cuffs

The spanking bench also doubles as a sexual positioning chair for simplified doggy style and missionary sex positions. We found that the sturdy and padded furniture lets you manipulate the submissive partner as you wish for heightened pleasure during oral and penetrative sex.

Liberator Obeir is made with fully supportive polyurethane foam making it stable and comfortable (see image below). It also has a machine-washable microfiber cover that’s plush and perfect for extended lovemaking.

The foam core without the cover

The look is approachable for bondage newbies as it doesn’t scream “whips-and-chains.” Instead, it looks like a regular piece of furniture. But if you’re aesthetic on the pain dungeon side, this product may be too lame for your vibe.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Please note that this is primarily a spanking bench, so the possible positions are limited. For example, it makes doggy sex positions more comfortable and is excellent for anal sex. However, it’s not as easy for other poses involving vaginal penetration.

Liberator Obeir is pricey, retailing at $190. And even with the dynamic design, most people will find it expensive, especially those new to love making pillows and wedges.

I was also not too fond of the lightweight design because the sub could walk away with it anytime. You might have to go for something ‘heavier’ if you want complete bondage. I used an eyehook to attach Obeir to my bed and sabotage my sub’s escape plans (hehe).

Why Liberator Obeir is the most recommended for bondage:

Liberator Obeir’s D-ring attachments make it perfect for bondage play fanatics. We loved that they’re four, allowing you to go light with wrist or ankle cuffs or ham with both. It also performed well in the below key decision-making factors:

  • Versatility: My colleagues also loved Obeir’s compatibility with Black Label accessories, a feature that lets you customize your BDSM experience to your liking.
  • Build Quality: With a solid build and soft velvet cover to ensure you enjoy endless lovemaking without worrying about potential breakdowns, Liberator Obeir is perfect for bondage play fans.

If you want to see what Liberator Obeir looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of Liberator Obeir here.

  • Material: Foam, Velvet, and Polyester,
  • Dimensions: 24.5″ x 24″ x 18″


  • Sturdy D-ring attachments for bondage play.
  • The spanking bench is made from high-density foam.
  • Dynamic design renders it a perfect sex positioning aid.
  • It’s compatible with Black Label accessories.
  • The removable microfiber cover is machine-washable.
  • Unique customization possibilities.


  • The wrist and ankle cuffs are sold separately.

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6. Dame Pillo: Most Comfortable & Great For Oral Sex!

Why we love Dame Pillo:

Our testers thought Dame Pillo was the most comfortable model on this list. We especially appreciated its small size, making it portable and easy to manipulate and make the most of the sex pillow. With a little wedge incline, Pillo simplifies complicated sex positions by enhancing the receiving partner’s comfort and making extended sessions less stressful to your back.

The Pillo is made from firm polyurethane foam, providing a stable and comfy platform for exploring different sex positions. Noticeably, the pillow doesn’t sink like most models we tested, making it practical in providing easier access to your partner’s genital zone for deeper penetration and thrilling oral sex.

Dame Pillo’s soft cover is also machine-washable, significantly simplifying aftercare.

Besides the soft and squishy feel that lets you enjoy exciting floating sex for extended periods, the test panel loved the discreet shape and size. Unlike other sex wedges, you can leave the Pillo on the couch; it’ll pass for a regular pillow. It also has a discreet zipline, which gives it a neat look.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Some people may find Dame Pillo too small, especially plus-size couples. It’s an ideal choice for people looking for a discreet and comfortable sex pillow, but it might be ‘insufficient’ for most people.

Why Dame Pillo is the most comfortable sex pillow:

  • Design: Even with the small figure, Dame Pillo adds a healthy degree of dynamism to sex. The high-density foam, compact size, and velvet cover combination make for the most comfortable sex pillow. My colleagues agreed with me, giving the mini wedge a 91% rating on matters of comfortability and versatility.


  • Material: Polyurethane Foam, Nylon Liner
  • Dimensions: 15″ x 18″ x 7″


  • The most comfortable sex wedge.
  • Solid foam core.
  • The soft velvet cover feels great against the skin.
  • A small yet practical sex pillow.
  • Discreet design with the hidden zipline.


  • It might be too small for plus-size couples.

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7. Liberator Whirl: Most Discreet

Liberator Whirl

Why we love Liberator Whirl:

If you’re looking for a sex pillow that won’t draw attention to itself whenever you have guests or family members in the house, you should add Liberator Whirl to your shopping cart ASAP. Why? Because it looks just like any other home decor in your house!

The cylindrical pillow comes in different colors, so you can pick the one that compliments your décor the most. And because it doesn’t look like a traditional sex pillow to the eyes, you don’t have to hide it away after use. In addition, the plush micro-velvet fiber feels incredible, so your guests will enjoy patting the unique-looking pillow.

Liberator Whirl has a solid foam core that balances a body support platform and a practical pillow you can toss in your living room without messing with the decor. It also has a lightweight design that makes it easy to travel with, so the elevated sex doesn’t stop when you’re away from the house.

Another standout feature was the two clip adaptors to attach D-ring cuffs for kinky restraint play. Jessica and I used our wrist cuffs with the Whirl, and the renewed pleasure from the semi-bondage clips was profound.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The only downside was the micro-velvety cover. While it might be soft and sensual during play, it tends to attract fluff, meaning you might have to clean it more often.

Why Liberator Whirl is the most discreet sex pillow:

  • Discreetness: Besides the compact size, Liberator Whirl’s subtle design makes it a great addition to the bedroom. We especially loved how easily it blended with the décor. And with multiple color options, all the reviewers shared these sentiments.
  • Size: The Whirl’s small size also meant I could carry it with my luggage whenever Jessica and I traveled. And with impressive features like discreet clip adaptors for restraint play, Whirl rightfully earned its spot.


  • Material: Foam, Velvet, and Polyester,
  • Dimensions: 36″ x 10″ x 10″


  • The most discreet sex pillow.
  • Its micro-velvet design complements the décor.
  • High-density foam for support and stability.
  • The small size is travel-friendly.
  • It’s available in multiple colors.
  • Discreet D-ring clips promote kinky restraint play.


  • The velvet cover attracts fluff; you might have to clean it more often.

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8. DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable: Our Budget Pick!

DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable Sex Position Ramp

Why we love DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable:

DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable sex wedge is the most affordable among those we reviewed. For $50, the lightweight pillow is a bargain.

Away from the pocket-friendly pricing, I loved the easy-to-use design. Unlike bulky sex furniture, you only need to inflate the wedge before play and have a comfortable aid to elevate the sensations during sex. Once you’re done, it deflates quickly, simplifying storage and overall handling.

DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable is made from sturdy PVC material that contains the air inside once you inflate the wedge. It also has a soft cover that feels great against the skin and ensures the receiving partner enjoys an exciting experience even when playtime lasts for an extended period.

Besides helping maintain complicated sex positions longer, the inflatable pillow raises the submissive partner’s pelvis, providing better access to the pubic zone for deeper penetration and more thrilling oral sex.

Something else that stood out was the pair of sturdy loops on the sides. They’re compatible with standard cuffs, allowing kinky couples to enjoy exciting restraint play.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, cleaning the material can be tedious because it attracts more fluff than others.

Why DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable is our budget pick:

For $50, this inflatable wedge won the Price & Value category with a score of 96%, making it the most affordable sex pillow today. In addition, our testers also highlighted the following features:

  • Design: The review panel loved its simplistic design that included a nozzle for easy inflation and deflation. Other features, like the soft cover, got an 84% rating, while the sturdy side loops got 89% for the induced pleasure from restraint play.


  • Material: PVC
  • Dimensions: 24.5″ x 13″ x 35″


  • The most affordable sex wedge – $49.99.
  • A simplistic yet functional design.
  • DOMINIX Deluxe is made from body-safe PVC material with a squishy cover.
  • Easy to inflate and deflate nozzle.
  • It’s easy to store or carry around on your next trip.
  • DOMINIX Deluxe has loops on the sides for kinky restraint play.


  • Cleaning the cover can be tedious.
  • It also takes a while to dry from spills, so you might have to use a waterproof cover during play.

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9. Liberator Pulse: For Cowgirl Riding!

Liberator Pulse

Why we love Liberator Pulse:

Liberator Pulse reminded me of BonBon. But Pulse’s curved base lets you rock the mount front and back for heightened pleasure.

Besides the simplified mode of play, Liberator Pulse rocking motion lets you explore exciting self-pleasuring with your hands liberated and free to focus on other parts of your body, ultimately leading to better arousal and intense orgasms.

Something that received praise from our test panel was its low height and narrow width, making it easy for most users, including shorter ones, to grasp it with the legs and ride effortlessly. They found Pulse much easier to use than Liberator BonBon. The low height also means the receiving partner can enjoy hands-free clitoral stimulation from the pillow while lying down and receiving passionate kisses or a sensual massage session.

Liberator Pulse’s central pouch positioning lets you choose what direction to ride from to maximize your possibilities, especially during foreplay and penetrative sex.

Pulse also doubles as a sexual positioning wedge and you can try different angles to match your preferred wedge height. With a supportive foam core and soft cover, the Liberator Pulse is stable and feels great on bare skin.

Like Liberator BonBon, Pulse accommodates dildos and vibrators with a 1.25″ – 3″ diameter. I thought the range allowed most people to explore their wildest fantasies without buying more dildos and vibrators. 80% of my collection falls under the diameter range, and Liberator Pulse was a blessing!

Minor issues we found during testing:

Even with the impressive diameter range, Liberator Pulse doesn’t accommodate dildos and vibrators with large bases, which might be a bummer, especially for Bad Dragon dildo owners.

Why Liberator Pulse is our favorite for cowgirl riding:

  • Size: The reviewers singled out Pulse’s low height and narrow width as incredible features that significantly simplify the riding experience.
  • Design: We loved the firm foam core and soft velvet cover, as they made the experience more enjoyable and stable. Other features that garnered positive ratings included the impressive 1.25″ – 3″ diameter range and dynamic shape that lets you use it as a sex positioning wedge.


  • Material: Foam, Velvet, and Polyester,
  • Dimensions: 20″ x 12″ x 13″


  • A curved base significantly simplifies the riding motion.
  • Low height and narrow width make it ideal for most people.
  • The versatile pouch accommodates more dildos and vibrators.
  • Firm foam core and soft velvet cover.
  • The machine-washable cover simplifies cleaning.


  • It doesn’t accommodate dildos with a large base.

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10. Misstu: Half Moon-Shaped

Why we love Misstu:

There’s a lot to mesmerize about Misstu’s inflatable half-moon pillow. Its half-moon shape renders it a perfect sex positioner, raising the receiving partner’s pelvis for better genital area access and deeper penetration.

I especially liked its easy-to-use design with a nozzle that simplifies inflation and deflation. The inflation mechanism also means storage is more straightforward than solid sex pillows.

The test panel loved Misstu’s flocked design, which, combined with the half-moon shape, makes it easy for users to maintain difficult sex positions for extended periods.

Something else that stood out was the 2″ diameter hole in the middle that accommodates different toys, including dildos and pocket pussies, for an exciting self-pleasuring experience. I found it shaky, but it did an excellent job for a $15 sex pillow.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, Misstu’s mid-hole, designed to hold your dildo or masturbator, is wobbly. I tried to use it with my dildo and had to return to the old by-hand method. And even with its $15 price, it’s more of a multi-purpose pillow than a riding wedge.

Why Misstu is our preferred half-moon-shaped sex pillow:

Misstu has a half-moon-shaped design that lets you maintain difficult sex positions for longer. Due to its unique shape, it performed exceptionally well in these test categories:

  • Build Quality: The reviewers loved its rugged build and velvety-feeling cover that made the experience stable and comfortable.
  • Price & Value: Other impressive features included the budget-friendly price, a pouch in the middle that holds a dildo or masturbator in position, and the easy-to-inflate and deflate design that made it beginner-friendly.


  • Material: Foam, Velvet, and Polyester,
  • Dimensions: 15″ x 12.6″ x 8.7″


  • An easy-to-use sex pillow.
  • A dynamic half-moon-shaped design.
  • It has a pouch that holds dildos and masturbators in the middle.
  • The firm pillow with a soft cover enhances your comfort.
  • It’s comparatively affordable – $15.
  • Misstu simplifies difficult sex positions.


  • The pouch could be firmer.
  • A foot pump would have been better.

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11. Deluxe Comfort: For Missionary Sex!

 Why we love Deluxe Comfort:

Deluxe Comfort is our favorite sex aid for missionary-style sex. The little sex-positioning wedge is carved in all the right places to lift the receiving partner’s pelvis without getting in your way.

The pillow’s back has more material to provide better support, while the front is less bulky, providing enough room to enjoy skin-to-skin contact during penetrative sex. You can raise the middle part to make oral sex more exciting and effortless while promoting deeper penetration during sex for heightened arousal.

The Deluxe Comfort’s flexible design makes it easy to use from wherever you might be. With the small size, it can fit into your travel plans, so kinky floating sex doesn’t have to stop when you’re away from the house.

Besides cushioning your back and tailbone for exciting and comfortable sex sessions, the Deluxe Comfort also gives you the confidence to try other sex positions that might be too complicated otherwise.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The small size makes it ideal for small to average-sized couples. I have a plus-size colleague who dismissed it on the first try. “It disappeared wholly from sight with zero effect on pelvic leverage,” she affirmed.

Why Deluxe Comfort is the best for missionary positions:

  • Ease of Use: The test panel gave Deluxe Comfort a 79% rating for the simple and easy-to-use design, especially in the missionary position. The flexible material and little figure make it perfect for everyday use.
  • Design: The reviewers emphasized the pelvis-raising design and its importance in promoting deeper penetration during the missionary sex position and oral sex.


  • Material: Soft Plastic
  • Dimensions: 16″ x 16″ x 5″


  • Our top pick for missionary sex positions.
  • It’s well-carved to raise the pelvis without getting in your way.
  • Deluxe Comfort promotes deeper penetration.
  • It’s compact and easy to use.
  • Deluxe Comfort gives you the confidence to try new sex positions.


  • It might be too small for plus-size couples.

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What Is a Sex Pillow?

Sex pillows are positioning devices you can use during sexual activities. They will give you a better and more comfortable position during sex, allowing you to enjoy more challenging positions and deeper penetration, especially G-spot stimulation. It’s also an excellent tool for people with disabilities since it takes the weight off your joints.

Liberator wedge and Hipster


But Why Should I Use One?

A perfect wedge pillow for sex can revolutionize your bedroom life and skyrocket the fun you and your partner have between the sheets.

Vanilla positions can be tedious, especially if you’ve been with your partner for a significant time (like us!). Getting an ideal wedge helps inject some wildness and unpredictability into your bedroom, enhancing mental and physical stimulation.

These magical bedroom additives save your back, legs, and arms from the dirty work of supporting yourself throughout challenging positions. And they help get your partner to a perfect height for better access and deeper penetration.

Sex pillows can also help bridge physical gaps you and your partner might have. By perfectly aligning your partner’s body, you get more comfortable during sex which is a road to a more fulfilling sex life.

Finally, they are excellent if you have mobility issues or need extra support during sexual intercourse.

Doggy Position With Sex Pillow


Types of Sex Pillows

There are different sex wedges on the market to meet your specific needs. To help you select the ideal product for your exact needs, here are some of the most common types;

  • Foam Wedges. – These products have a dense foam to provide a firm and comfortable pillow to enhance positioning during sex. A foam wedge is usually lightweight yet very effective in performing its duties.
  • Inflatable Wedges. For these, an airtight material holds in the air for long periods of lovemaking. The wedge usually has a soft, lush cover to enhance the user’s comfort. An inflatable sex cushion is lightweight and discreet; you can tuck it away easily.
  • Furniture. Unlike the previous two types of sex wedges, this is very indiscreet. I recommend you pick a design that complements your bedroom’s décor. Why? Because it’s much easier to leave it as additional furniture in your bedroom than hide it away after use. Furniture wedges are more elaborate and can be as big as a couch. They are also more effective as you can enjoy countless sex positions with seamless transitioning. Moreover, the elaborate construction means that it can hold more weight.

Solo Cowgirl With Sex Pillow


How To Use A Sex Pillow?

Each product is designed uniquely, with patented angles to maximize your comfort and provide support during sex. A quality wedge in the bedroom helps position your partner to get the perfect height and new angles during foreplay or intercourse [1].

  • During oral sex, sex pillows lift your partner’s pelvis to the ideal height to reduce pressure on the giver’s neck muscles. The giver can raise their head to the perfect height with improved access to their partner’s genitals and other body parts. This way, both partners can enjoy prolonged oral sex without dealing with sore neck muscles or neck pains afterward.
  • If you put the sex pillow cushion under your partner’s hip during sexual intercourse, it provides support and positions your partner’s pelvis to a perfect angle for deeper penetration during missionary. It also elevates your partner’s hip and butt during doggie style or anal sex. Depending on the position, a pillow can enhance G-spot stimulation and inspire delightful orgasms during partnered sex.
  • For solo play masturbation, you can use the pillow to take the weight off your joints. Liberator also sells products with a vibrator or dildo mount for hands-free fun, such as the Wing, BonBon, or Wanda, to ensure all your erogenous zones are covered during solo sex.

You can read more on how to use a sex pillow in this extensive guide.

Doggy Style Sex Position With A Sex Pillow


The Best Positions With A Sex Pillow

One thing I love about sex pillows is their versatility. While every wedge is unique in its own right, a quality pillow will pretty much do it all.

So, here are some fun positions you can try [2];

  • Doggy Style: Probably the most common position for sex pillow customers, just slide a wedge pillow under your hips as your partner thrusts from behind. You can fully rest on the intimacy pillow or with your elbows raised.
  • Missionary Position: Are you tired of people dissing the missionary sex position? Great! Me too. Just slide the pillow on her lower back to lift her butt and hips. You can penetrate her elevated vagina by kneeling or lying in front of her; your take!
  • Standing Ovation. – How about matching the mini you down there and standing to the occasion? Got it? For this position, place the wedge below her lower back at the edge of the bed. Hold her legs against the chest in a standing position and slide into her elevated vagina.
  • Straddling. – We recommend this sex wedge position for solo users. Simply grind against the soft but firm wedge. You can also straddle as your partner is watching as a way of teasing them.

Do you want more ideas? We have many more wedge pillow sex positions in this extensive guide.

Liberator's sex position guide that comes with all their products


How To Clean A Sex Pillow?

As with the rest of your sex toys, maintaining your love-making pillows goes a long way. Not only is a clean wedge appealing to the eyes, but it’s also hygienic. So, here are a few pointers to help you maintain your sex wedge;

1. Clean The Cover After Use

Wedges are usually covered with two materials; one that’s waterproof and another that’s machine-washable. The waterproof material protects the wedge from water and bodily fluids, while the machine-washable models make cleaning blissful. So, clean the cover regularly to keep your sex pillow cushion looking great and always ready to rock with you.

A Liberator cover unzipped showing the protective layer and foam core

2. Keep The Pillow Out of Harm’s Way

Keep the sex furniture away from hot or sharp objects that might damage the material. Moreover, check with the manufacturer whether or not the lush cover is machine-washable before cleaning it.

3. Store the Intimacy Cushion Well

Storage is an integral part of the day-to-day use of your sex wedge. Make sure you store your new purchase in a clean, cool, and dry area. For inflatable pillows, deflate them after use and keep them in a discreet place, like a closet or storage box.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How do sex pillows work to enhance sexual pleasure?

Yes, sex position pillows will enhance pleasure by providing a comfortable platform for partners to enjoy otherwise extreme and complicated sex positions for extended periods without feeling uncomfortable. In addition, the sex pillows raise your partner’s lower back, providing better access to the crotch for enhanced oral sex and deeper penetration.

Can you use regular pillows as sex pillows?

You can use a regular pillow to prop your body during sex, but sex pillows’ efficiency is unmatched. Unlike a standard bed pillow, they have a high-density foam core to avoid the annoying sinking. And with unique designs to better hug your body, foam pillows provide more possibilities for success.

What product is the best for Plus Size Couples?

Liberator Wedge Plus Size is the perfect option for plus-size couples [1]. It differs from the original wedge in dimensions, with a noticeably wider seating area to ensure a comfortable experience for both partners. Like the original wedge, the larger pillow is made from supportive foam and microfiber velvet for utmost comfort and satisfaction.

Can I make my own sex pillow?

We don’t recommend making your own sex toys due to the risks. It’s always better to purchase professionally made products from trusted brands. You can read more on how to make a sex pillow in this extensive guide.


Primary Sources

1. The Editors Of Liberator. Sex Positions You Never Thought Possible. (2012).

2. Liberator Sex Position Guide (pdf)


PS, for more sex toys for couples, please check out this guide.

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