If you haven’t heard of sex pillows, now’s the time to look into them. Sex pillows are the latest bedroom accomplice to not only make you feel more comfortable in any sex position but also to feel infinitely more pleasure during sex. Sex pillows are primarily for elevating your hips, knees, or butt to help angle your body better. In return, your partner hits all the sweet spots potentially missing from your sex life. Once you have invested in one of your sex pillows, it’s time to dive into the main act. I found the eight best sex pillow positions that can bring an ordinary sex position up to an A-level. Try this while having sex with a partner or for riding solo.
Table Of Contents
Missionary
To kick things off on our list, we have everyone’s favorite missionary position. On top of it being pleasurable and intimate – missionary is considered a classic because it’s proven time and time again to build a strong connection with your partner.
It’s intimate simply being face-to-face with your partner. The missionary position has room for kissing, eye gazing, and maximizing skin-to-skin contact.
When introducing a sex pillow to missionary, you take all the great things about the position one step further. So why not make you love being in missionary even more with a bit of help from your sex cushions?
How To Do It
- Take your sex pillow and place it in the center of your bed.
- Lie down on top of it, and it should be directly underneath your lower back. The pillow brings your hips to an angle better for penetration.
- Spread your knees open, and your partner gets on top of you.
- The penis owners penetrate from there, thrusting in and out of you repeatedly.
Lazy Doggy
Lazy doggy is one of the best doggy style variations for when you want to take things slow and last for a more extended period than average. Doing this with a partner is ideal for maximizing pleasure in this propped-up sex position.
A sex wedge pillow will help lift your bottom at a height easier for your partner to reach while you’re lying down comfortably. Your legs are kept close, which creates a tightness that your partner will love, especially during anal sex.
It’s very sensual, and you hardly have to do any of the work. Meanwhile, your partner has you as a warm human body pillow to embrace. Lazy doggy is your best option for nights of rest and pleasure.
How To Do It
- Place your sex pillow underneath your stomach underneath the pelvis area
- Keep your legs closed.
- Your partner climbs on top, directly lying down on your body.
- They begin penetrating slowly and maintaining this speed. It is easier to go for deep penetration with your sex wedge underneath your partner’s hips, hitting your partner’s g spot.
Cowgirl
Another position considered to be the ultimate sex position is cowgirl. It allows the women or vulva owners to be in control. Being the dominant one in this wedge pillow position makes it easier for you to hit your g spot and intensify your orgasm.
Additionally, your partner has a great view of your body, watching it move around sensually and seeing you feel yourself. And there’s nothing sexier than that.
So go ahead and use a sex pillow to support you and your partner’s body and discover new sensations in this woman-on-top pose.
How To Do It
- The giving partner lies down and places the sex wedge underneath their body.
- The sex wedge should rest underneath the butt and thigh area, lifting their upper legs.
- Then, straddle your partner and climb on top. You may also do reverse cowgirl, should you prefer it.
- Use your hands to guide their penis inside of you.
- Move your hips front and back or around in a circular motion – whichever feels good for you. Continue with the movement until you reach orgasm.
Solo Grinding
Moving on to solo play, we have solo grinding. Solo grinding might take you back to your teenage years when you first started exploring your sexuality. It’s a pleasurable masturbation position that you can’t go wrong with.
When it’s a day when you want to know what to expect and please yourself the way you enjoy the most, do solo play and amp it up with a sex pillow. Bring a sex toy if your pillow has a toy mount, or use your fingers the old-fashioned way. It’s all up to your preference.
How To Do It
- Place the pillow underneath your stomach to the pelvis area.
- Lie on top of it and spread your legs open. The pillow angles your hips up, which helps open up new sensations.
- Take your fingers and reach down to rub your clit. You can grind your hips forward and backward for more pleasure. If you have a vibrator or sex toy with you, now’s the time to bring it in.
- If you’re a penis owner, do the same: reach your hand down and start jerking off.
Oral Sex
As if oral sex wasn’t already great on its own – having a sex pillow as the supporting role is one of the most incredible ideas you will ever try. It’s ideal to do this with a wedged-elevated-type-of- pillow to suit your body more seamlessly. It’s also interchangeable for both partners (men or women) – whoever receives oral sex just has to lie on top of it.
Sex wedges not only help contour your body with the gradual slope shape but also helps to elevate your hips. This makes it more accessible for your partner to go down. Plus, you are much more comfortable lying down on a supportive accessory.
You can think of it indirectly benefiting your oral game by making you better at performing oral to your partner.
How To Do It
- There’s more than one way to use wedge pillows during oral sex.
- First, lie down facing upwards with the higher point of the sex wedge underneath your lower back to prop your hips and legs up. Your vagina or penis is now at a perfect angle for receiving.
- Spread your legs open.
- Your giving partner goes down on you and performs oral.
- Second, you may lie down on the sex wedge facing downwards. The higher point of the pillow is underneath your hips.
- Do the same and spread your legs open. Your partner gives oral at a new angle that’s more accessible.
- On the other hand, if you are going down on your man – you can use your high-density foam pillow to kneel on. This helps you stay in the position longer, giving a longer-lasting blow job.
Deep Plunge
Deep plunge is the love child or your Seashell sex position and countertop. From the name itself, it’s the perfect position to make way for deeper penetration. There’s little flexibility involved. You don’t have to worry about getting into a complicated pretzel position to enjoy deep penetration.
There’s plenty of room for BDSM play if you and your partner are open to it, dirty talking, and clitoral stimulation. For these reasons alone, it makes deep plunge one of my favorite pillow sex positions.
How To Do It
- Near the edge of the bed, place your sex wedges underneath your lower back and butt cheeks. If you are using a slanted, elevated pillow – put the higher end of the slope on the butt cheeks.
- The receiving partner bends their knees as close to their chest as possible.
- Your giving partner stands directly in front of you.
- The receiving partner has the option to place their feet on their partner’s chest or to wrap their knees on their partner’s shoulders.
- The giving partner begins to enter and penetrates while standing. They thrust in and out of you repeatedly.
- You may stimulate yourself to receive additional pleasure and stick with it until you reach climax.
69 (Oral)
We love 69 for the sole reason of receiving pleasure simultaneously. It’s the best win-win scenario for everyone involved. But have you ever tried using a wedge pillow while you and your partner are performing 69? If not, now’s the time to do so. It’s the ultimate way to bring the 69 game to its peak.
A wedge ramp pillow is ideal for the 69. It’s a firm pillow that is wide enough to support both of your bodies. You may also create your own by purchasing two wedge pillows and letting them face each other, almost like positioning aids.
How To Do It
- Set up your sex wedge with the high points on opposite ends and the low points meeting in the center.
- If you have the right pillow, open it up and get into position.
- One partner lies down on the bottom facing one way. At the same time, the other partner lies on top facing the other way.
- You may both begin performing oral by licking, sucking, or blowing. Stimulate each other the way you enjoy the most.
- Watch out for body queues to maximize giving pleasure to your partner.
Standing Ovation
Lastly, to end on a high note, one of the absolute best sex positions with a Liberator wedge pillow is Standing Ovation. It’s another edge-of-the-counter or your-bed position perfect for more adventurous sexual endeavors.
Standing Ovation requires a bit more flexibility than the other sex wedge positions in this article, but it is worth trying out. This position creates a sensation of tightness and fullness that you will love. There’s plenty of room for deeper penetration and rough thrusts.
I recommend practicing this on your bed or a low surface before exploring countertop standing ovation.
How To Do It
- Take your sex wedge and prop it on your back. Your head is lying rested on the bed or countertop.
- Lift your legs in the air at a 90-degree angle. Your partner helps you keep them up by holding your ankles overhead.
- You may place your legs over his shoulders to sustain this position more.
- While standing up, your partner begins penetrating and enters you slowly. He thrusts in and out slowly before increasing his speed and depth of penetration.
- Take note he should penetrate from the edge of a counter or your bed.
Aftercare
Sex pillows are on the low-maintenance side when it comes to aftercare. Still, it’s essential to have proper hygiene and clean it after use, especially when bodily fluids touch your pillow.
Most sex wedges or inflatable pillows have a removable cover to throw in the wash quickly. Just be sure to check if it’s machine washable cover safe. It’s that simple.
To store your pillow properly, you can fold it and keep it in your closet. Or keep it on your bed, ready for access whenever you’re in the mood for pillow sex.
Wrapping Up
Wedge pillow sex positions are a surefire way to amp up the pleasure in the bedroom. It can turn great sex to even greater sex by helping your bodies be in new angles and positions.
It’s the best investment you can make and incredibly versatile to use solo or with your partner. Use a sex pillow on your next session to experience a mind-boggling orgasm.
There might be plenty of options in the market, but choose the right one for you and make it your new best friend. You’ll never go back to regular sex ever again. If you need help selecting the perfect sex pillow, we have an excellent guide for that!
Pro Tip: A pillow alternative is an adjustable bed, which you can use to adjust your angle more freely. We have another guide about having sex on an adjustable bed, where we discuss this topic in more detail.
Thanks for reading my guide to the best Liberator sex pillow positions!
Rachel
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