G-spot vibrators are popular for women wanting to spice up their sex life — solo or with a partner — and are most people’s go-to when trying to figure out how to have a squirting orgasm. In this article, Rachel Sommer, our clinical sexologist and trusted sex toy expert shares everything you need to know about this unique toy style before buying it and also gives readers more information on how to use it for the wettest climax of your life! Let’s get straight into it!
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What Is A G-Spot Vibrator?
A G-spot vibrator is a sex toy designed for internal stimulation, particularly for hitting the G-spot. They come in all sorts of shapes and sizes, but they all have a curve to them, kind of like a banana, aimed at reaching that elusive spot. Some have a big, bulbous head – think of a large spoon scooping just the right spot. Others are slimmer, more like a pencil, sleek and straightforward.
What is a G-spot & How To Find It?
The female G-spot is a small, sensitive area located on the upper wall of the vaginal canal that can produce intense pleasure when stimulated.
Now, finding the G-spot can be a bit tricky, especially for beginners. And here’s the kicker- it’s not always in the same place for every person, and it can be difficult to locate without a little help. But don’t worry, here are a few tips to help you find your G-spot:
- First, get comfortable and relax. You want to be in a position where you can easily reach your vagina, such as lying on your back with your knees bent.
- Insert your fingers into your vagina, with your palm facing up. You should feel a slightly rough patch of tissue on the front vaginal wall, about one to three inches inside. That’s your G-spot!
Experiment with a steady pressure first and play around as you go along to see what feels best for you. Keep in mind that not everyone is the same. Some people prefer a gentle tapping motion, while others enjoy more firm pressure.
How To Use A G-Spot Vibrator?
Using G-spot sex toys is pretty much straightforward because they are already designed to do that stuff. But to make it a notch easier, here’s a step-by-step guide you can easily follow for your next solo play:
1. Wash it first
Even if you cleaned your toy after using it last or just took it fresh out of its packaging, a thorough wash is a must. Give your plaything a cleanse with mild soap and warm water, and use a lint-free towel to completely dry it.
When it comes to your vagina, minimal contact with outside bacteria or irritating particles is the best way to keep it happy, and it’s better to be safe than sorry.
2. Make sure it’s fully charged
You’ll want to let it charge completely after taking it out of the package. Afterward, let it run until it’s almost completely dead before charging it again as this is best for its battery life.
Most toys have between 75-120 minutes of run time between charges, so you should have ample time to explore squirting orgasms before needing to plug back in.
If your toy is battery-powered, it’s a good idea to start stocking up on more AAA’s so you’re not left with the disappointment of your toy running out right before you climax.
3. Learn how the controls work
Sure, you can do this step midway through a self-exploration session if you just want to get right into the action. But it’s not a bad idea to turn your toy on and run through the different buttons to figure out what setting they control and how they stimulate before you accidentally click yourself out of the perfect G-spot orgasm. Having a plan is key!
4. Create a good mood & atmosphere
Masturbation has the potential to be a powerful ritual when done correctly. Instead of flipping on your vibrator and cumming in under 5 minutes, take time to create a self-love experience for yourself.
Light your favorite candles, run yourself a bubble bath, and pop on your favorite Spotify playlist. There’s no reason not to savor the experience from start to finish.
If your goal is to squirt, don’t forget to lay down an extra blanket or towel.
5. Add lube
Lube is a must whether you’re indulging in solo or partnered sex. It improves the sensation drastically plus it helps with the penetration. Water-based lube is the best for most toys since it doesn’t wear on medical-grade silicone.
If you’re in a pinch, you can also use a water-silicone hybrid, but you should avoid using them on toys that are made from silicone as it can degrade the surface.
6. Foreplay
Enjoying even 10 minutes of foreplay before penetrative play is essential for a woman to unwind and relax their body entirely. You can play around with your clitoris. Put your sex toy on your nipples. Whatever floats your boat works. Just make sure you are plenty aroused before you stimulate your G-spot. Take my word for it- because this really really helps!
Another benefit of foreplay is that your vagina will begin to self-lubricate and become significantly more accessible for the toys — less in your head and more in your body is key here.
7. Locate your G-spot with a finger first
If you don’t have experience finding your G-spot, using your fingers can help.
Feel around in the first couple of inches of the vaginal opening until you find a space that feels bumpier in texture and sensitive to the touch. That’s how you can be sure you’re in the right place.
8. Slowly insert the vibe with the curve angled up
After all the necessary steps, insert the curved end using the same angle you used with your fingers. It’s a good call to only turn the vibrator on once it’s ready to stimulate your G-spot.
If you have a G-spot vibrator that allows internal and external stimulation at the same time, the same idea applies. Insert the shaft and place the shorter arm on your clitoris before turning it on.
Now, put your toy in a low-speed setting and slowly guide it into your vagina with the tip pointed towards your belly button or the front wall of your vagina, where your G-spot is located.
If the sensation feels good, you might try upping the speed, putting your toy in a higher-intensity vibration setting, and increasing the pressure against the spot. Embrace the urge to pee, as that means you’re on your way to squirting.
9. Try different positions
Laying supine with spread legs is a good position for a lot of women to perform G-spot stimulation and potentially have a squirting orgasm.
If you want, try to experiment with different postures. A squatting position and doggy style are some other popular options. Whatever floats your boat!
Although the sensation of high-speed toys against your G-spot might feel intense, it shouldn’t be uncomfortable.
If you ever feel pain while using your toys, stop and give your body 24-48 hours before using it again. If the pain persists, consider contacting a healthcare professional.
The Difference Between a G-Spot Vibrator and a Dildo
While dildos can come in all shapes and sizes, they tend to be more phallic in shape, with a rounded head and a shaft that may or may not have veins or ridges. Now G-spot vibrators, on the other hand, are designed with an angled or curved tip that is specifically meant to hit the G-spot. So, if you’re looking for a plaything that is going to help you achieve a G-spot orgasm (and let’s be real, who isn’t?), a G-spot vibrator is the way to go.
Another key difference is the level of stimulation. While dildos can certainly provide different sensations, they don’t typically offer the same level of intense, targeted stimulation that a G-spot vibrator can provide. With a G-spot vibrator, you can experiment with different speeds and vibration patterns to find the perfect combination that will send you over the edge.
Plus, many models are designed to be used hands-free so you can do other things like clitoral stimulation while still enjoying the intense G-spot stimulation. Best of both worlds, if you may.
Care and Maintenance
Keeping your G-spot vibrator spick-and-span is as easy as pie. Most are like ducks – they love water (AKA waterproof), so just give them a quick rinse under some lukewarm water for half a minute. But if your toy is more of a cat and hates getting wet (AKA splashproof), just grab a damp cloth, add a bit of soap, and give it a gentle wipe-down.
Make sure to get into all the nooks and crannies, like you’re searching for hidden treasure, to get rid of any stubborn leftovers. Once it’s sparkling clean, pat it dry with a clean towel or cloth, just like you would with your favorite coffee mug.
When it comes to storing your trusty sidekick, think of it like tucking in a treasure. You wouldn’t want it gathering dust or getting roughed up. Find a cool, dry spot away from direct sunlight – a drawer or a cozy little box works wonders.
For an extra layer of TLC, wrap it in a clean cloth, like swaddling a baby. And remember, take those batteries out before you store them! You wouldn’t leave batteries in a remote for ages, right? It’s all about avoiding that dreaded battery goo and keeping your toy ready for its next adventure.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How to Squirt with a G Spot Vibrator?
Use your G-spot vibrator and fingers to simultaneously stimulate your G-spot and clitoris with firm pressure. Once pressure has built for long enough, you will feel the urge to pee. Instead of holding in the sensation, allow yourself to release outwards and enjoy the release of female ejaculation. You can read more about squirting in this guide.
Related: How To Squirt With A Vibrator? PRO TIPS from a Sex Toy Tester!
Can I Use It Anally?
You can use any sex toy for internal anal play as long as it has a flared base large enough that it won’t get stuck inside your body. If your toy is on the thin side, you can still use it for external play, but you’ll want to clean it thoroughly before using it again on your clitoris.
Are G-Spot Vibrators Safe?
Yes. When used correctly and made with high-quality, body-safe material, G-spot vibrators are absolutely safe.
Thanks for reading my guide on how to use G-spot vibrators!
Rachel
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