Tying a vibrator against your clit is a great way to add extra stimulation to solo or partnered play. Not only will it let you experience different sensations, but it’s also a fun way to experience a hands-free orgasm. However, it’s important to do it safely and comfortably. With the help of our sex toy expert, Rachel Sommer, she’s given a lot of options on how to do this the right way for maximum hands-free play!
- Non-loose Underwear is best for a secure and comfortable experience. You can use specially designed panties with a pocket for hands-free stimulation or a regular pair with small modifications: Cut a small hole in the crotch area to fit the vibrator through and secure it with tape.
- Using A Belt: You need a small vibrator with a flat surface for this one to work. Position it against the clit, loop the belt over the top of the vibrator, and pull it tighter to keep it in place. (Not too tight!)
- Bondage Rope is another way to experience hands-free orgasms. For this, you must select a model with a flat surface and a soft and smooth rope that won’t irritate the skin. First, tie the vibrator to the rope using a simple knot, position it against the clit, and wrap it around the waist to keep it in place.
- Bondage Tape is a good method because the tape is strong, flexible, affordable, and easy to use. But like the other methods above, you must use a small vibrator with a flat surface.
Table Of Contents
1. Non-loose Underwear
Using tight underwear keeps the vibrator in place and provides a more secure and comfortable experience. One option is to use vibrator panties with a pocket or pouch for holding it against the clit. These panties are designed to fit snugly against the body and keep the vibrator in place, providing hands-free stimulation.
A more budget option is to use regular panties and cut a small hole in the crotch area to fit the vibrator through. This works best with wand vibrators (image above), which are larger and easier to secure in place. Once you have the toy in place, you can use tape to secure it to the panties to ensure it stays in place during use.
2. Using A Belt
Using a belt for tying the vibrator is a popular method that many people find effective. Here’s how to do it:
- First, choose a vibrator that is small and easy to handle. It should have a flat surface that you can easily press against the clitoris.
- Next, put the belt around the body and adjust it so that it is snug but not too tight. You want to make sure that the vibrator stays in place without causing discomfort.
- Then, position the vibrator against the clit, making sure that it is in the right spot for maximum pleasure. You can use your fingers to guide it into place.
- Once the vibrator is in position, take the end of the belt and loop it over the top of the vibrator. Pull the belt tighter so the vibrator is pressed firmly against the clit.
Finally, tie the belt in a knot or a bow to keep it securely in place. Make sure that the knot or bow is tight enough to prevent it from slipping out of place, but not too tight to prevent blood flow.
3. Using A Bondage Rope
Tying a vibrator against the clit with bondage rope can be a great way to experience hands-free orgasms. Here are the steps to follow:
- Choose the right vibrator: You will need a product with a flat surface that you can easily tie with bondage rope. A bullet or a wand vibrator with a flat head works.
- Get the right rope: Choose a soft and smooth rope that won’t irritate the skin. Avoid using rough or scratchy ropes that can cause discomfort.
- Tie the vibrator: Start by tying the vibrator to the rope using a simple knot. Make sure the knot is tight enough to hold it in place but not too tight to cause discomfort. Leave enough rope to wrap around the body.
- Position the vibrator: Place it against the clit and wrap the rope around the body, making sure it’s tight enough to keep the vibrator in place but not too tight to cause discomfort. You can also tie the rope around the thighs for extra support.
- Test it out: Turn on the toy and adjust the position or tightness of the rope as needed. Experiment with different speeds and vibration patterns to find what feels best for you.
Remember to always communicate with your partner and establish a safe word before engaging in any BDSM activities. Additionally, make sure to check for any signs of discomfort or numbness and remove the vibrator immediately if necessary.
4. Using Bondage Tape
Bondage tape is a great tool for tying a vibrator against the clit because it is strong, flexible, and easy to use. Here are the steps to follow:
- Choose the right vibrator: The first step is to select a vibrator that is suitable for this kind of play. Ideally, you want something that is small, powerful, and has a flat surface that can be easily tied against the clit. Some popular options include bullet vibes, wand massagers, and vibrating eggs (image below).
- Buy the bondage tape: Once you have the vibrator, you need to buy the bondage tape. This type of tape is designed to stick to itself, not to skin or hair, which makes it a safe and effective option for bondage play. You can find it at most walk-in sex shops or online retailers like Lovehoney.
- Prepare the area: Make sure the vaginal area is clean and dry. Trim any pubic hair that might interfere with the tape. You can also use a water-based lubricant for more comfort.
- Place the vibrator: Turn on the vibrator and place it against the clit. Use your fingers to hold it in place while you wrap the tape around it. Start at the base and wrap the tape around it, making sure to cover the entire surface. You can wrap the tape as tightly or as loosely as you like, depending on your preference.
- Secure the tape: Once you have wrapped the tape around the vibrator, secure it in place by pressing it against itself. You can also tie a knot in the tape to make it even more secure. Be careful not to tie it too tight, as this can cause discomfort or even pain.
Once it’s securely tied against the clit, you can start to enjoy the sensations. You can use your hands, mouth, or other toys to stimulate other areas of the body while the vibrator does its work.
Other Hands-Free Vibrators You Can Try
Butterfly Vibrator
A butterfly vibrator is an effective hands-free solution that works right out of the box. It’s held in place by straps or wings that go between the labia and has a part that stimulates the clitoris. Some models also have a vibrating part that can stimulate the G-spot without using hands.
One of the best butterfly vibrators we tested is the Evolved Butterfly Effect (image above) because it’s made from soft, body-safe silicone and features a unique butterfly shape that is designed to fit perfectly against your clit. It also has a powerful motor that provides intense vibrations, and it’s rechargeable so you never have to worry about running out of batteries.
To use the Evolved Butterfly Effect, simply apply a water-based lubricant to the shaft and insert it into your vagina. Then position the butterfly against your clit and turn on the vibrations. You can experiment with different vibration patterns and speeds to find the perfect level of stimulation for you.
Panty Vibrator
A panty vibrator is another commercial product that won’t involve any DIY hacking as they are designed to be worn inside your panties, with a small pocket or pouch that holds the vibe in place against your clitoris. This leaves your hands free to explore other parts of your body or to focus on other activities.
One popular option is the Lovense Ferri (image below). This powerful and discreet vibrator is designed to be worn in your panties, with a magnetic clip that keeps it securely in place. You can control it via Bluetooth, so your partner can take control of the vibrations from anywhere in the world.
When choosing panty vibrators, it’s important to consider factors like size, shape, and power. You want something that will fit comfortably in your panties and stay in place, while still providing enough stimulation to get you off. Look for a vibrator with multiple vibration settings, so you can experiment and find the perfect level of intensity.
You must also choose a vibrator made from body-safe materials, such as silicone or ABS plastic. These materials are non-porous and easy to clean, which helps prevent the spread of bacteria and other germs.
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