17 Best Remote-Control Vibrators 2024, REALLY Tested! [Video]

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Remote-control vibrators are like a portable sex partner who tags along everywhere you go. The ‘always horny’ lover fits into your travel plans swiftly, popping out on demand to satisfy your needs before returning to their hideout without fuss. But which of the many products and brands should I buy?

We’ve tested remote-controlled vibrators since 2016, and while there are many great models on the market, we recommend the trusted Lovense Lush 3. The testers especially liked the flexible design that made it perfect for G-spot stimulation whenever and wherever. Its pleasantly flexible neck also means it can fit different body shapes and sizes with ease. At the same time, the Lovense remote app lets you enjoy endless customization, including long-distance control, music sync, and sound-activated vibrations.

Key Takeaways

Test Winner: Lovense Lush 3
Lovense Lush Lovense Lush 3 is our favorite long-distance remote-control vibrator. The discreet G-spot vibrator has 7 vibration patterns, a bigger motor, and redesigned tail. It’s also compatible with the Lovense Remote app for exciting public play. Discount code MSTG15 for 15% off!


Dual Stimulation: We-Vibe Sync 2
We-Vibe Sync 2If you want both clit and G-spot stimulation, We-Vibe Sync 2 is my top pick. The flexible design is easy to adjust, and it has multiple vibration combinations. In addition, you can control it using the built-in interface, the wireless remote, or the free We-Connect app.


Anal Stimulation: Lovense Hush 2
Lovense Hush 2Lovense Hush 2 is ideal for anal sex fans. The small yet powerful butt plug has multiple vibration combinations, available in four sizes to cater to different people. And with a multi-purpose remote app, the anal plug is perfect for public play.


Why You Should Trust Us

Rachel SommerHi, I am Rachel Sommer and I am a clinical sexologist. Since I started testing sex toys professionally in 2016, I’ve recommended hundreds of vibrators, especially discreet and portable models. I’m a born adventurer, and my ‘away from home’ schedule makes this portable vibe’ union a match made in heaven.

If you have any questions for Rachel, please call her at +1 307-372-3895 or send an email to [email protected]. Please include your name, phone number, and email address to make it easy for her to get back to you promptly.

 


How We Picked the Products

I started by distributing a quick questionnaire to understand my colleagues’ views of remote-control vibrators and get at least 5 top-of-the-head recommendations. After getting the responses, I selected dozens of the most review-worthy models and divided them among the team for testing. But before sending them on the 30-day exercise, I defined the following test criteria that we could measure using well-defined quantitative metrics:

  • Beyond everything, the Bluetooth control range was critical when choosing our review samples. For this reason, we paid attention to the range, ensuring the top picks had enough range for couples to control each other’s rumbles from across the room at home or the table in a restaurant. Where possible, we prioritized hands-free vibrators with a compatible smartphone app. Unlike a traditional remote control, a dedicated app offers an unlimited range.
  • For most people, products like the Lovense Lush 3 and Edge 2 double as public play sex toys. For this reason, I underlined the importance of discreetness. The size and shape must align with outdoor wear, ensuring the vibrator feels comfortable even when worn for extended periods. Most importantly, the motor must be discreet enough not to cause a fuss in public. You don’t want land mower-esque noise down there, at least not when grocery shopping. Do you?
  • Besides having an easy-to-use and comfortable-to-wear design, we paid more attention to remote vibrators with specific design tweaks meant to enhance connectivity. For instance, the Lovense Lush 3 has a Printed Circuit Board (PCB) in the redesigned antennae for enhanced connectivity.
  • Settings. The number of settings varies from one model to the other; as you’d imagine, the more, the better.
  • The build and material quality were non-negotiables. We made sure to only pick top-notch engineered devices made from 100% body-safe materials.
  • Besides being environmentally friendly, we love rechargeable batteries because they’re more affordable in the long run. In addition, we tested the charging time and output to ensure it made sense for the review.
  • Extra Bells & Whistles. While some bells and whistles come at a price, we paid attention to special features like a waterproof design and suction waves.

During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Design (25%) and Stimulations (25%). After that comes Range (10%), Discreetness (10%), and Settings (10%).

Once the team returned with the findings, I enlisted the services of fellow sexologists and sexual health writers. Together, we analyzed and compared the reports with customer reviews from vendors and sex toy forums, a ruthless exercise that led us to these 17 best remote-control vibrators.

 


Everything We Tested

In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criteria.

Lovense Lush 3We-Vibe Sync 2Lovense Hush 2Kiiroo Onyx+ And Pearl 2We-Vibe Moxie+b-Vibe Rimming PlugOhMiBod Esca 2We-Vibe JiveLovense Domi 2Lovense ExomoonLovense FerriLovense Edge 2We-Vibe MeltWe-Vibe Nova 2Lovehoney Desire LuxuryLovehoney Thrill SeekerButterfly Effect Wearable
NameLush 3Sync 2Hush 2Onyx+ And Pearl 2Moxie+Rimming PlugEsca 2JiveDomi 2ExomoonFerriEdge 2MeltNova 2DesireThrill SeekerButterfly Effect
CategoryBest OverallDual StimulationAnalCouple SetClitRimming ActionConnectableEggWandLipstickWirelessMaleClit SuckingRabbitPeggingBudgetButterfly
Average Rating96%94%93%93%92%92%92%90%89%89%89%88%87%87%86%85%84%
Design97%95%93%92%93%92%91%91%90%90%89%88%88%89%88%87%85%
Range95%90%92%92%90%93%90%89%92%89%90%88%87%88%86%85%83%
Build Quality96%89%92%93%92%92%89%93%85%88%88%91%90%88%90%84%85%
Discreetness95%89%91%90%92%92%89%87%89%89%89%89%89%86%85%87%86%
Settings96%88%94%93%89%93%93%90%88%92%91%88%87%86%85%83%82%
Special Features95%89%93%91%92%92%88%91%89%90%92%89%90%88%89%84%90%
Build Quality96%91%91%92%91%93%92%90%86%88%87%87%88%83%85%86%86%
Battery Life94%88%94%91%91%93%90%89%88%89%86%87%87%86%86%85%84%
Price & Value87%93%87%84%89%89%93%91%87%90%87%90%88%88%92%95%94%
Price Tag$119 – $199$159$179$289$139.00$144.99$109.99$129$199$139$199$139.99$149$149.99$119.99$39.99$79.99
MaterialSiliconeSiliconeSiliconeABS & POMSiliconeSiliconeSilicone & ABSSiliconeSilicone & ABSSilicone & ABSSilicone & ABSSiliconeSiliconeSiliconeSilicone & ABSABSSilicone & ABS
Circumference4.3 inchesN/A3.14 inches – 7 inches3.7 inches – 5.3 inches3 inches4.5 inches4 inches4.25 inches5.46 inchesN/A3.32 inches4.3 inches4.25 inchesN/A4.25 inches4.25 inchesN/A
Insertable Length3 inches3 inches3.86 inches – 5.16 inches6.5 inchesN/A3 inches7.3 inches3.5 inches9.2 inches3.46 inches2.93 inches3.5 inches6 inches5 inches5 inches3 inches4.5 inches

 


1. Lovense Lush 3: Our Overall Test Winner!

Lovense Lush 3

Why we love Lovense Lush 3:

If you’re in the market for a public vibrator, look no further – Lovense Lush 3 is our overall test winner and the best remote control vibrator! The internal stimulation toy is a 3rd generation egg vibrator with improved efficiency through a bigger motor and redesigned tail for better connectivity. The flexible G-spot remote control toy also has an easy-to-use interface for those who want a quickie without needing the remote control vibrator app.

The testers gave a lot of credit to the impressive 7 vibration patterns. “The first two might be frail, but when you cross over to third gear, things get more serious”, our lead product tester Sandra Larson wrote in her test report. “I thought the last four settings provided an objective measure of power, something intermediary and experienced users will appreciate”, Sandra continued.

Lush 3 and the Lovense remote app

They also pointed out that Lush 3 was compatible with the Lovense Remote app (image above) which we rated as the most effective mobile app. The dedicated smartphone application adds more vibration possibilities and simplifies control. It also packs a series of bells and whistles, including the alarm function, music sync, and sound-activated vibrations.

Everyone pretty much agreed that the sleek silicone finish felt great against the skin. The bulbous head (circled below) has a broad face that covers a significant area, adding to the chances of a successful internal stimulation. My colleagues also thought the clitoral hugging tail pushed the bud further, preventing it from popping out mid-session. Solid design overall.

Magnetic charging port and cable

Minor issues we found during testing:

The only downside? The Lovense Lush 3 is an internal stimulation sex toy with nothing to offer for the clitoris. The elongated tail is designed to enhance connectivity and keep the G-spot targeting head in place – just that!

Why Lovense Lush 3 is our overall test winner:

Of the dozens of products we tested, Lovense Lush 3 was rated highest in the most critical areas. Let’s  look at the raw test data to see how we motivated our decision:

  • Simulations: All testers agreed that Lush 3 is the most powerful remote-control vibrator, giving it an average rating of 96%, the highest in our review. Our tester Angela summed up the power like this: “On its lowest setting, it was more potent than other vibrating bullet vibes on high. On the highest setting, it’s enough to feel like a small internal earthquake”.
  • Special Features: It’s compatible with the Lovense Remote app, opening your world to new possibilities. The flexible silicone sex toy is perfect for close-range and long-distance control.
  • Discreetness: We could easily wear Lush 3 for an evening out. It’s so discreet it’s impossible to know you’re wearing something. During testing, it felt comfortable both standing up and sitting. It even sat inside while laughing and sneezing. However, heavy jumping caused it to fall out, so don’t wear it while box jumping or raving!

If you want to see what Lovense Lush 3 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Read about other Lovense toys here. And read our detailed review of Lush 3 here.

  • Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
  • Diameter: 1.37″
  • Insertable Length: 3″

Pros:

  • It’s the most powerful remote control egg vibrator.
  • Multiple vibration combinations.
  • The 3rd generation sex toy features a series of design enhancements.
  • It’s compatible with the Lovense Remote app.
  • The USB-rechargeable vibrator is waterproof.
  • It’s easy to clean.

Cons:

  • It completely neglects the clitoris.
  • The wearable vibrator is pricey – ($119 – $199)

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2. We-Vibe Sync 2: Most Effective For Dual Stimulation

We-Vibe Sync 2

Why we love We-Vibe Sync 2:

We-Vibe Sync 2 is our preferred option if you want dual stimulation. The testers thought the well-designed sex toy targeted the G-spot and clitoris most effectively thanks to the adjustable build. “I found it easy to hit the sweet spots with the C-shaped design (image above)”, Rachel Sommer reported. “You can regulate the remote control vibe motors independently, making it easy to customize the experience”, Rachel added.

We also rated the vibrations as “Potent” for the toy’s compact size. We especially appreciated that the hands-free vibrator has an excellent range of vibration settings, 7 patterns and 3 speeds. We’ve used sex toys with more combinations, but Sync 2’s lineup offers sufficient versatility for a good time, whether playing solo or spicing up your sex life with a partner.

We-Vibe Sync 2 and the remote control

The testers also highlighted the seamless design of the remote control. As you can see in the image above, the upgraded version has a flatter internal arm, making it more comfortable during penetration. Unfortunately, I’d have liked it if the insertable shaft had been thicker. Still, the bulbous head and slim neckline make the sex toy cozier while preventing it from slipping out when you wear it in public.

Note: The Sync 2 texturing on the internal arm could be better. Unlike the original We-Vibe Sync, the ridges are slimmer, missing the comfy silicone in between and making the toy uncomfortable when worn for extended sessions.

The device charging

Something else that stood out was the multiple control options. Sync 2 comes with a remote control already connected. More importantly, the We-Vibe app has an intuitive interface and only comes second after the Lovense Remote app. In addition, connecting the application to the wearable vibrator was straightforward.

The multiple control options make We-Vibe Sync 2 perfect for close-range and long-distance relationships. The remote control has an impressive range of up to 20 feet, and the mobile app’s intuitive interface and endless customization make the experience unique.

The packaging

We-Vibe Sync 2’s upgrade list includes a quieter and more powerful motor. In addition, the vibrator has a better battery life and a flatter insertable arm for more straightforward penetration.

Pro Tips: If you’re okay without some of the bells and whistles, We-Vibe is selling a less expensive and scaled-down version called Sync Lite. You can see the two models side by side in the image below. You can read our review of We-Vibe Sync Lite here.

We-Vibe Sync Lite and Sync 2

Minor issues we found during testing:

One of the downsides was the remote control. While the punchy buttons and all-silicone body enhance handling, the remote control is not waterproof. In addition, it’s battery-operated, which is expensive in the long run.

In addition, the slimmer ridges on the We-Vibe Sync 2 make it less comfortable, especially when worn for extended sessions.

Why We-Vibe Sync 2 is our favorite for dual stimulations:

  • Design: The testers were excited to test We-Vibe Sync 2. The upgraded remote control vibrator has a seamless build, rendering it ideal for dual stimulations. And with the C-shaped design and adjustable body, the vibrator is easy to use and very effective in targeting the G-spot and clitoris.
  • Bells & Whistles: Besides the C-shaped build, the team loved We-Vibe Sync 2’s multi-control capabilities. Everything from the dedicated remote control to the dedicated We-Vibe application enhances the user experience and makes the vibrator perfect for close-range and long-distance control.
  • Versatility: The remote control vibrator’s versatility stood out from the competition. The sex toy’s well-thought-out design enhances retention and makes it perfect for public play. Secondly, you can use Sync 2 for masturbation and coupled sex. And with remote control and reliable mobile application, the possibilities are endless.

If you want to see what We-Vibe Sync 2 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of We-Vibe Sync 2 here.

Features:

  • Material: Silicone
  • Size: 1.6″ x 2.9″

Pros:

  • Impressive remote control and We-Vibe mobile application.
  • A compact wearable design is ideal for public play.
  • The versatile sex toy is perfect for close-range and long-distance partners.
  • Outstanding versatility.
  • The sex toy is easy to clean.

Cons:

  • Uncomfortable grippy texture.
  • The remote control is not waterproof.

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3. Lovense Hush 2: Highest-Rated For Anal Stimulation

Lovense Hush 2

Why we love Lovense Hush 2:

Lovense Hush 2 is the best remote control butt plug on this list. Its tapered head and graduating body design make anal penetration straightforward. And with four different sizes, beginners and experienced anal sex fans can flex their muscles with this one.

One thing that stood out was the anal plug’s powerful motor. “It might not be the strongest, but it delivers a punch for its size”, Rachel Sommer commented. “In addition, the anal toy has 4 vibration patterns and 3 intensity levels, making for an exciting set of combinations”, She added.

Closeup of Hush 2's base

Lovense Hush 2 has a single-button control interface at the base (image above). Some team members told me that they don’t like sex toys with buttons at the base because handling becomes a challenge, especially in sex positions where you don’t have a direct view. If this is an issue for you, we recommend using the Lovense Remote App.

Among other things, the mobile app adds to the vibration combinations, adding 10 patterns and 3 vibration speeds. Other advantages of the Lovense app include music sync, sound-activated rumbles, and simplified long-distance control.

The device charging

Minor issues we found during testing:

My main concern was the vibrator’s over-reliance on a solid internet connection. You lose 50% of the available features without a mobile app.

In addition, the button on the base is difficult to reach while inserted, so I recommend using the app at all times.

Why Lovense Hush 2 is best for anal vibrations:

Lovense Hush 2 is an ideal choice for anal sex fans. The small yet powerful butt plug boasts multiple vibration combinations. In addition, it’s available in four different sizes to cater to different people. And with a multi-purpose remote app, the anal plug is a force to reckon with. It also performed well with the following test criteria:

  • Special Features: The Lovense remote app worked like a charm, and I never had any Bluetooth connectivity issues. The app is also loaded with features that will take your long-distance relationship to new heights.
  • Stimulations: It was more potent than most remote toys, beaten only by Lush 3. In addition, it has many vibration patterns so it will be suitable for all genders and body types.

If you want to see what Lovense Hush 2 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of Lovense Hush 2 here.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Diameter: 1″ – 2.25″
  • Insertable Length: 3.86″ – 5.16″

Pros:

  • A well-designed butt vibrator.
  • The tapered design simplifies anal penetration.
  • It’s made from body-safe silicone material.
  • 100% waterproof.
  • The Lovense Remote app adds to the possibilities.
  • It’s available in 4 different sizes.

Cons:

  • The butt plug is not ideal for prostate massage fans.

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4. Kiiroo Onyx+ And Pearl 2: Highest-Rated Couple Set

Kiiroo couple set

Why we love Kiiroo Onyx+ and Pearl 2 couple set:

The Kiiroo Onyx+ and Pearl 2 set was the most recommended couple kit we tested. Kiiroo Onyx+ (left in the image below) has a compact design complemented by a textured masturbation sleeve with 10 unique contracting rings. These inscribed rings move up and down and side by side to simulate real oral sex. In addition, the masturbator has a top speed of 140 strokes in a minute, making for an intense yet realistic experience.

Kiiroo Couple Set

The stroker has 3 vibration patterns you can regulate with the intuitive touch-sensitive control pad on the side. It also comes with three interchangeable sleeves, with the option of choosing between a tight or regular fit depending on your penis size.

Kiiroo Pearl 2 (right in the image above) has high-tech sensors that relay your movements to your partner’s Onyx+ for the ultimate realistic sex. You can also use the Onyx’s touch-sensitive control pad (circled below) to regulate the vibrator’s intensity.

Onyx+ and the interior sleeve

Kiiroo Pearl 2 has a silky-smooth body and a slightly curved shaft for precise internal stimulation. The USB-rechargeable vibrator is made from premium silicone, which gives it a plush feel against the skin. And even for a stiff vibrator, it was gentle on my G-spot. Most importantly, its rounded head transfers the vibrations right where you need them.

The masturbator and vibrator connect with the dedicated Feel Connect app, simplifying long-distance control and offering more vibration patterns.

Pearl2

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the Onyx+ can be loud, and you might need music or a heavy duvet to mask the noise. In addition, the couples’ set is pricey, and not most people will shell down $289 at once for sex toys.

Why Kiiroo Onyx+ and Pearl2 are the highest-rated couple set:

The Kiiroo Onyx+ and Pearl 2 couple set is ideal for partners living away from each other. Besides the teledildonics technology that recreates realistic sex, these toys are compatible with the Feel Connect app, which dramatically simplifies handling. The app also opens the door to new adventures, including interactive Virtual Reality content. In addition, the kit performed well with the following key decision-making factors:

  • Ease of Use: The testers gave the Kiiroo kit a score of 84%. The score would have been higher if it hadn’t taken several attempts to connect the two devices. But once they were up and running, it worked like a charm!
  • Realism: One tester summed up the experience like this: “Using it together was like the TouchSensitive feature had taken steroids. It was so good feeling him thrust away at various speeds and changing as it went from slow to fast, teasing me and getting me worked up.” In other words, an A+ experience through and through.

If you want to see how the movements are synchronized between the two devices, please check out our demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the Kiiroo Couple Set here.

Kiiroo Onyx+:

  • Material: ABS Plastic, POM
  • Diameter: 1.18 – 1.69″
  • Insertable Length: 6.5″

Pearl2:

  • Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Diameter: 1.125″
  • Insertable Length: 5.25″

Pros:

  • The perfect kit for long-distance partners who want virtual sex.
  • Impressive teledildonics technology recreates sex.
  • Both toys are compatible with the Feel Connect app.
  • The Onyx+’s contracting rings simulate oral sex.
  • Pearl 2’s sensors transfer the movements to your partner’s masturbator (Bi-directional control).
  • Special features, including interactive VR content.

Cons:

  • The Onyx+ takes 4 hours to get a full charge.
  • The set is pricey – $289.

Update: Seeing the positive response, we went out of our way to negotiate a special deal with Kiiroo for you! If you buy the couple set using the Kiiroo link below, you get a 10% discount at checkout!

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5. We-Vibe Moxie+: Best For Clit Vibrations

We-Vibe Moxie+

Why we love We-Vibe Moxie+:

We-Vibe Moxie+ is the perfect choice for clitoral stimulation fans. Especially for those who don’t want a sex toy that has you fiddling with the buttons, this beauty from We-Vibe has an easy-to-use controller (circled in the above image) that lets you focus on what matters the most: having a good time.

Unlike the original Moxie, the new remote control has a grippy silicone finish, making it easy to hold on even with lubed-up palms. Unlike the previous rounded ring for all buttons, the new interface has separate buttons. The indented functions are easy to track, even in positions where you don’t have a direct view of the action.

Screenshots from the We-Connect App

The remote control comes in handy for people who don’t like dealing with the technicalities of a mobile application. “I’m not the most creative at designing vibration patterns from scratch, so I always pick the remote controller. I’m not alone, am I?”, Rachel Sommer commented.

Moxie’s compatibility with the We-Vibe app (screenshots above) makes the sex toy dynamic. Of course, the remote control simplifies the user experience significantly by eliminating the technicalities of a mobile application, but the We-Connect app opens your world to numerous possibilities. Besides allowing you to hand over control to your partner regardless of the distance, you can enjoy exclusive perks like music sync and endless vibration customization.

We-Vibe Moxie+ inside my panties

We’ve tested numerous We-Vibe sex toys over the years, so controlling the app was bliss. We expected a few hitches during initial connection efforts, but they vanished when we disconnected and connected the sex toy again.

The testers especially appreciated the panty vibrator’s design. The soft ridge has an angled tip that directs the vibrations to specific spots on the clitoris. Whether you want to focus on the lips or the clitoral hood, the We-Vibe Moxie+ is ideal for pinpoint external stimulation. In the image above, I demonstrate how to use it on one of my panties.

We-Vibe Moxie+ attached to my underwear

Besides the handy remote control, the designers put their best foot forward with the build quality. Everything from the choice of materials to the top-notch artistry makes the clit vibrator stand out. The test reports highlighted how the elegant and cozy silicone material complemented the intelligent design, making the sex toy ideal for extended wear.

“Moxie’s angled tip plants itself against the clitoris, making for a cozy experience. And with the squishy silicone material and magnetic clip, you can be sure of a secure connection,” Sandra Larson explained.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the remote controller is not the most affordable remote-control vibrator in the article. It costs $139, a price most people consider high for a panty vibrator.

Like other bullet vibrators, We-Vibe Moxie+’s vibrations are powerful for the size, but experienced folks will find it underwhelming. If you must have intense rumbles to get over the edge, consider getting a wand vibrator.

Why We-Vibe Moxie+ is our preferred for clit vibrations:

  • Bells & Whistles: The clit vibrator’s redesigned remote control has a cozy silicone finish, giving it more grip and simplifying the user experience. The new look interface has independent buttons, with slight indentation to make it easy to reach them even when you don’t have a direct view of the action. Overall, it performed better in this test category than the other clitoral vibrators.
  • Design: The design language was the highest-rated among the reviewed clit vibrators. The intelligently-shaped design has an angled tip and soft ridge, making the vibe perfect for pinpoint clit stimulation. The edged shape, coupled with a magnetic clip and soft silicone material, makes the toy ideal for extended wear.
  • Build & Material Quality: Like other sex toys in the We-Vibe collection, Moxie+ boasts outstanding build and material quality. It looks and feels long-lasting, and even a shake test didn’t come back with moving parts. The vibrator is well-made and will last for long with the proper maintenance.

If you want to see what We-Vibe Moxie+ looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

We have a comprehensive We-Vibe Moxie+ review here. You can also read more about vibrating panties in this article.

Features:

  • Material: Silicone
  • Size: 3.35″ x .91″ x 1.06″

Pros:

  • A well-designed remote control clitoral vibrator.
  • Impressively easy-to-use remote control.
  • Outstanding build and material quality.
  • Hypoallergenic and phthalate-free silicone material.
  • It’s We-Vibe app-compatible.
  • Ideal for long-distance couples.
  • The sex toy is easy to clean.

Cons:

  • The buzz might be underwhelming for experienced clit sex toy users.
  • It’s pricey – $139.

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6. b-Vibe Rimming Plug: Rimming Simulation

b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite with the remote control

Why we love the b-Vibe Rimming Plug:

The b-Vibe Rimming Plug is the top model for anal sex fans because of a series of swirling beads around the neck, which, when activated, feel like someone licking your ass, or what the sex toy industry refers to as rimming.

The testers also thought the small size makes it perfect for first-time anal sex toy users. You can also use it as a stepping stone to prepare for anal sex. (In the image below, we placed a ruler next to it as a size reference.)

b-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite

The first time we used the wireless vibrator was delightful and confusing. My colleagues didn’t know what to expect from this ‘ass licking’ vibe. But the sensations felt pretty realistic, which was almost too good to be true.

In addition, the vibrator has a remote to complement the single-button interface at the base (image below). The well-marked buttons turn the vibrations on and regulate them to your liking. The remote controller has an impressive 30-feet range which outperformed the competition.

The base with the control button and charging port

Finally, the anal plug has 7 rotation and vibration settings, all with adjustable intensity levels. A tapered tip, a graduating design, and multiple vibration combinations pave the way for intense anal orgasms.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, you can’t regulate the vibrations and rimming rotations independently. The anal toy also costs $144.99, a rather steep price tag. The plug can also be noisy, especially in high settings.

Why the b-Vibe Rimming Plug is the best for rimming:

The b-Vibe Rimming Plug is a great vibrating butt plug for newbies and intermediary users. It has a unique rimming action that simulates ass licking. In addition, the plug has a remote, making it our top remote control anal vibrator for solo play and partner play.

  • Stimulations: All reviewers praised the unique rimming feature. It was pleasurable and rated as an excellent addition to butt play, albeit the testers reported it didn’t feel like an actual rimjob.
  • Ease of Use: The device is effortless to use, with an average rating of 90%. You can use the remote control or the buttons at the base, which can be a bit challenging to use while inserted.

If you want to see what the b-Vibe Rimming Plug looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Read more about butt plugs here.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Circumference: 4.5″
  • Insertable Length: 3″

Pros:

  • The anal toy has swirling beads that rotate to mimic ass licking.
  • It’s made from body-safe silicone material.
  • The tapered tip simplifies insertion.
  • Impressive 7 vibration and rotation patterns, each with 6 intensity levels.
  • The flared base renders it anal play-safe.

Cons:

  • The vibrator is splashproof – not waterproof.
  • It’s pricey – $144.99.

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7. OhMiBod Esca 2: Connectable To Other Toys

OhMiBod Esca 2

Why we love OhMiBod Esca 2:

OhMiBod Esca 2 reminds me of the Lovense Lush 3, with a unique C-shaped design, bulbous head, and protruding tail. But one thing about the G-spot toy that stands out is its compatibility with other sex toys. It connects to apps like Feel Connect and the OhMiBod Remote app. The former allows you to connect the vibrator with your partner’s Kiiroo sex toys for real-time interactivity.

Esca 2 and the smartphone app

The 2nd generation sex toy has a more flexible body than its predecessor to enhance the wearer’s comfort. Other notable enhancements during the review include a more prominent head for improved G-spot targeting, a longer tail to strengthen connectivity and hold the vibrator, and a quieter motor for the ultimate discreet play.

The testers thought the three variations offered great flexibility based on your preferences. Plus, the fact you can turn off the LED (circled below) and get 100% motor intensity was great because the light can be too bright at night.

The control button and LED tip

Something else I noted was the visible LED light at the tail. Besides being responsive, it’s tied to the 3 Bluetooth settings:

  • Full LED and 100% motor power
  • Full LED and 50% motor power
  • No LED and 100% motor power

Minor issues we found during testing:

The only downside? The G-spot vibrator is not waterproof. Also, the app’s intuitiveness could be better – it can be hard to navigate for a first-timer.

Why OhMiBod Esca 2 is my favorite teledildonics vibrator:

If you’re looking for an app-controlled vibrator compatible with numerous sex toys, you should add OhMiBod Esca 2 to your shopping cart ASAP. Everything from the responsive LED that changes with different settings to the multiple remote apps stands out.

  • Sound Level: This is an area where Esca 2 shined. You can barely hear it while inserted, making it a very discreet device. When we had our air purifier turned on, my partner couldn’t hear it in the highest setting, even while standing in the same room!
  • Battery Life: Another area where Esca 2 stood out. It outperformed most other devices in our battery and charging testing, scoring a stunning 95% with a 3-hour battery life. Wow!

If you want to see what the OhMiBod Esca 2 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

  • Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Diameter: 1.3″
  • Length: 7.3″

Pros:

  • High-grade teledildonic sex toy.
  • Multiple mobile app compatibility.
  • It connects with Kiiroo devices.
  • Club mode syncs the vibrations to your music/ambient sound.
  • The responsive LED lights respond to the different settings.
  • It’s a versatile wearable vibrator.

Cons:

  • Unfortunately, it’s not waterproof.
  • The LED can be too bright.

Update: Seeing the positive response, we went out of our way to negotiate a special deal with Kiiroo for you! If you buy Esca2 using the link below, you get a 10% discount at checkout!

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8. We-Vibe Jive: Egg-Shaped Model

We-Vibe Jive

Why we love We-Vibe Jive:

Like OhMiBod Esca 2, this vibrating egg has a design similar to the Lovense Lush 3. The testers especially loved its more ‘rumbly’ vibrations. And they found it more impactful than Lush 3’s, at least for their G-spot.

The comfort also received high ratings, where the all-silicone body made it plush against the skin. The slimline, soft body and rumbly vibrations made it even better for internal stimulation. They also thought the vibrator was easier to penetrate for beginners.

Closeup if the magnetic charger and control button on the Jive

Something else we noticed was the ultra-thin neck. “Jessica and I found it more comfortable during penetrative sex, even better than We-Vibe Sync”, Rachel Sommer reported. To get an idea of the neck size, we snapped a photo of the product from above (image above).

We think the vibrator has a good combination of 10 vibration settings and a single-button interface for straightforward control. In addition, it’s compatible with the We-Vibe app, so you can always hand control to your partner for impressive close-range and long-distance fun.

The device charging

Minor issues we found during testing:

Like OhMiBod Esca 2 and Lovense Lush 3, the protruding tail is meant to enhance connectivity and not for clitoral stimulation. You might have to look elsewhere if you’re after external stimulation.

Why We-Vibe Jive is the best remote control egg vibrator:

We-Vibe Jive is an incredible pick for remote-control toy fans. The vibrating love egg boasts 10 vibration settings, a flexible tail for better connectivity, and a dedicated mobile app for simplified control. Its slimline design also renders it perfect to use during coupled penetrative sex. Let’s look closer at the test report to see how it performed:

  • Settings: This is where Jive stood out. The testers praised the broad spectrum of settings, giving it an average score of 90%. Only the Lovense toys scored higher in this category. The report especially highlighted the app control, which worked well from any distance.
  • Stimulations: Jive beat out the other egg vibrators in the power category. Our tester Rhiannon summed up the experience like this: “Although I am not exactly into the idea of wearable toys, the internal stimulation for this wearable G-spot vibrator was a whole vibe! The vibrations were strong and radiated throughout my body, and they hit all the right spots.”

If you want to see what the We-Vibe Jive looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the We-Vibe Jive in this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Circumference: 4.25″
  • Length: 8.5″
  • Insertable Length: 3.5″

Pros:

  • A discreet yet powerful vibrating egg.
  • The vibrating egg is compatible with the We-vibe app.
  • Its slimline design renders it perfect to use during penetrative sex.
  • The bulbous head enhances G-spot stimulation.
  • Intuitive single-button control.
  • Up to 10 vibration settings.

Cons:

  • It does nothing for the clitoris.

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9. Lovense Domi 2: Wand-Shaped Model

Lovense Domi 2

Why we love Lovense Domi 2:

If you’re in the market for a powerful wireless wand vibrator, Lovense Domi was rated highest among the test samples. The 2nd generation wand massager has an improved design from its predecessor with a ribbed body to simplify handling. In addition, it has an overall more petite body, making it easy to hold the wand, even if you have smaller hands.

Domi 2 is compatible with the Lovense Remote app, opening your world to new possibilities (screenshots below). The smartphone app adds 10 vibration settings and 2 intensity levels. Secondly, it lets you sync the vibrations to your playlist and enjoy unique features like music-activated rumbles.

The Lovense remote app

The wand massager’s rotating head was another highlight of my review. I thought the vibrations were powerful enough in isolation, but the rotating head added a new degree of flexibility, allowing me to target specific points on the clitoris.

The wand vibrator is compatible with multiple accessories, including the male and female attachment, if you want to turn the wand into a penetrative sex toy.

The device charging

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the wand massager was loud, especially in high settings. I also thought the $109 pricing was too steep for a wand sex toy.

Why Lovense Domi 2 is the best remote control wand vibrator:

Lovense Domi 2 is our preferred model if you’re looking powerful remote-control wand vibrator. It has a rotating head for precise external stimulation and an easy-grip handle to enhance handling. It also connects to the Lovense Remote app, improving your close-range and long-distance control experience. In addition, it performed well in the following test criteria:

  • Special Features: As always, the Lovense Remote app performed better than the competition, with fewer glitches and more features. The application lets you sync it to ambient noises so it vibrates stronger when you moan louder. You can also sync it to your favorite playlist.
  • Stimulations: Domi 2 takes the pole position for rumbly vibrations. No other model came close for vibrations on the rumblier spectrum. The good news is that you can dial down the rumbliness a tad in the app, but it comes at the expense of the power.

If you want to see what Lovense Domi 2 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the Lovense Domi 2 here.

  • Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Head Diameter: 1.74″
  • Length: 9.21″

Pros:

  • A robust wireless remote-controlled vibrator.
  • The unique rotating head promotes precision.
  • It connects to the Lovense remote app.
  • Extra bells and whistles like music sync and sound-activated vibrations.
  • Incredible battery life – at least 4 hours.

Cons:

  • The wand vibrator can be loud.

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10. Lovense Exomoon: Most Discreet Model

Lovense Exomoon

Why we love Lovense Exomoon:

Initially, we were a bit skeptical about Lovense Exomoon, especially the power. But in the end, it exceeded our expectations. The small lipstick vibrator had a powerful motor with multiple vibrations which we believe is decent enough for the majority of consumers.

Something else we noted during our review was the pointed lipstick head (circled in red below). “Though small in size, I thought it was perfect for targeting specific points of the clitoris”, Sandra Larson wrote in her report. “unlike most lipstick vibes, the soft silicone material means the clitoral toy is gentle even in the highest settings”, Sandra added.

The device charging

The testers also appreciated how discretely designed the Exomoon was – it looks like a regular lipstick with a classic matte black cover. Jessica and I challenged each other to walk outside with it in our palms, and no one paid attention. Not even a quick stare!

We even put it on the restaurant table, bar counter, and anywhere else to bait curious onlookers, and we didn’t get the reaction we were after.

Lovense Exomoon inside the box

Like other Lovense vibrators, the Exomoon is compatible with the dedicated mobile app, making it a perfect choice for long-distance partners. The smartphone app adds 10 vibration modes and 3 levels of intensity to the mix, among other bells and whistles.

Minor issues we found during testing:

My only concern was the loud vibrations, especially on max settings. Even with its small size, the powerful motor makes a ‘chaotic statement.’

Why Lovense Exomoon is our favorite remote control lipstick vibrator:

If you’re after powerful clitoral rumbles in a small, discreet package, the Lovense Exomoon lipstick vibe is perfect. The silicone-made vibrator has a pointed tip for precise stimulation. It is compatible with the Lovense app for more vibration settings and special features like music sync and sound-activated rumbles. In addition, we want to highlight the following points from the review reports:

  • Discreetness: Unless you want to hide a vibe in your panties, you can’t get a more discreet vibe than Exomoon. You can leave it on the dinner table, and nobody would bat an eye. It looks like a regular lipstick, receiving an average rating of 89%, one of the highest in this category.

If you want to see what Lovense Exomoon looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the Lovense Exomoon in this article.

  • Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Width (Tip): 0.7″
  • Total Length: 3.46″
  • Usable Length: 1.32″

Pros:

  • A small, discreet, and powerful design.
  • The pointed tip promotes precise stimulation.
  • Multiple vibration combinations.
  • The Lovense Remote app amplifies the possibilities.
  • Impressive battery life – 2 -3 hours.

Cons:

  • The vibrations boil over to the hand, causing it to go numb.

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11. Lovense Ferri: Highest-Rated Wearable Model

Lovense Ferri

Why we love Lovense Ferri:

If you’re a public play fan looking for a remote-control panty vibrator, Lovense Ferri proved to be the most effective among the review samples! The unique design features an angled body to hug the clitoris, with a soft-edged tip for precise clit stimulation.

Ferri was the smallest Lovense toy we tested. This turned out to be a benefit, as the compact size and the angled body made it easy to wear the vibe in public without feeling uncomfortable. It also allows you to slip it into your handbag easily to enjoy a discreet yet intense clitoral massage on the move.

Lovense Ferri and the Lovense Connect App

Besides the single-button control interface, the panty vibe connects with the Lovense Remote app (image above), adding to the available vibration combinations. In addition, the mobile app comes with extra features like sound level control and music sync.

We loved the panty vibe’s magnetic clip that holds it in place for extra security. The team thought it was a well-thought-out design tweak, especially when wearing loose clothes.

Closeup of the controls

Pro Tip: Our tested Angela shared this helpful trick to make it stay in place” The more fitted your clothes are, the easier it is to get the most out of the vibrations. In looser underwear, the vibration sensation will be further from your clit. So find your tightest underwear and some support leggings if you have them because that will give you the most bang for your buck!”

Minor issues we found during testing:

My only concern was the noise. It might not be the loudest vibrator out there, but it does leave a train, especially in high settings. My go-to trick was to simmer the vibration intensity a little in public. Luckily, it’s punchy, and going down a few levels won’t affect the sensations much.

Further, I found the charging magnet port not very strong. I tried several times to get it to charge correctly, which was way more complicated than other toys. I hope Lovense makes the port more robust in a future upgrade.

Why Lovense Ferri is my favorite panty vibrator:

So, if you’re looking for the top remote control panty vibrator, Lovense Ferri is our top pick. The angled body and plush silicone finish feel soft on the clitoris. Its powerful motor churns out multiple vibration combinations, while the intuitive Lovense Remote app simplifies handling. Let’s see how it performed in some of the other areas:

  • Stimulations: It has plenty of vibrations to make you climax. But you may need to sit in a position where it’s angled towards the clitoris. At least, that’s what I needed to do.
  • Comfort: This is where Ferri beat most of the competition. One tester did Yoga while wearing it, and it was still comfortable and never fell out of place. Therefore, it got a well-deserved 94% score in this category (only beaten by Lush 3).

If you want to see what Lovense Ferri looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the Lovense Ferri in this article.

  • Material: Medical-Grade Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Diameter: 1.06″
  • Length: 2.93″

Pros:

  • A petite and powerful vibrator for discreet public play.
  • The angled body rests on the clitoris comfortably.
  • It has a soft silicone finish.
  • You can control the panty vibrator remotely.
  • Impressive battery life – 3 hours.
  • The magnetic clip enhances security.

Cons:

  • The panty vibe can be loud on high settings.

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12. Lovense Edge 2: For Prostate Stimulation

Lovense Edge 2

Why we love Lovense Edge 2:

The testers thought Lovense Edge 2’s flexible design made it easier to target the prostate than the other models we tested. They especially loved the adjustable head because it made it easy to reach the prostate and deliver the vibrations right where you need them.

In addition to the flexible design, Edge 2 has a rounded bulb above the slimline neck. The relatively simple design ensures the vibrator remains intact even when you crank the volume up. Overall a solid design by Lovense yet again!

Lovense Edge 2

The dual motor design was a standout feature. The motor positioning in the head and base triggers deep rumbles to the prostate and perineum for an intense mix of internal and external stimulation. The team rated the motor as “very powerful” and “moderately rumbly”.

Something else that makes Lovense Edge 2 unique is its compatibility with Lovense’s dedicated app (image below). The mobile app adds more vibration settings to the available 4 patterns and 3 speeds. In addition, it simplifies long-distance control and adds more features to the experience, like sound-activated vibrations, music sync, and sound-activated rumbles.

Edge 2 with the Lovense app

Minor issues we found during testing:

Like Lovense Ferri, this remote vibrator for men can be loud in high settings. Lovense Edge 2 is buzzy and falls short of the public play meter.

Why Lovense Edge 2 is our favorite vibrator for men:

Lovense Edge 2 is our preferred option for men because of the rounded, adjustable head for precise stimulation and a bulbous body to enhance retention. It also has a dual motor design for blended prostate and perineum stimulation. And with a dedicated Lovense app, control is simplified, and the possibilities are multiplied.

  • Design: All prostate owners on the team loved the adjustable design, making it easier to target the prostate for different body types. The knobby shape makes it stay inside better than products with traditional prostate massager designs.

If you want to see what Lovense Edge 2 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the Lovense Edge 2 in this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Diameter: 1.38″
  • Insertable Length: 3.5″

Pros:

  • A uniquely designed prostate stimulator.
  • The dual-motor design promotes blended orgasms.
  • A rounded, adjustable head promotes precise stimulation,
  • The bulbous body and slim neck enhance retention.
  • The Lovense Remote app simplifies control and adds more possibilities.

Cons:

  • Its loud motors might not be the most ideal option for public play.

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13. We-Vibe Melt: For Clit Suction

We-Vibe Melt

Why we love We-Vibe Melt:

If you’re after clitoral suction, the We-Vibe Melt performed the best on this list. The slim clitoral suction stimulator moves away from the traditional buzzy rumbles in favor of contactless clit-pleasing suction. The team members always loved touch-free sex toys because they promote discretion and provide relief for people with an extra sensitive clitoris.

Besides the all-silicone body that feels cozy while holding, we loved the small opening on the sex toy’s face. It cups the clitoris gently to direct up to 12 suction intensities right where you need them. The experience was unique, like someone gently blowing over the clit while occasionally rolling the tongue across your labia.

Closeup of Melt's control buttons

More importantly, the clit suction toy is compatible with the We-Vibe app, a decent smartphone app with notable features like multi-toy integration, feedback function, and simplified long-distance control.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the We-Vibe app can sometimes be problematic, and it’s not as good as the Lovense remote app. In addition, the slit suction toy is expensive – $149. Finally, it only comes with one head, which could be problematic in fitting all body types.

Why We-Vibe Melt is the best remote control clit sucking vibrator:

If you don’t mind the price tag, the We-Vibe Melt offers excellent value for money. It stood out from the other clit sucking toys, particularly in the stimulation category, giving a different type of sensation to the test crew. Let’s have a look at what they said:

  • Stimulations: The unique contactless stimulation enhances discretion while giving you a different sensation. Most importantly, it has a mellow yet intense feeling that’s impossible to replicate with traditional vibrators. And with a smartphone app to complement the available 12 intensity levels, this is a gem.

If you want to see what the We-Vibe Melt looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the We-Vibe Melt in this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Circumference: 4.25″
  • Length: 6″

Pros:

  • A potent contactless clit stimulator.
  • The all-silicone body rests comfortably on the hand.
  • It comes with impressive 12 touch-free suction wave settings.
  • Simplified close-range and long-distance control.
  • It has a remarkable battery life – 3 hours.
  • 100% waterproof and bath-ready.

Cons:

  • The We-Vibe Melt is expensive – $149.

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14. We-Vibe Nova 2: For Dual Stimulation

We-Vibe Nova 2

Why we love We-Vibe Nova 2:

We-Vibe Nova 2 got higher ratings than the other rabbit models we tested. The primary reason was that it features a smooth silicone finish and pointed arms for precise G-spot and clit stimulation. The testers were surprised at how gentle the internal massager was on my G-spot, even with the pointy look.

The 2nd generation rabbit vibrator has more power and flexibility than its predecessor. And especially with the clitoral arm, which is easily adjustable to fit different body shapes and sizes.

We-Vibe Nova 2 and the smartphone app

Like other We-Vibe sex toys, Nova 2 connects to the remote app to simplify close-range and long-distance control (above image). The app also opens your world to new possibilities like unlimited customization and multi-toy integration.

An adjustable knot on the G-spot arm adds to the flexibility. I was ecstatic to try it because a significant criticism of the original Nova was the stiff design that occasioned the loss of clitoral contact. With the added joint, I could easily regulate the arm’s position and angle so it rests comfortably against the clitoris.

The device charging

Something else I loved was the internal shaft’s 5″ insertable length. I thought it offered enough depth for most people, and especially with the arched design, reaching the clitoris was blissful.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the remote-control vibe is expensive. Also, the We-Vibe mobile app can be problematic, often disconnecting even with a stable connection.

Why We-Vibe Nova 2 is our favorite remote control rabbit vibrator:

We-Vibe Nova 2 is a versatile rabbit sex toy for different users. The testers especially appreciated that it connects with the We-Vibe app to simplify control and amplify the possibilities (average score: 87%). In addition, we thought the design upgrades were worth highlighting:

  • Design: We-Vibe listened to customer feedback and implemented Nova 2 using a flexible structure. You can now move and bend the inner and outer arms to better target your G-spot and clitoral areas. Bravo!

If you want to see what We-Vibe Nova 2 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the We-Vibe Nova 2 in this article.

  • Material: Silicone
  • Girth: 4.25″
  • Length: 8.5″
  • Insertable Length: 5″

Pros:

  • A well-made wireless rabbit vibrator.
  • The arched design promotes precision.
  • Unlimited customization options.
  • We-Vibe app simplifies close-range and long-distance control.
  • The vibe is made from body-safe silicone.
  • An adjustable knob enhances the flexibility to accommodate different body shapes and sizes.
  • The USB-rechargeable vibrator is waterproof.

Cons:

  • It’s only available in a bright pink color.
  • The rabbit vibe is pricey – $149.99.

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15. Lovehoney Desire Luxury: Best for Pegging

Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Strapless Strap-On

Why we love Lovehoney Desire Luxury:

You should be eyeing Lovehoney’s Desire Luxury if you’re a pegging fan. The deluxe strapless strap-on eliminates the need to strap a harness around the waist during sexual power play.

The strap-on has a contoured design for the pony and penetrative arm. I thought adding contours to the pony promoted retention, an essential factor, especially for a strapless strap-on. I also loved Desire Luxury’s flexibility; the pony extends to almost 180˚, making it perfect for people with different body shapes and sizes (image below).

The Lovehoney strapon stretched out to full length

On the other hand, the external stimulator has a tapered tip and a slightly curved shaft to simplify insertion and enhance precise stimulation.

The strapless strap-on has a wireless remote controller, an exciting addition to couples’ play. I thought the remote made both partners focus on the moment without worrying about how to reach the buttons. And with 8 patterns and 12 vibration speeds, the combinations provide many possibilities to explore.

The remote control

Minor issues we found during testing:

We wish you could control the vibrations independently on the two shafts. Many people prefer different types of stimulations, and I hope a future upgrade will have this function.

Like other strapless strap-ons, Lovehoney Desire Luxury can be tricky to keep in. It takes time and Kegel practice to become a pro.

Pro Tip: Our tester Angela Kempf shared this valuable tip to better keep it inside: “After trying it, I realized there’s a little trick to getting it to stay in place. The penetrating person should close their thighs tightly so the toy doesn’t slip out. If you don’t close your legs tightly, you must do an extreme Kegel to keep it inside the whole time.”

Why Lovehoney Desire Luxury is my favorite pegging remote vibrator:

So, if you’re an experienced couple looking to add a luxurious sex toy to the bedroom, you should look into Desire Luxury as it adds a new dimension of pleasure, elevating the quality of your sex life. And with multiple vibration combinations and a handy wireless controller, the experience is top-notch.

  • Versatility: The main benefit of a strapless strapon is you get much closer to your partner than a harness model, making it one of the winners in the versatility test criteria. The testers also pointed out the nifty joint, which you can use to control the distance.

If you want to see what Desire Luxury looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete review of the Lovehoney Desire Luxury in this article.

  • Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Circumference: 4.25″ (shaft), 4.75″ (pony)
  • Insertable Length: 5″ (shaft), 4.5″ (pony)

Pros:

  • A luxurious strapless strap-on.
  • 8 patterns and 12 vibration speeds to explore.
  • The contoured design enhances the sensations.
  • A flexible pony makes it easy to regulate the penetration angle and position.
  • Easy-to-use remote enhances partner control.
  • 100% waterproof – aquatic play-ready.

Cons:

  • The remote is battery-powered.
  • Desire Luxury is a preserve of the most experienced users.

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16. Lovehoney Thrill Seeker: Our Budget Pick!

Lovehoney Thrill Seeker and the remote

Why we love Lovehoney Thrill Seeker:

Lovehoney Thrill Seeker is the top pick for pleasure seekers on a budget. The vibrating love egg costs $39.99, a bargain for a portable clitoral vibe.

Notably, it has a wireless remote with a decent 5-meter range, meaning your partner can comfortably regulate the buzz from across the room. Jessica and I used it several times during foreplay, switching controls to make the experience more fun.

Lovehoney Thrill Seeker Love Egg

In addition, it has a smooth rounded head, which can be some work to slide into the vagina – I needed lots of lube for this one. However, once inside, you simply push it forward, and it should slide through.

The vibrations aren’t the strongest, but for a $39.99 dildo, 10 patterns and 6 speeds were outstanding. The testers also liked that it came with a handy cord for easy retrieval.

Lovehoney Thrill Seeker and the remote control with the battery compartments opened.

Surprisingly, the budget remote vibe is waterproof, and you should have a great time in the shower. Unfortunately, the remote is only splashproof, so be mindful of using it in the bath.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The major downside is that the vibrator and remote are battery-powered, which is not very environmentally friendly. The battery compartment also creates a seam in the middle of the egg, a location where harmful bacteria could grow. Hence, extra care is needed when cleaning the Thrill Seeker.

In addition, the retrieval cord looked flimsy and cheap. We’re concerned about whether it can stay intact after many years of heavy use.

Why Lovense Thrill Seeker is our budget pick:

  • Price & Value: If you’re looking for a Bluetooth vibrator to add to your collection, the affordable Thrill Seeker gave us the most value for our money on this list. It’s only less than $40, and with impressive features like 10 patterns and 6 speeds, a waterproof design, an easy-to-use remote, and an easy retrieval cord, it’s a bargain.

If you want to see what Lovehoney Thrill Seeker looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

  • Material: ABS Plastic
  • Circumference: 4.25
  • Length: 3″

Pros:

  • Multiple vibration combinations.
  • Impressive 5-meter range.
  • Its convenient remote promotes hands-free play.
  • The vibrator is waterproof.
  • Easy retrieval cord.

Cons:

  • The vibrator and controller are battery-powered.
  • Experienced users will find the vibrations mild.

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17. Butterfly Effect Wearable: Butterfly-Shaped Model

Butterfly Effect Clitoral & G-Spot Wearable

Why we love Butterfly Effect Wearable:

Evolved Novelties Butterfly Effect Wearable beat the other butterfly products on this list. The team especially liked the included wireless remote. The 5-button controller simplified close-range control, helping us cycle through the 16 G-spot and clitoral vibration combinations.

In addition, the Butterfly sex toy has a dual-motor design – one in the vaginal stimulation arm and the other in the clitoris-hugging butterfly body. I loved that each motor churns out 8 vibration modes, which in the highest settings are enough to drop the most experienced user.

Something else that I loved during my review was the chunky shaft, with minimal texturing and a rounded head that hits the G-spot just right. Also, the shaft has a slimmer neck above the butterfly base, an overlooked design tweak that enhances sex toy retention.

Lastly, the clitoral stimulating butterfly body has a multi-faceted approach that makes it perfect for the task. The wings stimulate the clitoris’ edges while the antennae (rabbit ears) focus on the clitoral hood, culminating in intense external stimulation.

Minor issues we found during testing:

My only concern was the extra buzzy vibrations. I like them that way, but Jessica’s different, and I’d assume most people are. Also, the sex toy doesn’t remain in place for extended sessions, especially in standing positions.

Why Butterfly Effect Wearable is my favorite butterfly vibrator:

  • Design: Butterfly Effect Wearable is an excellent toy for dual-stimulation fans. The comparatively affordable vibe features a chunky shaft and broad clitoral hugging butterfly for intense blended stimulation. It also has an intuitive wireless remote to regulate both motors’ 8 vibration modes.

Features:

  • Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Width: 1.25″
  • Insertable Length: 4.5″

Pros:

  • A powerful butterfly vibe.
  • Impressive dual motor design.
  • The bulbous shaft has a satisfying feeling of fullness.
  • The broad butterfly base stimulates the clitoris in its entirety.
  • It’s USB-rechargeable and completely waterproof.

Cons:

  • The vibrator doesn’t remain in place, especially in standing sex positions.

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What Is a Remote-Control Vibrator?

As the name suggests, remote-controlled vibrators are sex toys you can regulate remotely without needing a built-in control interface [1]. Most of these vibrators have a wireless remote that allows you or your partner to switch between the available settings from across the room. Others have a dedicated smartphone app from which you can regulate your partner’s remote-control vibe from miles away.

Lovense Edge 2 with the Lovense remote app

 


Types of Remote-Controlled Vibrators

Like any other sex toy, there’s a wide variety of public vibrators on the market. While they all vary in terms of the distance you can operate them from, here are some of the most common types;

1. Remote Controlled/Short Distance

Description of how remote controlled vibrators are workingRemote control sex toys have a short-range remote, and depending on the manufacturer, they are either wired or wireless. They are generally easy to use as you can control the vibrations or give your partner the remote to take over your orgasms.

For wired remote controls, the length of the connecting wire will determine how far your partner can control your orgasms. However, wireless models usually use Bluetooth, whose coverage varies greatly. Don’t get too excited, though; even the most premium Bluetooth devices are limited to a 100m range.

Remote-controlled vibes work for public play, but you must be in the same place.

2. App-Controlled/Long Distance

Description of how long distance vibrators are working

Hey folks, the future is now! Thanks to developments in the self-pleasuring industry, you can now control your app-controlled toy from your phone [2]. Manufacturers are incorporating this technology in their sex toys to break the distance barrier.

App-controlled vibrators allow your partner to control the vibrations from miles away, which is revolutionary for long-distance couples.

The dedicated mobile app allows you to control the vibrations, download customized patterns, and even use your preferred playlist to program the vibrations.

Pro Tip: Long-distance couples can now use video chat services with compatible app-controlled toys to stay sexually connected regardless of geographical distance.

3. Wearables/Underwear

Description of how wearables/underwear works

Over the last few years, wearable sex toys have become popular among women because of their ease of use. They are very discreet and can be controlled via Bluetooth or Wi-Fi, meaning you can take the wheel or hand the keys over to your partner. The underwear comes with a sleek pouch from which you can slide a vibe and control the vibrations as you please.

 


How to Use A Remote Control Vibrator?

Using remote-control vibrators doesn’t have to be complicated. Connecting the app and sex toy might take a while, especially for long-distance couples, but it should be smooth sailing afterward.

  • Clean the sex toy after unboxing, and air dry it in a well-ventilated space.
  • For mobile-controlled vibes, connect it to the app. Do the same with a long-distance partner before playtime.
  • Get yourself in the mood – a warm shower or scented candles always do the trick.
  • Once ready, pour a generous amount of water-based lube on yourself and the vibrator.
  • Tease yourself or your partner with the toy before going all in and stimulating the clitoris, vagina, or ass.
  • Explore different sex positions and vibration intensities for maximum pleasure.
  • Use your fingers on other body parts for an intense internal and external stimulation experience.

How do you use a vibrator in public? First, you need to figure out the type of vibrator you have. Is it a clitoral stimulation vibe? Or is it a G-spot stimulator?

Understanding your Bluetooth vibrators gives you a clue on what to expect and how to deal with them. It will also help familiarize yourself with the vibration settings before stepping out.

So, here are a few tips on using sex toys in public;

1. Being Discreet Is Key

Don’t get the plot wrong; discretion is essential when using remote-control vibrators in public. The fun is dealing with mind-blowing vibration and pulsation patterns while showing slight signs back. Remember, this is a party between you and your partner, and the public isn’t invited.

While we recommend you make the most of your public orgasms, be mindful of the elderly couple sitting at the table next to you. So, enjoy the intense orgasms but don’t writhe around on the floor in pleasure at the restaurant!

2. Start Slow

Like I always advise with other sex toys, go slow with your public vibrator. Before leaving the house, practice a lot, and experiment with the different settings. As time passes and you get used to the vibrations, crank up the intensity level and observe your body’s reaction to each setting.

Play around with the settings so that you can pick your favorite.

When you’re already a master of the vibe, it’s time to take the fun outside. Remember to start slow, mainly because you’re in public and don’t want to cause a scene.

Start with the lowest intensity level and scale up gradually as your vagina adapts to the experience. In addition, you can always tease yourself by changing between high and low intensities to get yourself on edge.

Pro Tip: If your partner controls the vibrations, talk them through when to halt for a second or stop altogether. You can learn a new sign or code word together. The vibrations can be intense, and it’s crucial that whoever is on the wheel knows when to step on the emergency brakes. Also, let your partner know your favorite intensity level so they can cap off the experience appropriately.

3. Choose Your Favorite Vibe

Everyone has their favorite accessory, and you don’t want to gamble, especially since it’s a discreet vibrator. As stressed earlier, there’s a wide range of options, and your personal preference takes the day. I recommend you go for the vibe you’re most comfortable with, mainly because you might be wearing a vibrator in public for an extended period.

4. Teamwork Makes the Dream Work

Whether you live together or in a long-distance relationship, teamwork is indispensable in public sex. Allowing your partner to take over and regulate your orgasms can be very sexy, especially when you’ve already laid out a few ground rules. If you’re taking the heat, guide your partner on what to do (and not to do.)

And while the beauty of public play is breaking the boundaries, some rules need to be set in stone. So, have a conversation and let your partner know how to please you and vice versa without overstepping the line.

You can read more on how to use a remote control vibrator here.

 


How To Clean Remote-Control Vibrator?

Use warm water, a sex toy cleaner, or antibacterial soap to clean the vibrator. Rinse with clean water and air dry it before storage. You can also use a lint-free cloth for drying.

Note: For motorized sex toys, never submerge them in water. Instead, use a clean, damp cloth to wipe the vibrator clean.

Cleaning Sex Toys In The Sink

Read more on how to clean your remote-controlled vibrator here.

 


Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What lube should I use for this toy?

Water-based lubricants are the preferred choice for any type of silicone toy as they won’t damage the surface material. Unlike silicone and oil-based lubes, cleaning after is seamless.

How To Store Remote-Control Vibrators?

Once clean, store your vibrator in a storage case. If yours didn’t come with one, line your bedside drawer with an old cotton shirt and convert it into a cozy space for your sex toys.

Vibrator storage boxes

Note: Store sex toys separately, especially those made from different materials. You can use socks to separate them in the drawer if you don’t have multiple storage cases.

How To Use Remote Control Vibrators With A Partner?

If you have a remote-control couple set like the Kiiroo Onyx+ And Pearl2 combo, connect your sex toy to the Kiiroo mobile app. Once connected, invite your partner and wait for them to accept [1].

After a successful connection, press the + button next to the messenger bar and link the toys by selecting share devices. From here, use the white arrow on the lower end of the screen to control the vibrations.

Lastly, use the app to regulate each other’s vibrations. The Kiiroo mobile app has a lock toy option that blocks one partner, giving complete control to the other.

Note: The interactive mode mirrors each toy’s movement. So, explore different intensities and angles to simulate real sex.

Should I Buy Bluetooth or Wi-Fi vibrators?

Choosing whether to go for a Bluetooth or Wi-Fi vibrator depends on how you want to use it. Bluetooth is a short-range connection that is often weaker and affected by factors like the existence of walls and other physical objects.

On the other hand, a Wi-Fi connection is much more reliable and long-range. You can connect two devices regardless of the distance as long as there’s a stable connection.

So, yes! The choice will depend on whether you want a close-range or long-distance-type sex toy. The latter is more expensive, so keep that in mind when deciding.

 


Primary Sources

1. Rose, R. Remote Control Orgasm. (2020).

2. Lehmiller, J. Sex Question Friday: How Do You Keep A Long-Distance Relationship Sexy And Strong? Sex And Psychology. (2021, October 6).

Rachel

PS, you can learn more about vibrators in this guide.

Rachel Sommer, Ph.D.
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