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Using vibrators on a penis? Some might call it a modern marvel; others might call it a way to shake things up. As someone who’s tried a fair few sex toys over the years, I’ve got plenty of advice for men who are curious and for those who are still on the fence. So let’s get into it, I’ll explain why vibrators aren’t just for people with vaginas and, more importantly, how they can open up a whole new side of pleasure, connection, and experimentation. Plus you’ll hear from real readers who’ve been there and can add their thoughts.
Why Try a Vibrator on a Penis?
While vibrators have been marketed for other types of stimulation, the sensations they create can be just as good for a penis. Think about it: vibration by nature activates nerve endings in ways that hand actions just can’t. And it’s not just about solo play—adding a vibrator to partnered play can bring a whole new rhythm, even a bit of surprise.
When our reader Jake tried it for the first time he was surprised by the intensity and subtlety, he said “I was skeptical at first but the vibrations surprised me. It’s not just a novelty; it’s a game changer!” And I can’t stress enough—this isn’t about replacing what you’re already good at. Think of it as hot sauce: it’s great without it, but why not see what happens with a bit of extra flavor?
Did you also know that using a vibrator on your penis can have several sexual health benefits, including increased blood flow and powerful orgasms? Yes, it’s no April Fools joke. Some studies suggest that the stimulation provided by the toy’s vibrations can enhance libido, potentially aiding in the management of erectile dysfunction in men. Penile stimulation is also a widely used method to induce ejaculation in both men with and without spinal cord injuries by keeping the blood flowing in their penises.
Getting Comfortable with the Idea
Let’s get the obvious out of the way: If you’re thinking “Why would I need a vibrator?” you’re not alone. But here’s the thing: adding a vibrator doesn’t mean taking away from what you’re already good at. They bring a new tingling or a deep thrumming sensation that’s hard to replicate with your hand. Plus when you’re experimenting patience is everything; start slow and you can adjust to the sensation and figure out what feels good for you.
And please don’t go for the highest setting right off the bat; start low, get comfortable, and work your way up if you like it. Remember everyone’s preferences and sensitivities are different so take your time and tune in to what feels good for you. If you’re using the vibrator with a partner communicate openly. Make it clear this is about exploring together not because something’s missing. That way both of you can go at a pace that feels good, comfortable, and exciting.
Choosing the Right Vibrator for a Penis
Choosing the right model can make a big difference. Don’t just grab the first one you see in the store or online. Vibrators for different purposes offer different types of stimulation and some are better for penis play. Here’s a quick rundown:
- Bullet Vibrators: Small and usually with a pointed tip, these are great for targeted stimulation, especially on the head or frenulum. If you want to explore those areas with precision a bullet vibrator is the way to go.
- Wand Vibrators: These are bigger and pack more power so are great for broader coverage. Wands are good when placed along the shaft where they provide even stimulation without intense targeting. You can see some popular products in the image above.
- Ring Vibrators: These are worn around the base and add a constant vibration that can be a nice twist. My personal experience with vibrating cock rings is they bring a steady hum that resonates throughout making for a hands-free experience.
- Perineum Vibrators: A bit more specific, these are great for stimulating areas like the perineum, adding depth to the pleasure without focusing directly on the penis itself.
Whether you’re solo or with a partner choosing the right type lets you tailor the experience to what you like most. You can find more information in our main article about
Getting Started: The Head and Frenulum
The head of the penis and frenulum (the thin strip of skin on the underside just below the head, see the image below for the exact location) are super sensitive and respond well to vibration. To start pick a lower setting on the vibrator—whether it’s a bullet or wand—and place it on the head. Let the sensation build and don’t rush it. You can even try a light grip along the shaft as you move the vibrator slowly and let the sensation grow.
Jason another reader wrote me his story in an email: “At first it felt a bit weird. But as I relaxed the sensitivity really kicked in. It was a totally different kind of pleasure!” And if you’re wondering what it feels like, it’s like stepping into a warm shower—each wave of vibration pulls you in and before you know it you’re wondering how you ever skipped it.
Exploring the Shaft and Base
Once you’re comfortable move on to the shaft and base. These areas aren’t as sensitive as the head but a broader vibration can still provide nice even stimulation. A wand is good for this body part as it has enough surface area to hit the entire length of the shaft. You can experiment with different speeds and vibrations. For example, I like to keep the vibration steady, move the wand slowly along the shaft, and let the intensity ebb and flow naturally.
Edging—taking it right up to the edge and then backing off—is particularly great with vibration. Each pass along the shaft teases and builds and creates anticipation in a way that’s almost ritualistic. It’s all about finding the pace that keeps you balanced on that edge.
Tickling The Balls And Perineum
Aside from pleasuring the head and base, don’t forget about the other sensitive bits such as the balls and perineum. Here are some tips for using a vibrator to enhance pleasure in these areas:
- The balls: The testicles are a highly sensitive erogenous zone that you can stimulate with a vibrator. Try using a bullet or a wand on the scrotum, or gently cupping the testicles with a vibrating hand. Experiment with different levels of pressure and vibration to find what feels best for you.
- The perineum: The perineum is the area between the scrotum and the anus (circled in the image below). It’s a highly sensitive area that can feel amazing when stimulated with vibrations. Try using a smaller, more pinpoint vibrator on this area, or use a wand vibrator with a smaller attachment. You can also try using your fingers to apply light pressure and vibration to the perineum while using it on the penis.
Remember to always use plenty of water-based lube when using it on the penis, balls, or perineum. This will help reduce friction and make the sexual experience more pleasurable. Additionally, make sure to clean your sex toy thoroughly after each use to prevent the spread of bacteria or infection.
Combining Vibrations with Other Sensations
For those looking to try something new, combining vibration with other sensations can add so much more. A light grip along the shaft with gentle strokes or temperature play can amplify the effect. Try warming or cooling the vibrator (AKA temperature play) for a mild change in temperature—running it under warm water or popping it in the fridge for a few seconds can create a whole new dynamic. No need to go extreme here just a bit of warmth or coolness can add a whole new layer to the experience.
Jake from Oregon says “It’s all about layering the sensations. When I added a bit of warmth it felt like a whole new experience”. And he’s right these little touches can take the experience from good to unforgettable.
How to Use a Vibrator For Partner Play
If you’re considering using a vibrator with a partner, approach it as an invitation to try something new together. Communication is key so let them know you’re curious and want to do this together. Vibrators are great for partner play synchronizing rhythm and adding some spontaneity.
Here’s how:
- Guided Exploration: Take turns exploring each other’s pleasure zones. Have your partner use the vibrator on you and have them be in control.
- Blended Stimulation: Use the vibrator on your partner while they’re pleasuring you in other ways. This is a great way to feel connected and experiment and react to each other’s responses.
- Hands-Free Fun: For a low-maintenance option, place a ring vibrator at the penis base and let it vibrate away without needing to touch.
Experimenting with Positions
Changing positions can make the vibrator feel like a whole new experience. Try:
- Lying Down: Allows you to relax and become more sensitive.
- Standing: Gives you control over pressure and positioning so you can find that perfect spot.
- Kneeling or on All Fours: Adds tension and intensifies the sensation as the vibrator moves with your body.
Try each and see what works for you. The variation alone makes it feel like a new experience every time.
Other Ways of Playing Around With Male Vibrators
Pressing a Vibrator Under Your Mouth While Oral Sex
Hold the vibrator against the bottom of your chin while performing oral sex on your significant other. This technique can provide a unique sensation for your penis partner, as the vibration travels through your chin and goes into your shaft.
Pro Tips: This also works for vaginal oral sex! Aside from using a vibrator, make sure you know some explosive tricks when giving your female partner oral sex. If you don’t know where to start, here’s our guide on how to do oral sex.
While the vibrator is under your mouth, experiment with different levels of pressure and vibration intensity to find what feels best for you and your lover. You may also want to try using a water-based lubricant to enhance the sensation.
Vibrators for Anal and Prostate Massages
Vibrators for anal and prostate massages are designed to stimulate the sensitive nerve endings in the rectum and prostatic gland. These sex toys can provide intense pleasure and orgasmic experience for men who enjoy anal play or anal penetration. You can see some products we have tested in the image below.
There are many different types of vibrators for anal and prostate massagers, including:
- Prostate stimulators: These sex toys are specifically designed to target the prostate gland, which is located a few inches inside the rectum. A prostate massager is often curved to hit the gland more effectively and you can use them solo or with a partner.
- Anal vibrators: These toys are designed to stimulate the anus and can be used by both men and women. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, including beads, plugs, and wands.
When choosing a product for anal or prostate massages, it’s important to consider the size, shape, and material of the toy for the best prostate or anal stimulation.
Aftercare and Sensitivity
After using a vibrator, especially if it’s a new experience, give yourself a minute to come down and relax. The vibrations stimulate nerve endings in a unique way so a bit of downtime afterwards helps your body adjust. Clean the toy thoroughly if used with a partner and consider a gentle moisturizer to calm any remaining sensitivity.
A reader tip? “Take a few minutes to breathe and let everything settle afterward. It makes the experience feel complete”. Don’t skip this it’s like that deep sigh after a good workout—completing the journey.
Final Thoughts
Using a vibrator on a penis is about discovery, experimentation, and pleasure. Remember the first time is a learning process. If it doesn’t feel amazing right away don’t stress it—revisit the experience at your own pace as comfort with the sensation can often increase pleasure.
Whether you go all in or just dip your toes remember to be patient, enjoy, and savor. Each time you try you’ll uncover a little more and see how much more there is to experience. As always the pleasure is yours to find.
Happy vibing!
Tim
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