The array of smells, objects, and experiences that arouse folks are fascinating and wonderful. For example, strangers on Tinder have asked for pictures of me smoking a cigarette, as they found the concept of a woman smoking to be arousing. I have dated people who named my big toes and… Continue reading
Do you know when you secretly stroll to the kitchen cabinet and stuff your face with all the Oreos when you think nobody is looking? This version of yourself that you are embarrassed by could be an erotic pleasure for a feeder fetishist, also known as “chubby chasers” or “fat… Continue reading
I was excited to go on my first Tinder date with Brett. He was a musician with beautiful curly hair who had the same taste in coffee and African music. During our online conversations, I expressed I preferred to get to know people before getting too sexual, but I let… Continue reading
Allergy season can be interesting for those with mucophilia, otherwise known as a sneezing fetish. Despite its parallel to orgasm, mucophilia remains a relatively unknown fetish, defined as sexual arousal related to sneezing. Table Of ContentsWhat Is A Sneeze Fetish?Sneezes and OrgasmsHow Does a Sneeze Fetish Develop?How Many Sneeze Fetishists… Continue reading
Many people use a crystal wand dildo to improve their sex and spiritual life. It has become so widespread that at least one stand sells them at tantra, yoga, and other spiritual festivals. Your local glass shop might even have some. But there’s little information on using it and why… Continue reading
Leather is smooth and durable and has a unique sound and smell when worn. For many, wearing leather represents strength and power, so it’s no wonder several groups have incorporated it into their aesthetics. Leather culture developed out of post-WW2 biker culture, a primarily gay community known to be anti-authority… Continue reading
What is mindful sex? It’s a question I hear often and one that’s easy to explain but somehow difficult to understand. I could joke that mindful sex is about “thinking about sex.” Which is kind of true–– mindful sex is thinking. It’s thinking about being present and in the moment… Continue reading
As a society, we seem to have a hard-on for watching folks with large-sized differentials interact. From Gulliver’s Travels to Attack of the Fifty-Foot Woman and, more recently, The Magic School Bus, Rick and Morty, and Honey, I Shrunk the Kids; we love exploring media that includes people who are… Continue reading
If someone tells you, “You look good enough to eat,” or “The way to a man’s heart is through the stomach,” they either recycle outdated phrases or have Vorarephilia. Vore refers to several fetishes relating to being aroused by either someone eating them alive, eating another creature or person, or… Continue reading
We went into his room and started sloppily making out. His breath tasted like mint chewing gum and smoke, and as his tongue worked its way deeper down my throat, I could feel myself start to get wet in anticipation. I slowly took off my clothes, watching the bulge in… Continue reading
