Many people use a crystal wand dildo to improve their sex and spiritual life. It has become so widespread that at least one stand sells them at tantra, yoga, and other spiritual festivals. Your local glass shop might even have some.
But there’s little information on using it and why someone would use one.
In this article, I will share all you need to know about crystal sex toys and dildos, their benefits, how to choose yours, and how to use them. If you’re a vagina owner, you won’t regret investing in one, thanks to their multi-usage.
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What Is A Crystal Dildo?
Crystal Dildos are dildo-shaped crystals crafted to enhance both sexual and spiritual aspects of the body. You can use them for massaging, cleansing, healing, and increasing sensitivity to pleasure.
Today’s most popular healing crystals are rose quartz, obsidian, and red jasper.
Chakrubs is a registered crystal-based sex toy company that claims that:
“Crystals have perfect molecular structures that positively affect our electromagnetic fields. When our energetic bodies are at ease, we are at ease, and we are open to healing, peace, love, and all of life’s pleasures”.
A crystal dildo or wand allows you to cleanse and heal the vagina.
Benefits Of Using A Crystal Dildo
Using crystal sex toys is a spiritual and sensory practice. The more you use it, the more your body sensations will increase.
Benefit #1: Increases pleasure and self-confidence
When you use crystal dildos, you’re engaging in the practice of learning more about what feels good and where you are most sensitive in your vagina.
Using them regularly could increase your body sensitivity, ultimately leading to more pleasure.
You will also learn to relax your pelvic region, which contributes to your overall relaxation.
Benefit #2: Opens us to new types of orgasms
Using a crystal dildo is different from using a regular sex toy or vibrator.
It allows you to build gradual pleasure and go deeper into the vagina. The cervix is located at the uterus entrance, which is often hard to reach with fingers.
With crystal dildos, this area becomes more accessible. They can help remove any stored energy from this area. Once the cervix becomes more relaxed, you can have cervical orgasms.
Benefit #3: Crystals have healing effects on overall health
The type of crystal you choose will work in its unique way, giving you a healing experience.
Depending on which crystal sex toys you choose, some can help you to:
- reset your sexual energy,
- open up your vagina,
- explore our body and what feels good,
- release any negative energy stored there, and
- eventually, allow you to feel more during sex or self-pleasure.
Using a crystal dildo is a self-love practice that is not outcome-oriented. There’s no right, no wrong way to use it when you use it safely, as I will explain later.
Uses for Your Crystal Dildo
There are three main reasons to have crystal sex toys in your home.
Self Pleasure
The crystal dildo adds something new and flavorful to your self-pleasure practice.
Often we have a particular way of having an orgasm. With the crystal dildo, you will access new parts of yourself that may have been inaccessible or even unknown.
Crystal sex toys will ask you to slow down and feel your body. Think less clitoral stimulation and more cervical and G-spot time.
Partnered Sex
The crystal sex toy can also add something new and fun to partnered sex. You can use it yourself, or your partner can use it on you.
You can also try it out on your partner.
Massage Stick
Most have a rounded end, making them perfect for acupressure massage. When turned on its length, you can use it to relieve pressure on muscles.
How To Safely Use Crystal Dildos
While crystal dildos are shaped like a regular dildo, they are more subtle than a traditional sex toy. Here are some guidelines on how to use yours safely.
Step 1: Energetically charge your dildo
A crystal can be charged energetically, so you must be very intentional when storing it.
Give it regular exposure:
- To the sunlight,
- To the moonlight,
- The dirt
- To salt water or even the ocean
After charging it and before and after use, always clean it.
First, cleanse it with sage. Then, wash the crystal thoroughly with mild soap and let it sit in warm water for 10-15 minutes. Please note that they are porous and may harbor harmful bacteria, so sterilizing is essential. You can also use a condom for additional safety.
Remember not to use boiling water since the crystals are delicate materials. Also, if you notice any cracks on the surface or changing color, please do not use them.
Step 2: Set up your intention and prepare your body for use
Always remember to set an intention for using your crystal sex toy. Have a practice of visualization where you infuse that intention in the wand.
Know that whatever this intention might be, it will stay into the wand, and you will infuse your body with it.
For example, you can set the following intentions:
- Self-love
- Self-forgiveness
- Self-acceptance
- Increased pleasures
- Being more open
- Release trauma and repressed emotions
Hold your wand close to your heart with your eyes closed and visualize your intention. Then, meditate on it, taking a few deep breaths. As you exhale, imagine your intention infusing your wand.
When with your wand, massage your whole body without going straight to your vagina. Give love and complete attention to your body until you feel nice and warmed up.
At this point, you can start massaging your inner thighs and the vulva but avoid penetration.
Step 3: Intentional penetration
Your body will naturally accept the crystal dildos at this point. Never force it in. If your body doesn’t want it now, listen and stop the practice. Simply return to meditating on your intention.
If your vagina is ready to accept the wand, apply lubricant, and let the wand glide in with intention and presence.
Tune into all the sensations and their subtleties. Notice all your emotions or physical sensations.
Once the wand is inside of you, you can do a variety of things. I will recommend you navigate it intuitively:
- Move it in slow motion around the vagina’s walls. Follow what feels good and go deeper when you feel ready. Gently massage the cervix, which holds our trauma and unhealed emotions. If you feel any numbness and tension here, visualize it and focus on the intention of love and acceptance. It will support the healing process to occur and free some space for future pleasure.
- Engage your PC muscles by squeezing the wand with your vaginal muscles. Then relax and repeat, synchronizing the squeezes with your breaths. Inhale and squeeze, exhale and release. Repeat at least ten times.
- Proceed to a vaginal mapping. With curiosity, explore the inner parts of your vagina. Apply some acupuncture points to each region, and notice the sensations. What does feel good? Where do you feel tension or pain? If you feel any tension, breathe deeply into the discomfort and imagine the pain dissolving with your exhale. Know that the crystal has healing effects and can help you move through whatever energies can be stored there.
- You can use the crystal sex toy as a regular dildo to reach pleasure and ecstasy. Move the wand in and out of your vagina, paying attention to the subtleties of how your body feels. Some women report having incredible orgasms using their wands.
- Last but not least, you can simply let the wand sit inside your vagina as you visualize the intention you set at the beginning. Visualize the healing energy infusing your vagina. It reaches your cervix and moves up your spine until it reaches the top of your head.
If it becomes painful, remove the gemstone dildos.
When you feel ready, it’s time to return to the space. You will notice the differences in your overall well-being within the next few hours and days.
What Type Should I Use?
The model to start with depends on what you are looking for, what shape, benefits, and area you want to target. Each semi-precious stone has its therapeutic properties.
There are different types of dildos and crystals to choose from. I recommend using less intense to begin with and gradually progressing.
- Beginners can use a rose quartz crystal dildo.
- When ready, move on to jade or amethyst, then try an obsidian model later.
However, you can also read up on the properties of each product and decide which one resonates with you. Maybe you want to choose it according to the healing properties you want to call the most into your life.
When choosing what’s best for you, tune into your intuition and ask what is best for your body.
Crystal 1: Rose quartz
Pink is a soft color that symbolizes love and compassion. A rose quartz dildo may increase romance and bring more warmth to your relationships––including the one with yourself.
Crystal 2: Amethyst
This stone dildo represents calmness, balance, and patience, and people believe it will help with grief and loss.
Crystal 3: Obsidian
Obsidian is a powerful volcanic glass believed to bring clarity and balance to our lives. People use obsidian to absorb negative energies and release stuck emotions. If you’re holding pain and repressed emotions in your body, the obsidian dildo might be for you.
Types of Crystal Dildos
Shape 1: Straight
A long piece of crystal rounded at the ends.
One end is narrower than the other, and you can use both sides.
It comes in slim or original. The slim is thinner in girth.
Shape 2: Double-ended crystal dildo
This dildo has two narrow ends.
Shape 3: Crystal butt plug
The butt plugs allow you to connect to your roots.
Excellent for grounding, stability, and increased creative and sexual power.
Shape 4: Crystal egg
The crystal egg is also known as the yoni egg, and you can use it to strengthen the perineal muscles.
Shape 5: Swirled crystal dildo
Similar in width to the original.
One end is narrower than the other.
It has an added element of swirls on the length.
Shape 6: Curved crystal dildo with a bulbous end
It is similar to the original curved dildo. However, the end of this one is larger for G-spot stimulation.
You can use it for internal massage and vaginal mapping, or externally for acupressure massage.
Shape 7: Straight with a larger circumference
Bigger in size. Heavier in weight.
It can provide more sensation inside and outside the body.
Shape 8: Curved crystal dildo
This dildo is curved at the end, and it’s excellent for reaching the G-spot.
Where Can I Buy One?
Below is a list of our recommended crystal dildos.
Remember to purchase from reliable sources of natural, carefully manufactured crystal dildos.
The delicate nature of crystal dildos means they can break easily and become unsafe to use.
If there are cracks in the crystal, do not use it.
#1: Original Rose Quartz Dildo
This original-shaped dildo has been cleansed with sage.
Perfect for beginners.
US143$
#2: Double-Ended Beaded Crystal Dildo (Rose Quartz)
This double-ended dildo offers a beaded length to stimulate the vaginal walls.
A two-in-one: you can use the other curved end to stimulate the G-spot.
US120$
#3: Black Obsidian Butt Plug
This crystal anal dildo offers something different from regular dildos. The black obsidian helps to dispel negative patterns and offers releases of positive energy.
US150$
#4: Amethyst Yoni Egg
If you don’t want a crystal shaped like a dildo, this crystal egg dildo offers you an introduction to using crystals inside of you.
Use Yoni eggs with specific kegel exercises.
Price: USD60$
#5: Red Jasper Spiral Dildo
This big crystal dildo is 100% organic red jasper. If you enjoy the passion and spicing up your life, this one’s for you.
Price: US44.99$
#6: Indian Jade Dildo
This crystal glass dildo has a larger circumference and a heavier weight.
The green crystal dildo can deepen your ability to hold space and sexual pleasure.
Price: US333$
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Use your healing crystal dildo anywhere from three times a week to every day for the best results and benefits.
You will notice increased sensitivity, stronger orgasms, and heightened pleasure.
Hakima
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