Should I buy a Fleshlight a pocket pussy? It’s a debate that’s been raging on the internet for quite a while now. Are there actually any differences between the two? Which one’s better? And what the heck is even a Fleshlight and a pocket pussy? No sweat! Our sex toy tester Tim Larson has all the answers to all your masturbator questions!
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Let’s Talk About Fleshlights
What is a Fleshlight?
A Fleshlight is a male masturbator with a pretty straightforward design: an orifice on one end and a suction regulator cap on the other. The interior sleeve is made from the patented Superskin, and you can find many textures and orifices on the market, like mouth, anal, and vagina. The company even has the Fleshlight Girls line with orifices molded from your favorite porn star models.
The name Fleshlight comes from the fact that it looks like a flashlight but doesn’t have a bulb at its end. Instead, the toy has a specially designed head to feel like a mouth, a vagina, or an anus. That’s where the ‘flesh’ part of the name comes in.
On top of that, they don’t use any batteries and are straightforward to use. And they have many optional accessories and are awesomely discreet, perfect if you have roommates.
You can read much more about Fleshlights here.
What Fleshlights Can You Buy?
One great thing about Fleshlights is they are fully customizable. For example, you can choose various textures, orifices, cases, and accessories. You can even find masturbators molded from your favorite porn stars in the Girls and Fleshjack lines.
Further, there are even DIY options if you have a woman in your life you’d like to mold into a personal toy.
One of the most realistic Fleshlights is the Riley Reid Utopia sleeve, based on Riley Reid herself. And if you want to practice endurance, the Stamina Training Unit (aka Fleshlight STU) is one of the best sex toys to try.
Where Can You Buy Them?
Fleshlight is a massive brand, so your local adult toy shop probably sells them. But if you’re too nervous entering an actual store or can’t find what you’re looking for, most online retailers, like Lovehoney and Shevibe, stock them.
That being said, it’s safest to go directly to the source. The brand has an online store where you can browse their complete product line and choose the perfect toy. They also have a wide range of accessories and other sex toys to add to your experience.
Very often, they have discounts, especially if you’re buying multiple products at the same time.
Pro Tip: Make sure you’re buying from a legitimate store. Many people get scammed online; therefore, carefully consider which site you use before making any purchase.
Let’s Talk About Pocket Pussies
What is a Pocket Pussy?
A pocket pussy is a male sex toy designed to feel and look like a vagina. It’s usually made from silicone or TPE to give it a soft, squishy texture. In addition, different models feature various inner textures and orifices, sometimes sculpted from Asian porn stars.
Unlike Fleshlights, no pocket pussy looks alike. They come in different shapes, styles, and brands, giving you more options. Some have casings. Some don’t. Some are shaped like body parts, while others don’t even look like you could use them for masturbation.
Another difference =is that many companies are selling them, giving them a lower price than Fleshlights.
You can read more about pocket pussies here.
What Pocket Pussies Can You Buy?
With pocket pussies, the only limit is your imagination. They come in a wide variety of looks, shapes, and sizes, to offer a realistic feel for maximum stimulation. Like the Fleshlight, the pocket pussies often resemble the insides and outsides of popular porn stars.
In addition, they vary in length and girth to get a snug fit for your penis. For example, Zhang Xiao Yu has an insertable length of around five and a half inches. Others, like the Sue Johanson Head Honcho, have an insertable length of six inches.
Not all pocket pussies require manual stimulation (AKA moving your hand). Some have vibrators, suction mechanisms, or other pleasure technology inside them. All these functions allow for an excellent hands-free experience.
You can also find different materials and casings. Some are made of smoother material, while others increase friction with distinct textures.
Where Can You Buy Them?
Most adult shops sell pocket pussies, and professional shops have staff to help you find the size and shape for your penis. Sometimes you can find options you might not have thought about before.
A physical store is an excellent way to avoid scammers, ensuring you get the warranty and the exact product you ordered.
However, most people use online markets, whether uncomfortable visiting stores or because of the convenience. Luckily, many brands have their own shop or have a good distribution network. My favorite stores are Kanojotoys, Lovehoney, and Adam & Eve.
Online, you can find various models, shapes, sizes, and materials. And it allows you to discreetly test out a few until you find a product that perfectly suits your needs.
So What Are The Difference Between The Two?
Material
Fleshlight sleeves have the patented Superskin material, unique to the brand. The Superskin material is stretchy, skin-like, body-safe, and non-porous. In addition, all products have a unique texture. Some are mild, while others have extreme bumps and nodes that make you cum quickly.
Pocket pussies, on the other hand, use different materials for their sleeves. But most will use Thermoplastic elastomers (TPE) due to cost. This material is reasonably cheap and has a life-like look and feel. The significant downside with TPE is it’s porous, so it’s more challenging to clean.
Other pocket pussies are made from materials like latex. But we don’t recommend latex because some people are allergic to that material.
Design
The design is one of the most significant differences between the two. Fleshlight has almost the same external design, even if color and size vary. So on the outside, they look pretty much the same. The exception is the Ice product line with transparent cases so you can see the action inside.
The major differences are with the orifices and the inside texture. Most orifices look like a vagina, but you can find anus, mouth, or even non-descript versions. Some newer Fleshjack models even have testicles attached to them.
Pocket pussies have a much broader design range. Some are as simple as a cylinder with a hole, while others look like a mini torso complete with boobs and legs. It all depends on the manufacturer and how much effort they put into the design.
Realism
Fleshlights have a major advantage when it comes to the material. Superskin is highly realistic, and sometimes you may not even realize you’re pumping away in a toy. Unfortunately, they don’t look very realistic on the outside. If you look down, it seems like you’re humping a flashlight!
How realistic a pocket pussy feels depends on the material. Thermoplastic can feel pretty natural, as can silicone. Alternatively, latex models offer a relatively real experience, but many people are allergic to them.
But the primary benefit of pocket pussies is the more realistic exterior. Some premium products look like tiny sex dolls, complete with body parts and orifices. Other products like La Bocca have a realistic mouth with teeth and tongue (See image above).
Available Products
Fleshlight has one of the most extensive inventories in the sex toy industry, with thousands of ready-made toys and even a few DIY options. However, a few models consistently top the charts, year after year:
- If you want something simple, you should buy the Classic line. They are sleek, sexy, and sophisticated.
- If you want something tailor-made and heavy textured, the Fleshlight Girls line gives you a taste of your favorite female porn stars.
- You can also try out the Ice Series which offers a fascinating transparent experience.
- The top-tier spot for endurance training is the Stamina Training Unit. This model is perfect if you want a stamina-training masturbator to help you last longer in bed.
- And the Fleshsack and Fleshjack lines let you try out male porn stars.
Since so many companies make pocket pussies, you have even more choices than with Fleshlights:
- For example, if you want a realistic blowjob sensation, try the Magic Eyes model.
- For a genuine vaginal feeling, the Zhang Xiao Yu line is a prevalent choice amongst sex toy enthusiasts.
- If you’re looking for a vibrating experience, try the Tenga Zero Flip Zero EV Male Masturbator.
Stimulation
Regarding stimulation, both products offer several options. You can go for a realistic sensation without all the extra accessories. Or you can find toys where you only need to insert your dick and have fun.
Other models have a sleeve lined with bumps, swirls, ridges, or nubs to enhance sexual pleasure. You can even find models with built-in vibrators or auto-stroking accessories.
It all depends on the stimulation you want from a sex toy. Do you want an explosive, brand-new sensation, or do you want it to be as close to the real thing as possible? That’s the biggest question when considering stimulation.
Cleaning
When considering hygiene or cleaning, the Fleshlight has many benefits because of its high-tech material. The Superskin sleeve is non-porous so you only need mild soap and warm water to clean this toy. You can also use a dedicated toy cleaner, but that’s not strictly necessary. You can read all about Fleshlight cleaning in this article.
The cleaning process for a pocket toy like Zhang Xiao Yu is a bit more complicated because of the porous Thermoplastic material. It can absorb lubricant or fluids, so you must be more thorough when cleaning it. Silicone is easier to clean because it’s non-porous, hence not as absorbent.
Another problem with pocket pussies is they take longer to dry, not only because of the porous material but because they are often closed at one end. Considering these factors, it makes pocket pussies a lot more cumbersome to clean than a Fleshlight.
Price Tag
If you’re on a budget, price is probably the most critical factor.
Fleshlights are usually more expensive because they are made with higher-quality materials and are more durable. The price usually ranges from $50 – $140 but you can swap out the sleeve and reuse the casing, saving you some money in the long run.
A standard pocket pussy can cost as little as $20. However, the cheapest models come with a cost in terms of quality and how durable the sex toys are.
Quality
Fleshlights usually come out on top when talking about quality. The hard casing protects the sleeve, making it last for many years. With proper maintenance, the right Fleshlight lube (water-based only), and proper cleaning, they can last a long time.
My only concern with durability is that the sleeve may change color, but that will only happen after many years and can be delayed with proper care.
Pocket pussies have less durable casings, and their sleeves won’t last as long as the Fleshlight’s. On top of that, their materials have a higher likelihood of ripping and can change shape if stored incorrectly. If you look after your masturbator, it can last longer, but it still won’t quite match the durable Fleshlight.
Accessories
Most pocket pussies only work manually. In other words, you must use your hand to do all the stroking. While you can still have fun with the traditional by-hand masturbation, your solo fun sessions will probably be boring. On top of that, your forearms will take the beating and will be sore.
However, Fleshlights can be paired with numerous accessories to help you experiment with different sensations. Whether you want to add hands-free mounts, automatic Fleshlight strokers, or a sleeve warmer, there’s a wide variety to choose from.
Warranty
Both toys will come with a warranty, but only if you buy them from a licensed and authorized dealer. Sites like Fleshlight, Kanojotoys, or Lovehoney will give you a one-year warranty on their products.
Unfortunately, you won’t get a warranty if you buy these sex toys from unauthorized sites. And while the prices might look good, the product won’t be of the same quality and might even be unsafe.
Reliability
Fleshlight is a long-standing company with twenty-four years of providing men with top-class masturbators to elevate their self-pleasure experience. Over the years, the brand has grown and gained the trust of millions for its reliable production of high-quality sexual wellness products.
Pocket pussies, on the other hand, are made by different brands, making it more challenging to differentiate between the good and the bad, especially if it’s the first time you’re buying a sex toy.
Who Should Buy a Fleshlight?
If price isn’t an issue, and you want a quality masturbator that will last for a long time, you should buy a Fleshlight.
In addition, if you want variety and to experience many different sensations, you should buy a Fleshlight. The brand has many accessories, so you can make your solo session exactly how you want it. Hands-free play, VR porn, sleeve warmers, you name it!
Finally, Fleshlights are more discreet; many will assume they are just ordinary flashlights. So you may want to buy this masturbator if you have roommates.
Who Should Buy a Pocket Pussy?
If you’re looking for a quick, cheap wank, pocket pussies are the way to go. They may only last a few months, and you may have to replace them at some point, but you get what you pay for.
Still, they come in different sizes, shapes, and styles, so you have many options. And since they are so cheap, you can always experiment with a new toy if your old one starts acting up. The low price is excellent for first-timers who are unsure if they like it.
Wrapping Up
At first glance, the Fleshlight vs. pocket pussy debate seems easy to solve. The more expensive, the better, right? But it all depends on your sex life and needs.
Think about the materials, durability, quality, and what kind of experience you have in mind. Both offer a whole lot of pleasure during masturbation.
The choice is yours. Which one do you think wins this battle?
Tim
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