Homemade Fleshlight: PRO TIPS from a Male Sex Toy Tester!

I know. Fleshlights are expensive pleasure toys. But the solution is not to hack together your own with stuff lying around the house as it can be quite risky. Many household items are not made for human skin contact and can cause infections and other nasty things. It’s far better to buy a quality product like the Stoya Destroya (our top-ranked sleeve) which only costs $79.95. Is your penis not worth it?

The only situation where making your own makes sense is if you live in a place where there are no online adult stores or physical sex shops. In such cases, we put together some semi-safe homemade Fleshlight ideas. However, it’s important to note that they come with potential risks no matter how careful you are.

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Why You Should Trust Us

Tim Larson has dedicated a significant portion of his adult life to researching and testing male sex toys. Leveraging this expertise, Tim launched My Sex Toy Guide in 2016 to share his knowledge with millions of readers, while also inspiring people to dive into the ever-evolving realm of pleasure toys. Since then, Tim has written hundreds of articles and has become one of the most familiar faces in the adult toy industry.

For this article, apart from his own experience, Tim interviewed people on popular sex toy forums and asked several industry experts, like the sexologist Rachel Sommer, to make sure the options were as diverse as possible. He is highly confident that the information presented below will be valuable for those interested in learning about homemade strokers. You’re in safe hands!

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What is a Homemade Fleshlight?

A DIY Fleshlight is a male masturbator built using common household materials to recreate a fake vagina. Also known as a pocket pussy or Fifi, it offers a low-cost and accessible option to more expensive commercially made sex toys. Additionally, its discreet storage and portability make it convenient for those seeking on-the-go sexual pleasure.

Note: The image above is an example of a commercial product, Stoya Destroya. It’s our favorite male sex toy among the Fleshlight in this article. If you’re curious you can find more information by reading my complete Stoya Destroya review here.

Please note that building your own may not match the quality and durability of their commercial counterparts. Most importantly, they might lack the same level of hygiene and are prone to breakage or tearing, which could pose potential health risks.

 

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Are DIY Fleshlights Safe?

No, DIY Fleshlights are not as safe as professionally-made products. But you can take some precautions to make the experience at least somewhat semi-safe:

• Carefully choose the materials: Ensure the materials are safe for use on human skin. A good practice is to add a latex glove (sometimes even two latex gloves) or a condom as they act as a safety barrier for your penis.
• Cleanliness is key: Like with any sex toy, it’s important to keep them clean. Wash them thoroughly before and after use to avoid the buildup of bacteria. Failure to do so can cause nasty stuff to your genitalia.
• Use lubricant: Applying lube reduces friction and prevents discomfort. Make sure to use a water-based lubricant, as oil-based lubricants can damage certain materials.

Overall, DIY Fleshlights can be somewhat safe as long as you follow the advice above. But they will never be as safe as store-bought products.

 

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Some Semi-Safe Ideas

If you’re looking for some cheap and easy DIY options, there are a few semi-safe ideas you can try at your own risk. But please keep in mind that these methods are never 100% safe and can potentially cause injury or infection. So always use caution and common sense when making a homemade Fleshlight.

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1. Fruits And Vegetables

Fruits and vegetables can be used as a DIY stroker, but it’s important to choose the right ones. Avoid using plants with sharp edges or objects that can easily break off inside of you. Here are some good examples of fruits and vegetables:

Banana: Using bananas as homemade Fleshlights is a decent option as it has a smooth surface and appropriate size. Before usage, it’s essential to thoroughly clean the banana with mild soap and water, ensuring the removal of any dirt or pesticides. We also recommend smoothing out any sharp edges that may scratch your most delicate body parts.

Watermelon: Watermelons can easily be made into DIY Fleshlights due to their soft and fleshy texture. They also stay cold for a long time if refrigerated, providing a chilly sensation. But be cautious when carving the hole to avoid accidental cuts. Also, ensure the fruit is clean and sanitized before use.

Cucumber: Using cucumber as a DIY Fleshlight requires a bit more effort compared to other fruits and vegetables, but the results can be rewarding. Similar to melons, you can store a cucumber in the refrigerator for a cooler experience. Cucumbers are composed mostly of water, which makes them naturally lubricating.

Pro tip: If your dick is too big for the cucumber, you can slice the cucumber a bit to add more space and put on duct tape or a rubber band to tighten the size.

When humping a cucumber, a significant amount of water may pour out, so please have paper towels nearby to catch excess liquid.

2. Towel & Sock Fleshlights

The towel/sock method is the best homemade Fleshlight as it’s easy and cheap to make. Let’s check out my 3 favorite methods (my absolute favorite is the last one!)

Rolled Towel Fleshlight (Fifi): You need a towel, a glove, a toothpaste tube (or anything cylindrical), and rubber bands for the first method.

1. First, I took a towel from the bathroom and then folded it in half in a lengthwise manner.
2. Then, I put the toothpaste tube inside a glove and carefully placed it on one end of the towel. Important: make sure the glove’s cuff is overhanging the folded edge of your towel.
3. Now, slowly roll the towel with the toothpaste and glove inside.
4. After rolling it twice, fold the edge of the glove’s cuff back around your towel. The cuff should hold the towel in place as you continue to roll until you finally reach the end.
5. After rolling, gently pull out the tube of toothpaste.
6. To keep the shape in place, secure it with two rubber bands.
7. Apply as much lube as you want on your cock and start playing!

To make it easier for you to make it, we have summarized the instructions in our excellent educational YouTube video below. Please check it out!

Folded Towel Fleshlight: To make this homemade Fleshlight you need a towel, a latex glove, and a rubber band.

1. First, take the towel, fold it in a narrow half, and place the glove on one end with the cuff hanging out slightly.
2. Then, make another fold making the two narrow ends meet, sandwiching the latex glove.
3. Next, take the cuff of the latex glove, stretch it, and let it fit over the ends of the towel.
4. Finally, secure the parts with a band to make them tight and sturdy.
5. Lo and behold, you now have your homemade Fleshlight!

To make it easier for you to make the folded towel masturbator at home, we have summarized the instructions in our excellent educational video below. Please check it out!

Sock Fleshlight: Spoiler Alert! The sock method is my favorite and is the best DIY option, in my humble opinion! The good news: you only need three pairs of socks, a latex glove, and a rubber band to make this one. Let’s check out the step-by-step instructions!

1. Stack two pairs of socks and lay them beside each other.
2. Carefully fold each pair starting from the toes and put them down with the fold underneath.
3. Lay the glove on top of one pair of socks.
4. Be sure that the cuff is sticking out approximately one to two inches.
5. Put another pair on top, with the glove sandwiched in between them.
6. Wrap the glove’s cuff over the socks’ ends.
7. Take the third pair of socks and slowly wrap them around the center of your sock and glove sandwich.
8. At the same time, adjust the tightness.
9. Finally, tie the ends with the band.
10. Lube up and enjoy!

Pro Tip: Wedge it under the bed mattress or between some couch cushions for a fun hands-free experience.

To make it easier for you to make the sock masturbator at home, we have summarized the instructions in our excellent educational video below. Please check it out!

3. Stuff Toys

For those looking to add a creative touch, repurposing an old stuffed toy can be an option to create a Fleshlight. For this one, choose a soft and clean plush toy. Then, carefully use a knife to create a small hole (depending on how you want your penis-shaped hole to look) in the center of the toy, making sure it’s the right size for your member.

To keep things clean and protect yourself, consider using a condom or sliding a latex glove over the opening. This extra layer acts as a barrier and provides a smooth and protected surface for your enjoyment. A latex glove is better than nothing at all so make sure to put one inside

4. Sofa and Pillow stuffing

If you own a sofa with cushions that can be taken off, you can use the gap between the cushions as an impromptu Fleshlight! All you need is to fold a towel or blanket and position it between the cushions to enhance comfort and create a suitable space for your intimate activities. Adding a bubble wrap can also improve the sensation. Please cut the bubble wrap and shape it properly for the sofa or pillow.

5. Hot water bottles

Cut the top of a water bottle (ensure no sharp edges), then fill it with warm water up to about a quarter (not too hot, check before using it on your penis!). Then, place a latex glove over the top of the water-filled bottle, wrapping the wrist cuff over the edge. Roll up the bottle and secure it tightly with duct tape or a rubber band to prevent any leaks.

Make adjustments on the duct tape or the rubber band depending on your preference. Before using it, ensure the top of the bottle is securely closed and any excess air is removed. Finally, apply lubrication generously to enhance comfort and glide.

6. Toilet Paper Rolls

The cheapest method is using a toilet paper roll, everyone has one of those. Begin with cautiously cutting a hole in the center of one end with a sharp knife. To further enhance the experience, consider lining the interior tunnel with bubble wrap or inserting latex gloves. The bubble wrap provides added texture, while the smoothness of rubber or latex gloves can heighten stimulation. Voila!

7. Party Balloon

You make a Fleshlight using a party balloon, yes I’m not kidding. First, apply some lotion or lubricant inside the balloon, then stretch it over a cardboard tube or any other object that provides support. Inflate the balloon with a little air, making sure not to overinflate it. The four balloons should fit comfortably inside the container without making the central hole too tight.

If needed, adjust the air levels in the balloons to achieve the desired width. To secure the balloons, use duct tape to fasten them to the edges of the container, covering the knots.

Then, carefully insert your fingers through the center of the balloons and pull the cuff of a latex glove over the edges and around the opening. Finally, apply lubrication and enjoy!

8. Pringles Can

The Pringles has become popular as one of the top DIY sex toy ideas as it can fully accommodate an erect penis (well, almost all penises at least). However, I made several improvements that elevated this DIY creation to a whole new level, surpassing even the original design. One notable enhancement involves adding one or two strategically placed sponges at the top of the device. You can also add a latex glove to make the clean-up easier.

The sponges create a central split, delivering an enhanced and realistic experience by simulating the sensation of entering a delightfully tight and pleasurable vaginal opening. There’s also no longer a need for additional components around the rim, resulting in a smoother and more enjoyable encounter.

9. Cornstarch Jelly

Cornstarch can be a decent homemade Fleshlight lube by mixing it with hot water. Combine equal amounts of cornstarch and water in a pot and heat the mixture until it thickens. Once thickened, allow the mixture to cool down before applying it as a lubricant with any of the methods above. This DIY lubricant option can be a cost-effective and easily accessible alternative.

However, you must be aware that it doesn’t have the same qualities or benefits as commercially available lubricants. We also recommend doing a patch test on a small area of the skin to check for any adverse reactions before applying it to more sensitive areas.

 

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Not Safe at All Ideas

We must warn that some ideas are not safe at all as they can cause serious injuries, infections, and other health problems. We strongly advise you to avoid these ideas at all costs.

Here are a few examples of not safe at all DIY Fleshlight ideas:

Using Glass or Ceramic Containers

Using glass or ceramic containers is a terrible idea as they can break or shatter inside your body, causing severe injuries and bleeding. Moreover, glass and ceramic are porous materials that can harbor bacteria, viruses, and other pathogens that can cause infections. Stay away!

Food Items

Using food items may sound fun, but it’s not safe at all. Food can break or dissolve inside your body, causing blockages, infections, and other health problems. Moreover, food items can attract insects, rodents, and other pests that can transmit diseases.

Using Chemicals

Using chemicals as a homemade lubricant or cleaning agent is a terrible idea. Chemicals can cause burns, irritations, and other health problems. Further, chemicals can react with other substances in your body, causing explosions, fires, and other dangerous situations.

Sharp Objects

Using sharp objects is a no-go as well. They can cause cuts, punctures, and other injuries that can lead to bleeding, infections, and other health problems. Sharp objects can also break or get stuck inside your body, causing serious internal damage. Ouch!

 

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How To Use a Homemade Fleshlight?

When it comes to using a DIY Fleshlight, there are important considerations to ensure both pleasure and safety. Below are some tips to guide you through the process:

1. Lubrication: To avoid any discomfort or potential damage, please apply a water-based lubricant generously to both the sleeve and your penis. This will enhance the gliding sensation and overall comfort during use.
2. Warming it up: Enhance the realism and enjoyment by slightly heating it beforehand. Place it in a bowl of warm water for a few minutes, allowing the material to reach a temperature that mimics the natural warmth of the human body. You’ll love this one!
3. Finding the right position: Discover a comfortable position that works best for you is highly recommended. You can hold the device firmly with one hand, or you may opt to secure it between pillows or cushions to keep it stable and in place.
4. Take it slow: Take your time and start with gentle strokes. Allow yourself to become gradually more aroused and adjust the intensity accordingly. Remember that the purpose is to create pleasurable sensations, so pacing yourself and exploring different techniques can enhance the experience.
5. Post-use cleaning: After you have finished, it’s essential to thoroughly clean your homemade Fleshlight with warm water and mild soap. Ensure that all traces of lubricant and bodily fluids are properly washed away. Allow it to dry completely before storing it in a clean and discreet location to maintain its hygiene.

We have a separate article that talks about the proper way to use a Fleshlight, perhaps it can help you with your DIY sex toy as well.

 

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What difference between homemade Fleshlight and homemade pocket pussy?

There are two main types of homemade male masturbators: Fleshlights and pocket pussies. Both are primarily made of household materials like latex gloves, duct tape, and rubber bands, but Fleshlights typically have a hard plastic case with a soft, realistic sleeve inside. Pocket pussies, on the other hand, are usually made from a softer material like silicone or latex and are designed to be handheld.

Note: Zhang Xiao Yu (image above) is our choice for the best pocket pussy. Our testers loved how it gave us the best feeling of all the products they tested. Everything from the textured canal to the realistic design and squishy dual-layer TPE material makes it our top pick.

The main advantage of a DIY Fleshlight is that it can provide a more realistic experience than a homemade pocket pussy, thanks to the firmer outer casing. However, making a Fleshlight can be more difficult and time-consuming than making a homemade pocket pussy.

How can I clean a homemade sex toy?

Keeping your homemade Fleshlight sex toy clean is important for both hygiene and longevity. The best way to clean a homemade Fleshlight is to rinse it thoroughly with warm water and mild soap. Make sure to get into all the nooks and crannies to remove any dirt or bacteria. You’ll find more useful tips in our how to clean a Fleshlight guide.

After washing, it’s important to dry your toy completely to prevent mold or mildew from forming. You can use a towel or cloth to dry the outside, but make sure to leave the inner sleeve open to air dry completely.

Tim

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