So, you’re curious about having an anal orgasm using a vibrator? Well, you’re not alone! Believe it or not, your anus is packed with sensitive nerves just waiting to send shivers down your spine when they’re touched just right. To help you navigate this territory, we’ve got the inside scoop from Rachel Sommer, our go-to sexual health advocate, and a true pro when it comes to all things sexy. Let’s see what she has to say:
- Preparation is key! First, make sure you’re in the mood, your muscles are relaxed, and you’re mentally prepared. Take your time and have fun!
- Choose the right tools. There are different types of vibrating anal toys to consider, including butt plugs, beads, and prostate massagers. Make sure to pick the one that works best for you and your experience level. Also, don’t forget about the importance of water-based lube.
- Inserting and playing requires patience and relaxation. Start slowly and use plenty of lube. Experiment with different settings and angles to stimulate your anus. Don’t be afraid to try different positions and add extra stimulation with your fingers.
- Finding the right spots is essential for reaching that big O. For men, the P-spot (prostate gland) is located a few inches inside the anus and can be stimulated with a prostate massager. For women, they can reach the A-spot which is 5 to 6 inches inside the vagina.
- Trying different positions can enhance your anal orgasm experience. Doggy style is a classic position, but don’t be afraid to mix it up with a squatting position, on your back, and Spooning.
Understanding Anal Vibrators
If you’re itching to explore the world of backdoor bliss and potentially take your pleasure game to a whole new level, you’re in for a treat. Let me tell you, vibrating anal sex toys are like a one-way ticket to Pleasure Town, where you’ll experience sensations that’ll blow your mind. They come in all sorts of shapes, sizes, and materials, like silicone, glass, and metal. Some are all about giving your prostate the time of its life – they’re like the pros at finding your body’s secret pleasure buttons. Then there are the all-around champs like vibrating butt pals and anal bead buddies, just here to fill your backdoor with good vibes.
Now, here’s the deal: a good slip ‘n’ slide is essential for this adventure. Think of it as your trusty sidekick. Silicone toys love only a water-based lube, while glass and metal are also compatible with silicone or oil-based lubes.
Oh, and don’t rush things during anal stimulation – start with the small fries before you move on to the big daddies to keep things comfy. And here’s the final rule in the playbook of pleasurable anal play: this is a team sport, so always make sure everyone’s on board and talking about what makes them smile.
When it comes to having a good time in the world of butt fun, it’s all about being in sync and having some good, clean fun.
What Do Anal Vibrators Feel Like?
When you insert a vibrating anal sex toy, you’ll start to feel a sense of fullness that’s unique. It’s like your insides are being pushed and stretched, and it can be a surprisingly pleasurable sensation due to all the nerve endings.
But that’s not all. Once you turn on the vibrating anal sex toy, you’ll feel a whole new level of sensation. The vibrations can be intense and send shivers down your spine. It’s like having a mini earthquake in your butt but in a good way!
How to Have an Anal Orgasm Using a Vibrator?
1. Preparation Before Anal Masturbation
Now the very first thing we recommend is to do some bowel movement earlier in the day if you plan to do some backdoor action. Just a little precaution if you will. We also recommend cleaning yourself around the anus region. Douching is ok but not necessary.
If you want to go the extra mile when it comes to preparation, here’s our full anal preparation guide.
Once that’s out of the way, it’s time to prepare yourself in other aspects. Most importantly, arousal is key to enjoying anal play, so take some time to think about what turns you on. May it be watching pornography, reading erotica, or just fantasizing about your favorite celebrity. Whatever floats your boat.
Next, make sure your muscles are relaxed. Tension in your body can make anal play uncomfortable or even painful, so take some deep breaths and do some stretches to loosen up. You can also try using a smaller toy or your fingers to warm up before moving on to a vibrator.
Finally, get yourself mentally prepared. Anal play can be a bit intimidating, especially if you’ve never done it before. But remember, you’re in control and you can stop at any time if you’re not enjoying it. Take some time to visualize yourself having a great time and feeling amazing sensations. Most importantly, have fun!
2. Picking The Right Toys
Types Of Anal Vibes
There are a variety of toys on the market to choose from. Here are some types of vibrating anal toys to consider:
- Butt Plug: These are the most common type of anal vibrator. A Vibrating butt plug is designed to be inserted and left in place for extended periods. They come in a range of sizes and shapes, from a petite butt plug and tapered for beginners, to large and bulbous for more experienced users. Ensure they have a flared base for anal safety reasons.
- Anal Beads: Anal beads are a series of small, connected balls that you insert into your anus and then slowly pulled out during orgasm. They provide a unique sensation that can be quite intense.
- Prostate Massager: Prostate stimulators are specially designed to stimulate the prostate gland, which is located a few inches inside the anus. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, but all are designed to provide intense internal stimulation to your prostate leading to prostate orgasm.
When choosing an anal sex toy, it’s important to consider your experience level, personal preferences, and the size and shape of the vibrator. Also, keep in mind that when using anal toys, always pick those that have a flared base, this is crucial because one mistake can have your toy stuck deep inside of you.
Type Of Lubes
Not all lubes are created equal, and some can do more harm than good. So, let’s take a closer look at the different types of lubes and find which ones are best for anal play.
First up, we have water-based lubes, the most common type. They’re safe to use with all types of sex toys, including silicone products. However, they tend to dry out quickly, so you may need to reapply them often. If you’re using any anal toy, you’ll want to make sure you have a good amount of lubricant on hand to keep things nice and slippery.
Next, we have silicone lube. These are great for anal play because they last longer than water-based lubes and won’t dry out as quickly. However, they’re not safe to use with silicone sex toys. So, if you’re using a silicone model, you’ll want to stick with a water-based lube.
Remember, the key to more intense orgasms is to use an anal lube. And don’t go stingy, you might not know but you actually need more lube than you think So, don’t be afraid to experiment with different types until you find the one that works best for you.
3. The Insertion Phase!
With the basics out of the way, you’re ready to explore the world of anal orgasms. But before you dive in, take a deep breath and let your body go limp. You don’t want any tension down there.
Next, apply plenty of water-based lubricant to your anal sex toy and the anus area. Start with a finger slowly and work your way up to the toy. Insert the anal sex toy slowly, and don’t force it. If you feel any pain or discomfort, stop immediately.
For beginners who are still learning the ropes, we recommend checking this 101 guide on how to use anal vibrators.
Once the toy is inside, switch things up by playing with the settings. Start with a low vibration and work your way up. You can also try different patterns and modes. Move the toy in circular motions, and try different angles to stimulate your anal canal (or prostate if you have one). If you’re playing with a partner, they can take control of the toy and surprise you with new sensations.
4. Finding and Hitting The Right Spots
For Males (P-spot)
The P-spot, also known as the prostate gland, is a small gland located inside the rectum It’s about the size of a walnut and is responsible for producing semen. But more importantly, it’s packed with nerve endings that can help you reach prostate orgasm when stimulated during prostate play.
Before you do some prostate massages, you need to find the P-spot first. To find this pleasure spot, you’ll need to do some internal exploration. Start by washing your hands and your anus thoroughly. Then, use a water-based lubricant to make insertion easier and more comfortable. Using your finger slowly, insert it into your anus and feel for a small bump on the front wall of your rectum. X marks the spot! It’s important to be gentle and patient during anal masturbation. Don’t rush it, take your time, reapply lube if needed, and enjoy the prostate massage.
Once you’ve located your P-spot, it’s time to bring in the toys. Look for a prostate toy made of body-safe materials, such as silicone, and start with something small and beginner-friendly. Insert the toy into your anus and aim it towards your prostate. Turn on the vibrations and experiment with different levels of intensity.
You’ll be amazed at how quickly you can achieve a more intense prostate orgasm with this prostate stimulation. And don’t forget, partner play can also be a great way to explore the pleasures of butt play and prostate massage.
If you want more tips, you can check our comprehensive on how to achieve prostate orgasms.
For Females (A-Spot)
This might be a concern for the ladies since prostate orgasm isn’t on the menu, some of them might think that the only way they can reach orgasm is when doing penis-in-vagina, dildos, and vibrators only. But aside from using anal toys for dual stimulation (vagina-anus), there’s a way to use anal toys during masturbation that can help you reach A-spot as well.
Let’s kick things off by talking about the A-spot. The A-spot, also known as the anterior fornix, is a treasure trove of erotically charged nerve endings located deep inside the vagina, about 5 to 6 inches in (see the illustration above for the exact location). Now, to access this pleasure zone with the help of anal vibrators, you’ll need to use an anal toy with the right design.
Look for products with a curved or angled tip. These toys are your secret weapon for unlocking the potential of your A-spot while enjoying some play with your anus. The curved tip allows for gentle, indirect stimulation of your A-spot, creating waves of pleasure that can radiate through your entire body.
Pro Tip: Combine the anal vibrator with a clitoris toy for the possibility of a triple orgasm!
5. Try Different Positions
You might be feeling excited now to dive directly into the world of anal orgasms. But wait, there’s more to it than just sticking it in and hoping for the best. One of the best ways to reach that elusive orgasm is to try different positions.
Doggy style’s a timeless pick for some rear-end action, but hey, there’s a whole buffet of positions to choose from. Squatting, Missionary, and Spooning – they’ve all got their charm. The name of the game here is to experiment and figure out what gets you going.
Thanks for reading my guide on how to have an orgasm using an anal vibrator!
Rachel
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