When you think about hypnosis, you might picture a comical magician in a funny cape swinging a pocket watch before someone’s eyes making them believe they are a celebrity. Not necessarily the sexiest image.
However, it is well known that our childhood experiences can impact our sexual desires. So that mixed with the inherent power dynamics involved in hypnosis, may lead many to eroticize hypnosis.
Hypnosis fetish has been called the chocolate sauce of the kink world – where “You can add it to anything, and it will make it better.” Indeed, hypnosis is often combined with BDSM, Role playing, sensory play, and other kinks.
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What is a Hypnosis fetish?
Hypnofetish, also known as Hypno Kink or Erotic Hypnosis, refers to a specific sexual interest or attraction towards the practice of hypnosis as a means of achieving sexual arousal or gratification. Hypnosis, in the context of this fetish, typically involves a hypnotist inducing a trance-like state in the subject, who may willingly submit to the erotic suggestions or role-playing scenarios. I spoke with Avi Aaron, an Erotic Hypnosis Educator & Specialist, and he explained,
“Hypnosis brings about a distinct altered state of consciousness, blending seamlessly with traditional dominance/submission power dynamics. This fusion of hypnosis and power play can be deeply stimulating and fulfilling for those involved.”
Although there is a lot of overlap between sexual hypnosis and power play – that is not the only way that hypnosis can be incorporated into sexuality. For example, Avi shared,
“Sensation Play utilizes hypnosis to heighten sensitivity to touch, sound, and other sensory stimuli, enhancing the overall erotic experience.”
He also explained that behavioral transformations brought on by hypnosis can be a thrilling way to explore fantasies and Role Play by “using hypnosis to temporarily alter behaviors and personalities, thereby deepening the connection between partners.”
Why do people have a Hypno fetish?
In the hypnosis community, there appears to be a noteworthy distinction between individuals who identify themselves as having a hypnosis fetish and those with a hypnosis kink. Those with a hypnosis fetish typically developed their desires during childhood, finding the act of being hypnotized itself to be erotically enticing. On the other hand, many individuals with a hypno kink discovered their interest later in life and often employ it as a means to explore different dynamics. However, it’s important to note that this division is not always neatly defined, and there can be overlap and blurred lines between the two. To have a good grasp on how fetishes and kinks come from, make sure to check our fetish guide.
One person with a hypnosis fetish expressed,
“I was a very young child. Hypnosis scenes in Disney movies would evoke tingling sensations and embarrassment in me. I’ve always felt uncomfortable yet sexually aroused by any hypnosis or mind control depictions in movies, TV shows, and books for as long as I can remember.”
For others, their fetish developed as a coping mechanism in response to their life circumstances. As shared by someone on Reddit,
“I believe mine stems from religious trauma. I used to perceive sex and any sexual activity as extremely negative. The only way I could imagine engaging in sex without overwhelming guilt was by envisioning and fantasizing about complete control so that it couldn’t be ‘my fault’.”
Others find enjoyment in hypnosis due to the sense of stillness and tranquility it provides. As one person shared,
“If I am deep under, I’m feeling this amazing blankness and almost dizzy high, and I’m not even thinking, really.”
This state of blankness can be particularly helpful for individuals who struggle with disruptive thoughts that hinder their sexual experiences. Another Reddit user expressed,
“I wanted to cum without touching myself. Pretty simple, lol.”
Undoubtedly, achieving orgasm control through entering a deep hypnotic state can be a solid reason to investigate erotic hypnosis.
How common is a Hypno fetish?
Hypnosis kink has gained significant popularity within the kink community in recent years. In fact, a website catering to individuals with this desire boasts over 50,000 members. What I found intriguing is that during the signup process, users are asked about their role preferences, and the options include “slave, master, pet owner, parent, baby, furry.”
This illustrates the strong interconnection between hypnosis and various other kinks.
How does hypnosis work?
Some people are naturally more susceptible to being hypnotized than others. Hypnosis expert David Spiegel at Stanford explored the brains of those who are deemed to be “highly hypnotizable” and found that when hypnotized there is a drop in brain areas related to self-reflection and an increase in the brains connection to the part of the body that is hypnotized. This phenomenon suggests that those in a hypnotic trance state may become more susceptible to persuasion and experience a heightened connection with their body. These findings shed light on the intriguing dynamics at play during hypnosis and the potential impact it has on cognitive and bodily experiences.
There are a variety of ways to get someone into a hypnotic state. Avi shares hypnosis,
“Hypnosis may involve the use of simple language patterns, inducing a relaxed and receptive state of mind. Physical touch, such as gentle caresses or light massages, can also be incorporated to deepen relaxation and enhance the hypnotic experience.”
Avi shares that a well-trained hypnotist will customize the hypnotic journey,
“Tailoring their techniques to match the partner’s unique brain chemistry.”
How to explore hypnosis safely?
It is not a good idea to jump into erotic hypno without proper training because consent can become tricky once someone is in a hypnotic state. It is essential to have a conversation about boundaries BEFORE hypnosis and to create a way for the hypnotized to give consent during a scene. Avi recommends making clear boundaries,
“Including specific activities, duration of the hypnosis session, and any triggers or limits that should be respected.”
Finally, aftercare must be discussed, which Arui shares will help facilitate
“A smooth transition from the intense and vulnerable space of hypnosis back to a state of normalcy, ensuring the well-being and emotional stability of all involved.”
Erotic hypnosis provides an exciting pathway for exploring a wide range of dynamics and pleasures. By prioritizing safety and proceeding at a comfortable pace, it can become an enticing addition to your sexual exploration. Similar to chocolate sauce, hypnosis has the potential to enhance and enrich your experiences in MOST settings. However, it’s important to familiarize yourself with hypnosis to avoid unintentionally mixing it with incompatible elements, like a chocolate sauce eggplant sundae.
Happy exploring 🙂
Niki
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