The sexual power of fertility and pregnancy is not a new concept. From ancient deities like Venus, who represents fertility and sexuality, to the “glow” that pregnant ladies emanate, everyone wants to give up their seats on the bus.
There’s no question that pregnancy is a powerful state, and therefore, the relationship between sexuality and pregnancy is logical. Pregnancy is often a result of sex, and creating life is a beautiful, magical, and sure, potentially sexual experience.
But there are some potential complications of being aroused by something so inherently short-lived. I’m willing to bet folks with this fetish don’t have the same excitement toward dealing with a cranky, stinky, crying newborn coming out of that sexy belly.
As a result, it may be difficult to explore this fetish respectfully if you desire to interact consistently with pregnant women.
However, there are several ways to explore a pregnancy fantasy, and interacting with a pregnant woman is only one option. If having sex with pregnant women is your desire, you mustn’t use or swindle your partners. There are stories of folks who join women’s expecting groups to try to pick up ladies with a belly.
There are ways to explore this fetish ethically – and lying and deception are not part of that.
Did you know: that some people are aroused by the idea of themselves becoming pregnant (referred to as gravidophilia [1])? Their fantasies are often about becoming pregnant, and they may engage in role-play or take sexual risks to explore the arousal of creating life.
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What Is A Pregnancy Fetish?
A pregnancy fetish, also known as maiesiophilia or maieusophoria, is a sexual attraction or arousal to pregnancy [2]. Most folks are aroused by the shape of a pregnant belly or other associated bodily changes that occur during pregnancy, but there are many different facets to this fetish:
- Some pregnancy fetishists are into the earlier stage of pregnancy and find impregnating a woman sexy (AKA breeding fetish), while others see the act of giving birth as erotic.
- Starting a family may arouse the romantics, and pregnancy could be exciting as a means to that end.
- Finally, other pregnancy fetishists are excited by the lactation [3] and breast growth that comes with childbirth.
Why Do People Have Pregnancy Fetish?
A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found an environmental reason to explain the development of a pregnancy and birth fetish in some boys. The study found that older male siblings who witnessed their mother becoming pregnant and breastfeeding were more likely to develop an attraction toward pregnancy kinks later in life.
Older siblings were significantly more likely to have a pregnant fetish than those who did not witness the process of pregnancy in their household.
There may be a critical period during young adulthood where a fetish is more likely to develop if the circumstances are right, and the type of fetish that develops may vary depending on the environment.
For example, suppose a person has the genetics that makes developing a fetish more likely, and during this crucial time, sees their mother experience pregnancy. In that case, it’s logical they may eroticize pregnancy.
Another reason that pregnancy may become eroticized is we often think about pregnancy and childbirth as being a very wholesome time. Thus, exploring the taboo of a horny pregnant lady is particularly arousing for some.
Also, do you know the psychological phenomenon where we want what we cannot have? Most pregnant women either have a partner or are too interested in creating life to care too much about dating.
For some, this lack of availability can be an enormous turn-on. In the same way many want to sleep with a nun, the lack of availability and taboo of pregnant women can be exciting.
There are also biological reasons that pregnant women look extra fly. A study found that blood flood increases during pregnancy, which can help explain that “pregnant glow.” The excess hormones influx during pregnancy of estrogen and progesterone can also help pregnant women grow thicker nails and have shiny hair. Their breasts are also likely to grow. Not to mention the hormonal flux can make women particularly horny.
These attributes can make a pregnant girl particularly attractive to potential partners.
Another study in the Journal of Psychology and Human Sexuality showed that men were more sexually drawn to their pregnant wife when pregnant. This research shows that pregnancy can be inherently a magical and sexy time, even for those without a fetish.
Finally, creating life is arguably the most powerful and beautiful thing on this planet. For some, the strength and endurance to make a human can be sexually alluring.
How Common Is Pregnancy Fetish?
Pregnancy fetishes are relatively common, especially in recent years.
- For example, Pornhub data found that Since 2014, pregnancy-related porn searches have increased by almost 20%. In fact, on Pornhub, the word pregnancy was ranked the 107th most common search in the states in 2017, about as common as “redhead” or “babysitter.”
- Many online communities are devoted to discussing their pregnant kink, exploring porn content, and meeting pregnant folks. For example, Reddit has a large and active group where folks discuss their pregnant belly fetish and share erotic pics. There’s also a site dating pregnant women, where you can look for pregnant women who are looking to date (or fuck).
- Interestingly, the same survey from Pornhub in 2017 found that women were 27% MORE LIKELY to search for pregnancy porn than men. However, there is no data on precisely the purpose of these searches. Nevertheless, it suggests that the concept of pregnancy kink can be erotic for women as well. Women may be turned on by the idea of themselves becoming pregnant or by other women being pregnant.
How to Ethically Explore It?
As discussed above, there’s nothing wrong with being turned on by third-trimester baby bumps – it’s pretty logical. What’s important is you explore this kink safely and ethically.
For example, if you want to explore pregnancy porn, you must consume ethical content. Several sites steal baby bump photos from pregnant women’s social media and put them online without consent. I would do a Google search of any site to ensure it’s ethical before indulging.
If you’re looking to engage with a pregnant person sexually, it’s essential to express you find pregnancy arousing. They need to know that your attraction to them may shift post-pregnancy to decide if they want to sexually engage now. It would be helpful to express clearly what you’re looking for so they can make an informed decision.
I highly recommend you don’t fuck with a pregnant person if you want to leave the situation alive. Ask yourself:
- Are you looking for a one-time encounter with pregnant women?
- Are you looking to start a relationship?
- Will you still enjoy sexually engaging with this person post-pregnancy?
- Are you honest with your partner about your pregnancy fetishism?
- Is there anything they should know before making an informed decision to sleep with you?
Many pregnant girls are often particularly horny and open. They may be available for guilt-free sexual exploration, and it’s the honesty piece that’s KEY.
There are also many ways to explore this pregnant sex fetish without having sexual relations with a pregnant person. You can enjoy watching porn and looking at erotic photos of pregnant ladies. You can role-play with your partner, where they pretend that they are at different stages of their pregnancy. Then, if/when you are both ready (ideally for non-fetish-related reasons) if your partner is able and willing, you can experience the magic of pregnancy together and enjoy each stage of the process.
You cannot help what you find arousing, and there’s nothing wrong with being turned on by a pregnant belly. What you can control is what actions you take. Pregnant ladies are strong AF but also potentially vulnerable.
So, if you’re looking to pick up a pregnant girl, you MUST communicate your desires and ensure you’re on the same page. You can’t promise them a life together if you want to enjoy this beautiful process in their life and then leave.
Your preggo fetish may originate from your childhood, your biological makeup, or how you think about pregnancy. Regardless of the etiology, if you communicate and are honest, you can have some expanding and moving experiences by enjoying this beautiful time.
Happy humpy Humping 🙂
Niki
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