The simplest way to make your sex life more exciting is by doing it somewhere other than your bed. Sitting down sex, or sitting down sex positions, are incredibly versatile and fit any mood. When you’re feeling lazy and want effortless, sensual sex, try sitting sex. When you’re feeling daring or exotic, try wilder sitting sex poses. They are a gift from the sex gods and exist so you can sustain a pose to last longer, leading to a more intense, passionate, and sensational sex endeavor. To help you get started, here are the six best sitting sex positions to switch from the norm. So sit back, relax, and experience pleasure all while sitting down.
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Wrapped Lotus
The lotus position is one of the most intimate sex positions while sitting down. It’s as close as you can be to building an emotional connection with your partner. Therefore, you don’t want to miss out on this sitting sex position.
In addition, it offers plenty of clitoral stimulation for women, making this position a crowd favorite. You are face to face with your bodies intertwined. There’s room for eye gazing, dirty talk, touching each other’s body, and being in a warm embrace.
Add more ways to stimulate your clitoris by letting your partner finger you while riding them, or use a vibrator to do all the naughty work.
How To Do It:
- Your partner sits on the edge of your bed, couch, or a sturdy chair and gets in a cross-legged position.
- They have the option to sit with their legs wide open, but I recommend the cross-legged position for more support and comfort.
- Straddle your partner and sit close to them. Have your legs wrapped around your partner’s waist.
- Use your hand to guide his penis inside you and move your hips forward and backward.
- Bounce your hips up and down or move them in a circular motion for deeper penetration. Get into the rhythm and find what feels most pleasurable for you and your partner.
Seated Wheelbarrow
This next sitting position is the Seated Wheelbarrow, which I describe as a wild ride. It involves more physical exertion for a sitting position but is still more doable than the standing wheelbarrow.
While it isn’t the most sustainable sex position to be in – it’s packed with pleasure and deep penetration, making it 100% worth performing.
Getting into the Seated Wheelbarrow is only half the fun this sex position brings. It’s an exotic and new way to hit your g spot or a spot. The window for anal sex is also right there if you want to try it. And your partner is in the perfect angle to bring you to orgasm.
Here’s how to get into it in 7 simple steps.
How To Do It:
- Your penetrating partner sits down on a low surface like an ottoman chair or the couch.
- Get down on your hands and knees in front of him. Similar to getting in a plank position, extend your arms and legs.
- Lift your legs and place them on opposite sides of your partner’s body. Your inner thighs are touching theirs, and your knees should be resting on the couch.
- Inch back closer to your significant other’s body.
- He holds onto your hips and uses them for deep thrusting.
- Use your hands and shoulders to rock your body forward and back to move your body.
- Make sure to take breaks in between by going down on your forearms.
Lazy Man
It’s in the name itself; the lazy man is for days when you both feel tired but still want pleasure in bed. You can perform the lazy man anywhere and anytime. It’s perfect for limited mobility, and you can dictate how fast or slow you want to go.
The lazy man is a sweet, sensual, seated sex position for taking things slow. And the best part is you can stay in this pose for as long as you want. It also gives room for passionate kissing, and you get plenty of arousal from g-spot stimulation.
How To Do It:
- Your partner sits upright with his legs stretched in front of him. Let him lean back on the headboard of your bed or the wall for back support.
- Simply sit down facing your partner’s lap. You are on his thighs and bend your knees on either side of his body.
- He can penetrate from there and perform a grinding movement over thrusting while in this sex position.
- Wrap your arms around him and use your lower legs to help move your body back and forth.
- Begin grinding faster to receive more pleasure. Stick with it until you reach orgasm.
Lap Dance
There’s nothing like a lap dance to get things heated. As long as you have access to a chair, you can perform this chair position at any given time.
This sitting position is perfect for nights when you feel like giving your partner a fiery treat. At the same time, you feel sexy while in this position! Introduce breast play, a vibrator, or fun costumes for roleplay to make the most of lap dance.
How To Do It:
- Let your partner sit down comfortably on a chair or couch.
- Begin with foreplay by doing a lap dance and giving your partner a show. Perform sexy dance moves to arouse him, or do a strip tease and slowly undress each piece of clothing.
- Caress your partner’s legs and run your hands down his thigh.
- Move your back closer to him, and sit on your partner. Face away from them as you sit on his lap.
- Using your hands, slide his penis inside you, slowly bouncing up and down.
- Your partner can use his hands to stimulate your breasts or clit for extra pleasure.
Cowgirl On a Chair
Cowgirl is easily one of the all-time favorite sitting sexual positions for all the right reasons. You can add variation from the classic cowgirl by performing this on a chair or any low surface.
There’s a higher chance of orgasm for the person receiving it, perfect control with movements, and men, you get the best view watching your partner do her thing on top.
Cowgirl on a chair is almost the same sitting sexual position as a lap dance; only you’re facing your partner instead of facing away from them. So here’s how to take a classic position and take your sex experience up a notch.
How To Do It:
- Your receiving partner sits on a comfortable chair and spreads their legs hip distance apart.
- Give oral sex for foreplay.
- When they’re aroused, face your partner and sit on their lap. Have your knees on either side of his legs.
- Use your hands to guide his penis inside and start sliding forward and back. Make this motion over, bouncing up and down to create more pleasure in this position.
- With your partner’s free hands, they can caress your breasts or run their hands all over your body. Introduce dirty talk or a bullet vibe to lead to a more intense orgasm.
Bowstring On a Chair
If it’s the first you hear about the bowstring position, you’re in for a treat. The origins of this sitting sex position come from the Kama Sutra Sanskrit, made specifically for female pleasure.
There’s intense penetration, plenty of eye contact, and attention to each thrust or movement. Bowstring also invites you to take the time to stimulate your g spot. It emphasizes whole-body touching to achieve sexual satisfaction.
How To Do It:
- Receiving partner is sitting on the chair this time. You may also do this on the floor and lean back on your couch or bed.
- Your giving partner kneels in front of you.
- They can adjust your body to sit closer to the edge of the chair.
- He lifts your knee while propping one knee up, almost in a proposal-like position.
- Your partner begins penetrating you while kneeling, and he uses his upper body to bend your knee closer to your body.
- Thrust deeper and deeper until you reach climax.
Conclusion
You don’t have to limit your sexual endeavors on the bed. You can easily satisfy your sex life on places like the couch, chair, or carpet on the floor while exploring new ways to give and receive pleasure. Who knows. Maybe seated sex becomes your favorite way to have sexual intercourse!
Try seated sex positions such as lotus, seated wheelbarrow, or lap dance to switch up your usual sex practices. Remember to make the most of it by introducing foreplay, external stimulation, and sex toys.
Share this sex position article with your partner to explore new positions together. Just remember to have fun with it and communicate your wants and needs.
Thanks for reading my guide to the best sitting sex positions.
Rachel
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