12 Best Strapless Strapons 2024, REALLY Tested [Video Reviews]

Whether lesbian sex or straight pegging play, strapless strap-ons add a new dimension of pleasure. Plus, you don’t have to worry about tangling straps with these strapless models; it’s all hands-free. But which of the many products and brands should I buy?

Over the last decade, we’ve tested dozens of models and we firmly believe Desire Luxury belongs at the top. The double-ended dildo is made from body-safe silicone and has impressive vibration combinations on each shaft. Our testers especially loved the posable design that kept the bodies closer than other models we tested, thus making the experience more intimate. Other features that received high ratings were the remote control and the non-phallic appearance.

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Why You Should Trust Us

Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., has been a significant part of the My Sex Toy Guide since its inception in 2016. The sex expert manages our content creation team, emphasizing in-person testing and a customer-centered operation style. All in all, we have reviewed hundreds of sex toys, including strap-ons, with the strapless models having a special place in our hearts because of the flexible and hands-free design.

For this article, Rachel received great help from our testers Sandra Larson and Shane Davis. She also scoured review sites and forums to learn about other peoples’ experiences and crucial information needed for the final analysis. No stone was left unturned.

If you have questions for Rachel or want to share recommendations, please don’t hesitate to reach out. You can call her at +1 307-372-3895, send an email to [email protected], or leave a comment below. She typically responds in 1-2 business days.

 

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How We Picked the Products

For this article, I compiled a list of over 25 strapless models. Then, I got the sex experts’ team from My Sex Toy Guide together for a brainstorming session to filter them down to just 12 (we filled two whole whiteboards during this meeting!). When we had the products nailed down, we defined several test criteria that we could measure on a scale from 0 to 100. These included:

• The design is a significant motivating factor when picking strapless dildos. I emphasized to the team to focus on physical attributes like a posable design to enhance flexibility and bulbous shafts for amplified sensations.
• Like other sex toys, the strap-on’s size is essential to the experience. We measured the length and width of both arms so you can know what to expect well ahead.
• Unlike regular models, the strapless strap-ons are more tasking and might be uncomfortable after extended use. Besides only reviewing models made from squishy, human-like material, multiple reviewers tested the comfort to ensure it lived up to our standards.
• Settings. The number of available settings was another area we paid attention to. As always, the more settings, the better. We prioritized vibrators with multiple vibration/suction settings. The more, the better!
• Besides the regular vibrations on both arms, I added a few rabbit strap-ons to add a new dimension of sexual pleasure to the experience. After all, most women don’t orgasm from penetration, so adding a clitoral flicker isn’t the most bizarre design tweak. Is it?
• Controls significantly affect the quality of experience for any sex toy. We prioritized review samples with intuitive interfaces, including fewer buttons and punchy designs that render it easy to locate the buttons even in positions where you don’t have a direct view of the action.
• Quality comprises the materials used and the overall design. I emphasized we only pick strap-ons made from high-quality materials like premium silicone, TPE, and ABS plastic. The design quality was also essential as it meant an enhanced user interface and better sensations.
• Besides picking products with a USB-rechargeable battery, we tested the battery life, so you don’t have to deal with disappointing models. A decent battery life was a must for the sex toys that made the cut.
• Special Features. Some of the bells and whistles we focused on during the testing exercise include wireless control and mobile app integration.

During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Design (25%) and Stimulations (25%). After that comes Materials (10%), Ease of Use (10%), and Comfort (10%).

As soon as my colleagues returned with their findings, I enlisted the services of my colleague and boss Tim Larson. We reviewed and analyzed the test reports using comparison charts to pick the similarities and differences. We also used research data from review sites and sex toy forums to filter out the most effective strapless strap-ons from the noise.

After what was an excruciating 48-hour exercise, we firmly believe this article represents this year’s 10 best strapless strapons!

 

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Everything We Tested

In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criteria.

 

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1. Desire Luxury: Our Test Winner

Why we love Desire Luxury:

Desire Luxury performed at the top in the most test categories thus, like last year, becoming this year’s best strapless strap-on yet again! The testers thought the contoured design, with the bulbous consistency, was more comfortable and easier to hold inside than the other models we tested. Especially the raised sections of the pony made it easy to clench onto the strap-on dildo, even when the intensity was over the top. The pony also has a curved head to amplify precise internal stimulation, which made it stand out.

The design also has another benefit: It keeps both bodies closer creating a more intimate experience for both partners. “My favorite part of Desire Luxury is how close you are to your partner during penetration. A strapless version keeps you closer than harness models, which is more intimate”, our tester Sandra Larson wrote in her test report.

Desire Luxury also has a tapered shaft which everyone agreed simplified insertion, even for less experienced users. With a dipped middle section (image above) that culminates in an overall curved design, our testers thought Desire Luxury did a great job with the G-spot stimulation.

Something else that stood out was the flexible pony, with an impressive 180˚ pony adjustability. You can see how it looks when extended in the image below. The design tweak means the strap-on dildo is perfect for people of different body shapes and sizes. Overall, Desire Luxury was rated highest in the Design test category.

Moving on to the stimulations, where the motor is the key element. We appreciated that Desire Luxury comes with a practical wireless remote control (image below), which highly simplifies the experience. It makes cycling through the available combinations easy without worrying about reaching the buttons, which can be a pain in the butt to do while it’s inserted. With 8 vibration patterns, each with 12 intensity levels, we believe all consumers will find a setting they like.

Pro Tip: Our tester Angela Kempf shared a nifty trick to help keep the dildo inside: “After trying it, I realized there’s a little trick to getting it to stay in place. The penetrating person should close their thighs tightly so it doesn’t slip out. If you don’t close your legs tightly, you must do an extreme Kegel to keep it inside the whole time. It’s also important not to overdo it on the lube. Use just enough for comfortable insertion and not a drop more.”

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, Desire Luxury is one of the big boys, and keeping it inside can be tricky. It takes time and Kegel exercises to become a pro. In addition, you can’t operate each shaft independently, which is a bummer if the two partners prefer different stimulation types.

Further, the storage bag has a hole on each side, large enough for the remote control and charging cable to slip through. The strapon itself can’t fall through, though, but the functionality of the bag is diminished because you can’t keep all the pieces in one place.

Why Desire Luxury is the highest-rated strapless strap-on:

Lovehoney’s Desire Luxury received the highest scores among the models we tested, making it our overall test winner. In particular, it stood out in the following areas:

1. It has a practical joint between the two shafts to control the distance from your partner, making the experience more inclusive for folks with different body sizes.
2. The wireless remote worked better than the other remote-controlled models we tested, which is essential since you pretty much need a remote during penetration.
3. We measured the battery life to almost 2 hours during testing, placing it firmly at the top for longer pegging sessions.

If you want to see what Desire Luxury looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our review of Desire Luxury here.

• Material: Medical-Grade Silicone & ABS
• Girth: 4.25″ (shaft), 4.75″ (pony)
• Insertable Length: 5″ (shaft), 4.5″ (pony)

Pros:

• Impressive range of vibration combinations.
• A contoured design promotes precise stimulation.
• The flexible pony suits people of different body shapes and sizes.
• Handy wireless remote control.
• It’s fully submersible, rendering it ideal for aquatic play.

Cons:

• Strapless dildos are for the more experienced users.
• A rechargeable remote control would have been better.

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2, Lovense Lapis: App-Controlled Model!

Why we love Lovense Lapis:

I know you want to know about the performance metrics, and we won’t keep you waiting longer. The Lovense Lapis performed better than other app-controlled strapless strapons we reviewed. The Lovense Remote app (screenshots below) was the best sex toy application overall, and the intuitive user interface and multiple fun motions make it exciting to use the vibrating dildo.

We tested multiple apps, and none matched the Remote app’s responsiveness and ease of pairing with Lapis. The app’s integration was second to none. It took a minute or two to get everything set up, and we didn’t experience any abrupt disconnections as we did with some of the other apps. More importantly, the mobile application provides basic information like the battery level so that you can dive into the experience, fully aware of what to expect from the sex toy.

The coolest part of using the app was controlling the three motors independently. “Whether you want more vibrations on the clit vibrator and less on the internal vibes or more intense sensations for the wearer and teasing rumbles for the receiver, the options are endless”, our tester Sandra Larson told me. “The mobile app also lets you create your own patterns and save up to ten of them. In addition, you can sync the rumbles with your playlist or get into a completely new rhythm with sound-activated vibrations”, she continued.

Note: Making the most of the Lovense Remote app can be tricky initially, especially for first-time users. Familiarize yourself with this guide on how to use the Lovense Remote App.

Besides the excellent mobile applications, we found the motor to be the most potent among the strapless strapons we reviewed. The stimulations were more rumbly than buzzy (my favorite). Even in the lower-level settings, the vibrations felt powerful and torque-oriented. Overall, Lapis has an excellent range of vibration settings, which the versatile Lovense Remote amplified.

Let’s talk about the design. The aesthetic, innovative shape was gorgeous and sturdy, making for an alluring spectacle. We loved the minor tweaks that made the Lapis ideal for G-spot and clitoral sensations. In addition, Lapis feels a bit lighter than some of the other strapons we reviewed, making it perfect for extended use.

Something else about the design that stood out was the thoughtful dimensions. As you can see in the image above, the smaller internal arm has a thicker and knobby texture for internal gripping. In addition, the designers conveniently placed the ON/OFF buttons in a spot that was the easiest to locate with the toy inside two bodies: on the base of the dildo. The intelligent button placement ensures you don’t interrupt the moment of pleasure. Thank you, Lovense!

The testers also appreciated the flexible neck, making it comfortable for prolonged use. Most of the models we reviewed tend to get uncomfortable after some time, but the flexible shape meant the Lovense Lapis was cozy regardless of your body shape. (You can see how the size compares to Desire Luxury in the below image).

Note: The reviewers were amazed at how discreet the strapon was. The decibel meter ranged between 47 and 63 when we tested it, a relatively low number for the size and power.

Lovense Lapis is one of the most versatile sex toys in this article. The design is ideal for couples of all genders who enjoy penetration. In addition, the waterproof dildo is aquatic play-ready, and with the Lovense Remote app, people in long-distance relationships can enjoy renewed intimacy.

The build quality was also solid. We were skeptical that the joints from the posable design would give in, but after vigorous testing, they still feel sturdy like they did when we unboxed the sex toy. In addition, the choice of silky and plush silicone material makes Lapis perfect for most people, including those with sensitive skin.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, strapless strapons are reserved for the most experienced folks. If it’s a first-time sex toy or you’re an intermediate dildo user without much experience, start with a regular strap-on dildo.

In addition, the designers maintained a semi-realistic design, which can be limiting to the inclusivity aspect of Lapis. We think it would be better if it was non-phallic so it’s more inclusive.

Why Lovense Lapis is our favorite app-controlled strapless strapon:

• Special Features: The intuitive user interface and multiple fun motions made Lapis the team’s favorite app-controlled model. “Everything about the mobile app was impressive,” Sandra Larson confirmed. “Besides allowing for independent motor control, the application enhances long-distance intimacy and opens different couples’ romantic worlds to endless possibilities, including music sync, sound-activated vibrations, and straightforward integration.”
• Build Quality: The build quality was phenomenal. The reviewers were skeptical of the joints’ stability, but the sturdy feel was evident even after vigorous testing.
• Design: Lovense Lapis’ innovative aesthetic design effectively incorporates internal and external stimulation. Besides the multiple motors, we loved the thoughtful dimensions, with the smaller, knobby internal arm and the button placement, because they enhanced retention and made it easy to regulate the sensations without the mobile app.

If you want to see what Lovense Lapis looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete Lovense Lapis review here.

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Insertable Length: 1.61″ (pony), 3.43″ (shaft)

Pros:

• Convenient Lovense Remote app.
• The impressive design enhances retention and user experience.
• Phenomenal build quality.
• The most powerful motor.
• Multiple motors can be regulated independently.
• It’s ideal for internal and external stimulations.

Cons:

• The phallic design undermines the inclusivity aspect.
• It’s expensive ($259 when not on sale).

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3. Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable: Most Realistic Model!

Why we love Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable:

If you’re looking for a realistic experience, you should add Lifelike Lover Luxe to your shopping cart ASAP! The main reason is the shaft which features human-like veins from the tip to the base, which was rated as “Most Realistic” by our test team. The tapered head and a well-defined coronal ridge also stood out from the competition. It looks just like a real penis! The 9″ double-sided dildo is made from velvety-smooth silicone which is the preferred material in our humble opinion.

Something else that stood out was the slightly curved design. Our tester Rachel Sommer summarized her experience like this: “It came in handy, simplifying G-spot stimulation. With a tapered head to complete the look, I could feel the smooth glide over my insides. Just wow!”

As the name suggests, Lifelike Lover Luxe has a posable joint connecting the shaft and the internal pony. Everyone could easily regulate the angle and position with a quick squeeze. The flexibility was great as it made different people enjoy dual stimulation regardless of their body shape and size.

We also appreciated the pony’s measurements – 4.25″ around and 3″ usable length. The decent size and contoured design make it perfect for internal stimulation, so the wearer enjoys it just as much as the receiver.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, it doesn’t stay in the set positions well. It was a little frustrating for a seasoned pro like me, so be ready for the dildo to test your patience.

Why Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable is the most realistic model:

We believe this one is ideal for people after a natural experience. Every reviewer marked it as realistic and human penis-like. Besides the squishy silicone material, the design featured a pronounced head and pumped veins, like a real penis. And with a flexible pony, I thought regulating the penetration position and angles was easy.

• Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
• Girth: 4.5″
• Length: 9″
• Insertable Length: 6″

Pros:

• It has a pronounced head and textured veins.
• The curved design enhances precision.
• Adjustable pony and penetrative shaft promote a fantastic fit.
• It’s 100% waterproof.

Cons:

• It doesn’t stay in as well.
• No vibrations.

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4. Happy Rabbit: For Dual Stimulation!

Why we love the Happy Rabbit:

If you’re after stimulating dual sensations, you should look into Happy Rabbit which has a set of bunny ears past the shaft-pony joint for clitoral stimulation. Unlike regular rabbit vibes, both the wearer enjoys dual clit and G-spot orgasms.

We loved the penetrative shaft’s tapered head and slightly curved design which made it easier to target the G-spot than the other rabbit models we tested. Without external texturing, the straightforward precision came in handy when Jessica and I were testing the strap-on dildo.

Something else that stood out was the flexible pony. It was easy to regulate the penetration angle and, even better, the pony’s resting position for utmost comfort. Unlike the penetrative shaft, the pony has a contoured design, rendering it more stimulating to the wearer.

In addition, the shaft has 3 vibration speeds and 9 patterns, while the pony has 3 vibration speeds. The impressive range of vibration combinations made The Happy Rabbit an ideal pick for most people.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Our only concern was the rabbit ears. They were a little stiff without a mechanism to adjust the positions. Also, they don’t have rumbles like the pony and penetrative shaft.

Why the Happy Rabbit is best for dual stimulation:

If you’re looking for a dual-stimulating strapless strap-on, you should look into Happy Rabbit because it performed better than the other test samples. Besides the vibrating pony and shaft, the dildo has a set of rabbit ears to stimulate the wearer’s clitoris. Most reviewers highlighted the dual clit and G-spot stimulation as ‘spectacular,’ noting it was a game changer to the experience.

• Material: Silicone
• Girth: 4.5″
• Length: 8″
• Insertable Length: 5.5″

Pros:

• An incredible choice for dual stimulation fans.
• Soft bunny ears promote clitoral stimulation.
• Multiple vibration combinations.
• Easy-to-use control interface.
• Flexible pony renders it easy to regulate the position.
• The tapered tip promotes precise stimulation.

Cons:

• Adjustable rabbit ears would have been better.

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5. Lovehoney Double Delight: Our Budget Pick!

Why we love Lovehoney Double Delight:

Lovehoney Double Delight is the cheapest strapless strap-on we’ve reviewed. The sleek 6″ dildo costs $49.99, a bargain for such a well-made piece.

Besides the affordable price, we loved the vibrator’s design with a slightly curved penetrative shaft to target the G-spot. Notably, it has a smooth consistency that makes it ideal for everyone, including those new to sex toy use.

The pony’s contoured body and pointed tip press against the clitoris for the double delight – internal stimulation for both the wearer and receiver.

Like the rest of the products we’ve reviewed, Lovehoney Double Delight’s pony and shaft are adjustable, allowing you to regulate and lock onto a specific angle or position.

Finally, Double Delight has a single-speed bullet vibrator that goes into the dildo’s base, adding some much-needed rumbles to the experience.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the vibrating bullet only has a single vibration speed. In addition, it’s battery-powered, meaning you have to walk around with disposable batteries.

Why Lovehoney Double Delight is our budget pick:

Lovehoney Double Delight was the cheapest model we reviewed. It costs $49.99, a bargain for the well-made strapless strap-on. Besides the squishy silicone build, the dildo has an adjustable design and a removable bullet vibe.

• Material: Silicone
• Girth: 4.25″
• Length: 12.5″
• Insertable Length: 6″

Pros:

• The cheapest strapless strap-on – $49.99.
• Posable pony for the ultimate comfort.
• The curved penetrative shaft targets the G-spot.
• It has a removable bullet vibrator.

Cons:

• The vibrations are faint.

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6. Lovehoney Posable: Most Beginner-Friendly!

Why we love Lovehoney Posable:

Lovehoney Posable is a good choice for beginners because it has a smooth texture with a few lumps on the shaft. While the bulbous pony takes some getting used to, it has a soft consistency that we rated as “Most Beginner-Friendly”.

Something else that stood out was how easy it was to regulate the pony’s angle once inserted. “The posable joint made it easy for me to position the shaft as I wished so that the tapered tip could target Jessica’s G-spot”, our tester Rachel Sommer commented. “With a curved design, the experience was blissful”, she added.

In addition, the Lovehoney Posable vibrator has a bullet vibe that slides at the base to induce maximum pleasure with the vibrations. Notably, the vibe has 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns, offering a nice range of combinations to explore. And the bullet has a single-speed interface, and unlike other models, it’s USB-rechargeable.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Like other strapless strap-on dildos – getting the toy to remain inside takes some time. In addition, the strap-on’s pony can be a little wide for first-time sex toy users – it takes some getting used to.

Why Lovehoney Posable is the most beginner-friendly:

Lovehoney Posable is a great choice for people who are new to the strapless game. Among the strapless models we reviewed, it proved to be the easiest to use and retain inside during use. In addition, it costs $79.99, a comparatively affordable price for newbies. And with a removable bullet vibrator, you can choose whether to have the vibrations or not.

• Material: Silicone
• Girth: 4.5″
• Length: 7″
• Insertable Length: 6″

Pros:

• Relatively easy to use for beginners.
• Overall smooth textured with a ripped design.
• It’s comparatively affordable.
• The posable pony renders it easy to regulate the angles.
• A removable bullet vibrator.
• Multiple vibration combinations.

Cons:

• It takes some getting used to contain it inside.

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7. Lovehoney Double Duty: Highest-Rated With Harness!

Why we love Lovehoney Double Duty:

Lovehoney Double Duty stood out from the rest because it came with a harness. But why do you need a harness you may ask yourself. Well, the thick elastic band goes over the waist and hips for a more secure fit which is especially helpful for beginners or those with weaker PC muscles.

The team found that the Double Duty has an impressive range of combinations – 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns. And with an easy-to-use wired controller, we thought the strap-on made it easy for both partners to regulate the rumbles.

Further, we appreciated that the heads are curved with semi-realistic heads, making it easy to target both partners’ sweet spots. And with an overall smooth design, it was rated as beginner-friendly.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The only downside was the flimsy harness. Also, the silicone was a little too firm for pegging purposes. It’s more of a strap-on sex toy.

Why Lovehoney Double Duty is the best model with harness:

Lovehoney Double Duty is an ideal choice for those looking for an extra layer of security. It comes with a set of thick, elasticated straps, allowing you to explore more without worrying about keeping the pony inside. Most importantly, the 65″ maximum harness size makes the strap-on ideal for people of different body sizes and shapes.

• Material: Silicone
• Girth: 4.5″
• Insertable Length: 7″
• Harness Size: Up to 65″

Pros:

• Curved shafts promote internal stimulation.
• Multiple vibration combinations – 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns.
• It comes with a wired controller.
• High-quality, body-safe silicone material.

Cons:

• The harness feels flimsy.
• It’s not the ideal choice for pegging play fans.

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8. Evoke Ergo Fit: Inflatable Model!

Why we love Evoke Ergo Fit:

Evoke Ergo Fit is perfect for those who want to play around with inflatable strapons. Unlike other models on this list, the pony inflates from 1.55″ to 2″ to create the perfect fit. Besides helping with retaining the strap-on inside, the inflatable design means vaginal penetration is easy because you inflate in once it’s inserted.

The strap-on dildo’s shaft has a semi-realistic head and a slight upward curve, which we thought did a decent job massaging the G-spot. “I found it easy to maintain a rhythm when thrusting with the inflatable pony. Jessica, on the other hand, loved the internal stimulation” Rachel Sommer clarified.

Besides the inflation feature, we appreciated that Evoke had a dual-motor design. This way, the wearer and receiver experience the same degree of rumbles. Other manufacturers take notes!

Something else that stood out during the self-testing exercise was the wireless remote control that made it easy to cycle through 7 patterns and 3 vibration speeds.

Lastly, we loved that Evoke Ergo Fit was 100% waterproof and USB-rechargeable. Jessica and I enjoyed the adventures of aquatic play and the convenience of traveling without worrying about where to get the batteries.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the remote control is battery-powered, and you’ll need a pair of AAA batteries to use it. In addition, the double dildo is pricey – $99.99.

Why Evoke Ergo Fit is our preferred inflatable model:

Evoke Ergo Fit is the best inflatable strapless strap-on on this list. I liked how the designers solved the retention problem with a simple addition. Among the models I reviewed, it’s the only one that inflated during use to enhance a custom fit. And with extra bells and whistles like a waterproof design, wireless control, and multiple vibration combinations, it’s worth your time.

• Material: Silicone
• Diameter: 1.5″ (shaft), 1.55 – 2″ (pony)
• Insertable Length: 5.75″ (shaft), 4″ (pony)

Pros:

• Unique inflatable pony promotes a custom fit.
• Impressive dual-motor design.
• Multiple vibration settings.
• Well-made silicone body.
• It comes with an easy-to-use remote control.
• 100% waterproof.

Cons:

• It’s pricey – $99.99.
• The remote control is battery-powered.

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9. Vixskin Peacemaker: For Size Queens!

Why we love Vixskin Peacemaker:

Vixskin Peacemaker is the largest strapless strapon on this list and is reserved for the most experienced users. Luckily, Jessica and I have stretched out over the years, but even then, this massive bad boy was a challenge that took lots and lots of lube, especially during anal play.

The penetrative shaft’s 6.5″ insertable length might not be the longest, but the 1.9″ diameter will undoubtedly offer a formidable test. Mainly because of the pumped veins, a pronounced head, and a well-defined coronal ridge.

Peacemaker’s pony has a soft, bulbous design with a realistic penis head at the furthest end. While it might be ‘too firm’ for people with sensitive vaginas, I thought it made it easy for the wearer to enjoy G-spot stimulation during play.

Like other silicone strapless dildos, Vixskin Peacemaker warms to match your body temperature within seconds, rendering the experience more natural. In addition, the non-porous silicone material can be boiled regularly to sterilize it.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, Peacemaker is expensive. It costs $132, a price most people will regard as steep. Also, the dildo is only reserved for the more experienced users; you’ll have to sit it out if you’re not!

Why Vixskin Peacemaker is the best large strapless strapon:

Vixskin Peacemaker is the ideal option for anyone after the hugest challenge. I’ve reviewed sex toys for over 5 years, and the size stands out from the crowd. Notably, only three reviewers were able to test it – setting a unique record back at the office. Everything from the massive measurements to the realistic texturing makes Peacemaker a force to reckon with.

• Material: Silicone
• Diameter: 1.9″ (shaft), 1.4″ (pony)
• Length: 13″ (shaft), 5″ (pony)
• Insertable Length: 6.5″

Pros:

• Unique inflatable pony promotes a custom fit.
• Impressive dual-motor design.
• Multiple vibration settings.
• Well-made silicone product.
• It comes with an easy-to-use remote control.
• Completely waterproof.

Cons:

• It’s expensive – $132.
• Beginners and mid-lever users will have to sit this one out.

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Other Good Alternatives

Doc Johnson Platinum The Gal Pal is the perfect choice for beginners and mid-lever users looking for a small strapless strapon. It has a 5″ insertable length and circumference, rendering it among the most petite strap-on dildos I’ve used over the years. Notably, it has a smooth finish and slim tip, rendering vaginal and anal penetration easy.

Another great alternative is Fun Factory ShareVibe. The G-spot stimulation guru has a short, curved shaft that targets your sweet spots without the need for excessive twists and turns. I especially loved the tapered tip that simplifies penetration and the clitoral-hugging external nub that presses the inner arm against the G-spot for more precise and intense sensations.

Fetish Fantasy Elite is an excellent harness to have within your arm’s reach. As mentioned earlier, mastering the art of strapless devices takes time, and even the pros encounter bad weather. I loved the breathable fabric that feels great against bare skin, even when worn for extended periods. I thought it added an extra layer of security, especially when I was using models with a slimmer pony. And the 1.5″ O-ring accommodates most dildos in my collection.

You can find more double-sided strapons in this guide.

 

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What Is a Strapless Strap-on?

A strapless strap-on dildo is a sex toy with two stimulating heads, one smaller for the wearer and a larger for the receiver [1]. Unlike a regular strap-on, it doesn’t have straps to go over your waist. Instead, you insert it into the wearer’s vagina and hold it in place using your Kegel muscles. For this reason, you must do Kegel exercises to tone the muscles down there as this improves the overall experience.

 

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But Why Should I Buy One?

The #1 reason to get a strapless strap-on is to enjoy the flexibility of hands-free action. With regular Kegel exercises, the pelvic muscles get toned, and you no longer need your hands. This way, you can use the free hands to stimulate other body parts like the breasts and thighs, leading to more explosive orgasms.

Another reason is to break free from the uncomfortable straps. Most strapped models, especially the cheap ones, are made with tight and scratchy harnesses that can be a vibe killer during sex.

Further, a strapless strap-on promotes dual stimulation to both the wearer and receiver. This way, you can orgasm simultaneously as the wearer’s pony tickles your G-spot and the penetrable shaft works on your partner’s.

Lastly, unlike the strapped models, strapless strap-ons provide more skin contact between lovers, making the experience more intimate.

 

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Strapless vs. Harness Strapons?

The most significant difference between the two is the seamless experience without the annoying metal buckles and oversized leather straps. Strapless strap-ons are more comfortable to use. In addition, there’s more skin-to-skin contact without the straps and buckles, further amplifying the intimacy in the bedroom.

So, while the strapless models are for the more experienced users, they’re more effective and exciting to use than the harness strap-ons.

 

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How To Use a Strapless Strapon?

If it’s your first time using a strapless strap-on, consider wearing it before playtime to acclimatize to the feeling of carrying around an erect penis [2]. Of course, it takes lots of Kegel exercises, but even then, wear it around the house to adjust to the ‘new you.’

Have a generous amount of water-based lube within your arm’s reach. And before you even commence, pour on both ends and slowly slide it into the vagina.

Again, strapless strap-ons take some getting used to, and even the pros need some patience to get things right. In some cases, you might have to give up some sex positions for the more gravity-friendly ones like girl-on-top and spooning.

As always, try to switch between positions/angles and incorporate as many bits of fun into the experience.

You can read more on how to use a strapless strap-on in this guide.

 

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How To Clean a Strapless Strapon?

Once done, head to the sink and use an antibacterial soap or a sex toy cleaner. I prefer warm water because it’s easier to wipe off the dirt. Lastly, rinse with running water before placing the sex toy in a well-ventilated space for air drying. You can read more about cleaning your strap-on here.

You might have to use a lint-free cloth to wipe off the water, especially for the porous TPE models.

Note: read the manufacturer’s guidelines before cleaning, and never submerge a motorized sex toy in water.

 

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How Does a Strapless Strapon Work?

A strapless strap-on works by giving a woman a simulated penis for lesbian sex or heterosexual pegging play [1]. The sex toy has a pony that goes into the wearer’s vagina, with the Kegel muscles clenching onto it. Conversely, the G-spot stimulating arm goes into the receiver’s vagina or ass, just like a penis during penetrative sex.

Does A Strapless Strapon Feel Good?

Yes. They feel great! Plus, the feeling is mutual as both the wearer and the receiver enjoy G-spot stimulation.

Who Can Use Strapless Strapons?

These double-ended dildos are used by vagina owners looking to explore penetrative lesbian sex or pegging play with their male partners. The design and functionality fit women because of the pony built to go into the vagina, as the forward-facing arm is used for penetrative sex.

Can You Use Panties for A Strapless Strap-on Dildo?

Unfortunately, no! A strapless dildo has a protruding shaft that’d be indiscreet to walk around with. In addition, most models are designed with an upward-facing curve, making it hard for the shaft to rest on the inner thighs as a natural penis does.

How To Store Them?

Once clean, place the strapless dildo in a clean, dry space away from everyone’s reach. Ensure it’s a damp-free space and away from direct sunlight. You can read more about sex toy storage here.

How To Insert Strapless Strap-ons?

Start by applying a generous amount of water-based lube on the pony before spreading it evenly with your finger. You can stimulate the clitoris and vagina by fingering to relax the muscles. Then, slide the pony slowly, drawing it back and pushing it further in a maintained rhythm until it’s inside.

Ensure you twist and turn it slowly until you get it in the most comfortable position.

How To Keep Them Inside?

This is the biggest question I get whenever I recommend a strapless strap-on. Once you insert it, clench your pelvic floor muscles, so it feels like you’re wringing a sponge with your hand.

Unfortunately, your partner’s movement will affect the stability, so always opt for more gravity-friendly sex positions and take breaks during play to position the strap-on well.

 

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Primary Sources

1. Dr. Jenni Skyler. How Do Strapless Strapons Work?, 2022

2. Lehmiller, J. Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Pegging. Sex And Psychology. (2021, October 7).

Rachel