Erotic positions are fun and easy, and contrary to popular belief, you can be adventurous with erotic sex positions without getting into highly complicated poses. To help you get started, here is a compilation of the most erotic sex positions to make your day more exciting. So go forth and try the position (or all positions) that resonate with you for you and your partner to experience a tantalizing orgasm.
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Doggy Style
First up is doggy style, one of the all-time favorite positions because of its natural way of hitting all the right spots. There’s a certain freeness to not being face-to-face with your partner. In doggy style, you can let loose and get as erotic as you can in the bedroom.
Deep penetration is also easy to experience while in doggy style. Knowing how to angle your body correctly can lead to higher intense pleasure. When you’re both aroused and experienced enough foreplay, now’s the time to do doggy. More doggy variations here.
How To Do It
- Get down on all fours with your knees bent directly underneath your hips.
- Spread your knees wide enough at a comfortable stance.
- Your penetrating partner kneels behind you.
- He enters from behind and holds onto your hips, using it to thrust in and out of you repeatedly.
- Add lube or introduce clitoral stimulation with your free hand to get you going in this position.
Leap Frog
The next erotic position is a lying doggy variation but with a twist. Unlike the leaping game played as children, this position does not involve jumping or athleticism.
Being in leap frog is suggestive yet comfortable. It can help you last long as you’re not on your hands and knees and getting deep penetration.
Just bring a sex pillow wedge, have a handy vibrator nearby, and use your fingers for clitoral stimulation to make the perfect erotic sex position trifecta.
How To Do It
- The receiving partner gets down on all fours and rests their chest on the bed.
- Lift your hips higher by sticking your butt out.
- Place your arms in front of you in a T-position or stretched out.
- Your penetrating partner kneels behind you and holds onto your glutes.
- He enters from there, thrusting in and out of you slowly at first before increasing speed and depth of penetration.
- You may push your hips back and forth in rhythm with his for an intensely satisfying vaginal penetration.
The Pretzel
We love the Pretzel, and it makes it back on our list again for all the right reasons. It’s intimate, involves a lot of eye contact, and your hands are free for whole-body touching.
While it isn’t the most common position in everyone’s sexual roster, it deserves all the praise for being very pleasurable. You and your partner can introduce it mid-session when you want to switch things up. It’s best to pair with stimulating other erogenous zones in your body, like your nipple, chest, neck, and inner thighs.
How To Do It
- The receiving partner lies down on the bed and twists their lower body to one side.
- Bend your knees in front of you and lift your top leg open as if you were performing an oblique workout.
- Your partner kneels behind your butt area. They start by inserting one knee in between yours. Your lower bodies are in a twist.
- He adjusts his body closer to yours and penetrates from there. I suggest performing a dipping-down movement instead of rocking back and forth for increased pleasure.
- Your partner may also grab your lifted thigh and use it to thrust deeper.
Ballet Dancer
Next is Ballet Dancer, a standing sex position that’s both romantic and erotic. Trust is needed while the Ballet Dancer, especially when your partner holds your body up for support as you arch back. Think of this position as similar to being the beginning of a trust fall (without falling, of course) – and receiving deep sexual satisfaction. More standing positions here.
How To Do It
- Stand up against the wall. You and your partner face one another with your partner’s back against the wall.
- They spread their legs slightly in a good stance.
- You then raise one leg and wrap it around your partner’s waist.
- Your partner holds you closer to their body, with one arm holding your butt and the other on your back.
- Arch your back slightly, and he’s ready to enter from there. He can tiptoe, thrusting up and down as you let your body be in complete surrender.
Sea Shell
The Sea Shell position is a fresh take on missionary but with the potential to be rougher.
It has all the good elements of missionary, like intimacy and being face-to-face with your partner, only more elevated. There’s plenty of clit stimulation with your partner’s pelvis rubbing against it and legs spread open that’s easier for your partner to access, and it’s the solution to size and height problems (if one partner is significantly shorter or has a small penis).
How To Do It
- Receiving partner lies down on their back.
- Raise your legs over your head as far back as you can. You have the option to hold each ankle to maintain this position better.
- Your partner gets into a full plank position on top of you. His arms are on either side of your shoulders.
- They begin entering from on top, going in and out of you.
- Your partner can push down onto your legs for harder thrusts, making your body open deeper.
Counter Top
Who doesn’t love a raunchy sex position that fulfills any of your person-in-authority and student fantasies? With Counter Top, it’s the best position to try with role play in a different setting to make it more erotic.
As the name suggests, you can have sex on any counter top you’d like – a kitchen counter, desktop, dresser, side table, or outdoor table. It doesn’t get any more erotic than that.
How To Do It
- Receiving partner gets on the counter.
- Lie on your back with your legs spread open. Be sure to be situated on the counter’s edge for your partner to have easier access.
- Then, your penetrating partner stands directly in front of you. He enters inside you slowly and grabs your hips to push your body forward and back.
- He thrusts his hips in and out, gradually increasing speed. To make this more erotic, he can make the most of it by stimulating your breasts, twisting your nipple, or licking your body.
Carry Me
You can take it up a notch by challenging your strength with Carry Me. It’s straight out of a romance movie sex position you and your partner can perform at home.
It’s hot being carried while having sex, and it’s a turn-on knowing you can achieve the challenge of lifting your partner. Carry me is not one of the long-lasting exotic sexual positions in the book, but it has rewards worth trying out.
How To Do It
- The receiving partner stands on a high surface like a bed, chair, or couch.
- Your partner stands on the floor in front of you.
- Wrap one leg around his waist as he hugs your body. Then, wrap your other leg around his waist. Hug your arms around his neck, staying close to him.
- He adjusts your body accordingly, lowering you down to enter.
- Bouncing up and down, he penetrates in and out of you repeatedly.
Pile Driver
Lastly, we have Pile Driver, a daring sex position that takes the crown for the most erotic sex position. It’s a great position to try for a bit of dom and submissive play. There’s an opportunity for rough and deep penetration, giving immense pleasure throughout every thrust.
It’s best to do it on a carpeted floor or soft surface to avoid breaking your neck. Be sure to communicate openly with your partner if things ever become uncomfortable while being in this position. Please have a safe word ready should there be a need for it.
How To Do It
- On a soft surface, lie on your back and rock your legs over your head.
- Flex your toes on the ground to help keep your legs over your head while your lower back is off the floor.
- Next, your partner squats down in front of you, holding your hips high enough for him to reach.
- He begins to enter by penetrating directly downwards like a pile driver machine.
- He thrusts in and out of you downwards, controlling penetration depth.
- Maintain continuous communication while in the position, making it clear you want to continue further or stop if you feel your body can’t last.
Wrapping Up
When you’re in the mood to explore hot erotic sex positions, let that urge on and try your best with your partner. You can have more adventurous sex without getting into overly complicated positions and poses. Some of the positions listed in the article are more familiar than others, so try one or try them all to keep your sex life exciting.
Thanks for reading my guide to the best erotic sex positions!
Sandra
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