All sex is erotic if you do it right (and our definition of “doing it right” is pretty broad — if you and your partner are enjoying yourselves, you’re doing it right)! However, it’s true that certain positions deliver a little extra thrill, and we’ve selected eight that you should… Continue reading
Well, now I want more, ’cause I’m gettin’ bored And I’m goin’ nowhere fast I was once filled with doubt, but it’s all figured out — Brat, Green Day If you find “brattiness” (in adults) more intriguing than annoying, you may want to join the world of BDSM Brats and… Continue reading
Some people think “vanilla” when they think missionary. But if that’s meant to be an insult, it’s not a good one! Real vanilla is the second most expensive spice in the world, and it is rich and nuanced. So, we actually think that it’s an excellent descriptor for the missionary… Continue reading
These “easy” sex positions are great for folks who are new to sex (either with each other or altogether) because they help you focus on learning your partner’s body and preferences. Most of them offer a lot of room to explore together, which is really what it’s all about! 1.… Continue reading
More candles on the birthday cake do not have to signify a sex slowdown; on the contrary, many of us now have empty nests and some of us are even retired, so there’s plenty of space and time for plenty of good sex. And even better, we know what we’re… Continue reading
Because everything changes as soon as you sign that license! We do believe that it’s important to keep “date night” energy flowing even after the ceremony, so whatever you liked doing before, you should keep on doing! But the truth is that there is quite a lot to love about… Continue reading
Urethral sounding is something that people have been doing for at least 5,000 years, but these days, it’s possible to do it at home at least somewhat safely now that it’s being recognized as a sexual practice. Sex toy manufacturers are producing purpose-built sounding tools and sexologists are advising on… Continue reading
If you or your partner has had or will have a hysterectomy, you are probably wondering if it will affect your sex life. There will obviously need to be some downtime immediately following the surgery, but the good news is that sex will be back and very likely better than… Continue reading
69 (mutual oral sex) is well-loved, and what’s not to love? You’re pleasing your partner and getting pleasure yourself, which seems pretty ideal! But because every body is different and everybody has different preferences, there are lots of ways to enjoy 69-ing. Keep reading for our top ten recommendations. 1.… Continue reading
There’s a lot to be said for energetic sex that requires prep, props, and poses. But there’s also a lot to be said for comfortable, easy sex. There’s a special kind of intimacy that comes with knowing your partner’s body and preferences so well that you can just ease into… Continue reading
