Urethral sounding, while a bit on the hush-hush side of sexual adventures, is getting more buzz these days. If you’re curious about how to get started, Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., our in-house clinical sexologist, has put together this handy guide to walk you through the ins and outs of this medical fetish. She got you covered with the basics, safety must-dos, and even some pro tips to really amp up your experience. Let’s dive in!
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What Is Urethral Sounding and How It Works?
Urethral sounding (AKA catheter fetish) is a medical fetish that involves inserting a specially designed toy into the urethra, the tube that sends urine packing from the bladder.
But you can’t just grab any random thing for this adventure! You need special tools that we talk more about below. These toys come in different sizes and materials, like metal or silicone – it’s a bit like finding the perfect pair of shoes, where fit is key. And here’s a pro tip: lubrication is your best friend in this scenario. It’s all about diving into new sensations in a safe and informed way. So, before you explore, do some research, pick the right tools, and always prioritize comfort and safety.
Why Do People Like to Do This?
Sliding a toy into the urethra can stimulate all those nerve endings, leading to some pretty intense feelings. As the sound moves, it stirs up a whole spectrum of sensations – from a light tingle to some pretty intense waves of pleasure. Some folks also love the sensation of fullness like there’s a party happening inside their urethra. Others are all about the in-and-out motion, enjoying every slide and glide. You can also stimulate the prostate this way which many find highly pleasurable.
There’s also a medical side to this. Sometimes, urologists use this technique to deal with blockages in the urethra or to gently stretch it if there’s a narrowing (a stricture). But remember, when it comes to medical-sounding, that’s a game only trained professionals should play. For anyone exploring sounding for fun, always prioritize safety, use the right equipment, and stay informed. It’s all about finding what feels good safely and responsibly.
Is Urethral Sounding Safe?
Yes, it can be safe, but like diving into any other bedroom adventure, sounding is an advanced sex act and can be quite dangerous so you do it at your own risk. Common injuries include damage to the prostate or bladder and tears in the urethral canal. It’s better to be safe than sorry, so never go too deep or wide. Additionally, you should never use thin or sharp objects. You can read more on safety in this Healthline article. [1]
To maximize safety, you need to use products specifically made for this kind of activity. You must steer clear of household items like pens or pencils – that’s a big no-no! They’re not just the wrong fit; they can seriously hurt your urethra and lead to nasty infections. You must also clean your sounds before and after you’re done using them. A good antibacterial solution is your best friend here.
Next up, make sure you’re as chill as a cucumber before you start. It’s like learning to swim; start in the shallow end with smaller sizes and gradually move to the bigger leagues. And hey, no forcing things down there! If it feels like you’re pushing too hard, you probably are. If anything feels off, like pain or discomfort, hit the brakes immediately. And if things seem a bit dicey, don’t hesitate to contact your primary physician.
Are There Any Risks With This?
Absolutely, there are many risks with sounding, just like with any bedroom escapade. But don’t sweat it too much – with the right know-how and a bit of caution, you can keep things safe and still have a great time.
- Top of the list of risks is accidentally damaging the urethra and other tissue damage. Imagine trying to thread a needle with a rope – not the best idea, right? Same thing here. Pressure and friction from sounding bars with abrasive textures can cause tissue damage along the way through the urethra.
- If you use something not meant for urethral play, push it too far, or get a bit too enthusiastic, you could hurt yourself. So, pick a model that’s made just for this and start with the smallest size. Take it slow and easy, like sipping a fine wine, and always tune into what your body’s telling you. If it feels off or hurts, hit the brakes.
- Next up, watch out for infections. The urethra is a bit like a VIP lounge – very sensitive and easy to upset. Any small cut or scratch can roll out the red carpet for bacteria [2]. So, before the main event, give your toy a good scrub with warm, soapy water, and don’t skimp on the lube. And hey, make sure your hands are as clean as a whistle too. If you start feeling anything weird down there like pain, swelling, or something leaking that shouldn’t be, get yourself to a doctor, pronto.
People Who Shouldn’t Do It At All
Let’s be real here, urethral sounding is not for everyone. In fact, it’s not for most people. If you fall into any of the following categories, you should probably avoid it all altogether:
- You’re pregnant: If you’re pregnant, put sounding on the ‘not happening’ list. There’s a risk of infection, and you definitely don’t want to take any chances that could affect your baby.
- You have a urinary tract infection (UTI): If you’re already dealing with a urinary tract infection, adding something to your urethra is a big ouch waiting to happen. It’s already sore, and the sound will just turn the pain dial-up.
- You have a history of urethral trauma: If you’ve had any injuries or trauma down there, sounding is out of the question. It could just stir up more trouble and lead to even more issues.
- You have an enlarged prostate: If that’s the case, this activity might make things worse. Better to play it safe and find other ways to have fun.
- You have a bleeding disorder: If so, sounding could be risky business. It might cause bleeding or other complications that you really don’t want to deal with.
What Does Urethral Sounding Feel Like?
When you first slide the sound into your urethra, you might feel a bit of a burn or sting. It’s like the first dip in a hot bath – surprising, but it settles down quickly. As the sound goes deeper, you’ll likely feel a sense of fullness, kind of like a stretch but from the inside. Others consider it a better version of a prostate massage, given that it can stimulate those parts often left out during stimulations.
Now, when it’s time to take the toy out, it’s a whole different ball game. You might feel a bit of a pull or tug. That’s because the sound often has a bulbous tip, which creates a sort of suction effect as it exits. Taking it slow and easy is crucial, like easing into a tight parking spot. And hey, if at any point things feel more ‘ouch’ than ‘oh’, it’s time to call it quits and, if needed, chat with a doc.
If you want to learn more about how it feels, you can check out this Reddit thread full of kink enthusiasts.
How To Do It Safely In 5 Steps
So, you’re all set to dive into the world of urethral sounding? That’s quite the adventurous spirit! It can be an exhilarating mix of pleasure and intensity, but before you jump in, let’s make sure you’re fully prepped and ready to go.
Note: Recreational urethral sounding is a high-risk sexual activity and you need to take great care when doing it. Any action you take upon the information on this website is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be liable for any losses, injuries, and damages. Learn more.
Open Communication
First and foremost, sounding is an advanced sex act that requires 100% consent from all involved parties. Not only in the beginning, but the master needs to continuously check in with their sub to make sure she’s ok at all times. Also, discuss boundaries and limits, especially for the pain part.
In addition to setting clear boundaries, it’s also important to establish a safe word or signal, especially when exploring territories like pain. This ensures that the sub can communicate her limits effectively, even if she finds herself unable to speak.
Gather The Right Tools
You’ll need a urethral sound (that’s your main star), some sterile lubricant (think of it as your trusty sidekick), and gloves (because cleanliness is key). They come in all shapes and sizes, so pick one that’s right for you. If you’re new to this, a urethral trainer kit might be your best bet. It’s like starting with training wheels before you ride the big bike.
Pro tip: After you get comfortable with urethral sounding, why not mix things up a bit? Check out some other medical fetish toys – it’s a fun way to spice up your play, kind of like trying out a new recipe in the kitchen.
Make sure the toy is squeaky clean before you use it. Sterilize it if you can, or at least give it a thorough wash with warm water and soap. The same goes for your hands – cleanliness is next to godliness here. Slip on those gloves, and lather up the sound with plenty of sterile lubricant. Think of it as prepping your canvas before painting a masterpiece.
Setting the Scene
Now, let’s set the stage. Find a spot that’s clean and private – your sanctuary where you can relax and focus. Wash your hands and the sound (again, because you really can’t be too clean in this situation). Wearing gloves isn’t just a suggestion; it’s a must to avoid any nasty infections. Once everything’s clean, it’s lube time! And don’t be shy with it – the more, the merrier.
As you’re getting ready, take a deep breath and relax. This is your moment of zen. You’re about to embark on a new experience, so it’s important to be as calm and comfortable as possible. Think of it like preparing for a meditation session – but with a bit more… adventure.
Insertion and Exploration
Alright, it’s showtime! Begin by gently introducing the sound into your urethra. It’s highly recommended to use a water-based lube to make the insertion much easier. It’s normal to feel a bit weird at first, but pain is a big red flag. If it hurts, stop right there. No forcing or rushing – this isn’t a race. Ease the sound in with the patience of a saint.
If you have a vulva, gently spread the labia for easier access to the urethral opening. If you have a penis, try not to be fully erect as it will make the insertion more challenging. Partly erect is the sweet spot.
As you’re inserting, keep in tune with your body’s signals. A little discomfort? Probably normal. Pain? Full stop. It’s all about finding that sweet spot where curiosity meets comfort. Remember, sounding is supposed to be enjoyable, not a test of endurance. If the toy stops inserting at some point, you can try to gently shake the genitals.
Once the sound is comfortably in place, it’s time to explore. Move it around gently, feeling out the new sensations. This is where you get to discover what works for you. But hey, keep it gentle – this isn’t the time for wild moves. Think of it as a slow dance rather than a rock concert. While you’re exploring, stay alert to how your body feels. If anything starts to hurt or feel off, it’s time to wrap up. This part of the journey is all about pleasure, so if it stops feeling good, that’s your cue to stop.
Removal and Aftercare
All good things come to an end, and so does your sounding session. When you’re done, gently remove the sound. Do it slowly and carefully – no sudden moves. Once it’s out, it’s cleaning time again. Wash the device and your hands thoroughly with warm water and soap. We also recommend peeing right after to remove any lubricant or bacteria.
After the sound is out, you might feel a bit weird down there, like a mild soreness or discomfort. That’s normal and should fade away after a bit. But if you feel pain or see any blood, that’s your sign to get medical help. Better safe than sorry!
What Toys Should I Use?
First off, pick a toy that’s made just for this – no household gadgets or medical tools, please! Stick to body-safe materials like silicone or stainless steel. Lube is your best friend here, so go for a high-quality water-based one, and skip anything with numbing stuff or harsh chemicals.
If you want options, here are the best-sounding toys we ranked and tested ourselves.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What Precautions Can You Take?
To keep your urethral-sounding adventures on the safe side, always use toys designed specifically for this purpose – no DIY tools from around the house, please! Lube is your best friend in this scenario, so go heavy on it for a smooth experience (No numbing cream please!). Start with smaller toys and gradually level up; after all, your urethra deserves gentle treatment. And don’t forget about cleanliness – wash those toys, your hands, and your privates thoroughly before diving in, to keep things hygienic and hunky-dory.
What if you can’t get the object out?
If you’re in a pickle with a stuck object, first thing first: keep your cool and breathe deeply. Trying to force it out is a no-go, as it can hurt your urethra. Slather on some more lube and gently wiggle around or adjust your position to coax it out. If it’s still playing hard to get, it’s time to head to the emergency room– better safe than sorry!
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