There was a time in many of our lives when we probably fooled around in cars because it was one of the only places where we could get away from our parents. Now, we may be tempted because it’s one of the only places where we can get away from… Continue reading
This is an article for people who identify as women, people who identify as men, and everyone in between. All of us have anuses, and all of us can enjoy anal masturbation. Anal orgasms are democratic (that’s with a lower-case “d”) in that they are available to everyone regardless of… Continue reading
For many folks, especially people with vulvas who do not climax from penetration alone (and that is the majority), the most powerful orgasms come from oral sex. This may be because oral sex is very intimate and connected. It also may be because it feels very, very good! We’re here… Continue reading
Pegging is one of the most misunderstood sexual acts, and it has been the butt of dirty jokes for decades. It’s not for everyone, of course — nothing is! — but more and more folks are happily exploring this kind of sex play. Pegging can be very exciting both mentally… Continue reading
It ain’t hard to see they’ll be the death of me They’re gonna drive my little heart insane I love it when they let their hair down And dance real close to you You know I’m a sucker, babe, for what the cowgirls do — Vince Gill Ride ‘em, cowgirl!… Continue reading
For those of us who grew up watching Bob the Builder and Bob Vila’s This Old House, the idea of DIYing whatever we can has a certain appeal — we can save money and get exactly what we want. What’s not to love? Well, when it comes to BDSM restraints… Continue reading
Bondage gear and sex toys can be pricey (the excellent Dore Alley Dungeon Bed costs more than my first car) so you may be thinking “I could make that myself!” You wouldn’t be the first person to think that, and let’s just say that there are reasons why bondage gear… Continue reading
The first time you saw an anal hook, you might have thought, wow, that looks pretty simple, why does it cost so much?, I could make this myself! The simplicity is deceptive, because we’re expecting the hook to be reasonably comfortable in your rear end while possibly supporting a good… Continue reading
Maybe you’re feeling crafty, or maybe you like the idea of putting a really personal touch on your really personal playtime. Whatever the reason, if you’re thinking of creating your own DIY dildo mount, we are here to talk it through with you. Let’s get it out there: our advice… Continue reading
Have you ever looked at sex furniture and thought I want that!, and then looked at the price tag and thought again? Maybe you also thought That’s expensive, I could make it myself. You aren’t the only one! But while it’s possible, it’s not quite as easy as it might… Continue reading
