Gentlemen, have you ever felt pressure to perform in the bedroom? There might have been a time when nerves and anxiety got the best of you and ruined a night of fun and pleasure. What if I tell you, you don’t need to do exotic sex poses to please your partner? But instead, take classic sex positions and take it one step further. Welcome to my list of the best sex positions for men!
Missionary
What’s so special about the missionary, you might be asking? It’s one of the best positions to get intimate with your partner. You’re in complete body contact, have all control regarding speed and penetration depth, and it’s the perfect position to hit the G-spot.
How To Do It
- Your partner lies down on their back. They either spread their legs apart or bend their knees as close to their chest as possible.
- Place your arms on either side of your partner’s shoulders.
- Your legs should be in between theirs.
- You can hover over your partner by extending your arms like a full plank position or bending them like a forearm plank. Choose the option you’re most comfortable in.
- Slowly enter and penetrate.
- Start with slow and deep thrusts before increasing your speed.
Here’s how to make the missionary position ten times hotter. Place a pillow on their lower back to lift their hips, creating an angle to make penetration even deeper. Remember to kiss your partner on the lips, neck, or breasts while in the missionary style position. There’s also much room for clitoral stimulation by reaching one hand down and pleasuring your partner. Introduce a sex toy and make it work to your benefit, making you orgasm more intensely.
Spooning
Spooning is a sex position ideal for slow, prolonged, sensual lovemaking. It’s known as the lazy sex position while still receiving pleasurable sensations. It’s a good tradeoff for days when you’re not feeling acrobatic or too wild but still want to get the juicy benefits from sex.
Men, you can stay in this position for as long as possible since it requires little effort. For the woman, you can feel every inch of your partner inside you from the beginning of each thrust to the end.
How To Do It
- You and your partner lie on the same side.
- Your partner lifts their top leg and bends their knee. Another way to do this is simply by bending their top knee in front of them and resting on the bed.
- You have the option to hold onto their leg for more support and deep thrusting.
- Begin penetrating from there and enter in and out of your partner.
- Find the rhythm that works best for you and stick with it.
Here’s how to take spooning to the next level:
- Add lube to the mix. It’s a great way to heighten arousal for your partner and make your movements buttery smooth.
- Make the most of your free hands and stimulate your partner’s breasts and clitoris while sucking on their neck.
- To make this even more intimate, do this position face-to-face while maintaining eye contact.
Doggy Style
Regarding doggy style, it’s a crowd favorite that needs no introduction. What makes doggy style so good is it’s always so satisfying.
You’re facing away from your partner, meaning you’re free to get as freaky as you want. There’s a lot of control and variation to maximize pleasure while in this position. The second best part about doggy style is you don’t need a bed. You can have sex in this position almost anywhere.
How To Do It
- Your partner gets down on their hands and knees.
- Kneel behind them.
- Using your hand to guide your penis, enter from behind.
- Penetrate in and out of your partner by thrusting forward and backward.
- Your partner can bend their arms to feel more comfortable and last in this position.
- Hold onto their hips and use them to push your penis deeper.
You can man doggy even hotter by doing it on the edge of your bed. Penetrate standing while using your partner’s hips to go in and out of you. Another variation is lying down with your partner underneath for deeper penetration. Lastly, don’t forget to grab a vibrator and let your partner use it. You should feel the vibrating patterns while inside them, creating pleasurable sensations.
The 69
We’ve all heard 69 jokes. Despite that, one thing’s for sure; it’s the best oral sex position because you and your partner receive pleasure together.
There’s plenty of clitoral stimulation and blow jobs for everybody. It’s the best form of foreplay to arouse each other before sex. The only drawback is for couples with significant height differences. However, there’s always a way to perform 69 sex positions and achieve orgasm by making some slight variations. (More on sex positions for height differences here.)
How To Do It
- Begin by lying down on your back with your legs spread open.
- Your partner faces you and gets down on their knees.
- Their face should be in line with your genitals, and your face should be in line with theirs.
- Lick or finger their clitoris and vaginal hole as they simultaneously give you a blow job.
- Listen to their body’s queues to find out what they enjoy the most and continue performing it.
To take 69 up a notch, try performing 69 on your side, also known as the “lazy 69,” similar to spooning. It’s a tad more challenging, but the benefits of it are 100% worth it. Another tip is to have a bowl of ice on your bedside table and put it in your mouth or hold it with your fingers before giving oral to your partner. They can do the same, so you’ll both feel intense sensations!
Lap Dance
Another highly intimate position is the lap dance. It’s sensual to watch your partner work their booty and easily let things get heated from anywhere you are. You can perform this sex position anytime if you have access to a chair.
Introduce breast play, a bullet vibrator, or fun costumes for roleplay to make the most of lap dance.
How To Do It
- Sit down comfortably on a chair or couch.
- Have your partner begin with some foreplay by doing a lap dance for you, allowing her to showcase her sexy dance moves to get you aroused (more sexy sex positions here). Another option is for her to do a strip tease while you slowly undress each piece of her clothing.
- When you’re both ready, she inches her back close to your body and sits on your lap. She should be facing away from you as she sits on your lap.
- Guide your penis inside and slowly bounce your partner up and down to feel each sensation.
- For added pleasure, run your hands all over your body, stimulating her breasts or clit.
Wheelbarrow
The wheelbarrow is a daring position to try at least once in your life. It’s perfect for nights when you want to be adventurous and bold. And you’re getting an upper-body strength workout while hitting the sweet spot.
How To Do It
- Your partner gets on the ground as if performing a full-arm plank.
- Hold their ankles and lift their legs off the ground.
- Spread their legs open and walk slowly towards your partner.
- Have them wrap their legs around your waist.
- Enter from there and thrust in and out.
- Hold onto their hips and use them for support and deeper thrusts.
While the wheelbarrow position is fiery, you can take it to a new level by penetrating deeper from a downward angle. Wrap your partner’s legs around your shoulder as you push inside them slowly and deeply.
Cowgirl
This great position is another fan favorite for achieving intense orgasms. You don’t have to put in too much work, and your partner receives extra pleasure from riding you.
Cowgirl is the pièce de résistance to a low-effort, high-reward sexual position. Your partner is on top, straddling you. It’s the one position that truly allows the clitoris to rub against the pubic bone for stimulation during sex.
How To Do It
- Lie on your back and bend your knees.
- Your partner straddles you and places their knees on either side of your body.
- Use your hand to guide your penis inside.
- They can move their hips forward and back as you hold onto them for support.
- Do small thrusts with the rhythm of their movement to make it feel extra good.
To make the cowgirl position infinitely better, introduce a vibrator and slide it between your genitals as your partner rides you. Second, try sitting on your bed frame and bending your knees closer as they straddle you. This makes cowgirl more intimate and gives you more control of the position.
Conclusion
These simple tips and tricks are tried and tested. Time and time again, you can use the classic sex positions to your advantage and get the best results for your sex life.
You don’t have to feel pressure to make the most out of your sexual positions; instead, work with what you have and have fun with it. Try these seven sex positions with your partner and discover what pleases you and what doesn’t.
That’s the best part about sex, exploring new ways to receive pleasure and discovering it with your partner.
Thanks for reading about my best sex positions for men!
Rachel
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