We generally advise against making your own BDSM toys, but we understand that not everyone has easy access to sex toy shops. If you do decide to go ahead with a DIY BDSM blindfold, you can try some semi-safe tips below, although please be aware that there are inherent risks involved.
It’s always better to buy a high-quality product from a trusted brand, such as the Lovehoney Oh! Satin, which costs only $8.99 (even cheaper with discount code MSTG15 for 15% off!)
- It’s essential to know the risks of sensory play, especially when using household items. To reduce the chances of accidents or harm, we recommend buying products that have been professionally tested and manufactured. This will ensure a safer and more enjoyable experience for everyone involved.
- But if you have no other option than to use DIY alternatives, there are some options like sleeping masks, goggles, and BDSM tapes that you can try at home. Just make sure that you follow instructions carefully and proceed with caution.
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Along with her colleagues Rachel Sommer and Tim Larson, she made an extensive list of alternatives that are the safest route when trying to make a BDSM blindfold at home. Just remember that they will always carry potential risks when trying to do them yourself.
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What Is a DIY BDSM Blindfold?
DIY BDSM blindfolds are homemade eye-covering devices used during bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism (BDSM) activities. It’s a simple yet effective way of enhancing sensory experiences and increasing anticipation for the submissive partner. In the world of BDSM, they are often used to heighten a submissive partner’s other senses, fostering vulnerability and increasing the erotic atmosphere.
Note: The product above, Lovehoney Oh! Satin, is an example of a commercial product. For only $7.99, you get the most value for your money because it’s made of an extra-soft satin-like material and lined with plush artificial fur, it’s comfy and great for sensory deprivation play.
Creating a DIY bondage blindfold at home can be an affordable and customizable alternative to purchasing one from a store. Often, the materials required for making one can be easily found around your house or purchased at a local fabric store. While it may seem easy, there are still considerations to fully savor the sensory play experience without worrying about your safety at the back of your head.
Is Making Your Own Blindfold Safe?
No. As experienced practitioners in the world of BDSM, we don’t recommend making your own BDSM blindfold as it’s not safe. But if still want to go ahead, there are a few factors to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. First and foremost is the material, where a soft, breathable fabric is a must. Avoid materials that might cause irritation or discomfort to the skin, such as rough fabrics or materials with sharp edges. Additionally, make sure the fabric is stretchy so you can avoid it from being too tight.
You must also plan how you’ll secure it around the wearer’s head. A proper fold and knot technique is vital in preventing circulation or breathing issues. Be cautious not to tie the blindfold too tight, as this could result in discomfort or even injury. Regularly check on the wearer’s well-being, ensuring that they can breathe easily and that it’s not causing any distress.
Some Semi-Safe DIY Blindfold Ideas
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1. Eye Masks
Eye masks (or sleep masks) can be decent household blindfolds. You can easily purchase a sleep mask online (I bought a cheap one from Amazon) or even create your own using fabric and elastic.
We strongly recommend using soft materials that won’t irritate the skin. You must also check periodically that the mask isn’t too tight or causing discomfort to your partner.
2. Bondage Tape
Bondage tape is another decent DIY BDSM blindfold as it’s not sticky, making it a semi-safe option. You can wrap it around your partner’s eyes (never the nose or mouth!) so they can’t see while also being safe for their skin and hair. As always, communication and consensual trust are vital, so make sure your partner is comfortable with the use of bondage tape.
You must ensure it’s not wrapped too tightly and regularly check on your partner’s comfort. Establishing a safe word also helps ensure a safe and consensual experience.
3. Goggles
Goggles are an unconventional, yet effective homemade bondage blindfold. We recommend picking something with dark or opaque lenses that can be adjusted for a snug but comfortable fit. It’s also essential to test the goggles for comfort and fit and make any necessary adjustments to prevent pressure on the eyes or face. Continually check in with your partner to ensure they feel safe and comfortable throughout the experience.
Your goggle implementation may look like the Adjustable Leather from Stormy Leather above but it will never come close to the design, the high-quality extra-supple hide, the ultra-soft faux fur lining, and the adjustable strap on the real product. You can read how well it performed compared to its competitors in our blindfold review.
4. Molded lockable blindfold
If you want to go the extra mile, you can create your very own custom-made lockable blindfold. This DIY project creates a unique molded design that perfectly fits the wearer’s face, and it includes replaceable little horns for added aesthetic appeal and personalization. Let’s see how Redditor Dubious_At_Best_ pulled this one together:
Materials Needed:
- 3.2mm vegan leather
- Pro dye (black)
- Carnauba creme
- Tokonole
- Clay modeling tools
- Edge creaser
- Security buckles
- Chicago screws
Steps by step guide:
- Cut the veg-tan leather into straps and masks.
- Wet mold the mask over the recipient’s face for a good fit.
- Dye the leather mask and straps black with pro dye.
- Apply carnauba creme to the face side of the mask for finishing.
- Seal the flesh side of the straps with Tokonole.
- Tool the 1″ strapping using clay modeling tools and an edge creaser.
- Attach security buckles to close the straps.
- Secure the straps together with Chicago screws.
- Test the blindfold on the recipient for comfort and fit.
- Optional: Link the two straps at the back of the head for added security.
- Optional: Modify the buckle direction to personal preference.
- Ensure safety, consent, and communication when using the blindfold in BDSM activities.
Source: Reddit
Not Safe at All BDSM Blindfold Ideas
We understand that people may get creative with their BDSM blindfolds, but it’s crucial to prioritize safety for everyone involved. For example, using plastic bags or plastic wrap might seem like a cheap and easy alternative, but we strongly advise against it. Plastic bags can cause breathing difficulties and potential suffocation. Similarly, plastic wrap may lead to overheating and discomfort if wrapped around the head. Stay clear of these two hacks!
Another bad idea is using duct tape or packaging tape as a blindfold. This is highly dangerous and can cause injuries to the skin when removed. Ouch!
How to Use A homemade BDSM Blindfold?
You must not only think about how to use the blindfold during a scene but also how to establish a trusting, consensual environment. That’s where communication and consent are the cornerstones of any successful BDSM experience:
- During a scene, you can experiment with different sensory stimulation, like gentle touches with a feather or soft fabric or even fingertips. You also explore restraints such as handcuffs or spreader bars, keeping in mind the need for clear communication and safe words among all parties involved.
- You must ensure the blindfold is secure while not being too tight. Test it out yourself before the scene, and make any necessary adjustments to ensure the utmost comfort.
- The right amount of pressure is key; it should be snug enough to block sight, but not so tight that it causes discomfort or harm. Additionally, ensure it’s easy to remove in case of an emergency or if the submissive uses their safe word.
If you want to purchase legitimate sensory play products aside from blindfolds, we recommend BDSM hoods and masks. They may look similar to blindfolds at first glance, but once worn, you’ll notice they give a completely different sensation. More on BDSM masks here.
Why Is it Better To Buy Commercial Products
There are several advantages to buying a real BDSM blindfold over creating a DIY version. Here are just a few of the most important reasons:
Comfort
First and foremost is the quality and comfort. You see, BDSM blindfolds are designed specifically for use in bondage and other kinky activities, which means they are made with high-quality materials that are comfortable for the wearer and allow for prolonged use. These materials can include ethical vegan leather and padding that ensures a secure fit without causing discomfort or irritation.
Take a look at the beaut in the image above. The Mistress Heather Blindfold has a figure 8 shape that guarantees an amazingly comfortable fit. This innovative and sexy design simultaneously means the wearer won’t be able to see a thing however much they twist or turn their head. By choosing a reputable blindfold like Mistress Heather, you ensure that you’re getting a product that has been thoroughly tested and is trusted by others in the BDSM community.
Quality
In terms of quality, professionally-made BDSM blindfolds are designed to create the desired sensory deprivation without causing any harm or discomfort to the wearer. This means they have a secure fit and won’t accidentally slip off or restrict circulation. By investing in a quality blindfold, you can maintain control over the sensory play without compromising on safety. Purchasing a commercial product also demonstrates a level of dedication and investment in your kinky activities.
Note: If you want to mix things up, we recommend getting the Stockroom Ball Gag and Blindfold Harness. It’s like sensory deprivation on steroids because the wearer can’t see what’s going on and won’t be able to say anything either. With a blindfold like this, you don’t need to settle with some low-quality DIY ball gag.
While DIY options can be fun and creative, showing your partner that you’re willing to invest in quality gear designed for these activities can enhance trust and commitment. That is key to a pleasurable experience!
Sandra
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