You probably came here searching for information on how to make a DIY BDSM cane, but we must emphasize that creating homemade impact toys is not recommended as it’s not safe. So no bueno.
Instead, we recommend buying an affordable and dependable product from a reliable brand like Stockroom’s Bamboo, priced at just $16.00. While we generally advise against making DIY toys, we also recognize that not everyone has access to online sex stores. If that’s the case, we have some relatively safe tips for you to explore below. But always proceed with care, and maintain safety as your top priority!
- It’s crucial to understand the risks of BDSM and bondage, especially when using regular household items for impact play. To reduce the possibility of accidents, we recommend only using professionally tested and manufactured products. These not only offer protection to you and others but also guarantee a safer and more satisfying experience.
- However, we’ve compiled a list of semi-safe alternatives below that you can use such as rattan, dowel, or Delrin. It’s vital to adhere to the instructions and to always be careful to minimize the injury risks.
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During her online research, Rachel found the Reddit guides from LoganBlackMusic and slendersalamander5, especially helpful, and they are included below as references.
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What Is a Homemade BDSM Cane?
A homemade BDSM cane is a homemade BDSM toy used for impact play, typically made from bamboo, rattan, or synthetic materials like acrylic or lexan. Thicker models usually deliver a thud-like sensation, while thinner ones will deliver a sharper, more stingy sensation as compared to thinner ones. Rattan canes are a classic choice for caning, as they are strong and durable. Synthetic materials are also a popular choice, as they can be made to specific thicknesses and are less likely to snap.
Pro tip: If you want a solid Rattan cane I recommend this one from Stockroom. For only $19.00, you get one of the best BDSM canes we tested.
Are homemade BDSM Canes Safe?
No. Making your own BDSM impact toys is not safe. BDSM activities, in general, carry many risks, and making your own equipment can increase risks significantly. One of the most common mistakes is creating a DIY bondage cane without the necessary material and safety experience. Different objects can have different properties, and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you could end up making one that is too weak, too heavy, or too brittle, leading to serious injuries, such as bruising, cuts, or even broken bones. No bueno!
Some Semi-Safe Ideas
You can’t pick up any stick lying around the house and start spanking away. You must carefully consider the options and do proper research to avoid injury to the spankee. To help you get started, here are a few semi-safe ideas that we can explore at your own risk:
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1. Bamboos
Bamboo is a popular choice for those who want a flexible cane as they are lightweight, easy to find, and relatively cheap. But it’s important to be aware that they are prone to snapping, so it’s important to choose a thick and sturdy piece. Let’s see how Redditor LoganBlackMusic built his bamboo cane:
You’ll need:
- Fresh green bamboos
- Propane blow torch
- Rag or cloth
- Jojoba oil or mineral oil (optional)
- Beeswax (optional)
Step-by-Step Guide:
- Start with a fresh green cane. Ensure it is free from any major defects or damage from the tip to the handle end.
- Using a propane blow torch, work your way straight down the length, focusing on 4 to 5-inch sections at a time. Apply heat to the bamboo, moving the flame back and forth evenly. As you heat it, it will turn from green to brown.
- Once the bamboo has turned brown, take a rag or cloth and immediately buff the heated area. The heat will cause a natural resin to rise to the surface. Buffing the bamboo will help distribute the resin and solidify it within the bamboo fibers, making it stronger and more resistant to splitting.
- Repeat the process. Continue flame treating and buffing in sections until you have treated the entire cane.
- Optional: Apply oil and beeswax. If desired, you can further enhance the bamboo’s strength and finish by applying a small amount of jojoba oil or mineral oil to the surface. This will provide additional protection and moisture resistance. You can also apply beeswax to create a glossy finish.
- Allow the cane to fully dry overnight before use.
An additional tip, you can wrap the handle end with a cord to make it easier to swing.
Source: Reddit
If you value your time and are not comfortable with homemade projects, buy Stockroom’s Bamboo cane. Crafted from the finest quality materials and resembling prison canes used by Singapore authorities, it feels like it should cost much more than a mere $16. It’s ideally suited for punishment scenes and other pain-related BDSM activities.
2. Dowels
Dowels are another popular option for homemade BDSM canes. You can find dowels at hardware stores and they come in a variety including wood, nylon, and plastic. But don’t make the mistake of using garden stakes. Garden stakes break easy and you don’t want that messy stuff in your skin.
To make a dowel cane, start by sanding down the rough edges and smoothing out any knots. After all your sanding, you can also add a leather or faux leather handle for comfort and grip. Just be sure to use a strong adhesive, like epoxy, to secure the handle in place.
3. Rattan Canes
Rattan is a traditional raw material you can use to make a quick and dirty toy. It’s lightweight, stiff, and provides a sharp sting. Plus it’s easy to get hold of and they are available on Amazon for cheap. Some might argue that buying rattan and using it provides equal success to having the real thing but it requires a devious method. Let’s see how Reddit username slendersalamander5 put his Rattan cane together:
You’ll need:
- Rattan cane (approximately 36 inches long)
- Measuring tape or ruler
- Saw or cutting tool
- Sandpaper (medium and fine grit)
- Marine varnish or wood stain (optional)
- Cloth or rag
- Protective gloves (optional)
Step-by-Step Guide:
- Measure and mark the desired length. Using a measuring tape or ruler, determine the length you want. Typical canes range from 24 to 36 inches long. Mark the desired length on the rattan cane and move to the next step.
- Cutting canes. Using a saw or cutting tool, carefully cut the rattan cane at the marked length. Make sure to cut it straight and even.
- Smooth the edges of the rattan. After cutting a cane, the edges may be rough or uneven. Take a medium grit sandpaper and gently sand the cut ends to smooth them out. Follow up with fine-grit sandpaper for a smoother finish. After all your sanding, you can modify the striking tip by giving it a round shape. This one is optional but a round striking tip gives a little bit more each hit.
- Optional: Varnish or apply wood stain. If desired, you can apply a marine varnish or sealant to protect it and give it a polished look. Follow the instructions on the marine varnish or sealant product for the application. Use a cloth or rag to evenly spread the varnish or sealant over the surface. Once varnished, give it a rest and allow it to completely dry overnight.
- Optional: Once varnished thoroughly, apply grip or handle. If you prefer to have a grip or handle on your cane, you can wrap it with leather, rubber, or paracord. Start at one end and wrap the material tightly around it, working your way towards the other end. Secure the end of the material to keep it in place.
- Inspect for splinters or damages. Before using it, carefully inspect it for any splinters or damages. These types can sometimes develop splinters over time, which can be harmful. If you notice any splinters or damages, it’s best to discard the homemade spanking cane and replace it.
Another way of treating rattan is to soak it in salt water. This method represents an exceptionally intense way of doing things, as it substantially boosts both the weight and flexibility of the rattan.
Source: Reddit
4. Delrin
Delrin is an excellent material for a flexible cane due to its high molecular density and durability. You can buy it from a regular hardware store. It’s a type of plastic known for its strength and resistance to wear, making it ideal for impact play. It easily maintains its shape when you try to bend it and has a round-shaped tip.
Delrin canes deliver a deep sting sensation, comparable to heavy rattan but without the concerns or maintenance associated with natural alternatives. With proper care and avoiding exposure to heat or chlorine-based cleaners, Delrin can last indefinitely.
Not Safe at All Ideas
Safety should always be the top priority for all types of impact play. Unfortunately, some ideas for making your own BDSM canes can be downright dangerous and should be avoided at all costs. In this section, we will discuss some not-safe ideas that you should steer clear of.
Too hard or inflexible. Using materials that are too hard or inflexible, such as steel or aluminum rods, can cause severe injury. These materials are not meant to bend or flex, and using something too thick or heavy can cause bruising or even break bones.
Dirty or contaminated canes. Using a dirty or contaminated cane can cause infections or other health problems. Similarly, using a cane that has been used on multiple people without proper cleaning can spread diseases or infections. It’s important to always prioritize safety and use gear specifically designed for impact play.
How to Use A Homemade BDSM Cane?
Using a homemade BDSM cane can be a thrilling experience for both the dominant and the submissive partner. However, it’s important to follow some basic guidelines to ensure a safe and enjoyable play environment:
- Start slow: If you are new to BDSM or impact play, it’s essential to start slow and build up gradually. Begin with light strokes and gradually increase the intensity as you become more comfortable.
- Communication is key: Communication is essential in any BDSM play. Before you start, discuss your limits, boundaries, and safe words with your partner. Make sure you have a clear understanding of what is and isn’t allowed.
- Aim for fleshy areas: When using a cane, aim for fleshy areas of the body such as the buttocks, thighs, or back. Avoid bony areas such as the spine, joints, or ribs.
- Use the right technique: To use a cane effectively, hold it firmly and swing it like a pendulum. Aim for the desired area and follow through with the stroke. Practice your technique on a pillow beforehand to ensure accuracy and precision.
- Take breaks: BDSM play can be intense, both physically and emotionally. Take breaks as needed and check in with your partner regularly to ensure their comfort and well-being.
Why Is it Better To Buy A Commercial Product?
It can be tempting to create your own but we strongly recommend buying a commercial product for a variety of reasons. In this section, we will discuss the benefits of buying a real BDSM cane over making your own. Let’s start with the design:
Design
One of the main reasons to buy the real thing is its design and effectiveness. BDSM canes are designed with specific designs and dimensions to provide the desired sensations during play. A real BDSM cane is crafted with the right sizes and shapes (rounded or straightened) to deliver the right amount of pain and pleasure. When you make your own, you may not achieve equal success or your desired sensations, and it may not be as effective as a commercial product.
Note: The Stockroom’s Heavy Red is my personal favorite when it comes to design. Of all the things canes can be constructed from, fiberglass is known by kinksters worldwide for delivering a uniquely sharp and extra-stinging punch.
Safety
Another reason to buy a commercial product is safety. A legit BDSM cane is designed to be safe to use, with the appropriate material and dimensions to prevent injury. When you make your own, you may not be aware of the safety considerations that need to be taken into account. This can lead to injury or even permanent damage.
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