You’re probably here to find information on how to make your own DIY BDSM flogger, but making your own sex toys is not safe, especially impact toys. So no bueno.
That’s why we recommend purchasing a high-quality and affordable product from a trusted brand like Fifty Shades of Grey Bound To You instead. It retails for only $24.99 and you can even get it at a lower price with the discount code MSTG15 for 15% off!
Although we discourage people from making a flogger, we understand that not everyone has access to sex toy shops, therefore we included some semi-safe tips below you can try at your own risk. But always exercise caution to ensure safety!
- You must be aware of the risks when engaging in impact play, especially when using everyday household items. To minimize the risks of unwanted incidents, we strongly advise investing in professionally tested and manufactured products instead. This not only protects yourself and others from harm but also ensures a more enjoyable experience overall.
- But if circumstances require you to go for a DIY approach, we have compiled a list of semi-safe alternatives like paracord, shoe laces, or creating your own from scratch. More on these below.
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Why You Should Trust Us?
Rachel Sommer, an experienced sexologist and BDSM educator, has done thorough testing and research to offer trustworthy insights on DIY BDSM equipment. Collaborating with our experts, Sandra Larson and Tim Larson, she has explored innovative ways to incorporate homemade creativity into flogging practices. She also thought the Reddit guides by usernames Philsquatch and KaleidoSophie were helpful, and they are included below.
Rachel’s main objective is to give our readers recommendations that are not only functional and cost-effective but also tailored to meet their unique sexual preferences. With her expertise in this field, she serves as an excellent source to help individuals explore the world of impact play and craft their own personalized tools!
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What Is a Homemade BDSM Flogger?
A homemade BDSM flogger is an impact toy made from items found around the house, typically consisting of a handle and multiple tails or falls made from objects like leather, paracord, or rope. They offer a somewhat cost-effective alternative to commercially-made BDSM gear and you can customize them based on personal preference and skill level. Homemade floggers provide a range of sensations, from gentle tickles to sharp stings, and you can use them on various body parts. However, you must choose suitable items, follow safety guidelines, consider weight and balance, and measure proper tail length and thickness.
Note: The Fifty Shades of Grey Bound To You (product above) is an example of a real flogger. Built from soft faux leather, it can be as gentle as a kitten or as tough as a lion. The best part? It will only set you back $24.99, making it a great choice for anyone looking for an introductory model without breaking the bank.
Is Making A Flogger Safe?
No. Making a homemade BDSM flogger is not safe. While it can offer a fun and creative way to explore your kinks, a poorly constructed flogger can break during use and result in unintended harm. Adhering to the principles of Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) helps minimize risks while ensuring an enjoyable experience for all parties.
Some Semi-Safe Ideas
If purchasing is not an option and you decided to make a flogger, here are a few ideas that are relatively safe to use:
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1. Paracord
Paracord is a popular substitute because it’s strong, durable, and comes in a variety of colors. To make a DIY paracord flogger, you’ll need:
- 7 lengths of paracord, each measuring 52 inches
- A wooden or metal loop
- Textile glue
- Thin cord
First, loop the paracord through the wooden or metal loop so the loop is in the middle of the cords. Then, use the thin cord to gather the paracord and tie it firmly as close as you can to the loop. Apply textile glue to the knot to secure it, don’t pull it and wait for the glue to settle. Once glued, you can trim the length of the strips depending on your taste. Voila!
2. Cocobolo
Next are instructions on how to make a leather flogger. Cocobolo wood is a beautiful and durable material that makes for a decent flogger if constructed correctly. Here is how Reddit user Philsquatch put it together:
Materials Needed:
- Cocobolo wood dowel
- Leather strips
- Beeswax
- Scissors
- Lathe & Drill
Step-by-step guide:
Handle:
- Mark and punch the middle of the cocobolo wood.
- Drill a flat-bottomed hole at the marked spot using a Forstner bit and Jacobs chuck.
- Shape the wood using tools like spindle gouge, parting tool, round nose scraper, and bowl gouge.
- Sand the wood with multiple grits of sandpaper. Repeat until you get the desired result
- Apply finish and optionally rub natural beeswax for a protective top coat.
Tail:
- Prepare supple, oily leather for the falls.
- Cut a rectangular piece of leather and roll up one edge tightly. If you want more tails adjust the length and width of each strip.
- Insert the rolled edge into the handle.
- Adjust the width of the falls and split them evenly.
- Apply contact cement, roll each tail tightly, and secure them.
- Insert the rolled tails into the handle.
- Cut a brass rod to size and gently tap it into the drilled hole to attach the falls.
- Viola, you now have your very own DIY leather flogger!
Source: Reddit
Note: The homemade Cocobolo flogger looks very similar to the Sissoo Rosewood Long Handle Leather Flogger (product above), our best commercially-made product. People lucky enough to be struck by this premium flogger’s multiple tails will praise its weight, power, and sensuality. Read how well it performed compared to other products right here.
3. Plastic String and Electrical Tape
Plastic string and electrical tape are cheap and readily available items that can be a decent-enough flogger. We found these instructions on Reddit by user KaleidoSophie:
Materials Needed:
- 32 strands of plastic string (scoobies, gimp strings, etc.) – approximately 80cm long, 2mm diameter
- 1-inch metal D-ring
- Black electrical tape (or duct tape)
- String for temporary tying
Step-by-step guide:
- Prepare the D-ring: Thread 28 plastic strings through the D-ring. Measure the end portion of the strip and ensure they are evenly distributed. Pull and make adjustments if one end is longer than the other. Loop them around the D-ring to create the tails.
- Temporarily tie the plastic strings together using string, keeping them in place around the D-ring.
- Submerge the plastic strings in boiling water and stretch them as they cool down. This process helps remove any kinks or wiggles they may have picked up during storage.
- After the plastic strings have cooled and dried, use black electrical tape to bind the first layer of the handle. Start at the base of the tails. Start wrapping the tape tightly around the strings, gradually moving upward to form the handle. Feel free to wrap more tape if you feel like it.
- Take two additional plastic strings and begin a spiral knot braid around the top and bottom of the handle area. This adds decorative detail and reinforces the handle structure.
- To hide and secure the ends of the braids, add more electrical tape and wrap it tightly for a couple of layers around the exposed handle area. You must cover the braiding properly.
- Wrapping it up, add a small square knot to the D-ring using two plastic strings. This loop can be used for hanging or gripping purposes.
Source: Reddit
4. Shoe Laces or Rope
If you can’t find any rope, a shoelace is another cheap and decent substitute. To make a shoelace or rope flogger, you’ll need:
- Shoelaces (If you can’t find any rope)
- Wooden dowel
- Scissors
Tie the shoe laces to the wooden dowel, making sure they’re evenly spaced. Cut the laces to the desired length. You can fold the strip in half to get a different thickness.
Pro tip: If you happen to have a bondage rope like Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope (product above), you can get creative and use it instead. This quality rope is made from non-abrasive cotton and specially woven to flatten against a restrained person’s skin.
Not Safe at All Ideas
While there are many creative ways to make your flogger at home, some ideas are simply not safe. Let’s talk about them next:
Chains
While chains are typically associated with bondage and BDSM, they are horrible as floggers. Firstly, it’s difficult to attach it to a dowel. Trust us, you can’t pull it off. Even if you did, using chains is going to be too painful. The links can easily cause cuts and bruises, and the weight of the chains can cause serious injury even if you take great care. Stay away!
Adding Spikes
It doesn’t matter if you saw it in a video. Using spikes is a very bad idea. Once the spikes hit, they can easily puncture and cut the skin without much effort. Building something with attached spikes is also slightly more difficult than a regular one so it’s best to just forget about this idea. No Bueno!
How to Use A homemade BDSM Flogger?
Using a homemade flogger can provide excitement and pleasure, but you must prioritize safety at all times. Preparation is key, so discuss boundaries, establish a safe word, and choose a suitable location. Thoroughly inspect the flogger for any damage, test it on a pillow first, and familiarize yourself with different techniques such as spanking, whipping, stinging, and sensation play. We have more spanking tips that could help you right here.
Why Is it Better To Buy A Commercial Product?
When it comes to BDSM flogger, there are plenty of affordable options online. Therefore, we firmly believe it’s better to buy a real BDSM flogger instead of making one yourself. Here are just a few reasons why:
Safety
While a homemade flogger may seem like a good idea, it can be very dangerous if’s not made correctly. For example, if the materials are not sturdy enough, they can break during use and cause injury to the submissive. Additionally, if it’s not balanced correctly, it can be difficult to control and may cause unintended harm. Ouch!
So what’s my option? Well, there’s no better BDSM whip than The Stockroom’s Red And Black Braided Leather flogger. It handily topped the flogger test we did earlier this year.
More on making a homemade BDSM whip in this article.
Effectiveness
Another reason to buy a real product is its effectiveness. Homemade floggers often lack the effectiveness of a commercial product because they are (usually) not made by BDSM experts. On the other hand, commercial products, like Stockroom’s Eighteen Inch, are designed by industry professionals who know exactly how to create the perfect flogger for a specific type of play and pleasure. They are made to deliver the right amount of impact without causing unnecessary harm.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What are Other Homemade BDSM sex toys?
Aside from floggers, there are many other homemade BDSM toys you can build. While flogging your partner, you can add in some nipple play to elevate the experience. We have guides that talk about DIY nipple suckers and nipple clamps at home, some ideas are easier than others so make sure to pick what’s suitable for your experience level.
How do I use a flogger for BDSM play?
It’s important to start slow and build up gradually. I recommend beginning by lightly tapping the flogger against your partner’s skin, gradually increasing the intensity as you go. You can also experiment with different types of strokes, such as circular or figure-eight patterns. The spanker (master) must communicate with the spankee (slave) throughout the spanking sessions to ensure they are both enjoying the experience and everything is consensual.
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