So you’re in a bit of a sticky situation with a sex toy stuck in your anus or vagina? While it’s a scary situation, it happens more often than you think. Our clinical sexologist, Rachel Sommer, gives tips on how to remove it and when to seek help from your healthcare provider. Let’s find out what her suggestions are:
- Stuck in Vagina: The first thing is not to panic. Take a moment to relax and ease those tense pelvic muscles, making the process smoother. If you still can feel the toy, take a deep breath, exhale, and delicately try pulling it out with two fingers. If you can’t feel it, try a squatting position with additional lube. If that also fails, seek medical attention immediately.
- Stuck in Anus: Take a deep breath and try not to clench the sphincter muscles. Same as with the vagina above; if you can feel it, try to gently pull it out with two fingers. If you can’t, I advise no more DIY solutions but seek medical attention immediately.
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How To Remove A Stuck Sex Toy In The Vagina?
What an experience! Your adult toy seems to have ventured into unfamiliar territory, like your cervix, perhaps, leaving you concerned and unsure about what to do next. It’s a situation that many people face, so you’re not alone.
Now, it’s crucial to remain calm. Getting worried won’t help. Please take a moment to relax and ease those tense muscles, as this will make the extraction process much smoother. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or a warm bath could help ease tension and facilitate easier removal.
If you want to try to resolve it on your own or with the help of a partner, try a gentle retrieval. If the item is still visible or you can feel it, delicately pull it out using two fingers. Be patient and cautious.
If you can’t retrieve it using your fingers, try a squatting position (as demonstrated in the image above). Apply more lube and gently open the vaginal canal with you our your partner’s fingers. Try to bear down like you’re giving birth or pooping. Stop immediately and seek professional assistance if you experience any discomfort or pain.
How To Remove A Stuck Sex Toy In The Anus?
To kick things off, take a deep breath, relax (both you and your muscles), and push worry aside. Getting all stressed out won’t help the situation.
You can attempt a DIY retrieval mission but this only works if you can still touch it. First, get yourself relaxed. A little lube might be just the thing to help you get that toy on the move. Slowly and gently, try to reach it with your fingers.
This might not be the solution you want to hear, but if it remains stubbornly inside, go straight to the emergency room. The anus is different from the vagina, you can’t stretch your anus as much as a vagina without causing lacerations in your anal cavity.
When To Seek Professional Help?
Although you can try to remove it yourself or with your partner, you are actually putting yourself at a bigger risk. There are times when it’s better to seek professional help. Here are some situations where you should consider seeing a doctor:
- When you have a toy stuck deep inside, and you can’t reach it. Trying to extract it yourself can cause further damage and complications. Worse? You can even push it further than it already is. If you experience severe pain or bleeding, it could be a sign of injury or infection. Go to the ER ASAP!
- If you have a pre-existing medical condition that affects your pelvic area. Certain conditions, such as endometriosis or pelvic inflammatory disease, can make it difficult to extract an adult device safely.
- If it’s made of porous materials, such as jelly or rubber. These materials can harbor bacteria and increase the risk of infection.
If you can’t DIY the situation, it’s time to contact your doctor. There’s no need to be embarrassed; medical pros are accustomed to handling similar situations. They will safely and expertly retrieve the item in no time. Acting promptly is vital since leaving the item inside for an extended period could lead to potential health complications.
Aftercare & Emotional Support
After the successful removal of a stuck sex toy, aftercare is crucial for both physical and emotional well-being. Here’s how you can manage aftercare effectively:
- Physical Care: Check for any signs of irritation, abrasions, or discomfort. Applying a mild, fragrance-free moisturizer or an over-the-counter hydrocortisone cream can help soothe minor skin irritations. Avoid any sexual activity that could exacerbate discomfort until fully healed.
- Soothing Baths: Consider taking a warm sitz bath with Epsom salt to help relax the muscles and soothe any soreness in the genital or anal area. Ensure the water is not too hot to prevent further irritation.
- Monitoring: Look for signs of infection or complications such as unusual discharge, persistent pain, bleeding, or swelling. If any of these symptoms occur, seek medical advice immediately.
- Emotional Support: Experiencing a stuck sex toy can be distressing. It’s important to process these emotions, whether through journaling, talking to a trusted friend, or seeking support from a therapist specializing in sexual health. Acknowledge your feelings and give yourself grace during this time.
How Can I Prevent It To Get Stuck Ever Again?
After getting an adult toy stuck in your vagina or anus, you’re wondering how to avoid that awkward and painful situation from ever happening again. Well, fear not, my friend, because there are a few things you can do to prevent this situation from ever happening again:
In The Vagina
Firstly, make sure you’re using an adult toy designed for vaginal use. This makes me sound like Captain Obvious, but seriously, you’d be surprised how many people try to use sex toys meant for anal play in their vaginas. Not only can this be uncomfortable, but it can also increase the risk of it getting stuck. So, stick to products that are designed for vaginal use (like the three G-spot vibrators in the image below) to prevent them from getting lost.
Secondly, use a whole lot of lubrication. Lube makes the experience more enjoyable and reduces the risk of the toy getting stuck. Dryness can cause friction, which can make it difficult to remove it. So, please use a water-based lubricant to make things slippery and smooth. And remember, you can never use too much lube!
In The Butt
It’s important to choose the right anal sex toy with a flared, wide base (like the butt plugs in the image below). I also recommend starting small and working up to larger sizes. Remember, your butt is not a bottomless pit, and there’s only so much it can handle.
Secondly, always use plenty of lubrication. The anus does not produce its own natural lubrication as the vagina does, so it’s important to use a high-quality lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort. Don’t be afraid to reapply as needed during your play session.
Lastly, take your time and listen to your body. If something doesn’t feel right or safe, stop and reassess. Don’t force anything, and always be gentle. Remember, this is supposed to be a pleasurable experience, not a painful one. By following these simple tips, you can help prevent the dreaded “stuck sex toy” scenario and enjoy your anal play safely and comfortably.
Happy vibing!
Rachel
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