We can all admit that sometimes laziness gets the best of us. But we shouldn’t let that stop us from carrying on having fun and receiving pleasure. This is where lazy positions come in. Lazy sex positions are best for moments where you want minimal effort but maximum satisfaction. You can sustain them for extended periods which beats other high-effort sex positions. So if you ask me, lazy doesn’t always have a negative connotation to it – especially when it comes to using it in a sexual context.
I found the 7 best lazy sex positions you and your partner can do when you want to take a step back from strenuous sex positions. These positions are particularly great for in-between positions that require a lot of strength and endurance.
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Spooning
Spooning is one of the classic lazy sex positions there is. It has everything you need to have a pleasurable time while keeping it low effort. You and your partner lie on one side and choose the pace you want to take.
The spooning position is incredibly versatile in movement, if you’re tired, you can take it slow, making use of shallow and sensual thrusts. Or if you have more energy, you can take it faster, performing harder and deeper penetration.
The choice is all up to you with how low effort you want to keep this position.
How To Do It
- Both partners lie down in the same direction. One partner acts as the little spoon while the other partner acts as the big spoon.
- From here, have your penetrating partner enter. They use their hips to thrust in and out of you repeatedly.
- You have the option to lift your top leg open for deeper penetration.
- To fully take advantage of this position, your partner can grab your butt, caress your side body, or suck on your neck.
- Stay in this position for as long as you both want until you orgasm or until you call it a night.
Flat Doggy (Prone)
Who says lazy positions can’t be hot and steamy? Flat doggy is one of the preferred very lazy sex positions for couples to do because of how relaxed being in this position feels all while receiving plenty of satisfaction. Simply one of the best variations of the doggy position.
Flat doggy is exactly how it sounds, it’s when you lie flat on your stomach and your partner enters behind you. Your arms and legs are stretched out, releasing any tension from your back, and being in this position make it easier to hit the g spot – hitting the mark for the perfect trifecta.
How To Do It
- Have the receiving person lie flat on their stomach with their butt facing upwards and legs stretched.
- They may cross their arms and use them to rest their head on.
- Meanwhile, your partner climbs on top of your body.
- Similar to doggy style, the penetrating person enters from behind and thrusts in and out of you.
- Gently rock in and out of your partner’s body, finding the right speed and depth of penetration that feels best.
Lazy Man
One of the best positions to get intimate and build a connection with your significant other is the lazy man. Contrary to its name, the lazy man offers plenty of good benefits for a sex position. You’re face to face with your partner, in an embrace, seated in a comfortable position, and are getting some deep penetration from it.
The lazy man is great for letting the woman be in control as they’re on top. They put in all the work and choose the speed and depth of penetration that feels best.
How To Do It
- On the edge of the couch or the top of your bed, one partner sits with their legs stretched out in front of them.
- Lie back on the headboard of your bed or against your couch.
- Next, the other person sits on top and straddles you.
- Use your hand to guide your partner’s penis or strap on inside you.
- Move your hips around in circular motions or front and back to hit your g spot.
- Find the motions that feel most pleasurable and stick to them for as long as possible.
Flat Missionary
If you’re feeling lazy and want something very familiar – flat missionary is your best choice. It’s a slight variation of the missionary position only it requires less work. Your legs are pressed together while your penetrating partner lies directly on top of you.
Even though there’s not a lot of room for movement, you can take advantage of this position by going slowly and sensually. Additionally, this may be the only acceptable time to stay still in a sex position and let minimal movement be the focus.
How To Do It
- One person lies down flat on their back. Keep your legs closed or slightly in the hip distance apart.
- You have the option to place a pillow underneath your hips to help angle your body better.
- Next, the other person lies on top of you and enters from there. They put most of their weight on your body – making this position the epitome of a lazy sex position.
- The top person rocks their hips in and out of you repeatedly. Using a deep grinding motion works best for maximum pleasure.
The Lotus
If you’re a yogi, you’re familiar with the Lotus as a calming and relaxed pose. When it comes to the Lotus being used in sex, it’s incredibly intimate and involves a lot of passion. Being in full-body contact without having too much room for movement brings you a certain level of closeness to your partner that you can’t get anywhere else.
What the guy or penetrating pair does in Lotus: Sits down in a cross-legged seat and holds onto the top partner. What the girl or receiving pair does in Lotus: Straddles their man and wraps their legs around his body. If you want more sitting sex positions, click here.
How To Do It
- Find a comfortable place (couch, at the top of your bed, or soft floor). The penetrating person sits down in a cross-legged position.
- The top person straddles you and wraps their legs around your back. Hug your partner to get in a full-body embrace.
- Use one hand to guide their penis inside you and grind your hips down.
- Because there’s not too much room for movement, making use of grinding or rocking movement works best.
- Once you get the rhythm, stick to it for as long as you want until you reach orgasm.
Curled Spoon
This position is similar to spooning but with the addition of changing your leg placement. In curled spoon, you’re given more accessibility to hit the sweet spot right on the nose.
It’s the perfect way to take things slow and low effort while still ensuring the feeling of delight is there. You can last long in curled spoon and receive a toe-curling orgasm in the end. That’s what makes this comfortable lazy sex position one worth trying. If comfort is what you seek, you can read our extensive guide for comfortable sex positions.
How To Do It
- Lay on your side and your partner lays behind you.
- Get into an almost fetal position by bending your knees. Your penetrating pair does the same and enters from there.
- They use their hips to go deeper and angle their body slightly atop yours.
- They thrust in and out while using your arm as leverage to thrust deeper.
- Whether you choose to go as slow or choose to increase the speed, find the sweet spot and keep on going.
Mutual Masturbation
More couples must try mutual masturbation. It’s kinky and it’s hot. There’s no chance of being unsatisfied when you’re in charge of giving yourself pleasure. You know what you like and you know what your partner likes – take those two things together and put them in a room for you to revel in.
There’s something about watching your partner do things to themselves that instantly turns you on. The same feeling goes for them.
How To Do It
- One person lies on one end of the bed while the other lies on the other end. You’re both seeing each other’s full body.
- There’s no right way or wrong way to do this. Start rubbing your genitals slowly as your partner does the same.
- They stroke their penis or gently squeeze their balls while watching you get off.
- Find the pressure that you enjoy the most while watching your partner enjoy getting off to you.
- Introduce sex toys or oral sex if you want to and make the most out of this session.
Wrapping Up
Your sex life doesn’t have to come to a halt when you’re feeling lazy to have sex. It’s normal to feel that way at times, but you can always carry on having fun.
Find the right lazy position that works for you depending on the mood you’re in and take it at your own pace. They’re right there for you to make the best out of.
Thanks for reading my guide to the best sex positions for lazy people!
Sandra
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