Strap-on kits are incredibly versatile sex toys to keep around but they can be disappointing if you don’t buy the right brand. For one, if the harness isn’t very customizable, it may be too big for some wearers, making them loose and hard to aim, or too small, rendering it completely unusable. The best ones use body-safe materials for the dildo and washable fabrics for the harness. I recently got the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On and was curious if it met my expectations. Find out in my extensive review!
After testing the Advanced Strap-On for several weeks, I think it’s perfect for seasoned peggers on a budget. I especially loved that I could adjust the size of the thighs and waist to get a tight, custom fit, minimizing the times the dildo comes out. It’s also easy to use, considering it will take a little getting used to, especially if this is your first pegging session.
Who Should Try It? Anyone who wants to penetrate their partner and doesn’t have a penis (or can’t use their penis) will find this a budget-friendly, quality strap-on with plenty to love. And if you have erectile unpredictability or ED, this is a great way to include penetration in your life again.
Who Can Skip It? The dildo size is not beginner-friendly, so those new to pegging may want to start with the Beginner’s Unisex Strap-On until they are ready for the size increase. And if you have a large penis, you might be more comfortable in a strap-on with a penis pouch, where your penis has a place to be, even if you have an erection. Finally, folks with a wider waistline than 60” will want to find a larger harness or even a strapless option, like Desire Luxury.
You Can Buy It on the official Lovehoney website for $44.99. Use code MSTG15 for 15% off!
Table Of Contents
What Is Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On?
The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On harness kit is an almost endlessly versatile strap-on and harness kit. A strap-on is made up of two things: a harness and a dildo. The O-ring that holds everything in place is usually a part of the harness. You wear the harness around your waist and connect the dildo to it before penetrating your partner.
The Lovehoney Advanced version comes with a machine washable harness, three O-rings for different sizes of dildos, and a 7” silicone dildo curved to pleasure prostates and G spot alike. It’s excellent for anyone who wants to penetrate their partner, regardless of their body and gender.
First Impressions and Features
Unboxing
The Lovehoney packaging isn’t luxurious but it is more than adequate. It comes in a cardboard box—not the sturdiest kind, but it does the job. Once I opened the box, I found the harness and a dildo, along with two additional O-rings (image below). Nothing else was provided, but that kept the price affordable. The package is sufficient but not overly giftable.
Features
The Lovehoney Strap-On has handy features, including:
- Straps that adjust between 28-65”
- Curved dildo targets G spots and P spots
- Three interchangeable O-rings, so you can use the harness with your favorite dildos
- The harness has a pocket for a bullet vibrator (but the kit does not provide the bullet vibe)
Specifications
Lovehoney Strap-On specifications at a glance:
- Material: Silicone dildo and nylon harness (with a neoprene front)
- Size: Dildo: 7” long, 6” insertable, 4.75” circumference; harness length adjusts between 28-65”
- Color: Purple dildo, black harness
- Mechanism: Strap-on kit with harness and dildo for penetration
- Weight: 9.75 ounces
How To Use Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On?
Using the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On is easy, but pegging is a little bit difficult until you get a feel for it, especially if you’re someone with a vulva.
- To begin, step into the harness, and tighten the straps until they fit snugly yet comfortably.
- Once your partner is ready for penetration, use your hand to guide the dildo the first time.
- Then, try different thrusting rhythms and depths and ask your partner what they like.
You can read more on how to use a strap-on for pegging in this guide. We also have a comprehensive guide about the best pegging positions for beginners.
My Personal Experience
There’s almost nothing I love more than a sex toy that works for every body, and the Lovehoney Strap-On is precisely that. Everyone has an anus; just about anyone could wear this kit for fun. It’s perfect for lesbians, trans, or nonbinary people who want to incorporate penetration, gay couples who want to try pegging, or anyone with erectile unpredictability or ED. It’s a versatile and inclusive toy, my favorite kind of sex aid. I was excited to try this version and see what I thought.
I’ve been using strap-on kits for years, since well before I became a sex toy tester. Pegging is fun! It’s a unique activity that helps turn the tables on routine penetration in a straight relationship and gives both parties a better feel for what the other person feels during sex. But it’s essential to be able to laugh at yourselves during sex. There are ample opportunities for things to go “wrong,” so it’s best when you’re with someone who doesn’t take sex too seriously. It’s also a good idea to adjust the straps before you begin so you don’t have to spend several minutes getting everything fine-tuned.
The biggest pitfall, for me, has been getting the right angle and rhythm so that the dildo stays in. Since I don’t have any sensation in the dildo, it can be hard to tell when something gets into a weird position or slips out of place.
One of the things I love about this strap-on is that you can adjust the size of the thighs and waist to get a tight, custom fit, minimizing the times the dildo comes out.
Pro Tip: you have to find the sweet spot between precision and comfort. The tighter the strap-on fits, the quicker it will chafe. But the looser it is, the less accuracy you have and the more it will fall out. In the image below, I demonstrate how easily you can adjust the straps.
If the straps are too long and the dangling bothers you, feel free to cut them to fit for a more tailored look and feel. If you need a looser fit, be prepared to guide the dildo with your hands most of the time. Or, hear me out, you could also wear pants. It’s comfortable, and you can go for hours without chafing with total accuracy. With a few tweaks, these straps are shockingly comfortable!
My last tip is that if the pocket deadens the feeling of the vibration too much for the harness-wearer, try a panty vibe (while wearing underwear) instead. The buffer will be thinner, so you’ll feel the sensations more clearly.
Packaging
The packaging is minimal (image below), but that’s what you want with a toy like this—that’s how it stays in the budget category. Inside the cardboard box are the harness, the dildo, and two differently sized O-rings. That’s it! But that’s all you need, aside from some water-based lube.
Design
The design of this harness kit is excellent. It looks sturdy and well-made and feels natural once fitted correctly. There are plenty of harnesses for larger people, and smaller people could trim the straps to remove the extra length if desired. The ability to resize it makes this more inclusive, so I’m a fan of it.
Material
The material quality is excellent. My only qualm is that it could be softer, which might help prevent chafing.
Dimensions
The length of the harness straps is big enough to easily fit plus-size people, something that most strap-ons can’t say. Love that!
Ease Of Use
Strap-on sex isn’t necessarily the most straightforward activity, but this product makes it a lot simpler. It’s easy to use, considering it will take a little getting used to, especially if this is your first time. Since this kit doesn’t have a vibrator, there are no buttons or remotes to learn. Wearing the strap-on is intuitive.
Versatility
Well-made strap-on harness kits are perfect for nearly anyone, and this one is well-made. The non-phallic dildo will appeal to people of all different types of sexualities.
This harness kit is perfect for nearly anyone except those with reduced pelvic mobility. If you have reduced pelvic mobility, you’ll have more fun with a thigh strap-on. Also, if you need a lot of vibration to get off, you might find the sensation of a bullet vibrator muted by the harness, so you may not get to have simultaneous orgasms with your partner.
Because of the three O-rings (circled in the image above), you can use a lot of different-sized dildos with this pegging harness. Remember that any dildo you use must have a flared base, or it won’t stay put.
Warranty and Support
You can return an item within 60 days of purchase to Lovehoney, and you don’t even have to pay shipping! If you’ve tried the toy and decided you don’t like it, they will give you a refund up to 100 days post-purchase. This warranty isn’t the best out there, but it’s still a decent option if you’re worried this isn’t the correct strap-on for you.
Minor Issues I Found During Testing
The straps are good quality and should last a long time, but they aren’t the most comfortable to wear, especially if you’re engaging in extended pegging. They can start to rub a little bit. Further, after a lot of motion, it can come a little bit loose, and you’ll have to readjust the straps to get a tighter fit.
If you want to see what the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:
Review Summary
After testing the Lovehoney strapon, I think it’s perfect for seasoned peggers on a budget. I loved the wider waist length, which should fit people of many different body sizes. Though the straps can rub on your skin after a while, this can be mitigated by loosening them or wearing something underneath it. Anyone with sensitive skin may want to get a boxer-style harness instead.
Pros
- Waterproof, washable, body-safe materials
- Great price: $44.99
- Harness length will fit larger bodies
- Pocket for vibrator
- Three different sizes of O-rings will be compatible with other dildos
- Smooth dildo, long enough for advanced prostate enthusiasts
- Sturdy straps made to last
Cons
- The straps can rub if you wear it for a long time
- The dildo begins to come loose after a while
Who Should Try It
If you have erectile unpredictability or ED, this is a great way to include penetration in your life again. Strap-ons are the perfect gender-affirming toy for trans-masc folks, too. Anyone who wants to penetrate their partner and doesn’t have a penis (or can’t use their penis) will find this a budget-friendly, quality strap-on with plenty to love.
Who Can Skip It
If you have a large penis, you might be more comfortable in a strap-on with a penis pouch, where your penis has a place to be, even if you have an erection. Folks with a wider waistline than 60” will want to find a larger harness and may be better served by the Lovehoney Beginner’s Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit.
Alternatives to the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On
Lovehoney Beginner’s Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
The most significant difference between these two kits is the size of the dildo: the Advanced has a 7” dildo, and the Beginner’s has a 5” dildo. The larger dildo is purple, while the smaller one is black. Further, the Beginner’s has a more extensive range for harness size, ranging from 18”-68”.
They both have a pocket for placing a vibrator inside and three different-sized O-rings so you can switch up the dildos. The price is the same, so it will come down to which size you are more comfortable with. If you’ve never pegged your partner before (and they haven’t been pegged before), this is unquestionably a more manageable size to begin with. You can read our Lovehoney Beginner’s Unisex Strap-On review here
Doc Johnson 9” Remote Control Strap-On
A 9” dildo isn’t for the faint of heart, but this strap-on kit gets extra points for being hollow so that the wearer can insert their penis if they have one. The harness vibrates and is operated by a remote control, adding extra pleasure and ease of use for the wearer. However, the waistband only expands to 48”, making this a poor choice for people with larger waists. You can grab yours for $149.99.
You can find more options in our main strap-on review guide. We also have an article specifically for lesbian strap-ons.
I am Sold! Where Can I Buy It?
Grab your harness kit with a 7” G spot dildo on the official Lovehoney website for $44.99.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How Does the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Work?
The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On is simple to wear. After you cut the tape off the straps:
- Adjust the leg holes until they fit your thigh.
- Adjust the waist hole as well.
- Insert the dildo into the O-ring, then step through the leg holes, tightening or loosening the straps as needed.
- Slip a bullet vibrator in the pocket if you wish, and then prepare your partner for insertion!
Related: 9 Best Strap-On Harnesses, Ranked by a Sex Educator!
How To Insert Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On?
How you insert the Lovehoney 7-inch strap-on depends on which kind of sex you’re having. If you’re doing any penetration, it’s crucial to keep lube on hand and turn your partner on before you begin, which can help them relax and make the process more comfortable. If your partner is new to pegging or penetration, start by inserting a well-lubed finger inside them. Once they’re comfortable with that, level up to two fingers. If they’re ready for more, use the dildo, but go slowly and check in with them often.
What Is the Best Lube for this toy?
The best lube to use is water-based. Since the dildo is made of silicone, you should steer clear of silicone lube which can damage the toy’s surface. Once the silicone surface is damaged, it can become porous and a breeding ground for bacteria. At that point, you can’t sanitize it, and it’s no longer body-safe! So, your lube choice is extra critical.
If you’re pegging your partner, you may be interested in a water-based lube specifically made for anal sex. Some types of water-based lube that are meant for anal sex are a bit thicker and last longer without reapplication. If you only have regular water-based lube, consider keeping a spray bottle full of water by your nightstand so you can spray the pegging dildo if it starts to get sticky rather than slick.
Is Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Waterproof?
Yes, it’s fully waterproof, perfect for underwater pegging and other fun sex sports.
How To Clean Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On?
The dildo is made from waterproof silicone, so it will be a cinch to wash. Use warm water and antibacterial soap, and then scrub after each use. There’s a small hole in the back of the dildo, so use a cotton swab or toothbrush to reach inside.
The harness is easy to clean as well. Throw it in the wash on a gentle cycle, and then allow it to line dry. Since the front of the harness is made of neoprene, you’ll want to be a bit more careful when washing this in the washing machine since it can sometimes get damaged. Don’t ever put it in the dryer. Use cool water and skip the detergent to keep the harness in the best shape. You can read more on strap-on cleaning in this guide.
What Sex Positions Work Best With A Strap-On?
The easiest way to peg someone is to have them on all fours, whether on the bed or the floor. However, if the height differential makes this awkward, have your partner lie on their stomach. Another great option is with them on their back, so that you can make eye contact. Lastly, the person wearing the harness could lay on their back, allowing the person getting pegged to ride them and giving them control over the speed and depth at which they get pegged.
If you’re a trans person using this kit, the best position is whatever is gender-affirming for you.
How To Store Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On?
One slight bummer about this kit is that it doesn’t come with a bag. You may want to keep the harness and dildo in a small makeup bag after washing so they stay clean between uses. If not, remember to wash before and after each use. You can read more on sex toy storage in this guide.
Is the Packaging Discreet?
Lovehoney packaging is quite discreet. Their toys come in a plain cardboard box; the sender is unmarked but has an address in Atlanta, GA. It’s impossible to tell what’s inside unless you’re a seasoned sex toy buyer!
Thanks for reading my Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On review!
Angela
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