7 Unique Sex Positions To Keep Things Fresh In The Bedroom

Featured imageThere may be a few sex positions on rotation that you and your partner go back to. You may even consider these your go-to positions because they work – it’s that plain and simple. And look, we’re not saying routine and predictability is a bad thing – but we are saying there is a world of unique sex positions to try. These sex positions welcome excitement, passion, and a wide range of sensations that can bring a renewed sense of thrill back to your sex life. If that sounds good to you, then carry on reading.

Pile Driver

If there’s one thing to highlight about being in the Pile Driver position: it’s that it offers deep penetration. The receiving partner is in a prime position to be getting the full length of your partner’s penis or strap-on. You’re also being penetrated at a downward angle, which gives you incredible sensations that can’t be done in any other position.

Pile Driver sex position

Meanwhile, the giving partner has all the leverage to go as deep and as hard as they can. They are in complete control over the depth and pressure of penetration, which makes this a unique sex position worth trying. It requires a bit of flexibility for the receiving partner and stamina for the penetrating partner.

How To Do It

  1. Start slow when getting into this position.
  2. Your receiving partner starts in a lying down position with their back on the ground.
  3. They bend their knees and rock back until their feet touch the ground. Their lower back should be off the floor.
  4. Next, your penetrating partner holds onto your hips and penetrates from there.
  5. They squat down and thrust at a downward angle, controlling the speed and depth of movement.

Wheel Barrow

Wheelbarrow brings out all the fun and lightness a sex position can be. Sex most certainly doesn’t always have to be serious and introducing a position like a wheelbarrow is a good way to keep things light and still pleasurable.

The wheelbarrow

In this position, one partner holds themselves up with their hands while the other partner holds their legs and provides stimulation. The receiver experiences stimulation in their G-spot or anus as well if you go for anal sex. This position provides you with a new feeling of receiving pleasure being elevated off the ground. And that’s a great thing to look for when trying out new sex positions.

How To Do It

  1. One partner gets down on their hands and knees.
  2. They extend their legs straight back coming into a plank position.
  3. Meanwhile, the other partner carries their ankles up and spreads their legs. They begin to move closer until they reach penetration.
  4. Your receiving partner can wrap their legs around your thighs to bring your bodies even closer.
  5. Your penetrating partner thrusts in and out of you repeatedly, choosing the level of intensity and depth of penetration.

Carry Me

One of the new sex positions that are waiting to be tried is Carry Me. It’s a straightforward sex position that offers plenty of excitement and build-up. It can fulfill any women’s fantasies about being carried that are constantly seen in movies or books.

Carry me position

Being in this position is as romantic as it can get, you’re in full-body contact with each other with one partner’s body wrapped around the other’s. There’s plenty of room for g spot stimulation being face to face with each other. And all it requires is a little upper body strength from the bottom partner. Click here for more standing sex positions.

How To Do It

  1. On the edge of the bed, the bottom partner stands up hip distance apart.
  2. Meanwhile, the top partner climbs on top of the bed. They go closer to the standing partner and wrap one leg around their waist.
  3. Then, they wrap both their arms around their partner’s neck.
  4. The standing partner holds onto their butt and lower body for support until they are fully carried.
  5. They penetrate from there, bouncing their partner’s body up and down for as long as you both can last in this position.

Cross Booty

One of the new sex positions you can try when you want to take things slow is cross booty. It’s a lying-down position that has your partner directly on top of you. It still offers plenty of variety by the way your bodies are angled differently, compared to the missionary style. This sex position is not only fun, but it also deserves a spot in being one of the funniest sex positions.

cross booty sex position

The top partner comes in diagonally – forming your bodies in the shape of an ‘X’.  This helps with g spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation. You have one of the best sex positions to try when you want minimal effort while still keeping things fresh and exciting.

How To Do It

  1. First, the receiving partner lies down and spreads their legs open.
  2. The penetrating partner goes on top and positions their body diagonally – with their head off to the side of yours.
  3. They enter from here and use their hips to thrust in and out.
  4. They can start to go slow and shallow first before going in deeper and quicker.
  5. Trying out new sex positions means you can experiment with plenty of different movements. Find the movements that feel most pleasurable for you and continue with them.

Pretzel

This sex position is an intimate way to make you feel more connected to your partner. Pretzel is almost similar to the missionary style, in that there are a lot of intimate factors such as eye contact, deep penetration, and full body embrace. Only there’s an added variety to how your legs are positioned. Nonetheless, a good option for couples who prefer erotic sexual positions.

 

Pretzel sex position

Your legs are intertwined, which allows open access for the giving partner – in return, the receiving partner is in a deeper stretch and has the mobility to synchronize with each thrust.

How To Do It

  1. The receiving partner lies down and bends their knee to one side. Their left side or right side will do – depending on where you feel most comfortable.
  2. They lift their top knee and keep it open.
  3. Next, your partner kneels and centers their body on your bottom leg. Both his knees are in between your legs.
  4. Wrap your top knee around your waist for support. Your partner can also use it to leverage with each thrust.
  5. Keep eye contact and try to arouse other each other’s erogenous zones to maximize this position.

Bridge

If you’re familiar with yoga or pilates, you’ll know the bridge position offers a lot of benefits to the body. When it comes to the bridge sex position – you’re taking all the benefits from the pose while receiving pleasure from your partner. It’s one of the best options to try when you want to bring new sex positions to your bedroom. It’s also great for oral sex.

bridge sex position

The Bridge is one of the most underrated sex positions on this list, you can check out more freaky sex positions by clicking here.

How To Do It

  1. First, the receiving partner lies flat on the ground. They bend their knees and keep their feet flat on the ground.
  2. They lift their hips towards the sky.
  3. There are plenty of modifications to the bridge pose. You can stay here in a simple bridge position or you can do a full bridge by stretching your arms out beside your ears and lifting your full body toward the sky.
  4. Choose whichever variation feels best for you.
  5. Meanwhile, your partner kneels in front of you. They grab your hips for support and begin penetrating in and out of you,
  6. They hold onto your body and use it to pull in and out of you for deep thrusts.

Spider

When you’re down to get a little freaky and weird, the spider sex position is the way to go. It’s an incredibly unique experience coming face to face with each other while sitting down. You don’t have to get into a complicated pose to be in the spider.

spider sex position

The number one benefit of being in Spider is hitting the g spot of your partner. You can easily use your free hands to stimulate your partner’s clitoris, adding to a more pleasurable sensation.

How To Do It

  1. Sit on the floor and face each other.
  2. You and your partner are both seated with your knees bent in front of you. Start to move closer together and alternate knees.
  3. You may choose to have both knees inside while your partners are outside – or vice versa.
  4. Stretch your arms out behind you to keep your back supported.
  5. When you’re both ready, your partner begins penetrating from there. Moving their hips in and out of your body.
  6. To sustain this pose until you reach orgasm, I recommend stretching your arms behind you and using them to leverage your body to move forward and back.

Wrapping Up

We talked about 7 new sex positions you and your partner can try to keep things fresh and alive in the bedroom. These are simple ways to add excitement and adventure to your sex life and break away from the positions you keep going back to.

And if exploring new sex positions opens up a world of pleasure for you, then that’s a win in itself.

Thanks for reading my guide to the best unique sex positions!

Rachel

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Rachel Sommer, Ph.D.
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