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Ready to spice up your sex life? One of the easiest ways to make things more exciting is by taking it out of the bedroom. Sitting sex positions are versatile and fit any mood, whether you’re feeling lazy and want effortless, sensual sex or daring and crave something wild. They are like a gift from the sex gods, designed to help you sustain a pose for longer, leading to more intense and passionate encounters.
In this article, we’ll explore the six best sitting sex positions to switch things up. From the intimate Wrapped Lotus to the thrilling Seated Wheelbarrow, we’ve got you covered. So sit back, relax, and get ready to experience a new level of pleasure while comfortably seated!
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Wrapped Lotus
The Wrapped Lotus is one of the most intimate and emotionally connecting sex positions you can try while sitting. Imagine wrapping your arms and legs around your partner, feeling every inch of their body pressed against yours. It’s a beautiful way to build a deep, emotional bond while enjoying the pleasures of physical intimacy.
It also offers plenty of clitoral stimulation for women, making this position a crowd favorite. You are face to face with your bodies intertwined. There’s room for eye gazing, dirty talk, touching each other’s body, and being in a warm embrace.
Add more ways to stimulate your clitoris by letting your partner finger you while riding them, or use a vibrator to do all the naughty work.
How To Do It:
- Your partner sits on the edge of your bed, couch, or a sturdy chair and gets in a cross-legged position.
- They can sit with wide open legs, but I recommend the cross-legged position for more support and comfort.
- Straddle your partner and sit close to them. Have your legs wrapped around your partner’s waist.
- Use your hand to guide his penis inside you and move your hips forward and backward.
- Bounce your hips up and down or move them in a circular motion for deeper penetration. Get into the rhythm and find what feels most pleasurable for you and your partner.
Seated Wheelbarrow
Next on my list is the Seated Wheelbarrow, which I describe as a wild ride. It involves more physical exertion in a sitting position but is still more doable than the standing wheelbarrow.
While it isn’t the most sustainable sex position to be in – it’s packed with pleasure and deep penetration, making it 100% worth performing.
Getting into the Seated Wheelbarrow is only half the fun this sex position brings. It’s an exotic and new way to hit your g spot or a spot. The window for anal sex is also right there if you want to try it, and your partner is at the perfect angle to bring you to orgasm.
Here’s how to get into it in 7 simple steps.
How To Do It:
- Your penetrating partner sits on a low surface like an ottoman chair or the couch.
- Get down on your hands and knees in front of him. Extend your arms and legs, similar to getting in a plank position.
- Lift your legs and place them on opposite sides of your partner’s body. Your inner thighs touch theirs, and your knees should rest on the couch.
- Inch back closer to your significant other’s body.
- He holds onto your hips and uses them for deep thrusting.
- Use your hands and shoulders to rock your body forward and back to move your body.
- Make sure to take breaks in between by going down on your forearms.
Lazy Man
It’s in the name itself; the lazy man is for days when you both feel tired but still want pleasure in bed. You can perform the lazy man anywhere and anytime. It’s perfect for limited mobility, and you can dictate how fast or slow you want to go.
The lazy man is a sweet, sensual, seated sex position for taking things slow. Plus, you can stay in this pose for as long as you want. It also gives room for passionate kissing, and you get plenty of arousal from g-spot stimulation.
How To Do It:
- Your partner sits upright with his legs stretched in front of him. Let him lean back on the headboard of your bed or the wall for back support.
- Simply sit down facing your partner’s lap. You are on his thighs and bend your knees on either side of his body.
- He can penetrate from there and perform a grinding movement over thrusting while in this sex position.
- Wrap your arms around him and use your lower legs to help move your body back and forth.
- Begin grinding faster to receive more pleasure. Stick with it until you reach orgasm.
Lap Dance
There’s nothing like a lap dance to turn up the heat in your love life. You can dive into this exciting and intimate position with just a chair anytime, anywhere. It’s the perfect way to spice things up and keep the passion alive!
The Lap Dance is perfect for nights when you feel like giving your partner a fiery treat. At the same time, you feel sexy while in this position! Introduce breast play, a vibrator, or fun costumes for roleplay to make the most of lap dance.
How To Do It:
- Let your partner sit down comfortably on a chair or couch.
- Begin with foreplay by doing a lap dance and giving your partner a show. Perform sexy dance moves to arouse him, or do a strip tease and slowly undress each piece of clothing.
- Caress your partner’s legs and run your hands down his thigh.
- Move your back closer to him, and sit on your partner. Face away from them as you sit on his lap.
- Using your hands, slide his penis inside you, slowly bouncing up and down.
- Your partner can use his hands to stimulate your breasts or clit for extra pleasure.
Cowgirl On a Chair
Cowgirl is a fan favorite among sitting sex positions for good reason. You can spice up the classic cowgirl by trying it on a chair or any low surface, adding a fun and exciting twist to an already thrilling position.
There’s also a higher chance of orgasm for the person receiving it, perfect control with movements, and men, you get the best view watching your partner do her thing on top.
Cowgirl on a chair is almost the same as the lap dance above, but you’re facing your partner instead of away from them. So here’s how to take a classic position and take your sex experience up a notch.
How To Do It:
- Your receiving partner sits on a comfortable chair and spreads their legs hip distance apart.
- Give oral sex for foreplay.
- When they’re aroused, face your partner and sit on their lap. Have your knees on either side of his legs.
- Use your hands to guide his penis inside and start sliding forward and back. Make this motion over, bouncing up and down to create more pleasure in this position.
- With your partner’s free hands, they can caress your breasts or run their hands all over your body. Introduce dirty talk or a bullet vibe to lead to a more intense orgasm.
Bowstring On a Chair
If it’s the first you hear about the Bowstring, you’re in for a treat. The origins of this sitting sex position come from the Kama Sutra Sanskrit, made specifically for female pleasure.
There’s intense penetration, plenty of eye contact, and attention to each thrust or movement. Bowstring also invites you to take the time to stimulate your g spot. It emphasizes whole-body touching to achieve sexual satisfaction.
How To Do It:
- The receiving partner is sitting in the chair. You may also do this on the floor and lean back on your couch or bed.
- Your giving partner kneels in front of you.
- They can adjust your body to sit closer to the edge of the chair.
- He lifts your knee while propping one knee up, almost in a proposal-like position.
- Your partner begins penetrating you while kneeling, and he uses his upper body to bend your knee closer to your body.
- Thrust deeper and deeper until you reach climax.
Conclusion
You don’t have to limit your sexual endeavors on the bed. You can easily satisfy your sex life on places like the couch, chair, or carpet on the floor while exploring new ways to give and receive pleasure. Who knows. Maybe seated sex becomes your favorite way to have sexual intercourse!
Try seated sex positions such as lotus, seated wheelbarrow, or lap dance to switch up your usual sex practices. Remember to make the most of it by introducing foreplay, external stimulation, and sex toys.
Share this sex position article with your partner to explore new pleasures together. Just remember to have fun with it and communicate your wants and needs.
Rachel
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