While the idea of making a DIY anal hook might have piqued your curiosity, there are many bum-tastic risks with building your own anal toys.
So if you’re in the mood for backdoor adventure, we strongly recommend buying a commercial product like the DOMINIX Deluxe Anal Hook instead, which is a steal at just $59.99. This was a unanimous decision from our testers so you know it’s REALLY good! But we get it, not everyone has sex toy stores where they live. So, for those in a pinch, we’ve got a few semi-safe suggestions below. Just remember, even these alternatives come with their own quirks, so tread carefully.
- When it comes to using household items for BDSM, safety should be your superhero cape. Especially in the backdoor department. That’s why we’re waving the flag for professionally tested and expertly crafted products. These gems not only keep you and your partner out of trouble but also elevate the entire experience to a level of pure, unadulterated pleasure.
- But not everyone can just stroll into a store and buy a commercial product. So, for those, we’ve listed a few semi-safe options below. Just remember, you’ve got to be cautious and stick to the instructions if you want to minimize any potential fireworks (and not the good kind).
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Why You Should Trust Us?
Rachel Sommer is our expert when it comes to knowing the ins and outs (pun intended) of BDSM and anal toys. (you can read her full review of the best anal toys here). Rachel teamed up with our other sexperts doing research and scouring online forums and comment sections. Their mission? To find the safest DIY projects and make sure you don’t end up in any sticky situations.
During her research for this article, Rachel found a guide from one Reddit user kinkengineer especially helpful, and they are included in the fold. She also received great input from the rest of the My Sex Toy Guide team, especially Sandra Larson and Shane Davis, to see how doable the idea was.
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What is a DIY Anal Hook?
A DIY anal hook is a homemade version of the popular anal toy, typically in a hook shape with a ball in one end and a loop in the other. The goal is to have the ball positioned in the submissive’s butt with a rope tied to the loop, applying pressure. You’ve also got the option to use your finger to steer it in different directions.
Note: The process of gathering materials and making a makeshift anal hook is extensive and complicated. Take our word for it when we say it’s better to buy a commercial product like the DOMINIX Medium (product above) instead. Its combination of excellent design, high-quality manufacturing, and ease of use is so mind-bogglingly pleasurable to play with. You can find the other anal hooks we tested in this article.
Is Making a Homemade Anal Hook Safe?
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but homemade anal hooks aren’t safe – think of them as trying to juggle flaming swords with a blindfold on, a recipe for potential disaster. You don’t want to be the one responsible for turning your shiny new toy into a twisted mess or creating a whole new episode of “ER: The Kinky Edition.” Remember, it’s all about respecting boundaries and keeping things cozy for your submissives – no one should ever feel like they’re starring in a sequel to “50 Shades of Uncomfortable.” Safety is the name of the game here. Full stop.
Some Semi-safe Ideas
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1. Version 1
Let’s start with a rather unconventional DIY project from a Reddit user known as Kinkengineer. Now, before you give this one a shot, remember that safety and precision are paramount.
Kinkengineer’s guide takes you through the nitty-gritty, from prepping a steel ball to shaping an aluminum rod, all to deliver a unique and customized experience. So, whether you’re an enthusiastic DIYer or just feeling a tad adventurous, this Reddit user’s tutorial offers an intriguing glimpse into the world of crafting your pleasure tools (but we recommend just reading it, not actually making it).
Materials Needed:
- 1/4 Aluminum Rod
- 1.75″ Steel Ball
- 1/4-20 Threaded Nut Insert
- 1/4″ ID Clear Plastic Hose
- Bench Vise
- Bench Grinder with a wire wheel
- Hammer
- Vise-Grip Pliers
- Metal File
- Drill Press
- 1/4-20 Thread Die with Wrench
- WD-40 (Thread cutting lubricant)
- Hacksaw
- Sandpaper
- Steel wool
- Loctite Medium Strength
- JB QuikWeld (epoxy adhesive)
Step-by-Step Guide:
1. Start by preparing the steel ball: Drill a hole in the ball instead of cutting threads into it. Use steel epoxy to insert a threaded nut into the hole.
2. Prepare the aluminum rod: Create about an inch of 1/4-20 threads on one end of the rod. Cut off any excess threads that won’t be needed.
3. Shape the aluminum rod: Bend the rod using a combination of a bench vise, vise grip pliers, and a ball peen hammer. Utilize the edge of the bench vise as an improvised anvil to refine the bends. Use a bench grinder with a wire wheel to smooth out the rod’s surface.
Pro tip: To protect the fresh threads, thread a handful of nuts onto them before using the hammer.
4. Assemble the anal hook: Attach the steel ball with the threaded nut insert to the curved end of the aluminum rod. Slide a length of clear plastic hose over the entire rod to enhance cleanliness and increase the rod’s diameter. Apply medium-strength Loctite to the threads for added security.
Source: Reddit
Note: The DIY version you just read looks very similar to the Trailer Hitch (product above). So if you want to skip all the trouble, I’ll let you know that this bad boy has solid steel anal hook and cock ring, more than one ball size, and the benefit of two well-designed sex toys in one. If that didn’t impress you, I don’t know what will.
2. Anal Plug with Rope
Some butt plugs have a loop, making them a decent alternative. Unfortunately, this is hard to replicate with a homemade butt plug, if you want this to work, you have to get yourself a proper butt plug.
Before you go buy your butt plug we need to set some ground rules first. You want a butt plug designed for the job, and by that, we mean a flared base and body-safe materials (stainless steel, glass, or silicone only). We highly stress you give importance to these features. But a pro tip: knot-tying skills are your secret weapon here, and don’t skimp on the rope – unless you’re training for a circus act!
Pro tip: Our suggestion is to go for the njoy Pure Plug. The finger loop at the end made this easier to insert than butt plugs that simply have a flat, flared base because it gives you something to hang onto. This also makes pulling it out a cinch.
Not Safe at All Ideas
Next, let’s talk about some absolutely no-go ideas for your DIY adventure – consider these two ideas the “don’t even think about it” list:
Using a coat hanger: First up, using a coat hanger – seriously, folks, that’s like trying to build a rocket ship out of chewing gum wrappers. Coat hangers and wires are about as far from the anal-play Hall of Fame as you can get. They’ve got sharp edges that will 100% cause lacerations in your anal cavity turning your nice butt play into a oneway ER visit. Also, good luck trying to control the whole thing without a proper handle. If you’ve spent a good amount of time with anal toys, you’ll know the importance of having a proper handle for smooth and easy insertion.
Using wood or plastic: And then there’s the grand idea of using wood or plastic. DIY hooks made from these materials are like using a paper umbrella in a hurricane. Wood might splinter or snap, leading to a whole lot of oh-nos. Plus, these materials are like sponges for bacteria, making them a germ’s paradise and a nightmare for hygiene. So, steer clear of these less-than-ideal materials.
How to Use Homemade Anal Hooks?
- Using homemade anal hooks can be enjoyable, but it’s essential to prioritize safety. Start by ensuring your DIY anal hook is made from body-safe materials like stainless steel and doesn’t have any sharp edges that could cause harm.
- Before you dive in, prepare yourself as you would for a spa day. Ensure both you and the toy are clean, and don’t skimp on the lube – it’s your best friend in this adventure.
- Take it slow and gradual, like easing into a snug pair of shoes. Listen to your body and respect its pace. Once your DIY anal hook is in place, experiment with different positions to find what works best for you.
- Explore the sensations and discover what pleases you. And remember, communication is key, whether you’re flying solo or with a partner. Discuss comfort, concerns, and preferences to ensure a positive experience.
- When it’s time to wrap things up, removing it should be done patiently and gently. No need to rush; think of it like unscrewing a stubborn jar lid. With these steps, you can enjoy your anal adventure safely and sensibly.
If you’re a complete beginner, this can all be overwhelming for you. You’d benefit from reading our complete guide on how to use anal toys to give you a solid grasp on some of the dos and don’ts that aren’t mentioned in this article.
Why is it Better to Buy Commercial Products?
Cleaning and maintenance
Let’s talk about keeping things squeaky clean, shall we? Homemade anal hooks might seem like easy hacks, but when it comes to cleanliness and ease of storage for future use, they’re about as convenient as trying to fold a fitted sheet neatly. You see, these DIY creations often involve materials that are more suited for one-night wonders, not for a lasting relationship.
So, here’s the deal – we strongly advocate for genuine anal hooks, the ones designed with your safety, pleasure, and ease of upkeep in mind. Sure, homemade might have that rustic charm, but let’s face it, the potential mess and limitations are like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. So, do yourself a favor and go for the real deal.
Comfort
Due to the delicate nature of the human anus, your back door deserves the VIP treatment, and we’re not talking about tossing any old thing in there. We’re talking about anal hooks that are top-notch, like the Bentley of booty accessories. You wouldn’t trust your fancy sports car to a backyard mechanic, right?
Well, the same goes for your precious posterior. Trust the pros, those BDSM companies like Stockroom that know their way around crafting the finest anal hooks. Why, you ask? Because your buttocks are like a delicate flower, and you don’t want to turn it into a cactus garden by using subpar gear. So, save yourself from a pain-in-the-butt situation and go for the real deal.
If you want to lean on the side of comfort, getting the best beginner product would be perfect for you. The DOMINIX Small has everything that made the Medium model so fun but just the right amount of smaller. Its length is five inches rather than the Medium’s six, and its ball is a little shy of one and a quarter inches in diameter, which is perfect for newbies.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What are other homemade anal toys?
Apart from homemade anal hooks, there are various DIY anal toys people can. For instance, people sometimes repurpose household items like a hairbrush handle or a cucumber to serve as a makeshift anal dildo. You can read the full instructions on how to do it in our full anal dildo guide here.
How can I safely and effectively use an anal hook?
The key to ensuring safe and effective use of the anal hook is using the right lube. The anus, unlike the vagina, does not naturally produce enough lubrication to facilitate comfortable and safe penetration play. To ensure a pleasurable and safe experience, it is important to use an ample amount of lubricant specifically formulated for anal play.
Using lubricants not intended for anal use can lead to the anus absorbing more lubricant than can be externally applied. This can result in potential issues such as irritation, abrasions, tearing, or other complications. So whether you are using DIY anal hooks or other anal toys made from household objects like DIY prostate massagers and homemade anal vibrators, you know what to do.
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