Bigger doesn’t always mean better, and it’s especially true for lipstick vibrators. These vibrators get their name from looking remarkably similar to a tube of lipstick, making them perfect for anyone who values discretion or is looking for a travel-sized vibe.
Are you wondering how to use a lipstick vibrator to spice up your sex life, either solo or with a partner? Then you’ve come to the right place.
Table Of Contents
- Lipstick vibrators are perfect for beginners, and their discreet design and small size make them an excellent option for anyone who values their privacy.
- When you buy a lipstick vibrator, pay attention to the type, material, settings, size, and sound level.
- If you’re new to lipstick vibes, starting slow is essential. You should also learn how the control works, and don’t forget to explore other erogenous zones on your body.
What Is A Lipstick Vibrator?
Lipstick vibrators are similar to bullet vibrators in that they have a small, compact design that packs a big punch.
The main selling feature for those who prefer a lipstick vibe to a bullet is the level of discretion they’re created to offer since some models are unmistakenly similar to a tube of lipstick and small enough to fit in a small handbag.
Most of them also offer a whisper setting and a travel lock, allowing you to bring them, and use them just about anywhere you want.
How Does A Lipstick Vibrator Work?
Vibrators of all kinds are used to increase blood flow to a particular part of the body, thus increasing the level of sensation and pleasure you can experience during sex.
Lipstick vibes offer one of the most simplistic designs that you can find in a vibrating sex toy.
They are small enough to fit in the palm of your hand easily, and, unlike many similar toys, have an angled tip that allows for an unmatched level of precision during your playtime.
These toys are generally too small to be used for any internal vaginal penetration. They could lead to a trip to the hospital if you try to use them for penetrative anal play, but they are perfect for exploring your labia and clitoris to get to know these extra-sensitive spots better.
Do They Feel Good?
In short, yes, lipstick vibrators feel very good.
Regarding vibrators and sex toys as a whole, most people have a type that they find perfectly matches their personal preference and provides stimulation in all the right places.
But with that being said, even if lipstick vibes aren’t your favorite, their buzzing sensation, including the various speeds and patterns they offer, is something that almost everyone can enjoy.
Who Are They For?
Lipstick vibrators are for anyone who enjoys a small, discreet vibe. Whether you are living with roommates, have nosy parents, or generally value your privacy, they are designed to be easily hidden in a purse or makeup bag. Most also offer a travel lock, making them easy companions for long-distance trips.
What To Think About When Buying A Product
Although lipstick vibrators don’t offer much variety, there are a few key features for you to look out for when deciding on a new toy.
The Type
Their design is intended to be basic, with the most noticeable difference being the degree to which they resemble an actual tube of lipstick.
We are especially fond of Lovense Exomoon, which looks very close to a real lipstick. Hot Octopuss Amo is another model our testers loved.
Material
Some of the bases of these vibrators are made out of harder materials like aluminum or hard plastic, while the rest are made solely of silicone.
Regardless of the base material, the tips of all high-quality lipstick vibrators are made of silicone, a non-porous plastic that doesn’t harbor bacteria and feels soft on the skin.
You can read more about the materials here.
Settings
Since products were created to be simple in design and function, they don’t offer a wide variety of settings.
The setting options you’ll find on lipstick vibrators are:
- 10+ speed options
- Alternating vibration patterns
- Travel lock
- ‘Whisper mode’
The cheaper versions of this style of vibrator offer only a single speed and include none of the extra features mentioned above.
Newer and luxury models, like Lovense Exomoon, have app control, allowing couples in long-distance relationships the possibility of intimacy.
Size
Lipstick vibes are the literal size of a tube of lipstick. They were created to be discreet and can easily fit into a makeup bag or small purse.
So when shopping around, look for products that fit your specific usage scenario. For example, Lelo Mia 2 is compact and suitable for bringing along when you travel.
Design
Lipstick vibrators are all sized to fit easily into the palm of your hand. They also feature an angled tip that allows you to pinpoint pleasurable locations on your body.
One model with an angled tip we love is We-Vibe Tango X. It’s also the strongest lipstick vibe, in case you’re looking for a lot of power. You can read more about We-Vibe tango X here.
Sound Level
How much noise a particular vibe makes is hard to gauge beforehand, though due to the discretionary nature of these vibrators, they usually land on the quieter side of the scale.
That being said, if noise is a concern of yours, you might want to pick up a toy with a built-in ‘whisper mode’ for added discretion.
Budget
Anyone shopping on a budget can find a simple product for as little as $16.99, for example, Lovehoney Oh! Kiss Me.
If you don’t mind paying extra or are looking for additional features, your toy might run you as high as $100, but you get a model packed with high-tech features, like Lovehoney Exomoon.
You can read more about lipstick vibrators here.
How To Use A Lipstick Vibrator?
1. Wash It First
The initial wash is the most important step before using any new sex toy.
Before using your vibrator, you always want to wash it thoroughly with mild, unscented soap and warm water to remove any particles that might irritate your more sensitive bits.
2. Make Sure It’s Fully Charged
Few things are more disappointing than feeling your toy slowly run out of juice while using it.
If your vibrator uses a USB charger, it’s a good idea to get into the habit of plugging it in after use. For battery-operated vibrators, make sure you always have an extra AAA on hand to avoid having to steal them from your TV remote.
3. Learn How The Controls Work
An easy way to do this is by simply reading the manual. Otherwise, learning on the job should also do the trick.
4. Start Slow
Foreplay is an important part of your sexual experience with a partner; the same can be said for solo sessions.
Instead of popping your vibrator on its highest setting and rushing your way to an orgasm, light some candles, create a comfortable space for you to unwind, and put your device on its slowest setting to start.
You always have the option to increase the intensity as you feel ready.
Pro Tip: Some vagina owners like to use lube with lipstick vibes, while others don’t experiment with what works best for you.
5. Find Your Extra-Sensitive Spots
The angled tip design of lipstick vibrators provides very specific stimulation to a particular part of the body.
Take time to slowly explore the nooks and crannies around your clitoris and labia until you find the places that make you tick.
6. Experiment With Different Erogenous Zones
There are 30+ erogenous zones in the body, the majority of which you probably don’t even know exist, and therefore aren’t using to infuse more pleasure into your sex life.
Explore teasing yourself with your vibrator on your inner wrist, the nape of your neck, nipples, and even in between your thighs to include your whole body in your sexual experience.
You might even bring yourself to an unexpected orgasm.
7. Pause Or Stop If You Feel Uncomfortable
Sex, whether solo or with a partner, is supposed to feel pleasurable, not painful. If at any point during your play you experience pain or discomfort of any kind, make sure to stop.
Either pick up where you left off another time while using a more simple vibe pattern and slower speed. If the pain continues, consider discontinuing its use and speaking to a healthcare professional.
How To Use Them With A Partner?
Their size makes them unfit for penetrative anal or vaginal sex, but that doesn’t mean that you don’t still have a variety of ways to use them with your partner.
During foreplay, you or your partner can tease the different erogenous zones to get your blood flowing and increase the level of sensation you experience in this part of the body.
In addition, your partner can also press them against your clitoris during penetrative or oral sex for added sensation.
The size and simplicity of these vibrators also make them a great starting vibrator to introduce sex toy play into your relationship.
Aftercare and Maintenance
Washing your vibrator after sex is vital to keep it free of bacteria that could eventually lead to a yeast infection or a run-in with BV.
Use warm water and mild soap to wash your toy thoroughly. Either allow it to air dry, or use a towel that won’t leave behind any particulars to dry it completely.
Most lipstick vibrators come with a small ‘lipstick tube’ that you’re able to store it in. If yours doesn’t, keep your toy safe in a dye-free bag, a small box, or even your bedside table.
Bottom Line
Lipstick vibrators are best described as ‘small but mighty.’ Don’t let their small size and simple design fool you into thinking they don’t have what it takes the get the job done.
If you’re looking for a starter vibrator or something that can be travel locked, popped into your carry-on, and that won’t get you stopped going through airport security, this one is definitely for you.
Thanks for reading my guide on how to use a vibrator lipstick.
Rachel
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