7 Best Gender-Neutral Sex Toys [Video Demonstration]

In a world where most sex toy manufacturers focus on straight users when designing products, celebrating those who pay attention to diversity is essential. When you buy a gender-neutral toy, we recommend choosing versatile and inclusive designs. Picking models you can use on different body parts and across multiple types of play makes them great value for money, regardless of your gender or motivation.

The Magic Wand Plus is the Queen of gender-neutral sex toys, thanks to the versatile and non-intimidating design that makes it ideal for anyone, regardless of gender or anatomy. Its simple and sleek build complements the neutral color scheme, making it suitable for different users. The wand’s adaptability to various uses means you can use it for muscle massage and intimate pleasure. Furthermore, the powerful motor with multiple vibration and speed intensities appeals to external stimulation fans with various preferences and experience levels.

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Why You Should Trust Us

Rachel Sommer has always ensured that our content creation team consistently produces informative and up-to-date articles and guides for nearly a decade. Her long-standing experience makes her a pacesetter and leader among the sex experts at My Sex Toy Guide. The clinical sexologist brings together experts from different disciplines, including researchers, technologists, and writers, to ensure our readers always have something to read on sexual health and wellness.

For this article, Rachel interviewed sex toy enthusiasts from different genders to learn what they consider the most important feature when buying a sex product. She also got opinion leaders’ thoughts and researched the topic heavily, aiming to identify and fill all the information gaps.

 

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How We Picked the Products

After we decided to explore unisex sex toys, I gathered the sex experts. I distributed questionnaires, aiming to get raw feedback on their experience with traditional sexual wellness products and things they’ve always wanted to change in specific toys. Then I handpicked more than two dozen review samples from the responses and evenly distributed them for self-testing. I also highlighted the unique sex toy features that would guide the exercise. These included the following:

• Design. As stressed before, the testing exercise aimed to identify products that avoid traditional marketing and gender conformities. For this reason, I urged the team to prioritize those with versatile bodies that offered endless possibilities regardless of gender, anatomy, and sexual orientation. In addition, we focused on the names that simplified handling and made the experience blissful for different users.
• Stimulation. Picking models that offer multiple sensations was essential throughout the testing session. People have different pleasure needs, and providing numerous options to choose from meant everyone’s needs were met. For this reason, our testers brought various toys, including clit stimulators, masturbators, and wad vibrators with varying power.
• Build Quality. The choice of materials and the quality of artistry were two essential considerations we made. The team prioritized modes that paid attention to hygiene and the user experience. For instance, non-gendered sex toys made from silicone and other non-porous materials were favored because they are safer and easier to maintain. We avoided materials like rubber and jelly like a plague because user safety and longevity are more important than the price.
• Versatility. As always, sex toys with more possibilities got extra points. After all, the goal was to strike one piece that could achieve more than one thing. For instance, a G-spot stimulator that also doubles as an anal toy and nipple ticker was more likely to end up at the #1 position than a one-dimensional pick. Whether playing solo or with a partner, you can be sure our top picks will provide the best possible results.
• Unique Features. Although most of these come at a price, we prioritized products with unique features like remote and mobile app control. Others included a waterproof design and dual stimulation.
• Ease of Use: Something else we paid attention to was the risk-to-reward ratio. And while nothing good comes easy, self-pleasuring doesn’t have to feel like a task. For this reason, we ensured the top picks had features like an ergonomic design or intuitive interface to ensure you spend as little time as possible on the technicalities.
• Price. Pricing was another essential consideration we made to ensure everyone, regardless of their budget, had something to look forward to. We even reviewed the $79.2 Dame Pom for budget seekers. In addition, other names, like the Lovehoney Curved dildo, were slightly over $20, making them ideal for newbies after a budget-friendly option.

The team returned with the reports after the self-testing exercise. My colleague Sandra Larson and I analyzed everything, including external reports and other research materials, to make an informed decision. Ultimately, we picked the best gender-neutral sex toys, using the particular features. For instance, Design, Stimulation, Build Quality, and Versatility got 20%, adding to the total tally. On the other hand, Unique Features, Ease of Use, and Pricing shared the remaining 20%, with the highest performers getting the top picks.

 

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1. Magic Wand Plus: Our Overall Test Winner!

Why we love Magic Wand Plus:

We loved many things about the Magic Wand Plus, but its timeless design was our favorite. Although many reviewers have faulted the brand for not making many changes to the design over the years, the simplistic and straight-to-the-point look makes it ideal for different users. Regardless of gender identity, the sleek and extended handle significantly simplifies the user experience, while the flexible knobby head ensures you channel the vibrations where you need them the most.

The new look includes a cordless design with a removable cable. The designer also added a way to clip the cord (image below) so it doesn’t slip out. This way, Magic Wand mitigated the persistent issue where users reported the cord getting in the way.

Like the Original Magic Wand, the upgraded model boasted a powerful motor with an extra 300 RPM, making it more robust than its predecessor. At a speed of 6300 RPM, few vibrators come close to the wand vibe. Other commendable improvements include the non-porous head (the Original has a porous option) and the extra pleasure settings from two to four.

Even at the lowest setting, the model felt hardy, and you couldn’t help but enjoy the sensations. “It’s the most robust clit vibrator in my collection. I’ve used mine for a few months, and its rumbly motor coupled with four vibration modes offer an exciting range of sensations to explore,” Rachel Sommer wrote in her test report.

Besides the powerful motor and extended range of sensations (4), our testers highlighted how much they loved the rumbly vibrations. “I prefer rumbly sensations over the buzzy ones because I find them more impactful,” our product test lead Sandra Larson wrote in her test report. “The latter tends to be uncomfortable on my overly sensitive clitoris, making the experience not as enjoyable as I’d want.”

The device’s excellent build quality was another highlight of the review. Although the Magic Wand started as a massage gun, the new rebranding and clear intentions have seen the brand use sturdy and long-lasting materials. We were a bit concerned about the bendable neck, but it felt stable enough, and after numerous sessions, we were confident it would last. Everything from the impressive attention to detail to the quality of artistry makes the unit stable and ideal for long-term use. In addition, the switch from Vinyl to silicone made the model more hygienic and easy to clean.

Lastly, the wand was reasonably easy to manipulate for maximum satisfaction. Its extended handle and easy-to-find buttons (image above) improve the user experience. We especially loved the 3-button layout because it made it easy to cycle through the four patterns, increasing and decreasing the intensity with the press of a button.

Note: The product might not be ideal for people living in shared spaces. It’s comparatively loud, clocking 48 – 67 decibels when we tested it. You must devise a way to mask the sound – whether you want to use a comforter or music, there’s something for everyone. You can find more wand vibrators in this extensive guide.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Budget seekers will find the $120 price tag to be too steep. We firmly believe it’s worth it, but affordability is relative.

Unfortunately, the product is like the Original; it’s plug-and-play. Although the brand offered a way to tuck in the cable to avoid getting in the way, adding a rechargeable battery would have been better because it’d have meant more freedom and not being tethered to the wall.

Why Magic Wand Plus is the best gender-neutral sex toy:

• Ease of Use: The Wand Plus’ ease of use was the primary motivation for picking it as our test winner. From the extended handle to the simplistic 3-button interface and reasonably slimline shape, anyone can make the most of the experience. In addition, we loved the flexible neck and squishy silicone head because it made it easy to strike different spots on the clitoris, translating to intense orgasms.
• Stimulations: The testers also thought the robust motor made it ideal for different people. Regardless of the gender or experience level, the 6,300 RPM top speed is no match to the regular vibrators. It even surpasses the mighty Original Magic Wand with a healthy 300 RPM. The redesigned model also has four pleasure modes compared to its predecessor’s two, offering more possibilities. More importantly, the more flexible neck makes it easy to channel the vibrations to specific spots on the vulva, making the experience more exciting.
• Build Quality: Since Magic Wand started producing these clit stimulators under the guise of body massagers, they’ve maintained high-quality standards. However, the porous vinyl material has always been a concern, and the brand’s redesign to a non-porous silicone head couldn’t have come at a better time. It significantly simplifies maintenance and opens the world to new possibilities without you worrying about bacterial replication.

If you want to see what Magic Wand Plus looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our full Magic Wand Plus review here.

Features:

• Material: Silicone, ABS Plastic
• Size: 13″ x 2.4″

Pros:

• Comparatively easy to use.
• A robust motor with a 6,300 RPM top speed.
• Impressive build quality.
• Multiple vibration modes.
• Squishy and easy-to-clean silicone head.
• Foolproof 3-button interface.

Cons:

• No rechargeable battery.
• It’s a bit expensive – $120.

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2. Dame Pom: Our Budget Pick!

Why we love Dame Pom:

Dame Pom is our top pick for budget seekers looking for a versatile vibrator for solo play and coupled sex. The cute toy only costs $79.2, a comparatively low number for the high-performance model. Most of the review samples in the category cost well over $100, making Dame Pom stand out.

Although it was the most affordable pick in the article, the product boasts a flexible design and soft finish that makes it exciting to use for extended sessions. Whether you’re playing solo or with a loved one, the compact size and cozy body make it easy to use on the vulva, especially during partnered sex. “My fiance and I use it regularly, making the most of the vibrations during sex,” says Rachel Sommer. “We pair it with regular dildos and strapons, and its incredible steadiness means we can enjoy a hands-free experience.”

The team found the design pretty much foolproof. Initially, they were unsure about how well it would hold during sex. Luckily, it became evident quickly how reliable Pom was even when we shifted between different sex positions. According to Sandra Larson, gravity-friendly positions like missionary and spooning were the best because you didn’t need much hand intervention to keep it in place.

Something else that made it stand out was the asymmetrical design. Unlike other models in the category, we found switching between broad and pinpoint sensations straightforward (You can see what it looks like from both sides above and below). Whether you want to target specific spots on the clitoris or go for a more expansive approach and cover more of the clitoris, it was perfect. The best part is you can use it on other erogenous zones, including the nipples, neck, inner thighs, and your partner’s balls.

We didn’t expect wand-style vibrations, but the product surprised the testers with its formidable motor. The team rated the sensations a bit buzzy, which can be problematic for people with extra sensitive skin. However, the power was commendable for the size, and an average user would enjoy the experience. The lower settings were charming because they balanced the excitement without causing numbness. “I loved how the designer matched the power with the soft pinpoint beak that made it easy to channel the buzz to specific spots on the vulva, ” Sandra Larson commented.

Note: The five intensities provide sufficient room for explorers. None of the modes was too overwhelming, and the well-measured switch in intensity and consistency made the experience exciting.

The build quality was rated as phenomenal. We thought the design brought together the perfect mix of silky silicone and a firm yet flexible structure that maintains its integrity even after extended periods of use. The material had a good balance between softness and firmness, ensuring a cozy yet reliable experience.

Using the model was also straightforward, thanks to the compact size and easy-to-push buttons. The button placement on the front and back can be problematic as holding the sex toy naturally means pressing both accidentally, and you might have to use it while on its side to avoid the scenario.

While the motor is not silent, as most reviewers online have claimed, the lower settings are quiet. Even when cranked to the maximum volume, the noticeable buzz is quiet compared to the other models we tested.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Dame Pom is one of the vibes that take twice as long to charge as it takes to run out. While an hour of use seems reasonable, it takes more than two hours to charge it fully.

Some users will find the buttons too easy to push. They seemed finicky initially, and we had to use the model on its side to avoid pressing both simultaneously because of the positioning of the front and back.

Why Dame Pom is our budget pick:

• Price: Dame Pom’s pricing places it among the most affordable picks. Budget seekers will love that the versatile pick only costs $79.2, a massive bargain for the sex toy. Everything from the asymmetrical design that lets you switch between pinpoint and broad stimulation to the buzzy motor with five intensities to explore makes it perfect. Most models we tested in the category cost over $100, making Dame Pom a rare find.
• Design: Something else that made it stand out was the impressive design. We loved that the frontal edge had a beak-like shape for precise stimulation, and the back was more expansive for broad sensations. Its flexible design and soft silicone finish enhance retention, so you can use the model for extended sessions without popping off. Whether you pair it with a dildo or your partner’s penis during sex, you’ll enjoy how well it holds onto the vulva during use. We tested multiple sex positions, but missionary and spooning were the best.
• Stimulations: The more experienced folks will have to look elsewhere. However, regular users will appreciate the buzzy motor because it offers a range of gentle yet satisfying sensations. The lower settings were charming because they offered low-level reverberations that even the more sensitive folks could enjoy. In addition, there are five intensity settings to explore, making it easy to build up to intense orgasms.

If you want to see what Dame Pom looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our comprehensive Dame Pom review in this article.

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Size: 3.25” x 2.2” x 1.2″

Pros:

• The most affordable vibe.
• Cozy and compact design.
• Multiple vibration speeds.
• It is ideal for solo play and partnered sex.
• Phenomenal build quality.
• It’s easy to operate.

Cons:

• The battery life could be better.
• It’s not ideal for experienced users.

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3. Lovense Hush 2: For Backdoor Fun!

Why we love Lovense Hush 2:

Lovense Hush 2’s simplistic design and tapered shape make it the perfect anal stimulation toy for everyone. Whether you have a prostate or not, the model works for every situation. The team loved how the graduating size from the beaked edge to the vast body and slim neck simplified penetration. “Of course, I used lots of lube, but the overall experience was one of a toy specially designed with the user experience in mind,” says Sandra Larson. “We tested the medium size, and the experience was seamless because of the compact size and graduating size.”

The well-thought-out dimensions also enhance the quality of sensations, allowing for a gradual stretching experience. Whether you’re playing solo or using the model to inspire a feeling of fullness during penetrative penis-in-vagina sex, it feels great.

Note: The product’s widening shape with a pointed edge and slim neck significantly enhance retention, so you can wear the toy as you carry on with your daily chores.

Something else that stood out about the anal toy was its versatility. For starters, the flared base enhances security to avoid unwanted visits to the ER. In addition, its availability in four sizes, XS (1″), S (1.5″), M (1.75″), and L (2.25″), means different users can enjoy the experience.

The vibrations are solid, and most people will enjoy the added rumbles. Tim Larson described it as a unique blend of sensations that inspire intense reverberations a few inches past the anal opening. It’s not long enough and well-designed for prostate stimulation, but the robust motor and extensive range of three intensity levels and four patterns make the experience worthwhile. You’ll enjoy switching between the sensations and the gradual build-up to intense orgasms.

Note: We found that pairing the anal play toy with other sensations and devices like strokers and penetrative sex made the experience more impactful. Unless you have a super sensitive anal lining, you’ll probably benefit from adding a layer of excitement to the experience.

The versatile butt plug can be used on other erogenous body parts, including the clitoris, nipples, neck, ear lobes, and your partner’s balls. We especially loved how the pointed edge made it easy to target specific spots on the clitoris.

Lastly, its compatibility with the Lovense Remote application makes it usable by different users regardless of gender identity (screenshots below). The smartphone app is the best in the sex industry because of its intuitive user interface and multiple customization options. You can even connect it with cam sites like Chaturbate and StripChat if you’re a cam model looking to make money.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The anal toy is more of a beginner toy, and the more experienced folks will find it too much during the first use. Even with the four sizes, it feels more of an introductory model for people seeking to explore backdoor fun.

Like other Lovense Remote-compatible models, the anal stimulation product is very reliant on the smartphone application. You must have a solid internet connection to enjoy half of the features.

Why Lovense Hush 2 is best for backdoor fun:

• Design: Among the many features that made Hush 2 stand out, the tapered design and well-thought-out dimensions were our favorites. Regardless of gender identity, it provides a balance for seamless insertion and a unique feeling of fullness. Its bulbous body and slimline neck enhance retention so you can carry on your daily chores unbothered. The best part is that there are four different sizes to choose from.
• Ease of Use: Lovense Hush 2’s solo button around the base makes it foolproof. In addition, its compatibility with the Lovense Remote app (the best sex toy application) opens your world to endless possibilities. Whether you’re playing solo or with a loved one, you can enjoy the bliss of anal vibrations. The simplified connectivity and multiple customization options make it ideal for close-range and long-distance relationships.
• Stimulations: While the anal toy wasn’t the most potent option in the article, we loved how well measured the progression between the three intensity levels and four patterns was. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced folk, the motor offers incredible satisfaction. In addition, the mobile application provided more ways to customize the experience, making it even more explosive.

If you want to see what Lovense Hush 2 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our comprehensive Lovense Hush 2 review here.

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Size: 4

Pros:

• Tapered design to simplify insertion.
• Convenient mobile application.
• A versatile shape for different users.
• Four different sizes.
• Three intensity levels and four patterns.
• Ideal for close-range and long-distance relationships.

Cons:

• You must have a stable internet connection to enjoy the features.
• It’s not ideal for prostate stimulation fans.

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4. Dame Fin: Most Ergonomic!

Why we love Dame Fin:

Dame Fin is the most ergonomic model we tested, outperforming others considerably. People from different genders will enjoy the enhanced handling from the inscribed finger grooves. The team was unsure whether the fingers would fit, but the doubts quickly faded once we found the silicone material squishy. “I have big fingers, and I was surprised at how easy it was to tuck them inside the grooves,” reads Rachel Sommer’s report. “The fact that it’s worn between two fingers means the fit isn’t an issue.”

The sex toy’s well-thought-out dimensions and lightweight body make it easy on the hands, and you won’t even notice that you’re holding a powerful vibrator. My partner and I have used ours for over three months, and the convenience is unimaginable. It doesn’t weigh down the fingers, and its squishy finish means there’s no pinching sensation even after extended use.

Notably, its asymmetrical body makes it easy to switch between pinpoint and broad sensations. The pointed edge was ideal for picking out hard-to-reach spots on the clitoris, while the more expansive backside covers the entire vulva. The best part is that the versatile build also means using it on other body parts, including the nipples and inner thighs. “I love using mine on my husband Tim’s balls, and he’s slowly growing fond of the experience,” Sandra Larson told me.

Pro Tip: We recommend trying different positions and angles with the toy. The compact and lightweight design means you can use the model for solo play and partnered sex.

Although it wasn’t the most powerful model, it did pack some punch. Some team members pointed out the buzzing sensations, but I didn’t find them problematic. I especially loved that there were three intensity settings to explore because the range added a layer of excitement. The well-measured progression from one vibration pattern to the next was breathtaking, making the model ideal for different users.

Dame Fin’s build quality was impressive. We have tested numerous Dame products, and the brand’s commitment to excellence is stellar. Everything from the material choice (silicone) to the high-quality artistry and attention to detail makes it stand out.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the product isn’t waterproof. We thought it was ironic that a sex toy named after a fish body part can’t be used underwater.

In addition, the provided charging cable felt finicky. It took a few tries to get it well positioned, and even now, getting it to work takes some precision.

Why Dame Fin is the most ergonomic model:

• Dame Fin’s design was the most ergonomic among the models we tested. We especially loved the inscribed finger grooves and the squishy silicone finish because they significantly simplified the user experience. In addition, the shape and positioning that allows you to squeeze it between fingers means everyone can use it. The product’s asymmetrical body means you can easily switch between pinpoint and broad clitoral sensations.
• Build Quality. Its phenomenal build quality includes well-thought-out dimensions and high-quality silicone material. Dame has consistently produced impressive pieces for solo play and partnered sex users, and Dame Fin was no exception. The exciting outlook and remarkable attention to detail are evident in the well-measured curves and grooves that make it easy to manipulate the angles for maximum satisfaction.
• Stimulations: The model’s buzzy sensations felt exquisite. Although some reviewers, especially those with sensitive skin, faulted the buzz, we found it satisfying. The best part is that multiple intensity settings exist to explore so you won’t be tied to a boring routine. More vibration modes would be helpful, but even with the three, we loved the gentle progression from one pattern to the other.

If you want to see what Dame Fin looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our complete Dame Fin review in this article.

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Diameter: 1″
• Length: 2.75″

Pros:

• The most ergonomic design.
• Phenomenal build quality.
• Multiple pleasure settings.
• Ideal travel buddy.
• Extended battery life.
• Easy to wear.

Cons:

• The model isn’t waterproof.
• It has a finicky charging cable.

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5. Lovehoney Curved: A Non-Phallic Dildo!

Why we love Lovehoney Curved:

Lovehoney Curved is the perfect choice for people who prefer non-anatomically correct sex toys. Most of the dildos are made to look like a penis, with a veiny shaft, realistic balls, and a well-defined head. However, this one seeks to be different. This way, everyone, regardless of gender identity, can enjoy the experience.

Its smooth, curved shaft significantly simplifies the experience, making penetration more effortless. In addition, the curved shaft makes striking the G-spot or P-spot straightforward. “I’ve used numerous dildos over the years, and very few make it as easy to target my sweet spots,” says Rachel Sommer. “The Lovehoney Curved is always within my arm’s reach whenever I play solo or with Jessica..”

Note: Although the suction cup base (image below) could be better, we loved that it offered a degree of versatility, allowing for a hands-free experience. It also doubled as a security feature, preventing unwanted travel during anal play.

While the dildo looks smaller on the eyes, we found it very resourceful during vaginal and anal penetration. The small hole at the bottom (closeup below) lets you add your favorite bullet vibrator to enjoy seamless vibrations. Of course, the vibrations don’t travel as far from the base, but the buzzy sensations felt immaculate.

Its 4-inch circumference and 6-inch insertable length make it ideal for different users, including beginners and intermediates. “There’s a unique balance between realism and intensity that makes the model fulfilling,” says Sandra Larson. “Tim and I incorporate sex toys in the bedroom, and the Lovehoney Curved has been a favorite because of the gentle yet fulfilling experience during double penetration.”

Note: The dildo’s comparatively tiny size also means anal play newbies can enjoy the fun more confidently.

Using the dildo was straightforward. The suction cup dildo lets you relax and straddle your way to the 7^th heaven while you use your hands to massage other body parts during solo play and partnered sex. “Hands-free masturbation offers more imagination and leaves plenty of opportunities to explore,” confirms Rachel Sommer.

Even without engaging the suction base, the dildo’s well-thought-out dimensions mean even people with smaller hands can grasp it towards the base without feeling overwhelmed. Its graduating size and tapered head also mean you’ll land on the prostate or G-spot with considerably less effort, making the overall experience more relaxed.

Lastly, the model is made from high-quality silicone material, giving it a cozy finish that feels great on the skin. The overall texture is flexible too, and even those with extra-sensitive skin will enjoy the experience.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The suction cup base was a significant concern because it wasn’t the strongest and couldn’t hold onto most surfaces.

In addition, if you insert a bullet vibrator into the small hole in the bottom, the suction won’t work because the end sticks out. This way, you can’t enjoy both simultaneously and must pick one over the other.

Why Lovehoney Curved is the best non-gendered dildo:

• Design: Lovehoney’s simplistic design makes it among the most liked options for people who prefer non-anatomically correct dildos. Everything from the overall smooth shaft to the curved shape and suction cup base makes it ideal for different users. Our testers loved how the shape simplified the user experience and made hitting the prostate and G-spot easy.
• Versatility: The model’s dynamism was impressive for the price range. Besides offering a range of opportunities for G-spot and prostate stimulation, the suction cup base also added a degree of freedom, leaving the hands free to focus on other body parts during self-pleasuring and partnered sex. In addition, the wide base also means you can comfortably explore anal play without worrying about unwanted travel.

If you want to see what Lovehoney Curved looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our review of the Lovehoney Curved dildo here.

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Insertable Length: 6″
• Circumference: 4″

Pros:

• Simplistic, non-phallic design.
• Impressive versatility.
• Flared base for anal sex.
• The curved design simplified the G-spot and prostate sensations.
• Convenient suction base.
• High-quality silicone material.

Cons:

• You can’t use the suction base and bullet vibe simultaneously.
• The suction cup base could be more assertive.

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6. Fleshlight Flight Pilot: Gender-Neutral Stroker!

Why we love Fleshlight Flight Pilot:

In a world where every stroker looks like a vagina or anal opening, the Fleshlight Pilot is a breath of fresh air. The non-descript opening looks more like a jet engine than a glory hole (you can see it above), with a series of swirls that will turn on anyone who prefers a non-vagina masturbator. Whether you’re gay, bisexual, or straight, the unique look will certainly get you excited.

Besides the hole, our testers loved the model’s fancy black case and more compact size, making it easier to handle than the regular Fleshlight sleeves. “I have used Fleshlight strokers for close to 10 years, and their massive size has always been a problem to my small hands,” says Shane Davis, one of our most experienced sex testers. “Fortunately, the brand gave us the more compact option that simplifies the experience and makes for the perfect travel buddy.”

Something else that stood out about the Fleshlight Pilot was the ergonomically designed case (image above). Our testers highlighted how the slim waist and wider edge make handling and control more manageable. Hopefully, the designer wanted a more aerodynamic piece with the jet fuel orifice. In addition, its slightly smaller dimensions simplify storage, so you won’t have to worry about where to tuck it in after use.

Besides the design, the team praised Fleshlight’s unique canal detailing, making every stroke feel special. Like other sleeves, multiple chambers after the jet engine-looking orifice work together to create a unique stroking experience.

The first chamber hugged the penis warmly with a mix of soft fangs and rounded bumps. The second was lined with long-stemmed bumps to tickle the tip and mid-shaft with a blend of pleasure and teasing fun. The last section had ribbed bumps with a gentle finish to provide mellow sensations to the tip as you thrust your penis in and out.

Surprisingly, you can feel all these textures during thrusting, which is unique. Most sleeves we tested had sections that outshone others, making it impossible to articulate the switch from long-stemmed bumps to rounded ribs.

The sensations were intense; all I could think of was Stoya Destroya. The feeling was comparable, and people who have used the Stamina Training Unit will find this unit more intense because of the variation in the size of the bumps and fangs inside the canal.

We found the user experience impressive because of the compact size. In addition, the open-ended sleeve made cleaning much easier because you could run water through the canal. The brand added a bottom cap at the bottom, letting users regulate the vacuum suction effect for a more realistic blowjob feeling. You can also tighten or loosen the cap to regulate the suction.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the Fleshlight’s small size means it’s incompatible with as many sleeves as the regular-size models.

In addition, the short sleeve can be limiting for the more endowed guys. If you have anything past 6″, you’ll not be able to fit your cock in full.

Why Fleshlight Flight Pilot is the best gender-neutral stroker:

• Design: Fleshlight Pilot exists in a world where almost all strokers are made to look like a vagina or anal opening. The orifice is designed to look more like a jet engine than what you usually see. Whether you’re gay, bisexual, or heterosexual, Fleshlight taking away the gender conformity design made the model stand out. Our testers also loved the more compact and well-thought-out dimensions because they simplified the user experience and made it ideal for travelers. Even folks who find the regular masturbators too wide to grip with a single hand will enjoy the bliss of the slim waist and wide edge.
• Stimulations: Besides the design, the team praised Fleshlight’s unique canal detailing, making every stroke feel special. Like other sleeves, multiple chambers past the jet engine-looking orifice work together to create a unique stroking experience. From the first chamber that hugs the penis warmly with soft fangs and bumps to the second that targets the tip and mid-shaft with long-stemmed bumps and the more mellow last section with gentle ribbed bumps, the stroking action is wholesome.
• Build Quality: Like other Fleshlight products, the Flight Pilot is made to perfection. The outer case is made from rugged ABS plastic, while the inner sleeve has a squishy finish from the patented Superskin. Cleaning the model is straightforward, thanks to the open-ended design, so you won’t have to worry about hectic aftercare.

If you want to see what Fleshlight Flight Pilot looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our full Fleshlight Flight Pilot review here.

Features:

• Material: Superskin
• Insertable Length: 6″

Pros:

• Unique gender-neutral look.
• Lightweight and aerodynamic design.
• Adjustable bottom cap for vacuum suction control.
• Relatively affordable – $54.99.
• Exciting sensations.
• Phenomenal build quality.

Cons:

• The sticky sleeve catches lots of hair.
• Its small size locks out the more endowed folks.

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7. njoy Pure Wand: Our Favorite Metal Toy!

Why we love njoy Pure Wand:

People who enjoy temperature play will appreciate everything about njoy Pure Wand. The metal dildo is made from high-quality stainless steel, which responds to ambient temperature so that you can warm or cool it before use for a unique experience.

The team also appreciated the banana-shaped body with bulbous configurations on either end which was ideal for different users. Regardless of gender or anatomy, the simplistic design and curved body make it easy to reach your sweet spots. We, however, discourage using it for penetrative anal sex because it doesn’t have a flared base to avoid unwanted travel. Other than that, the model is just about perfect for everything, including vaginal penetration and teasing fun.

Note: The metal material also added a weighty feeling that translated to more impactful sensations without necessarily being huge in size.

Something else that made the mode stand out was the extended shaft because it made handling easier. Although slippery, the extended size made for a better grip. In addition, the curvature meant it took the least effort to get to the G-spot.

While being non-vibrating can be disappointing for some people, we thoroughly enjoyed the rounded knobs on either end and the bliss of making way as they slithered through the vagina. “I warmed mine with water before use, and the excitement when I tried it was palpable,” says Sandra Larson. “The two ends varied in size (1″ and 1.5″), making for an exciting adventure.”

The build quality was impressive. The stainless steel material ranks up there, with silicone as the best material for sexual wellness products. Unlike TPE and other non-porous materials, cleaning is blissful; you don’t have to worry about bacterial replication.

Note: We recommend testing the toy on your arm when exploring temperature play. Once you pull it out of the warm or cold water, place it on your hand on both sides before wrapping it with lube for use.

Lastly, the metal dildo is among the most versatile picks in the article. For starters, it’s easy to sterilize the piece. In addition, it’s waterproof, allowing you to take the fun to the bathtub or shower. In addition, the multiple sizes on either end make it perfect for different users.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Unfortunately, the weight can be problematic for people with mobility issues or weaker hands. If you fall in this category, we recommend going for lighter options.

It costs $115-$150, which some people will find a bit expensive. Our testers agreed it was a worthy purchase, but affordability is relative.

Why njoy Pure Wand is the best metal toy:

• Design: We tested a few metal dildos, and the njoy Pure Wand stood out because of the well-thought-out dimensions and reliable curvature, which made it easy to strike your sweet spots. Its extended body made for better handling, while the all-metal design meant you could warm or cool it with water for a unique bliss of heightened sensations. More importantly, the metal’s weighty feeling amplified the sensations’ quality.
• Stimulations: Although the team knew that being non-vibrating would elicit mixed reactions, we were excited to see what the metal product had in store. We loved that the designer added two differently-sized knobs, allowing you to switch between the two depending on your preferred sensations. We found the smaller one ideal for warming up in readiness for the wider 1.5″ diameter end. “I warmed mine with water before use, and the excitement when I tried it was palpable,” says Sandra Larson. “The two ends varied in size (1″ and 1.5″), making for an exciting adventure.”
• Build Quality: The metal wand is made from high-quality stainless steel, which only comes second to silicone. The durable piece will outlast you with proper care, and cleaning is straightforward. The quality of artistry was remarkable, with each curve and knob thoughtfully measured to simplify the user experience and amplify the sensations.

If you want to see what the njoy Pure Wand looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

You can read our njoy Pure Wand review for more information.

Features:

• Material: Stainless Steel
• Insertable Length: 8″
• Diameter: 1″ & 1.5″

Pros:

• Exquisite curved design.
• Weighted feeling amplifies the sensations.
• High-quality stainless steel.
• 100% waterproof.
• Two diameters on either end.
• It’s ideal for temperature play.

Cons:

• It’s pricey – $115 – $150.
• People with mobility issues will find the product a bit heavy.

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