Are you looking to shake things up in your love life without straying too far from home? Sex in a chair might be the playful twist you’ve been seeking. It’s a fun, comfortable way to break the monotonous “bedroom only” routine—yes, you can even take it to the bed or couch if that’s what you prefer. Just grab a sturdy chair, and you’re all set to explore some exciting new positions that could become your new favorites. Let’s dive into my favorite chair sex positions that will revitalize your intimate moments!
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1. Chair Cowgirl
Are you frustrated because your partner is too busy to have sex? Or maybe you struggle to fit a lovemaking session into your schedule? If that’s the case, chair cowgirl can be your temporary solution and a great introduction to chair sex. I’m saying temporary because constant lack of adequate sexual attention can negatively affect your relationship. [1]
Chair Cowgirl works great in front of the TV. There’s no judgment here; sometimes, passive entertainment is the only thing you have the energy for after a long day. All you have to do is climb on your partner’s lap and get the deed done while he’s looking at the screen above your shoulder.
This position is also great if you can afford to give each other undivided attention; make sure to involve neck kissing and back-scratching – anything that lets your partner know you adore his body! It’s also one of the best masturbation positions.
Pro Tip: Don’t forget to play with his balls. He’s going to love it!
How To Do It
- Have your partner sit in a chair with legs slightly parted and feet flat on the ground.
- From a standing position, straddle onto his lap with your feet touching the floor or knees bent.
- Hold onto your partner’s neck or shoulders. If you want extra support, you can rest your arms on a wall.
2. Lap Dance
The benefit of the Lap Dance position is that your partner is entirely focused on you. Stealing glances while watching a game won’t do – he has to be fully present when you’re showering him with attention.
As you’ve probably guessed from the name of the position, it works best in combination with a bit of teasing. It ignites the senses enough to want to rip each other’s clothes off but doesn’t involve much stimulation, leaving the best for later.
To make it even hotter, you can add roleplay into the equation. It doesn’t have to be a stripper fantasy, but it works pretty well if you ask me. Discuss fantasies with your partner and agree on a preferred scenario or let your imagination run wild and surprise him with something that turns you on the most. He might not be into the same thing but seeing you aroused will make it onto a list of his favorite kinks.
Don’t forget to play sensual music and create the right atmosphere with candles or Christmas lights.
Pro Tip: Lean forward and arch your back for deeper penetration
How To Do It
- The penis owner sits in a chair (choose a seat that allows them to lean back).
- Face away and stand between their legs.
- You can grind on the penis (or strap-on) and over the whole body before sliding into the position.
- Keep your hands on the shoulders for a good balance.
3. Chair Doggy
Do you fantasize about being spontaneous, yet you’re too busy with commitments to make it come true? The solution is a chair sex position that helps you combine work with pleasure: chair doggy style.
In a perfect world, men would be able to read women’s minds and surprise them with mind-blowing sex. Unfortunately, that’s not always the case, and the easiest way is communication. Studies show that many women enjoy rough sex, so don’t be ashamed to admit it. [2]
For example, your partner could come onto you while sitting at your desk and tease you. The chair doggy position is perfect for making this scenario work, as all your partner has to do is make you kneel on the chair and pull your pants down.
Pro Tip: Chair Doggy lets you take a breather as your partner is doing all the work, so get in charge of the special effects and play a porn video on your laptop
How To Do It
- The vagina owner kneels on the chair, resting their arms on the bottom or the top part of the seat.
- The penetrating partner then stands behind and holds onto their partner’s hips.
4. Chair Wheel Barrow
The wheelbarrow position provides an angle that allows for deep penetration and reaching the G-spot. Unfortunately, the wheelbarrow also has some downsides; it requires physical strength and decent balance. Even though the lack of blood circulation as you’re facing down might be arousing at first, it can give you a nasty headache.
But the good news is there’s a variation that minimizes these problems: chair sex. While you still can get a headache from restricted blood flow, you don’t have to put so much weight on your wrists. Since it limits hip movement, it’s best used as foreplay or if you’re still achy because of your period.
If you’re into edging, you can ask your partner to insert just the tip of his penis and move slowly. It will be enough to prepare your vagina for some serious thrusting later!
How To Do It
- Face the same direction and have your partner sit on the edge of the chair.
- Kneel facing away from him and get into the plank pose.
- Lift one leg and wrap it around your partner’s waist, then have him help with the other leg.
- He can hold onto your thighs to maintain balance and help direct your hip movement.
- If you’re feeling steady enough, he can join in on the hip movement.
5. Chair Lotus
Do you sometimes want to wrap your arms around your partner to be as physically close as possible? Penetrative sex can make it happen, but chair sex positions like lotus take it to the next level.
This chair sex position is highly intimate as it provides skin-to-skin contact, you can readily embrace your partner and kiss his neck. You can also stare into his eyes or pull his hair – whatever strikes your fancy. Go fast or go slow and experiment with different sensations. You can even try tantra sex that’s about deliberate intercourse and exploring your and your partner’s body.
The proximity also means you can witness each other’s orgasms which makes it easier to come simultaneously. I don’t know about you, but watching my partner’s face when they are about to explode is a significant turn-on!
How To Do It
- Your partner sits in a chair with their legs crossed.
- The vulva owner sits in their lap and wraps their legs around the waist.
- You can then embrace each other and sway your hips in synchronized movement or try to mix it up; grab your partner’s throat and have them squeeze your butt.
6. The Hammock
Chair sex can be a hit or miss. You have to make sure you aren’t slipping and potentially falling on your butt. But in the hammock position, you can feel secure as you’re lying on your partner’s legs with your thighs squeezing his chest, making it one of my absolute favorites.
Another advantage is the angle that allows for super deep penetration and G-spot orgasm. Your partner can also stroke your breast or choke you to enhance the pleasure. You can also benefit from direct clitoris stimulation; if rubbing against your partner’s chest isn’t enough, use a vibrator on your clit.
While the position requires you to engage your neck muscles, you can always let your head hang to increase the blood flow and heighten sensations. If you enjoy the Hammock but your muscles tire quickly, use another chair for neck support.
How To Do It
- The man sits in a chair with his knees together.
- The woman climbs on top of him and leans backward, resting her back on his knees.
- She can squeeze the giving partner’s waist with her knees bent.
- The penetrating partner holds onto her waist.
7. Bowstring
Bowstring requires a bit of flexibility, but the results are incredible; deep penetration and being extremely close to your partner. If staring into each other’s eyes isn’t enough, you can always try dirty talk. Depending on your preference, you can exchange words of affirmation or get a bit naughtier. “I love fucking you” goes a long way.
Don’t forget to give enough attention to your partner’s body. Stroke his legs and grab his butt – don’t underestimate a good massage.
How To Do It
- Sit in a chair and lean backward.
- Have your partner kneel in front of you on one knee.
- Then, wrap one leg around his knee that’s resting on the floor.
- Lift the other leg and put it on his shoulder.
- He can lean forward to go deep inside.
8. Chair Oral Sex
When I was figuring out what I liked in the bedroom, I dated someone who loved to experiment as much as I did. One day, she shared her fantasy of being pleasured while sitting in a chair, maybe watching a movie or playing a video game. Curious, I asked her why that scenario appealed to her. She said it was all about power—the thrill of having someone completely focused on her pleasure, dedicated to giving without expecting much back.
I can see the appeal. The chair oral sex position is a great way to explore power dynamics and incorporate different roleplays. Of course, don’t forget to switch roles. Women are typically expected to like being submissive because that’s how they’re depicted in porn, but it might not be your cup of tea. Flip the script and enjoy the feeling of control!
Pro Tip 1: Don’t forget a pillow! Even if you perform oral in the heat of the moment, make sure you keep something soft handy.
Pro Tip 2: Try giving attention to the rest of your partner’s body; stroke his thighs, arms, and chest to add to the pleasure. You can also get your partner to touch your breasts at the same time.
How To Do It
- One partner sits in a chair, preferably an armchair, so they can lean back and relax.
- The other partner kneels in front of them and engages in oral sex.
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As a BBW I found this very insightful ☕
Definitely presented new ideas for fun around the home. Thanks for your article 😀